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Tekashi89:
Hey guys, my dating life sulks, I haven't been really lucky with girls ever since my secondary School days. Since I was born I've only dated two girls and that was way back in 2016 and last year in 2025.

I tend to attract more guys, single mothers or older women (very old women tend to like me).
I don't know what's it with me that tends to push away younger girls (note I'm 180cm 60kg) light skin most people say I'm handsome. But I don't know why I can't attract young single girls.

Where ever I go I tend to attract only single mothers and when a young girl even start getting attracted to me I'll later discover that she acts that way to every other guy around so there's nothing special about me.

I'm thinking of going spiritual but I just thought I should post it here first.

So guys I need your advice on this issue pls

It's psychological, push and pull or demand and supply. Tell a lady I am interested in you but I would love that you say no then walk away, she will go after you but if you keep pressing her for a relationship your value drop. Ladies prefer to be fractionated

AngelicBeing:
This is Deep ooooooooo you have started again ooooooooo with your savage response

Am I lying, don't you see how male goats run after female goats, now imagine this generation where baddies plenty

ocnovakmichael:
In 1952 Kenneth Hagin relates how Jesus appeared to him in a vision while he was in Rockwall Texas and laid His finger in the palm of each of his hands and declared, "I have called thee and have anointed thee. I have given thee a special anointing to minister to the sick." He went a step further in saying, the Lord Jesus instructed him to tell the people exactly what he was told, stating that if they believed and received it, the power would flow from his hands and effect a healing in their body.

But the point I want to get out there is that, Kenneth Hagin stated that the Lord Jesus told him to fast any time the anointing faded to restore its strength and power.

When I read Hagin's testimony many years ago, I began to ask myself the question: is there an anointing that accompanies fasting? And for many years I peruse through scriptures until today while I was studying the Bible, the Spirit opened my understanding to this truth. And that Is what I want to share with you.

First we need to know that the word "the anointing" is synonymous with the word the Holy Ghost, Spirit, and Power. Many times in scriptures the word the Spirit, power, or the Holy Ghost is use to describe the anointing. For instance, in the book of Zechariah the fourth chapter and the sixth and seventh verses, the Bible say, "... This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my Spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Who art thou, O great mountain? before Zerubbabel thou shalt become a plain..."

Now what am I getting to? Let's see how the anointing comes through fasting.

Isaiah 58:6
[6]Is not this the fast that I have chosen? to loose the bands of wickedness, to undo the heavy burdens, and to let the oppressed go free, and that ye break every yoke?

That text has two fold applications. On the one hand, God is speaking through the prophet Isaiah correcting the children of Israel on the way and manner they should fast. On the other hand, that is prophesying about the Lord Jesus Christ on the fast the Father has chosen for him in order to to loose the bands of wickedness, to undo the heavy burdens, to let the oppressed go free, and to break every yoke: because in the book of Hebrews scripture says, "... Sacrifice and offering thou wouldest not, but a body hast thou prepared me... Lo, I come (in the volume of the book it is written of me,) to do thy will, O God."

You see, after that the Lord Jesus had been baptized and the Spirit came and abode on him like a dove, he did not do any mighty work until the Spirit led him into the wilderness to fast for forty days and forty nights. And after he had fasted, the Bible say, "And Jesus returned in the power of the Spirit." It was after the fast that the anointing became manifest that Jesus declared in the gospel of Luke:

Luke 4:18
[18]The Spirit of the Lord is upon me, because he hath anointed me to preach the gospel to the poor; he hath sent me to heal the brokenhearted, to preach deliverance to the captives, and recovering of sight to the blind, to set at liberty them that are bruised,


In the book of Isaiah the Lord chose a fast: Is not this the fast that I have chosen? to loose the bands of wickedness, to undo the heavy burdens, and to let the oppressed go free, and that ye break every yoke? But he could not loose the bands of wickedness until he fasted and the anointing became manifest; he couldn't undo the heavy burdens until he fasted; he couldn't let the oppressed go free until he fasted. It is the anointing that breaks or destroys the yoke!

Isaiah 10:27
[27]And it shall come to pass in that day, that his burden shall be taken away from off thy shoulder, and his yoke from off thy neck, and the yoke shall be destroyed because of the anointing.

Acts 10:38
[38]How God anointed Jesus of Nazareth with the Holy Ghost and with power: who went about doing good, and healing all that were oppressed of the devil; for God was with him.

The manifestation of the Spirit or the anointing is usually preceded by a fast. In the book of Acts the thirteenth chapter, the Spirit spoke after Paul and company had fasted.

Acts 13:1-2
[1]Now there were in the church that was at Antioch certain prophets and teachers; as Barnabas, and Simeon that was called Niger, and Lucius of Cyrene, and Manaen, which had been brought up with Herod the tetrarch, and Saul.
[2]As they ministered to the Lord, and fasted, the Holy Ghost said, Separate me Barnabas and Saul for the work whereunto I have called them.

Like I had earlier stated, the word Spirit, Holy Ghost, and power are synonymous with the word the "anointing." Now notice in that text that the Holy Ghost or the anointing didn't speak or manifest until those prophets and teachers fasted. Also, notice it was after Jesus fasted for forty days and forty nights scripture says "And Jesus returned in the power of the Spirit."
This was exactly what the Lord Jesus, in a vision, said to Kenneth Hagin, 'that he should fast any time the anointing faded to restore its strength and power."

Friend, the anointing comes through fasting!

Notwithstanding, this is one way the anointing is made manifest, not the only way!



Do not hoard knowledge, propagate it!


Jesus is Lord!

The anointing is constant but the body carrying it isn't

the essence of fasting is not to enhance the anointing but the material carrying it. Let's assume anointing is like water or any other fluid or liquid that is precious like petrol for instance , in some scenarios they flow through pipes as channels of distribution. The anointing is like the petrol it doesn't diminish but the pipe can have blockages preventing the flow, then fasting is the means of removing the blockages same way fasting helps in removing toxins from our bodies.

gohf:
I should share to others that the holy Spirit comes through fasting and if the holy Spirit is fading they should fast abi?

You are right, the essence of fasting is not to enhance the anointing but the material carrying it. Let's assume anointing is like water or any other fluid or liquid that is precious like petrol for instance , in some scenarios they flow through pipes as channels of distribution. The anointing is like the petrol it doesn't diminish but the pipe can have blockages preventing the flow, then fasting is the means of removing the blockages same way fasting helps in removing toxins from our bodies

Eddodoh:
I am interested in laptop and accessories business. My current work is not something I want to continue doing so I have thought about going into gadgets business especially laptops, phone and accessories sales.

I want to know if it will be necessary for me to learn like kind of apprenticeship or start small to test waters.

Don't rely on it alone, before you leave your job, start the business using social media, register with at least a logistics firm, form a team and get started, especially sales and marketing

Tesclaros:
provision business is a very bad business. Spent 7mil back then and she’s back to square zero. Never again!

I don't think the issue is provision but the starting approach and the fact that your mum wasn't into the business when she was younger. So what is she doing now

Tesclaros:
Hello all, My mum has been disturbing me of getting her a provision store to make some money from since she’ll soon retire from work. And i am thinking of investing N2,000,000 in it. But before i do that, i want to know how profitable is the business couple with the expenses on shop rent. Or any better business with that amount? I want a stress free kinda business abeg

How did it go eventually

bestman09:
Please kindly help me out. I've been to Access Bank concerning this issue and the staff told me that I can only get it online through the Access Bank App but for over 5 days now, more than 100 times, the App keeps giving this error message. I stay in Ibadan. The account is actually my Diamond bank account.

A property I paid for in 2016 is at stake if I don't provide my proof of payment.

Please mods @Mynd44 @Dominique @Mukina2 help me to get solutions from members.

Internet banking login

Antichristus:
Guys, I've recently bought this minibus to be shipped into Nigeria. What's the best way of making daily income on it. Any wisdom shared will be immensely appreciated.

Use it for logistics delivery. I can help you in building a mobile app for it, you use the app and through that get other buses and bike to join the app. But you start with it, chat me up on 08089456258 for more information

Kog45:
Last year Tunde Ayeni visited my house to see my big bro and funny I sat down just looking at him, everyone in the sitting room stood up to greet him but I refused cuz he doesn't deserve my handshake,when he left my siblings where asking why and I said that man na big thief....He encouraged Alaimeiyesha to finish Bayelsa treasury,close pal to James Ibori,very fraudulent man and fully participated in most money laundering during GEJ era,very closed to Patience Jonathan......I only respect hardworking entrepreneur not all these fake billionaires like Tunde Ayeni

And Na the same man get IBEDC wey dey show us shege for electricity

coderJosh:
I am considering whether I should go to university and study Computer Science, or join an intensive coding practical training program.

what is your vision for life and how old are you at the moment

Normally Na goat things , a typical male goat will chase every ovulating female goat. Now imaging you brought the male goat closer and you have like 5 female goat friends around, goats will always be goats. Next Na to see say the goats are now pregnant for the sharp male goat

ajog1:
Hello, @bolded; who?

You are trying to reach me, chat me up on 08089456258

These ADC guys are not smart Sha, can't they see that a rug pulling is coming

ReasonYourz:
I am dating this girl but she is so much younger than me in age. I do like her but ever since I dated her I have been attracting little favor in life. Is kind of weird and hard to explain. She has no idea and I want to tell her. Like she just randomly came in my life out of nowhere and I feel so unworthy. This girl is younger than me. Are age gap is crazy but we met in a weird way.

Don't tell her oh, if you do that you have put yourself in a trap. If you believe she is the reason, instead reward her

daylay7:
I want to know how i can control this urge. I drink at least two pet bottles in a day. If i don't take it in a day, I won't be myself. How do I curb this behavior? I tried looking away, discipline myself but it is not working.

Start a documented 90 days challenge of no carbonated drink.

Buy a water bottle and fill it early in the money and focus on drinking it per day. When you wake up say I will drink lots of water today, read a lot about the benefits of drinking water and the dangers of drinking carbonated drinks. Tell everyone around you that for the next 90 days you won't drink any carbonated drinks and if anyone catches you drinking it your penalty is let's say 7500 naira

Ofunaofu:
This is selective justice.

We have a man who forged certificates, claimed to have worked with Deloitte, which was debunked, claimed to have attended a school and obtained a certificate from it four years before it was even established, now sitting pretty in power, inflicting untold hardship, hunger, starvation, worsening insecurity, and constant electricity blackouts, all in the name of governance.

Criminals get levels Na

Funkybabee:
Opening a fashion store for now jare

How is it going, is it giving you want you anticipated

Funkybabee:
Good afternoon Nairalanders, I hope you all are doing good? Who can share their experience regarding Motorcycle and tricycle given to people to deliver.

I spoke with my mum and she said I shouldn't dare because Nigerians are wi¢ked in that kind of business while speaking to someone today, that one emphasize a lots on it, which is why I decided to come here to hear people experience about it

Can you share your experience when given out a bicycle or even car to deliver money daily but turned sour?

What did you eventually settle to do

Ola9ja23:
That's his authentic account.

Let Obi and Atiku go and remove him.


So you were expecting Tinubu to appoint his enemy as INEC chairman?

Is he a party member ? No

Cry as many as you can but this Amupitan is going no where 😂😂😅😂😂😂

And is it wrong for him to have a choice as president in 2023

Normally these northern extremists and Gaslighting Na 5 and 6. When Yakubu and Prof were doing their nonsense una no complain oh. Make the thing go round Na,

wediehere1:
Yoruba will not do flamboyant coronation

true to an extent but in my own opinion no stranger, not Igbo, Yoruba, Fulani should create room for having a throne in another man's land,

wediehere1:
Must they be flogged before they get some senses?
Deji Akure treatment must be given them anytime they go astray

That nonsense of an immigrant coming to crown himself king or chief in another man's land make me angry. One day I was passing through a part of Abuja and I saw the house of our Yoruba man with the inscription Oba Yoruba of Let's say Abuja, even though I am Yoruba I was angry. That is the actual cause of the senseless killing in Jos, let the owners of the land own their chieftaincy and cultural position, if you want one go to your town and village.

Fistop:
Next Governor: Femi Gbajabiamila

Deputy: Seyi Tinubu

Both are from the same constituency

Queenttoast01:
Please i want to learn YouTube content monetization from those who is currently earning. If you can teach me, kindly drop your number or you chat me from my bio.

chat me up on 08089456258

Dogalmighty17:
nope. It was a totally online arrangement.

just give them their login details you can add some hidden features that is timed that will make them reach out later

Dogalmighty17:
I designed a site for a client and with her approval, it went live. Twice, she has requested for modifications which I obliged. However, after the site went live again, she sent a video she wanted embedded into the site and this time I insisted that she has to make some payment for that since site maintenance was not part of our earlier arrangement. She refused.

She then requested for the login details to the dashboard carrying the code for the site. Is this a normal request?

Did you sign any agreements before you started

davidaluu:
No, it's not a requirement. That's when you get in and is accepted

it's not like that, you have to have the company registered in the US, even if your Nigerian company is the parent at least the operational one will be in the US without it you can't get into their acceleration or get investors

Sirchiboy:
Please am relocating to lag can 1 million reach me to start a life in lag like opening a shop and rent of house please help i need advice before I will come please

Don't let anyone discourage you, what you need is not the 1 million naira, it is the audacity and believe that you will be great there. Pray and get directions and favour. Go there believing you are there to grow, make impacts and prosper. Your journey might start from the outskirts like Ikorodu, Epe, Sango Ota among others but you can move into the centre to pursue industry. Its not bad if your house rent is 50k to 100k just start and grow. Create a plan to save, and set a target for great prosperity. Find a good religious community that can fuel your growth

davidaluu:
Out of curiosity, has anyone applied to Y combinator or similar tech startup accelerator programs? How has your experience been like? They rarely pick African tech startups, maybe it's a minority thing or something, the prominent one was paystack that did YC I think in 2016. YC are mostly focused on AI startups and Saas and AI agents and those hype especially those in Silicon Valley and San Fransisco. What's your take on this? Any tech startup accelerators in Nigeria?

Your company has to be registered in US

Powerbandooo:
Pls can you clarify how it works, cant he talk to the customer care to unlock the money

Cowriewise will not release the funds oh, may be only Piggyvest can allow that.

Comfortableme:
Please, how much is the least or smallest amount I can buy share at any company..I just want to have the idea
Thank you

is it a newly registered company. If it is its best you get at least 5% most go for 20 to 30%