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Re: I'm Dating HIV Positive Lady & She Is Pregnant. Advice Needed by bucho1: 12:05pm On May 12, 2020 |
Bro. most ladies here will not really tell you the truth because if it was against them you will hear all kinds of insults. Meanwhile I will tell you that God heals people with the same virus time without Number. If you and her actually believe in God, she can be healed. If you truly love her from your heart, never you disclose the situation to any of your family member neither your friends. Put your trust in the Lord and if you try this, you’ll have the best home ever. I wish you well God bless you. |
Re: I'm Dating HIV Positive Lady & She Is Pregnant. Advice Needed by confibless: 12:05pm On May 12, 2020 |
For my opinion,don't tell anyone that she is HIV +ve .After giving birth,it's not a must that she will breast the baby,by the way some lady I know didn't breast her baby because she doesn't have nipple ,even as people were asking her to breast the baby,she ignore them and didn't tell them reason..it's only her husband my friend that told me..And they have been using baby's milk ,if you see their children looking healthy and plump....my dear let her use baby's milk. |
Re: I'm Dating HIV Positive Lady & She Is Pregnant. Advice Needed by BENEAMATA: 12:05pm On May 12, 2020 |
secure the services of a wet nurse ready ahead of her delivery . tell every curious relatives or friends that the baby refuse to latch on her biological mothers breast from the hospital , i'm sure doctors can help you out with one genuine medical term for such . say it with a straight face and your wife should be staring straight at them too when you 're explaining .God , i'm an evil genius . please OP take the advise of the person that said you should never tell anyone in your family no matter how close you think the person is to you . you are among the very few that have risen above stigmatisation and believe me our society is not ready . you have a family to look out for now and people talk . 3 Likes |
Re: I'm Dating HIV Positive Lady & She Is Pregnant. Advice Needed by Nairalandmonika: 12:06pm On May 12, 2020 |
Crazeman03:I don't think hiv is the issue, I think u are having your doubt about her, like u don't love her as u claim to. |
Re: I'm Dating HIV Positive Lady & She Is Pregnant. Advice Needed by drjustice17: 12:06pm On May 12, 2020 |
Don't tell anyone. Even if you tell them, what will it contribute to your marriage. Nothing. Thank God HIV is not a death sentence again. Let her be taken her drugs. With the current drugs now, no problem. When she give birth. You people can use formula. My son didn't take breast milk because, breast milk didn't come out earlier. We use formula, and he is very healthy. Love your wife and enjoy your marriage. Make sure she takes her drugs and always check her status and viral load. God bless you Crazeman03: 2 Likes |
Re: I'm Dating HIV Positive Lady & She Is Pregnant. Advice Needed by Blecus: 12:06pm On May 12, 2020 |
You're a real man. You don't need to disclose her status to anyone it's confidential. I once had a patient that's + and her husband was -. She has three kids with him and he's still negative . Go and marry her if you truly love her.[color=#000099][/color] 1 Like |
Re: I'm Dating HIV Positive Lady & She Is Pregnant. Advice Needed by Edi4real87: 12:06pm On May 12, 2020 |
Bros your wife can breastfeed her baby. Being HIV + doesn't mean she can't breastfeed. In HIV treatment, there's what is called Prevention of Mother to Child Transmission (PMTCT). She just needs to adhere to instructions (counselling) that's all... Bros there are many serodiscordant couples out there living a very happy life. BROS SHE CAN BREASTFEED HER BABY. |
Re: I'm Dating HIV Positive Lady & She Is Pregnant. Advice Needed by Topmaike007(m): 12:06pm On May 12, 2020 |
YoungPerson:you're the real deal bro |
Re: I'm Dating HIV Positive Lady & She Is Pregnant. Advice Needed by Nobody: 12:07pm On May 12, 2020 |
Eulalia:Your posts are rigged of Hypocrisy, you preach God and Love but spite another for loving a human being unconditionally. Isn't that what christ preaches? He's trying to make it right by settling down with her and seeking advice but you advise against it, because she's HIV+ and should be casted into hell. This is why the judgement of God will begin from the church, you should be ashamed of yourself! 7 Likes
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Re: I'm Dating HIV Positive Lady & She Is Pregnant. Advice Needed by sanesta: 12:07pm On May 12, 2020 |
luminouz:Lol I feel same too, nevertheless their are people with good sense of reasoning.. anyways, I'm just here too read sensible comments |
Re: I'm Dating HIV Positive Lady & She Is Pregnant. Advice Needed by guy222: 12:07pm On May 12, 2020 |
Ones i know that you are HIV positive no matter waitin you do my penis no go even stand not to talke of digging. You try sha but for me i can't come and kill myself by myself. Shikena |
Re: I'm Dating HIV Positive Lady & She Is Pregnant. Advice Needed by SweetDipBenny(m): 12:08pm On May 12, 2020 |
fool! 1 Like |
Re: I'm Dating HIV Positive Lady & She Is Pregnant. Advice Needed by awumen: 12:08pm On May 12, 2020 |
I will advise you now and I will advise you again,DON'T TELL. IT'S YOUR FAMILY, KEEP IT SAFE AND LET IT REMAIN BETWEEN YOU TWO ONLY |
Re: I'm Dating HIV Positive Lady & She Is Pregnant. Advice Needed by Edi4real87: 12:09pm On May 12, 2020 |
Bros your wife can breastfeed her baby. Being HIV + doesn't mean she can't breastfeed. In HIV treatment, there's what is called Prevention of Mother to Child Transmission (PMTCT). She just needs to adhere to instructions (counselling) that's all... Bros there are many serodiscordant couples out there living a very happy life. BROS SHE CAN BREASTFEED HER BABY. 1 Like |
Re: I'm Dating HIV Positive Lady & She Is Pregnant. Advice Needed by Topmaike007(m): 12:10pm On May 12, 2020 |
Crazeman03:if you don't want ogun to kill you don't tell anyone if it's possible God wey dey heaven he must not know about it because your yeye go plenty for community.... Pls and pls don't let any entity know 1 Like |
Re: I'm Dating HIV Positive Lady & She Is Pregnant. Advice Needed by amakadlite(f): 12:10pm On May 12, 2020 |
Crazeman03:go to a reputable government health centre, she can breàstfeed without transmitting the virus to the child. I don't support this type of relationship as stated in the scriptures. but for sanity sake, do the needful to legalise the union. |
Re: I'm Dating HIV Positive Lady & She Is Pregnant. Advice Needed by Truthbites: 12:10pm On May 12, 2020 |
Crazeman03, I am not in a position to advise ..u know better. Just go with the flow.. who are men to Judge? |
Re: I'm Dating HIV Positive Lady & She Is Pregnant. Advice Needed by Ezennwa(m): 12:10pm On May 12, 2020 |
TO WHOM IT MAY CONCERN; signs and symptoms of hiv: as early as 2-4 weeks after exposure to hiv, people can experience an acute illness, often described as "the worst flu ever". this is called acute retroviral syndrome, or primary hiv infection, and it's the body's natural response to hiv infection. during primary hiv infection, their are higher levels of virus circulating in the blood. which means that people can more easily transmit the virus to others. symptoms of hiv include: 1.) fever 2.) chills 3.) rash 4.) night sweats 5.) muscle aches 6.) sore throat 7.) fatigue 8.) swollen lymph nodes 9.) ulcer in the mouth sin will give you as much pleasure as it wants you to have, but its always waiting for the time to break your life apart. what goes around comes around!!!
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Re: I'm Dating HIV Positive Lady & She Is Pregnant. Advice Needed by janettee(f): 12:11pm On May 12, 2020 |
Why will you even tell anybody your gf is HIV+. If I were you, I wouldn't tell anyone cause people out there are still ignorant about HIV. Also, thanks to science, your gf can breastfeed your baby without passing the virus to it. |
Re: I'm Dating HIV Positive Lady & She Is Pregnant. Advice Needed by Openbusiness: 12:11pm On May 12, 2020 |
wah dee eye juz read ................... no comment |
Re: I'm Dating HIV Positive Lady & She Is Pregnant. Advice Needed by BENEAMATA: 12:11pm On May 12, 2020 |
Vivuch:please OP find out about what the person quoted wrote here . really hoping he is right . best wishes . 1 Like |
Re: I'm Dating HIV Positive Lady & She Is Pregnant. Advice Needed by Nobody: 12:11pm On May 12, 2020 |
Remaboy: Eweleke! Big girls dey com beg 1k for Nairaland. Just imagine these things without shame....be forming nonsense |
Re: I'm Dating HIV Positive Lady & She Is Pregnant. Advice Needed by Topmaike007(m): 12:11pm On May 12, 2020 |
Crazeman03:sha don't tell anyone |
Re: I'm Dating HIV Positive Lady & She Is Pregnant. Advice Needed by Staphylococcus: 12:11pm On May 12, 2020 |
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Re: I'm Dating HIV Positive Lady & She Is Pregnant. Advice Needed by Hermionegranger(f): 12:12pm On May 12, 2020 |
Crazeman03:I really admire how open minded you are concerning this issue. Your girlfriend is blessed to have a good man like you and because of this, she'll never intentionally do anything to jeopardize your relationship if you decide to marry her. You shouldn't disclose her status to anyone. This must be a secret between yourselves.If they ask why she isn't breastfeeding , tell them she has Hepatitis and that the doctor advised against it. |
Re: I'm Dating HIV Positive Lady & She Is Pregnant. Advice Needed by lakeside79937: 12:13pm On May 12, 2020 |
Am not blaming you but you made a choice cos you loved with your eyes closed you had a warning sign but you ignored it . It would have been better if it was in the UK cos you will be receiving free treatment and cancelling . You gambled with your life . If you truly love her and you love people around you that you dont want them to lose you then you should have been having protected sex with her and forget about having children together what you did was suicide 1 Like |
Re: I'm Dating HIV Positive Lady & She Is Pregnant. Advice Needed by Topmaike007(m): 12:13pm On May 12, 2020 |
Adesamogun:so you're trying to say our own elder is not sensible |
Re: I'm Dating HIV Positive Lady & She Is Pregnant. Advice Needed by friday2011(m): 12:13pm On May 12, 2020 |
Crazeman03: If the love you have for her is real, pls contiue loving her, try and erase that doubt in her that "someday you will move on" Love is a very delicate feeling, if you leave her at this stage, she may not survive it. May GOD continue to protect and provide for all your needs, as long as money for medication is not an issue, she will continue to be fine... Work towards your marriage and make it as simple as possible... As per what people will say about her not breastfeeding the baby... Pls seek medical advise, there is a way around it I believe. And pls try as much as possible to keep her status top secret. Bravo bro. |
Re: I'm Dating HIV Positive Lady & She Is Pregnant. Advice Needed by lydiaosime: 12:14pm On May 12, 2020 |
As a doctor, Since her cd4 cou t is high, she can deliver safely preferably thru cs, den abt breastfeeding, its up to u both to come up with something on why she is unable to breadtfeed. However, new research shows that she can breastfeed up to 6month. Note that it will obly b exclusive, u musnt mix it wit anyoda thing like water,etc. She needs to visit any healthcare were she will be advised further. Succesz to u both |
Re: I'm Dating HIV Positive Lady & She Is Pregnant. Advice Needed by cchima: 12:14pm On May 12, 2020 |
Bros, there's no course for alarm, both of you can live a normal life. She can breastfeed the baby exclusively for six months while she and the baby take med and instructions given to her for the baby safety. Do her the favour of visiting the hospital where she enrolled for drugs for your questions. Bet me notting will do your baby if she adhere strictly to instructions. You call my number 08055146835. |
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