bukatyne: I don't want to attack you but ask some honest questions:
1. When your wife is doing the chores and you are at home, what do you do?
2. When you are both back from work and she is preparing the meals, what do you do?
3. Before you got married, who helped you with chores? and if nobody, what has changed now?
4. Do you think it's your wife's duty to contribute financially to your expenses @ home?

thanks.

Answers to 1& 2 is nothing.
Answer to 3 is my younger sisters
Answer to 4 is no, thats my responsibility not hers.

What attracted me this forum when I joined was the intelligent contributions to discourse or subjects. But it looks like the forum is now full of kids anyone contributes anything whether it makes sense or not , mostly out of ignorance or inexperience. The guy who went to the pastor for prayers should honestly ask himself this question of why did you go to him if you knew you wont do what he will telll? If you tink you can follow ur mind, why didnt you? What were you expecting to hear, all is well? If he had said all is well, would you come to nairaland to ask for a second opinion? Would these kid advisors be killing or praising the pastor?

If you ask me, honestly, you are not ready for marriage. You not yet a man, your age not withstanding. You need growing up rather than giving these kids the free day of castigating and abusing your pastor. When you are ready for marriage, you will know.

dammy1985: Pastor E. A Adeboye, W. F Kumuyi, D. K Olukoya and E. O Abina of The Gospel Faith Mission

Seconded! Pastor E.O Abina of the Gospel Faith Mission Intl all the way!

Siena: My wife usually sits at the front, though right now, my daughter has the honour. If myself and my wife were going out with friends, she'll ALWAYS sit in front, regardless of who the rest of the party are. Everyone else sits at the back - and that includes "pastors".

Why the emphasy on Pastors? Pastors have become tooth pick for you. This generation has no fear of God anymore! Do I blame you, when some crooks have made a merchandise of the Holy calling.

Cry, Shed tears, weep,mourn, sob? which one? Cos they mean different things and can be occassioned by different situations?

What do you mean, fall in love? and what makes man less human?

It's better to Stand in LOVE than fall in love.

I spent my entire education life as a boarder.It has its good and bad effects.I learnt discipline, focus on study and networking from cradle.For me, It went well but it may not be same for others. Some pick all manner of vices from boarding. For busy parents, getting a good boarding school for your kids is advisable. But for parents, I mean both dad and mum, who have the time to train and discipline their kids, boarding life is still advisable perhaps from JS 1 or SS1.It depends.

Mad Cow:

Google his darn crusade testimonies jor... Thats the only way for you to understand how his mind works..

This guy wedded two people who just met at his crusade live on stage.. I fainted!!

If that is true,I guess I know who his sponsor is...and deceit does not last. I just pity lives that would have been ruined by his celebrated lies.

If courtship didn't work for some people that does not make it a bad idea. I have not listened to the man but, Ofcourse, you cannot meet someone today and marry her tommorrow.

otokx: Hope this will last?

You can as well think of something that will last than delegrating someone who dared to think and worked at it.

Godman_n: [size=18pt]I value my God so serious that I cannot join his name in prayers to a woman that I cannot forgive for the huge amount amount that can be used to change the face of country and do away with massive poverty in my land, that she, her husband, and people like her stole.

I cannot join him in prayers to a woman that is so unread and unlettered but want to impose herself and her unlearned manners at the topmost power in my country. A woman that have helped to continue make what should have been our centre of refinement - Aso rock - to a den of robber and treasury looters.

My only pronouncement is that God should have mercy on the power, help the wicked to see their evil sides and the consequences of their actions. help them to repent and change their ways but when they refuse, punish them and take them away from our midst.

Remove every bottleneck that is stopping the emancipation and development of our people - the black man[/size]

You shouldn't join because you are so full of hatred and unforgiveness! Even the God you claimed to value asked us to bless those who curse us and pray for those who despitefully use us.

As much as God hates divorse Malachi 2:16, and clearly states that Marriage is a life long affair,Matthew 19:6 and 1Corinthian 7:10-11,there is only one reason my God would permit divorse- unrepentant marital infidelity (mainly sexual immorality)on either side.

'It hath been said, Whosoever shall put away his wife, let him give her a writing of divorcement. But I say unto you, That whosoever shall put away his wife, saving for the cause of fornication, causeth her to commit adultery: and whosoever shall marry her that is divorced committeth adultery'Matthew 5:31-32. You can also read Malachi 2:10-16, Matthew 19:3-9,1 Corinthians 7:10-15

If any of this parties fall into the shameful act of extra marital affairs, if he/she repents and the agrieved party is willing to forgive, the bible encouraged forgiveness if we confess our faults to one another. However, if the sinning partner refuses to repent and he/she becomes agressive, abusive,dangerous or absconds,then divorse is allowed.

It's a difficult decision to make and painful path to take but think of a husband that sexual abuse his wife and children.That even get physical dangerously with them. Think of the late Titi that eventually lost her life on the altar of 'I dont want to leave him'. same people would blame if very bad things happen to her or the children eventually.

In her own case, the foundation was wrong and whatever is built on it will definitely not last,as it has turned out to be. We only pray that God we give the strenght survive this times and changes in her life.

As much as God hates divorse Malachi 2:16, and clearly states that Marriage is a life long affair,Matthew 19:6 and 1Corinthian 7:10-11,there is only one reason my God would permit divorse- unrepentant marital infidelity (mainly sexual immorality)on either side.

'It hath been said, Whosoever shall put away his wife, let him give her a writing of divorcement. But I say unto you, That whosoever shall put away his wife, saving for the cause of fornication, causeth her to commit adultery: and whosoever shall marry her that is divorced committeth adultery'Matthew 5:31-32. You can also read Malachi 2:10-16, Matthew 19:3-9,1 Corinthians 7:10-15

If any of this parties fall into the shameful act of extra marital affairs, if he/she repents and the agrieved party is willing to forgive, the bible encouraged forgiveness if we confess our faults to one another. However, if the sinning partner refuses to repent and he/she becomes agressive, abusive,dangerous or absconds,then divorse is allowed.

It's a difficult decision to make and painful path to take but think of a husband that sexual abuse his wife and children.That even get physical dangerously with them. Think of the late Titi that eventually lost her life on the altar of 'I dont want to leave him'. same people would blame if very bad things happen to her or the children eventually.

In her, the foundation was wrong and whatever is built on it will definitely not last,as it has turned out to be. We only pray that God we give the strenght survive this times and changes in her life. [i]There is only one reason my God would permit divorse- unrepentant marital infidelity (mainly sexual immorality)on either side.
'It hath been said, Whosoever shall put away his wife, let him give her a writing of divorcement. But I say unto you, That whosoever shall put away his wife, saving for the cause of fornication, causeth her to commit adultery: and whosoever shall marry her that is divorced committeth adultery'
If any of this parties fall into the shameful act of extra marital affairs, if he/she repents and the agrieved party is willing to forgive, the bible encouraged forgiveness if we confess our faults to one another. However, if the sinning partner refuses to repent and he/she becomes agressive, abusive,dangerous or absconds,then divorse is allowed.

It's a difficult decision to make and painful path to take but think of a husband that sexual abuse his wife and children.That even get physical dangerously with them. Think of the late Titi that eventually lost her life on the altar of 'I dont want to leave him'. same people would blame if very bad things happen to her or the children eventually.

In her, the foundation was wrong and whatever is built on it will definitely not last,as it has turned out to be. We only pray that God we give the strenght survive this times and changes in her life. [/i]There is only one reason my God would permit divorse- unrepentant marital infidelity (mainly sexual immorality)on either side.
'It hath been said, Whosoever shall put away his wife, let him give her a writing of divorcement. But I say unto you, That whosoever shall put away his wife, saving for the cause of fornication, causeth her to commit adultery: and whosoever shall marry her that is divorced committeth adultery'
If any of this parties fall into the shameful act of extra marital affairs, if he/she repents and the agrieved party is willing to forgive, the bible encouraged forgiveness if we confess our faults to one another. However, if the sinning partner refuses to repent and he/she becomes agressive, abusive,dangerous or absconds,then divorse is allowed.

It's a difficult decision to make and painful path to take but think of a husband that sexual abuse his wife and children.That even get physical dangerously with them. Think of the late Titi that eventually lost her life on the altar of 'I dont want to leave him'. same people would blame if very bad things happen to her or the children eventually.

In her, the foundation was wrong and whatever is built on it will definitely not last,as it has turned out to be. We only pray that God we give the strenght survive this times and changes in her life.

I Have been using one for some years now and never had issues with it. I am planning to buy the recent models soon. For me, it seems it's the real 'jeep'. As for your wife, there some of the recently made jeep suvs that looks pretty much lady like. You can get that for your life. The V6 has a fantastic fuel economy for its size than the V8. Its just gaining acceptance in the Nigeria market of late so I guess the second hand value will improve. Also the part is not as expensive as people thought. A complete engine of 4x4 would cost 70-80k and the cpmplete brake pads is about 6k. I do my maintenace every 2 months cos i travel a lot and it about 5k. I have also a Honda car, so comparatively, I think jeep is ok for a suv.

Do you believe this story? Another police gimmicks in action! Please read in between the lines before you comment.

There are several reasons why businesses fails, not only in Nigeria, globally.

However, among many other causes, I think the foundation for failure in any business is starting one with a wrong reason. For example,starting a business becos
1.  it is hottest thing
2. a friend or someone else succeeded in it
3. you are tired of your job or of working all the time
4. you want to be your own boss
5. you have a enough money to start it
6. you want to rich

Anyone who has such wrong motivation and such as that, has started failing from start. Even if the fall does not happen in 5 or 10 years, it will still fail. People pay for feasibility studies, and it will look very convincing, However, right motivation, clear vision and strong passion as what cements the foundation of a biz that will outlast its founder. People succeeds even in business they are not knowledgeable about just becos they are passionate about it. Passsion, just like vision, is contagious and it attract likeminds that can work with you to build a business that it outlast its founder.

I observed that nairalander likes to make lots of jokes. I have seen a couple of jokes on this site. No matter your religious bias or belief system, If you need to make a joke, dont do it with the church, it is Lord's body. You cannot kick against the prick and not be hurt. Please, it is just a gentle warning from a caring friend.

If you need this gift, all you need do is wait patiently in prayer and stay in faith. Looking for a good reason to convince yourself that the gift is not real because you dont have it after all efforts(and you dont really need to make any effort to have it because it is given freely), is not healthy for your spiritual progress. I have just prayed for you because I am already sensing a subtle satanic deceit leading you towards apostasy. because when you start doubting obvious spiritual truths and teaching others to do so, guess who your sponsor is? Satan of course. Do you know what the next idea he is going to sell to you will be? I am sure you dont want to know.

By 2015, this guy will be the IG of police, just wait

Call me on 019052698, I will tell you what to do. Have been there before and I was enable to handle her very maturely. Now she loves her husband and cherishes her marriage. And guess what, she does not even call me again.

Am sure you are not the only one in that shoe. There are many NLer who are already deep shits with their exes though they are married too.

Billionaire? I dont think so. Millionaire? that is possible. 10 years is too short to be a billionaira and sustain the status. You need to learn, unlearn and relearn a whole lot of things. you need to imbibe the attitude of the rich so you can attain their altitude.

And more importantly, you need to answer this question; why do you want to become a billionaire? Answer the question honestly.

the cheque you issue is like a collateral and the amount you will be requested to write on is the principal+ interest. the cheque will be returned to you immediately after you finish your repayment. it is only necessary for them to have it in case of defaulting.

You are suffering from analysis paralysis. You need to see relationship pyschiatrist for test and counselling

The day you are tired of your job, please resign instead of writing nonsense about your employer.

You noted that your story could be verified, how do you want us to verify your claims? from your chairman or who?Anyone can say things when they are not satisfied with their job. and believe me, no salary earner is ever satisfied with paid employment. It's been like that and it will always be. you can only find fulfilment in either employing yourself or be a part owner of the company you work with.

I fly Arik air regularly and it is not too difficult to sport a disgruntle employee when you see one.

Welder:

^^whats your point?

I am sure you know what my point is

I hope fasola fans are reading this  

This is just the nomination list. It is a political list and can be simply described as ' liars lieing to one another'. let's keep our fingers cross, in just a few days from now, the appointed minister list will be out.

Discuss how you feel about the intrusion with your friend, your girlfriend and her friend. while you appreciate their friendship, let them know there is a limit to which they can meddle in your affairs. meanwhile, make sure your walk is straight, i mean waka straight.

I dont know but the analogy sounds familiar

Any update on Savanna Bank. I am interested in working with them anytime they commence operation.

Kind Regards.

I wonder ooo

While I do not dispute the fact that there are businessmen who called themselves preachers and brings shame and disrespute to the holy name of God, whose judgment is already decided by God, miracles and healings still happens today in the name of Jesus. Jesus healed the amputated in the bible as against what someone opined. If any amputee believe God for healing, if he believes, even without the help of any man of God, Jesus will make a new limb grow again. That's why he is a miracle worker

MATTHEW 15:30 NKJ  Then great multitudes came to Him, having with them those who were lame, blind, mute, maimed, and many others; and they laid them down at Jesus' feet, and He healed them.

maimed here means amputated, disfigured e.t.c.

John 20: 30- 31 says Jesus did many other miraculous signs in the presence of his disciples, which are not recorded in this book. But these are written, that ye might believe that Jesus is the Christ, the Son of God; and that believing ye might have life through his name.

He can do the same today if we believe and not doubt. Hebrew 13.8 Jesus Christ, the same yesterday, today, and forever

I will encourage you to give your life to Christ and you will see and do greater things in Jesus name.