₦airaland Forum

Franklystein:
My girlfriend is clingy, and she likes chatting me 24/7, it's like she doesn't have other things to do than chat everyday, I've advised her to get friends, get close to people, go outdoors and get a hobby but she just brush it aside and continue with what's on her mind like I'm insignificant, all day she texts me, most of the text are about insignificant stuff like what her friend told her or what she's eating or an argument she had earlier on, it's not like I don't give her attention, I do, but she's seriously draining me at some point I might get sick of it, for those who would say ignoring is the solution, if she texts and I don't reply it becomes an issue that I'll spend days trying to resolve so I must reply, but this girl won't take a hint, she assumes chatting with her everyday is how to prove I love her, I have politely and indirectly told her many times but she just disregard it and continue, and I can't be online all day everyday chatting with her, i have other things to do.
sometimes I will reply chats until my battery die and she will still be texting, if I don't charge quickly and reply her next thing is calls, and if the calls go unanswered I have snubbed her and problem go start. I'm now cheating and I'm now chatting with someone else, that's why replying her is now hard, it's annoying honestly and it's choking me.

Her love language is attention and quality time, if you can't make that sacrifice you will lose her to someone that can

AlabiKILLER2023:
What other way do I chat you up
I'm not on Whatsapp

I will create an account tomorrow


Thanks for your concern

Reach out via my email ajideayodeji@gmail.com

AlabiKILLER2023:
Guy please I need your help to reach out to a wider audience

I'm going through a lot right now


Since morning
Just 1700naira worth of sells

I can't continue like this

I need help

Chat me up on 08089456258

Udoflo:
I want to further my education, though i have hnd i want to do PGD then go for my masters in canda or any other country.

My problem is that i was thinking of furthering my education at either NOUN or tai solarin university of education.

Pls is NOUN certificate recognized abroad? Or should i go to tai?

How quick are their programs.pls help.

Try Schools in Sweden or Norway

Eraddray:
Sowore is blowing hot....I love this man... just that we're not ready in this country for good governance...until there's nothing left to loot..until terrorist overrun the country..


That's when we will be ready

If Sowore mistakenly become president he go too cause wahala sotey he himself will give up on the whole thing, the whole governance structure is too dirty to be cleaned in 8 years

Oya oh Arsenal Fans Order your own Agbada in preparation of Arsenal FC Lifting the EPL 2025/2026 cup

Meektunz:
Please guys I have 150k with me but I need to make it 500k withing 2months. What is your advise on this? What business do you suggest I do? I really need to pay my rent in 2months time.

where are you based

Kalashnikov49:
These SW people don show Northerners shege.

Sarki dey inside cell
Malami dey inside cell
El Rufai dey inside cell
..and others they use EFCC, ICPC. to hound and imprison.

Anyway, all of them dey join Nnamdi Kanu dey eat watery Beans.

Normally we Yoruba people are coward na

Greeting no be by force stop greeting her na

Kulas:
Just make a suggestion

my advice will be based on that

AustinKing001:
Few days ago I came across a very strange prophetic message about Nigeria's future, and honestly it made me think deeply.

According to the message, Nigeria was seen inside Ghana in a vision.

At first it sounded confusing, but the explanation behind it is what caught my attention.

The prophet explained what it could mean for:

• Nigeria's leadership
• The future of the nation
• Possible events Nigerians should pay attention to

Whether you believe in prophecy or not, one thing is certain — Nigeria is currently going through a very sensitive period, and many people are beginning to ask serious questions about the direction of the country.

Some people say prophecies like this should be ignored.

Others believe they sometimes serve as warnings.

The interesting part is how Ghana appeared in the vision and what it supposedly represents for Nigeria.

I found the explanation quite thought-provoking.

Instead of misquoting the message, I think it's better you watch it yourself and decide what you think.

Watch the full explanation here 👇

WATCH IT HERE

The prophecy has no basis if the focus is not on intercession

jmoore:
https://m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=pfbid02RohYP3y2y5QhRp1SizNHxa1y7FVzH5qRbvJJSr2ZDA2oibg947CSTciLgGepC6PNl&id=100013785282908&mibextid=Nif5oz

While others were protecting themselves against future negative events, we were employing rats and goats to run our economy, sadly they ate most of the yams

Kulas:
Please what business can somebody set up with the sum of between 3m to 4m naira solely for taking care the family. Kindly advise.

What is your estimated monthly spending

tctrills:
Was Psalm 22.30 refering to Christ?
Same question goes for Isaiah 61.3

yes

tctrills:
While I would love to agree with you, do you have any scriptural verse that indicates that Christians or Followers of Christ are His seeds?

Psalm 22 vs 30, John 12:24, Isaiah 61 vs 3

LibertyRep:
People with small minds reading lewd meaning to this.

Shior

wereys too full Nairaland

Singapore and Japan did same with Olam

tctrills:
Ok. So are Christians the Sons of God or the Sons of Christ or both?

Christians means little Christ or Followers of Christ, We are both Sons of Christ and Sons of God because we are the seeds of Christ

tctrills:
John 1.12&13
But as many as received him, to them gave he power to become the sons of God, even to them that believe on his name:

13 Which were born, not of blood, nor of the will of the flesh, nor of the will of man, but of God.

These verses talk about Jesus Christ giving people power to become the Sons of God. Are you saying that becoming a Son of God means that Jesus Christ becomes your father? Do you have a scripture to back this?

Becoming a Son of God, is it the same as becoming a Son of Christ?

Read Isaiah 9 vs 1, Also know the meaning of God, the word God in the Bible means Supreme Judge

tctrills:
Yeah, but for now, I am only interested in knowing who His children are. Do you have an answer to that sir? Again, how do you understand this verse
Isaiah 53:10
10 Yet it pleased the Lord to bruise him; he hath put him to grief: when thou shalt make his soul an offering for sin, he shall see his seed, he shall prolong his days, and the pleasure of the Lord shall prosper in his hand.

Who are His seed?

The answer you seek for is in John 1 vs 12 to 13, John 17 and 1 John 5

Ruth15:
. Was I the one who requested for a date? You guys should learn how to call a spade a spade sometimes.

So you mean you haven't heard about Dutch Date, if you have intention of traveling to Europe be prepared for that. If you want to be pampered let the guy ask you out first and accept his offer, but if your intentions are to get free meal for yourself and your friend because a guy asked for a date, it shows the kind of lady you are. Let's assume the purpose of bringing your friends along is safety measures should he and his friend now foot your bills, all you posted shows you have entitlement mentality complex and it has great repercussions

Ruth15:
Good day everyone.

So there's this issue that has been bothering me since yesterday and it has left me in a state of bafflement.

I met a guy on Thursday and I gave him my number. On Friday,he asked me if we could hang out and of which I obliged to. Mind you, before I agreed to go out with him,I told him I'd be coming with two of my other female friends and of which he said no problem. He even jokingly asked me if my friends were single and I told him yes. He then jestfully promised to hook them up with two of his other male friends and we both laughed over it .

So ,on Saturday which happened to be yesterday,we finally got to our agreed destination. I ordered for three bottles of coca cola and three fish pies,while my friends and I were awaiting them. Eventually they showed up and we were vibing. When it was time to pay for what I initially ordered for,I was expecting this dude to be a gentleman and go and pay for all the stuffs we bought on his behalf. But unfortunately,he wasn't making any move. So I stood up and wanted to pay. Unfortunately my bank was having network problem. But guys,guess what happened next. This dude and his friends stood up and left us stranded. Like they actually left, without thinking about what we'd be subjected to. Had it been I didn't have the money or went unprepared,that would have been an entirety different case but for goodness sake,it was just an ordinary bank network problems. And it was just ordinary 5k,and not something too big for a girl like me to pay without a blink of an eye. Omo,everything became blurry and I was wondering about what guys are turning into nowadays. Could this be a sign of being an alpha male or should I call it stoopidity? Because I was really embarrassed and I don't think I'd ever blame ladies who tend to be brutal to men from henceforth because I don't just understand what young men of these days are turning into.

Please guys,did I do wrong at all?

Obembet Dominique mynd44 Seun nlfpmod.

What about everyone paying for what they took, the reason why you are shocked is because of hypergamy, this generation of guys are woke about that already

tctrills:
Isaiah declared in Isaiah 9:6 that Jesus Christ is The everlasting Father. To become a father, one must have children, so it is important to ask, who are the Children of Jesus Christ? Secondly, from the verse, we learn that He is no ordinary father, He is The everlasting Father. What makes His fatherhood everlasting?

Beyond being children we are the government on his shoulders

muyico:
God knows the best
In olden
Ages of 30
Ours forefathers don build house
I, heard 50kg of cement go soon reach 15/20k per bag!
Land is no go area
Average Nigerians youths
Can't afford to buy half plot of land

our great grandparents don't build houses they live all together same way the Indians do till date and collapse all their earnings together to build an empire

Malagans:
No hospital there, except one dead clinic that is almost nonfunctional.

Hmm, which part of the country is that but I don't think it's cancer, I think it's infection, she should take antibiotics like septrin based on a pharmacist recommendation, use Dettol in water when bathing and you guys should disinfect your toilets

Malagans:
I write this with tears in my eyes. I'm confused and worried.

My mum's left breast has being itching her for quite some time now. She subtly scratches it as it itches, but there's no growth or lump on it.

I fear it could be cancer, but I don't want to believe it is, because it will really break me down.
She's in the village, a typical one at that where there's no hospital. I'm really worried.

I don't know what to do right now because I am not financially okay where I am. I'm just still squatting with someone and managing my life, hoping for better days. She's a widow. I would have wanted her to come over, or leave the village to a Good hospital where she can run some tests.

Doctors here, aside from cancer, what could this Be?

Mods, please help out.

Thanks

Nlfpmod

She should go to the hospital first now for test

Omotoyosiii:
Hi, Good evening
I want to ask about how I can uplift the ban on my Canada visa. Also how do I start the process for the new visa as a student looking to study medicine in Canada, that already as a Bsc here in Nigeria.

find another country to go to

kisszhira:
Hello Nairalanders,I just made my first 50m and thinking of how I can double the money and make my first 100m.
I'm 30 years. At what age did you make your first 100m naira and how ??

Your first focus should be how not to lose it. My advice, behave as if you have just 10m, put the 40m into compounding of interest (20 to 22%) is not bad, keep doing that every year. Work with the 10 m to achieve your 100 m , you can leverage on software as a service something that can ease others or make them money, or buy products from China and sell at x3 x4, rinse and repeat at least 3 to 5 times in a year. If you want more details chat me up on 08089456258

omoredia:
The day ibos lead this country thats when real progress will be made. Even in school then they are so intelligent

So why has your senators and governors not turn around their states and constituencies

dailyflavour:
I'm not cooking from home, I run a hotel kitchen..
Small in that context refers to the sales revenue.
That's all

Okay, but you should start thinking out of the box, how do you grow your 430k to clear you debt, don't he hell bent on your original approach to business

kpankpangolo:
Somebody should explain to me. It’s not the same in sane climes. I understand it’s not a suitable word but some people with only SSCE qualifications are so annoying that I blurt the word to destroy their self esteem.

only illiterates will say that

dailyflavour:
Hi guys,
Trust you all are doing well. I'm a chef and I need to share a little situation I'm currently facing with business-minded people on this platform.
There is a vacant kiosk close to where I run my small food business. The kiosk has been sitting idle for almost a year. So I reached out to the owner and he said he was willing to sell it for ₦800k.
Out of desperation to secure the kiosk, I took a loan of ₦500k, which I’m expected to repay at ₦177.5k monthly for 4 months (total repayment: ₦710k). I also managed to gather about ₦300k on my own (a combination of loans from friends and personal savings).
When I contacted the owner again to tell him I was ready to pay, he suddenly changed his mind. For reasons best known to him, he said he was no longer selling for ₦800k and that his new final price is ₦1,000,000.
Immediately I heard that, I lost interest in getting the kiosk. The loan I already took is heavy on me considering my current income, and the situation has become very frustrating.
Now I’m automatically owing ₦710k to repay the loan, whether I buy the kiosk or not.
So my big question is: What can I do with this ₦500k loan (now around ₦430k left after some expenses) so that I can repay the loan comfortably?
I would have invested everything into my food business, but sales are currently lower than average and I’m not sure it’s wise to take that risk right now.
I’d really appreciate advice from experienced business minds here.

Change strategy by cooking from home and use like 50k to 100k for marketing and promotion. With the amount you have you can achieve 5m in 3 to 6 months if you use blue Ocean strategies, if you are interested you can chat me up on 08089456258