Nairaland General › Re: What's The Most Painful Loss You Had This Year, 2019? by ayomilore: 10:15am On Dec 31, 2019 |
pressplay411: I lost the most important thing in the world, the conscious presence of the Holy Spirit and His direction.
PS: The Holyspirit has been the most Integral person in my renewed relationship with God. So I am presently on the road to realigning myself with Him. Keep me in your prayers. God will help you. just be asking for God mercy whenever you are praying. He's a merciful God and Keep away from anything that could make you suffer a second lost( James 4:7&  . It is not a pleasant experience to once be filled with holy spirit and suddenly lost it. |
Nairaland General › Re: What's The Most Painful Loss You Had This Year, 2019? by ayomilore: 9:22am On Dec 31, 2019 |
aysuprano: I lost my job on the first monday of this year
January 7 2019
And i haven't gotten any other offer till now Sorry bro. Pray to |
Nairaland General › Re: What was/were your most memorable moment(s) of 2019? by ayomilore: 8:59am On Dec 31, 2019 |
DaphneBr: The day I put to birth. April 29 Congrats. Thats my daughter's birthday too. |
Politics › Re: Obaseki In Trouble As INEC Declares Only Oshiomhole Can Submit Candidates’ Names by ayomilore: 3:19pm On Dec 29, 2019 |
Obaseki mumu small. He should have waited,got elected for second term before he begins to fight Osho baba. One thing I know about Osho baba is that he hardly loose any battle. This one at hand is a sure one for him. |
Christianity Etc › Re: Share Your Testimony Of Year 2019 by ayomilore: 11:34am On Dec 29, 2019 |
I bless God for Giving me a job in this year after a terrible period of joblessness. Got confirmed at my place of work with a pay raise so rare in the organization history. God rebuked devourer in my finance. All round peace. Boldness to start a little evangelism which I believe he will take to the next level next year. |
Christianity Etc › Re: Share Your Testimony Of Year 2019 by ayomilore: 11:22am On Dec 29, 2019 |
I bless the name of the lord For providing job for me. Got confirmed with a pay raise very rare in the organization history. God rebuked devourer in my finance. |
Politics › Re: APC Governors Want Abdulaziz Yari To Replace Oshiomhole As APC National Chairman by ayomilore: 10:36am On Dec 12, 2019 |
Yari that cannot manage his small state...... God help APC. |
Politics › Re: The Battle Between Senator Smart Adeyemi And Dino Melaye Continue Reading At Ht by ayomilore: 3:03pm On Nov 20, 2019 |
Melaye is gone. Shikena. |
Fashion › Re: Bikini Fashion Parade In A Trinidad Church. Nigerians React (Photos) by ayomilore: 3:37pm On Nov 08, 2019 |
The end is near indeed. |
Health › Doctors In The House Please Help by ayomilore(op): 4:35pm On Oct 31, 2019 |
Please is there any injection to stop bleeding. My organization lost a staff due to uncontrollable bleeding after birth. The woman thqt claim to be nurse in the hospital said once the tissue or something lost control thrre is nothing they can do.. |
Christianity Etc › Re: Please I Need Your Guidance by ayomilore(op): 4:26pm On Oct 29, 2019 |
CodeTemplar: I would advice you give the scripture stipulated tithe of 10% to church and 5% (or what you settle for) to pastor as pastor seed as the scripture admonished us to communicate all good things to our teachers. Noted sir. |
Christianity Etc › Re: What's Your Most Embarrassing Moment In Church? Share Your Experience. by ayomilore: 4:15pm On Oct 29, 2019 |
It was back then in our local church when growing up, we were giving memory verse to read during xmas and i have practiced it perfectly and even delivered satisfactorily to my colleagues and brothers at home but when the d day came. i just became dump on the pulpit can't even remember how i left the place that day. stage freight really dealt a great blow on me. |
Christianity Etc › Re: Please I Need Your Guidance by ayomilore(op): 4:03pm On Oct 29, 2019 |
ochibuogwu5: Tithe, offering, first-fruit, donation and whatever percentage you choose to give and whosoever you choose to give it should be done within the leading of the Holy Spirit thus "[Remember] this: he who sows sparingly and grudgingly will also reap sparingly and grudgingly, and he who sows generously [that blessings may come to someone] will also reap generously and with blessings. Let each one [give] as he has made up his own mind and purposed in his heart, not reluctantly or sorrowfully or under compulsion, for God loves (He takes pleasure in, prizes above other things, and is unwilling to abandon or to do without) a cheerful (joyous, “prompt to do it”) giver [whose heart is in his giving]. And God is able to make all grace (every favor and earthly blessing) come to you in abundance, so that you may always and under all circumstances and whatever the need be self-sufficient [possessing enough to require no aid or support and furnished in abundance for every good work and charitable donation]." (2 Corinthian 9:6-8 amp) Great Grace Brethren!!! Thanks for your contribution sir. |
Christianity Etc › Please I Need Your Guidance by ayomilore(op): 10:12am On Oct 29, 2019 |
Please i recently made a vow to God to take my tithe to 15% once i'm confirmed and get a pay raise in my place of work. I have been giving my tithe for the past 7 months to this Pastor who is like my personal pastor but doesn't have a church yet, i intend keep giving him the 10% of the new salary while the remaining 5% will go to the church where i worship every Sunday. I hope i am making the right decision? |
Politics › Re: N537m Debt: Court Clears Duke After N350m Payment by ayomilore: 5:47pm On Sep 11, 2019 |
This man is one of the very few former governors who did not loot our treasury otherwise he wouldn't have found himself in this condition. |
Politics › Re: Fg’ll Complete Ongoing, Abandoned Projects, Says Fashola by ayomilore: 9:13am On Aug 30, 2019 |
This guy is an asset to Buhari's government. |
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Romance › Re: Join The Romance Sex Group Chat On Whatsapp by ayomilore: 4:55pm On Jul 19, 2019 |
Add 07039069883 |
Politics › Re: Breaking News: Kayode Fayemi Emerges As Chairman Elect, Nigeria Governors Forum by ayomilore: 9:33am On May 23, 2019 |
This guy might end up becoming Nigeria next president. |
Career › Re: How Do I Politely Ask My Boss For A Better Pay by ayomilore(op): 10:24am On May 13, 2019 |
Arkmanbuddy: Politely talk to him about the additional role given to you and how you'd appreciate if it comes with an increased pay. Let him understand how the company will benefit greatly and how the increased pay will help motivate you to do even better. Thanks for your advice. |
Career › How Do I Politely Ask My Boss For A Better Pay by ayomilore(op): 9:16am On May 13, 2019 |
The man approached me last week and stylishly tell me I will help with an additional Job role, Another boss told me the same thing like 2 days after my boss accosted me guess the issue was raised at their meeting.
Thanks. |
Family › Re: The Struggling Doesnt Last Forever, Don't Be Depressed by ayomilore: 9:10am On Apr 27, 2019 |
Luvlyna: I used to feel sorry for guys who I felt some ladies left because they were probably still struggling and trying to find footing Most times when I see some of my male colleagues or friends like that, I just advice them to leave girlfriend matter first and make money. I do not even understand the heartbreak and pain they feel until something similar happened to me, and I've never been more depressed than before.
Me and this guy were dating in 2017 while I was serving, we had issues and all my begging was almost in vain, even when he made plans for us to see at the end of that year, one issue came up and he just cancelled it, he even told me that I would not get a good job and I told him he wasn't God to determine my future. So we separated. All through 2018, we barely communicated, not to talk of seeing. He stays in one of the oil producing states, while I came back to lag after service. So I just channeled all my energy to looking for a job, every graduate trainee job or customer service job(I have experience), I put in my cv. I was being called for many. Some I won't pass the aptitude test. So I starting as a contract staff in the bank that was recently swallowed up by another. But because me and my brother was there, one had to leave, I opted to go because being a contract staff wasn't even the kind of job I wanted. I felt bad, but I didn't let it stop me.
I'm going to label some companies A, U and K Along the way I got offer in U bank graduate trainee and I also got offer from A bank graduate trainee banking school. And even in the process of K consulting recruitment. So the A bank after-training school offer looked bigger than the U, so I chose A. That was my greatest undoing. I could have just started my job in U and hopefully wait for K.
Training school in A bank was very difficult, you could be removed at anytime. Every day was a struggle and I wished I never chooses them, I have always been an arts student and being exposed to that amount of calculations was something else for me. I cried every day. During Xmas, this guy whom we barely spoke throughout the year until I started training school, invited me over to his place. Since we were in xmas break I decided to go see. I still loved him and cheating wasn't what caused our issue, it was just us not understanding ourselves, what we liked and didn't. And we hadn't met physically for long, I later got to understand that the very minute of issues can cause problem.
I went to meet him, and he was all so lovey dovey, started talking about the future, about how it was important for one's spouse to be working at least to contribute to the home, and that was his kind of woman he's looking for now. Fast forward to when training school resumed early January, I go bad news that I had been withdrawn due to me exceeding the number of carryover or resist one could have. I cried, my career, my future taken away, after I ditched another career path for this, I felt naked. Everybody in the house tried consoling me. I still had one more interview with K, so I went for it on Val's day, they didn't even wait till I got home before regret mail was sent to me. I didn't make it. I slipped into depression. It wasn't easy, where will I start from. I gave one full year looking for job and I lost it.
In my sad and depressing state I summoned courage to send out my cv. The guy started acting like help, he wanted me to do a course in project management to increase my chances, he was helping out in the kind of interview questions to expect. Last month I went to see him, and I regret that decision to go see him.
He wasn't all so lovey dovey like when I was still in training school. He reminded not once about how I intend to finish his money. The day I left his house we were almost not on talking terms. It has not been easy. Now I have started to learn how to sell things online while I still submit CVs and contact people that I'm still looking for work.
Now I have know how it feels when you're looked down upon when you are still struggling, but the good thing is that no one struggles forever.
Thanks for enduring this long post guys Next time don't respond to anyone who try to criticize you just ignore them it only shows the depth of their knowledge. Keep trying guess the bank is access they are always crazy with their selection and recruitment process. God is your strength. |
Romance › Re: A Wife With A Son Is No Longer In Love by ayomilore: 3:22am On Apr 27, 2019 |
Bro. Just look for way to take custody of your son and move on with your life.
She has someone that she's in love with in Nigeria, how can you as a wife leave your husband and relocate to another country.
Just cut her off and move on with your life. It's so glaring she doesn't love you. |
Politics › Re: Pressure Mounts On Yahaya Bello, Set To Dump APC For Accord Party- Kogiflame.com by ayomilore: 8:33am On Apr 25, 2019 |
You are unquestionable oh God.
I still can't imagine how wicked people always find their ways to power. |
Family › Re: Having Risen From Downfall, How Can I Avoid Falling Again? by ayomilore: 7:58am On Apr 18, 2019 |
Be close to God. Master the trick of your business more. Choose the ones you can relate with among your people. Like the sensible guy that comments earlier said relocate and keep a low profile. |
Politics › Re: Edo 2020.. Godwin Obaseki May Not Get 2nd Term...comr.adams Oshiomole by ayomilore: 9:27pm On Apr 13, 2019 |
Thought they said this dude is trying now.
Why are all these selfish politicians cutting short the reign of all these technocrats in politics.
Same thing they did to Abode. |
Politics › Re: 84-Year-Old Sylvanus Nsofor, Ambassador To US Asked To Retire By Nigerians by ayomilore: 8:31pm On Apr 13, 2019 |
If the man is removed now. They will shout marginalisation as usual. |
Christianity Etc › Re: Janet Olukoya Is Dead! Daniel Olukoya's Mother Dies by ayomilore: 10:25am On Apr 10, 2019 |
Olukoya one of the most revered men of God of our time. |
Romance › Re: If U Are Given An Opportunity To Ban Just 1 Thing In Nig, What'd That Be? by ayomilore: 9:02pm On Apr 09, 2019 |
hisgrace090: National assembly. God bless you. Those guys are bunch of looters |
Politics › Re: Imo Student Kills Female Classmate For Rejecting Advances by ayomilore: 11:10am On Apr 07, 2019 |
What is this world turning to? Bad news everyday.
God have mercy. |
Christianity Etc › Re: Father Mbaka Visits Woman Who Gave Birth To Quadruplets, Pays N1.5M Bill by ayomilore: 1:50pm On Apr 05, 2019 |
bettercreature:
You can never see Redeem church donating a kobo but rather use the money to open another pay point May God forgive you. If you know what that church is doing secretely for the needy you will be shocked. I'm not their member but I have many people attending the church. |