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justyhere:
I just discovered the shock of my life. My friend is about to get married in a month’s time to this wealthy fine man, she's a few weeks pregnant and looks pretty happy.

Last week, I was with her and her fiancee came around, it was all fun and we took several pictures and I needed to get them so the guy just handed me his phone to send the pictures to my phone.

They are a very clingy couple and they left to the bedroom to go do their thing, maybe to keep me company or maybe he forgot or for whatever reason, but he didn't get his phone. I was done with the transfer and was just going through his photos randomly, I saw a folder and there are pictures and videos of him doing sexual things with different female corpses. I was so terrified, I returned the phone to home Page, cleared the recently used apps and I left immediately, I have not been in contact with my friend for days now, she keeps calling, I can't bring myself to speak to her.

But I feel guilty and angry, angry that he would do such and even record them and keep them, guilty that I am letting my best friend into a trap of a marriage.

What do I do in this case? I'm so confused and worried.

NB: AFTER READING THIS, PLEASE DELETE THIS YOUR POST


Do you know that an Occultist like your friend's fiance is capable of murder?

Do you know that if this information about him goes viral, you could be taken out (murdered)?

Do you know that this matter is much more serious than you thought?

Your friend's greed wouldn't let her eyes be open, so don't bother telling her about your discovery.

My advise for you is to call your friend and inform her that you're traveling, leave where you're living and go somewhere else for a couple of weeks.

Cut all forms of communication with her and her fiance.

RUN FOR YOUR LIFE

Ekundayo7574:
Yes I mean it, if that old man win any state from those two region my name should be called Bastard henceforth, Obi will never be president of this county not in my own lifetime the Agenda is Doom to FAIL

I know you already deserve to be called a bastard, but I'll choose not to call you a bastard.

I believe you're a youth, and we all should be seeking for a better Nigeria, I'm disappointed in your political choice bro, you should be much more intelligent

zakkxx:
Repent or you will burn in Hell! You are not even thinking of repenting! What if u get hiv or STDs! Keep your self for your husband or na hiv go finish u!

Which kind preaching of hatred be this one again? Nawa Which one be "you will burn in hell" ??
Abeg learn to correct people in love.

Francisanointed:
Go and do a scan. I have heard of someone who did all the test you said up there but they all came out negative until she went for scan who confirm she is pregnant.
Note: Don't allow the comments here make you depressed. God loves you so much. We have all made mistakes. People who are condemning you here are not saints themselves. You cannot change yesterday but you can do something now about your tomorrow. Believe Jesus loves you and Jesus would have still died for you even if you were the worst sinners on this earth.
If it is pregnancy after you do the test,don't abort. Some mistakes are blessings in disguise. That child may be the blessing you may require tomorrow. Don't give up. Keep moving on

This is one of the few sensible responses so far.

God bless you bro

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Chidiesta:
Good day nairalanders,

I have lived in Germany for 3 years now i have a 1 years old daughter and I also have a 8 years old daughter who lives with my elder sister in nigeria.

She is married with three kids , I provide everything for them and I pay one of her child school fee but my sister is never satisfied with the money she keep demanding me for more money.

She knows it very well that I am not stable yet in this country , life is hard just because she is taking care of my daughter and she want me to carry the responsibility of her three children.

I make sure that I send a big parcel for all of them once a year as I am typing the parcel is on the way but she want me to pay school fees for all her children too and I can't afford to pay for all four.

I am paying her son school fees is 87k per term and my daughter own is 67k . On the 2nd I sent her 300k for school fees and foodstuffs she called on monday demanding me for 154k for her son and my daughter school fee I asked her what about the money I sent on the 2nd she said she bought foodstuffs for 120k and use the 180k for her two oldest children school fee and she want me to send the 154k for the youngest 2 , I was angry with her and I cut the call.

I am angry my own sister is draining me financially and I have a lot of bills to pay too and a small child to cater for.

I have spoken to my friend she is happy to take care of my daughter for me until I am stable enough to bring her to Germany. I like the idea because my sister is not helping me to progress.

I hope my daughter living with my friend will be a good idea.

I haven't told my sister anything yet because we are not in good term but I want to hear from you first please let me know if I should allow my friend to take care of her or I should leave her with my elder sister.

Hello OP, I totally understand you.
Same thing happened in my family, so I think you can use my advise.

My aunt in the US left my young older cousins with her younger brother in Nigeria (my uncle).

Uncle's wife wasn't so cool with the boys when my uncle now later got married.

My aunt was stressed, she had to move the children to my grandma's house.

Later had to move them to a woman who she's never seen before.

Interestingly, this woman cared for them like they're her children until they graduated.

LESSON: FORGET ALL THIS PEOPLE SHOUTING "BLOOD IS THICKER THAN WATER"

Not all blood is thicker than water, some family members are just users/opportunists.

Your sister is obviously using you as her major source of income.
Don't let that affect your love for your sister anyway! The country is hard for her, no be her fault.

If you feel uncomfortable with the child being in your sister's place, then you might want to make a careful inquiry about your friend.

Research about your friend's character, her love towards you, how she treats people around her. Do your research well abeg.

As for people saying you should take her to boarding house, your daughter will be deprived of love in boarding house oo. And when it's holidays, she'll have to vacate the hostel, so.... boarding house is out of it. Just pray about this matter sha.

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boss why all your digits aren't correct ? The last one you dropped is 10 digits ?

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Let's know if the guy is legit!

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jospepper:
Gave me which shocker?!

Oh so you even came here to boast about it right? Boy you Know nothing.

You will see my true colours at work tomorrow

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If truly you're the boss in question, then I think you just made it obvious that you were actually jealous of his promotion; and that you were truly acting in a manner with the intention to frustrate the poor boy.

Please act accordingly, give him works within his JD's, and be fair enough.

Karma is watching (Matt 7:12)

[quote author=Righteousness2 post=109421994][/quote]Congratulations sir.

God bless your baby!!

[quote author=22o62021 post=109548484][/quote]This is the most senseless story I've seen on nairaland this year

ChiomaCa:
Hello everyone, I'm in need of an advice, I got married to a man 5yrs+ ago. He relocated some months after marriage to Canada, I went to meet him 2 years after. And we had a baby 10months after my arrival. Immediately I arrived his place, I noticed he flirt alot onlline, Sex chats, Video sex chats, Visit porn sites, visit Prostitue Sites, and the rest. I caught him red-handed twice and he begged and pleaded not to do such again. I forgive him and I believe maybe because of the distance we had in two years.

We move on and I promise myself not to even go near his Laptop or mobile phone anymore.

I adhered to that for more than a year, which I'm still doing that till December 23 of 2021.

My daughter threw his I-watch inside water. Then I picked it up to drain for some minutes, after I drianed, I realised a message popped up , which Read " Do you enjoy me yesterday Do I book you for tomorrow again"

I was forced to check what's this. I saw hell. In short, he visited two different Prostitues in a hotel to book 30 minutes session with them for $160 and $220, I also saw other messages asking for Anal sex from these Escorts. I realised, he visited them 3rd, 1st 22nd of December. During these period, I was the one begging him for sex. He said he's not interested that he's Fixed with many activities and Shifts at work.

I was in the house hopping my husband as gone to work, not knowing he's doing something else within his short break and free time.

Immediately I saw this, I was devastated,I was mad at my self. We are very religious. Why all these for God sake, this is the 3rd time, what have I done to myself, have made a wrong choice?

I called his brother back in Nigeria and I inform and sent all what I saw to him, he called and talked to him, the next day, my husband came to me, apologize and promised not to do that again. I accept and forgive him.

Few days ago, I have been having this kind of feeling, I feel like I'm not beutiful because why will my husband prefer a Prostitue than me.

I hate myself, I think about it every minutes, whenever I see him, my mind keep breathing fast. I'm sad and I'm not happy, I don't know what to do.

I can't discuss with my parents, because they see my husband as the most religious person.

He doesn't talk much, keep friends nor drink.

I need advice dear mummy and daddy please is this a red light?

This story of yours is so saddening.
So sorry you are in this painful state.

Please don't mind all these funny people shouting "divorce him" and "return to Naija", if they were in your shoes, they wouldn't do what they're advising you o.
Plenty of them advising you are not even married. Give no hear to them ma'am.

This is MARRIAGE not BOYFRIEND RELATIONSHIP. I'm not justifying his wrongdoing, but I believe you shouldn't give up on him so easily.

He was a initially a religious person but now he's vying off the track. Help him get back, I beg you.

MY ADVISE:
1. Report him to an authority figure that he respects so much, like his Pastor or his mentor.

2. Pray for him. Attack dey for this life o, he might be under the influence of one.

Me I don see man wey dey faithful like madt, he got spiritually attacked, and he became a womanizer.

Don't give up ma'am.

God bless your home!

EkehPraise:
Like every well brought up young man, I'm in my early 30's and really doing fine at least I'm not begging for anything from anyone.

I set out this year to wife my girlfriend whom I had dated for 2 years but her character made me think twice so we broke up and I moved on. I have tried to make friends with matured ladies in the church I worship but it's been from one bad experience to another.

Ever since I started looking for a woman to call my wife I have been meeting different characteristics of women.
Within the space of 1 year I've met one who is a maniac, one I met at a hangout didn't hesitate to show her lazy attitude the day she came to my place to see I'm a bit comfortable, another one I met recently in church turned out to be a thief.

2021 is almost over and I'm yet to find a wife. Where do you advice I go in search for a good woman?

Wife material scarce oh!

My brother, na when you dey find wife you go know say girls plenty but wives few.

Na when you dey find wife you go understand why Bible talk say "He who finds a wife finds a good thing, and obtains favor from the Lord"

Just start dey follow God talk, as your personal search no work out, turn it over to God bro!

TMSMedia:
Deborah Enenche, the daughter of Pastor Paul Enenche of Dunamis International Gospel Centre took to her Facebook page to share pictures of her fashion styles, IgbereTV reports.

https://www.facebook.com/335509344363899/posts/510430850205080/?app=fbl

She just likes to play around with her wardrobe, nothing more.

This girl just likes having fun jare...because she dresses really nice a lot of times, especially when she has singing outings and ministrations.

And I like the fact that she NEVER opens her body!!

Crossroad1:
Seems the new trend right now or let me put it this way, seems the fastest ways for so called men of God to gain popularity and trend right now is to attack each other.
Tunde bakare attacks Oyedepo about his private jet.
Okotie attacks t.b Joshua that he is a demon. Now this particular one has so many counter attacks from the likes of indaboski, Iginla and the rest..
They now take each other to the cleaners with reckless abandon and some of them will even use curse words on the alter.
We now have proud men of God
Boastful men of God
Womanizers
Miracle arrangees
Magicians(they now command money into bank accounts)
Prophecy arrangee
So apparently, the church of God is now a business center which Jesus warmed against in

Luke 19:46
New King James Version
saying to them, “It is written, ‘My house is a house of prayer,’ but you have made it a ‘den of thieves.’

They've even turned the church into a place where they sell all sort of thing you can ever imagine..
They sell handkerchief, aprons, water, anointing oil for security purposes and health issues meanwhile they walk around with angry looking securities and fly their families abroad when they are sick..

John 2:16
New King James Version
And He said to those who sold doves, “Take these things away! Do not make My Father’s house a house of merchandise!”

This is not the Christianity I grew up knowing, this is not the Christianity of love, peace and tolerance they talked about when we were growing up.. The more the world advance, the more worse Christianity is becoming..
Pastors now boast of what they have and what they've acquired over their years and they termed it God's prosperity..
God can prosper you but what I see around in today's churches hennnnn, it is well..

Cc oam4j

You cited just two examples, and you're making seem like it's something that happens everyday

ItCanOnlyBeGod:
I know it sounds unbelievable. 19? The truth is, there are more people who are like the former me. This is not a drill. You can't tell the shame, the emotional burden, the crushed self-esteem that accompanies this ailment that literally has little or no cure. (Except correctional surgery, which I couldn't afford.)

For the past nineteen years of my life, I haven't considered myself as someone who has left babyhood. What started from infancy was what I didn't stop even at this age. I tell you, this is something you shouldn't pray for your enemies to have. Sleeping on a dry bed and having to wake up in the middle of the night just to find yourself soaked in the pool of your own urine.

I tried a lot of things: reducing water intake at night and setting alarms, yet non was effective. I even started reading articles on bed wetting that I stumbled on a Nairaland post where someone was asking for help. (He was made mockery of, as he was told to wear pampers at night). I still didn't find any solution except temporary remedies. When I was much younger, my mother came back home with some seeds and asked me to chew, saying that it is the final remedy for bed wetting. I chewed religiously, and it stopped for a week. For that week I couldn't believe myself. Waking up on a dry bed was as if I was gifted with a diamond. But then it returned. I chewed again, but this time there was no result. I lost hope. Literally. My only hope and consolation was to grow older and become rich so that I can have a surgery. Whenever I had to sleep outside for any reason, I would spend the whole while thinking of how the night would be. I would be thirsty, but the horror of bed wetting would keep me from drinking. Chai! This thing no be better thing o. Tueh! Not to think that each time it happened, I would be accused of being lazy or wetting the bed deliberately.

Like four or five years ago, I got closer to God. I prayed and prayed and prayed. I worked in the house of God (my local church) thinking that God would at least pardon me and bless me with healing for doing all these for Him. Deep down, I knew I was trying to bribe God. I was that desperate. It didn't work, of course. I cried to Him, fasted and prayed numerously yet there was no answer. That was when I began to question the existence of this God. Perhaps, I was simply indoctrinated to a religion that I was born into. Perhaps, He doesn't exist. Well, I continued working in His house, but only took it as a weekly social function. Sit there and do your work and go home and then return every service day. I started a lot of questioning within myself. Infact, I began to have resentment towards God. It was going towards severe hatred for Him.

Well, during this year's RCCG Convention titled "A New Wave Of Glory", I watched the program on television with my family. When it was testimony time, I began to hear testimonies that were unbelievable and questionable: Of a man who sat down and became invisible after obeying the Voice of the Holy Spirit when he was attacked by herdsmen in his church; a man getting his vision back after years of blindness and many more. Were all those staged? No, Daddy Adeboye should be better than that, I thought. There and then, I decided to put an end to bed wetting! Several days after, I went to God in humility, asking for forgiveness and acknowledged His existence. I cried in desperation and asked God to heal me before this August runs out. It was like a bet, because I told Him that if He did it for me, I would testify to His own Glory. (Actually, that's the only thing I can give Him in return. He doesn't require any other thing from me). I told Him that it must be in this August, so that I will be convinced of His power.

I'm smiling right now while typing this, because from that day which was like the 12th or thereabout, I have been waking up as dry as ever! I would have done this testifying this past week, but my phone was down. I'm doing it now, though the month hasn't run out. It's my way of telling God, "Daddy, I believe You already and I have tasted of your mercy and goodness". I love You Lord!! And I will continue to serve you. This has made me see that God doesn't have to go about proving His existence or Power to people who doubt Him. It's even belittling of Him. Thank You sweet Jesus!
Please Nairalanders, I humbly ask you to help me thank the Lord for me. This will act as a seal to my healing. Affliction will not rise the second time. Never. Thank you very much.

I don't know, but if only you can try God today, you may be lucky enough to be shocked to the marrow by His wonders.

Please, the moderators should help me move this to front page. I don't know who to call, but they should help me reach greater audience that I may do good on my promise.


Mods, Thank you in advance. Righteousness2( This is an honorary mention for being a serious motivation, even though you may not know it).

Congratulations brother...I totally understand how you feel. Your miracle is permanent in Jesus name Amen

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If they had a non-disclosure agreement and non-compete clause included, they would have had a chance to win in court.

There was no binding agreement. And Nigerians hardly ever work with one before they sign huge contracts.

So its a tough one to win, especially going against a bank.

Sterling makes a chunk of money from tech businesses especially fintech. So their connections in the central bank stretch far and wide. And one phone call can destroy any fintech company (eg. revoking your license for no reason after awhile), especially if they are not backed by a head honcho.

I pray TVIO wins though

Oh wow, thank you for this enlightenment menhh.
Are you a programmer or a lawyer?

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