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Maybe next year or next two years.
I don't have that passion for relationships anymore but I will definitely get married.

I don't even have a relationship at the moment and I find it difficult starting one, even though I meet women daily. The ones I had I lose interest along the line.
I have been occupied with my business since last year, maybe if I meet a worthy lady.

capricornlady:
i wish to marry this year..in my early 30s already. Getting a ready, consistent and serious man is very difficult

Can we talk?

Gates01:
Share with us please!

I have done that already, I said buying food stuffs in bulk from local market and selling in city markets.

If you have a car, you can use your car as a shop by loading the stuffs in the boot and back seats.
Just look for a parking space by the entrance of the market and open your boot, business don set.

I made this suggestion because the OP has a car already and it can also give him time to do other business if he wants.

This one Mr Snake Lover is the one doing the posting today, Hmmm

J.K.

bigpicture001:
Ladies are really very senseless..how can someone outside your relationship,who doesnt know your guy or sacrifices and how deep u guyz are committed tell you he is a dupe and you will simply believe them...its very funny...my ex help me twice with finance,hundreds of it..i put it in a huzle which crashed alongbwith my money and monies from.loan..i was in deep shit..i continued to fight...she was even telling me to take it slowly..i wouldnt rest a bit..trying all my best to get the shit standing again.....

When ibfound the way forward..i was happy and a rival girl who has always admired me from afar gave me a two weeka financial lifeline to test my new formulae ....it worked..but befor e i could say jack..its two week, dou i made money with her finance...now granted i now know the secret..i went to freinds who as usual will hiv stories..i went back to my gf..but sh still refused...

Being convinced i now know the way,i begged and begged her, sh den accepted to to suport but wants out in the rrlationship same time if i collect the money...i beged her i couldnt break up beacuse of money..but babe was serious...i took the money...went back to friend ..and in a month av doubled the money cleared my debts except her..sent her evidences..ask her to return..but babes said friends adviced her that am after her money..i was schocked...

Main reason being this girl cantbeven trust what she knows and tested,she prefferes waht someone else who haven't met me told her about me...i was more dissapointed than heartbroken....she is a fool...everyone has gone their way two nd half years thrown away....we have alreadybstarted making pkans to settle down next year...

I later realize that until a lady becomes old she will always think there is a better man better than even will smith till realiAtion hitbher at 35. Anyways good luck to her

Wow, very challenging bro.

I was this girl, she's a student of one of the top private unis.

When we were dating I was working as a teacher, a graphic designer, a web developer and designer and at some points I worked with INEC and in a company on night shift.

Early last year, I stopped the job because the management couldn't pay Degree holders ND above, that same period my system(PC) crashed, my house rent expired(with no option to renew it i.e quit notice).

I tried starting my biz in that city but the cost of getting and setting the premise up was on a very high side, so I decided to leave the city for a more affordable and conducive location.

Normally, I have to tell her about. So, I told her but her response was "never, don't even think of it.", she said if I take the move, I should forget about her.

Truth is I cherished her, that made me confused on what to do, but after a lot of pondering/thinking for months, I decided to move. That was the beginning of the end of the relationship.

Later that year, I started my business and to God be the glory I'm doing well now.
I tried reaching out to her few months ago but it seems she is not yet over the pain of the breakup.

We loved each other sincerely to the best of my knowledge but she was the one that initiated the breakup by telling me "if I relocate that I should forget about the relationship."

The broken relationship made me not to have interest in any thing relationship till date.


Bro, God's plan is the most important o.

seanwilliam:
I’ll disown him as my son , if he were to be one..

Nonsense ..

Why would someone be advocating that a man should be 100% financially responsibility in this kind of economy??

Honestly, that is why it is not advisable to date talk more of marrying a jobless and idle lady with a high level of ENTITLEMENT MENTALITY in this economy.
Mehn na dye for the man wey go marry that kind lady.

Note: A lady may be jobless but not idle with entitlement mentality and still be supportive while doing her vocational training.

I have seen ladies without jobs getting married and from their husband's homes they became fashion designers, bakers or whatever they want to be.

igwebest23:
This is too much for me. I have had enough. I got married to my wife last year October 2020. I did both traditional wedding and white wedding, spent a million plus.

If what you posted is true and the real situation.

Do not to disclose the actual amount you earn to her.

You guys should have a heart to heart talk, if you're making 400k in a month, tell her you make 300k, 200k etc.

Reason is, it will help you in making savings for investments or business or things you may want to do later, and again she won't be nke to see you finish.

Note: If you tell her the actual amount, she will always want to balance/equate your responsibilities with your income.

Lastly, impregnate her asap. This will give you a form of authority over her, and it will bring her pride and ego down a little.

Even if you guys decide to go separate ways which I don't wish for your marriage, she will always feel cheated or defeated(due to the tag single mother) and you won't feel cheated over the money you spent because it produced a fruit.

Lastly, if the issue is getting out of hand, involve the two parents or the marriage sponsors.

Note: Filter every advice under this post before taking heed to them please, to avoid taking a wrong step.

Best of luck!

seanwilliam:
just shut up jare!!!

Who bears the house responsibilities?? Who paid for foods , her transport and other stuffs? You're just dumbass nigha... I feel like slapping u

OG, pity him abeg.

I wonder how he tutors those that register on his dating whatsoever app with this kind of reasoning or mentality.

[quote author=wwwihy post=102143580]You are very selfish and don't love her.... how would you not pay for then Would be wife instead of spending lavishly on one useless wedding ceremony[/quote]If I call you a fo...ol now, it will be as if I am insulting you, meanwhile you showed the characteristics of one.
Do you even understand what he posted at all?

They were not married when she requested for the money.
Had it been he gave her the money and the lady dumped him since they are not yet married at that time, you will be the first to call him names.

bigpicture001:
Financial compatibility is now a big issue in marriage much bigger than even cheating....

My ex dumped me cuz of that..i was in very dire need in my huzle..which is very glaring, after all friends have failed to bail me out.she did..nd angrily quitted the relationship cuz according to her its a man dat would giv a lady not the other way round.....

The biz later picked up vry good and earns me 6digits now..

Too many unsupportive girls everywhere..according to them supoort is only in prayers.....

Good one, I also had similar experience.

Most times, when we lost our partners due to struggle/hustle, it always act as motivation to a bigger and better level if we remain focus.

The comment above said it all about unions in Nigeria.

Anyway, if they increase it, na customers/consumers go hear am pass because goods and services go cost, companies/producers go increase their prices, distributors/wholesalers go increase their own, retailers won't be left out of the price increment but consumers will be at the receiving end of it.

I know everyone is a consumer one way or the other, but consumers pass consumers.

Those in the process(producers, sellers etc) won't feel it much because they also increased their prices to meet up with the harsh condition due to the petroleum price increase but those working e.g civil servants, private workers etc., will feel it well because their salaries still remain the same.

Ogun state is the headquarters of human resources mining corporation.




Anytime I'm passing that area at night, na top speed thing.

Asgard73:
Igbo Dey hustle pass Edo Bini girls

Lie small small
For Italy.. you go see Bini wey stand for under sun Dey wait for prick .. and Dey go still fvck her for Bush undersame hot sun

You don’t know benin girls

Visit Libya and Italy your mind go quench for una girls.. travel first

No mind that one.

Their girls wey be say na dem be the face of Ashewo and their guys face of laziness.
Ask any Nigerian person that is not from there what comes to his/her mind when he/she hear of or see/meet their girls or when they hear a girl is from their.

EdoDefence:
Rubbish post, you should spend more time creating threads on how to reduce the death casualties in Ibo land at the hands of the Nigerian army

Yet you lots want Biafra but can't stay in your land

Why not create a post on how to bring back your people in idp camp in Benin Republic or how to stop the illegal mining of human resources going on in Ogun state and other states in your region?

There are a lot of Chinese, Americans etc in Nigeria and other countries other than their country.
What will you say about them, dir.ty co.ne head?

Again...

All these people in power that doesn't know what to spend on won't see this bridge to work on.

EMEKUSBOY9:
My brother God is not man

No be lie my brother, but he no go dey happy with you if you waste the money wey him give you on top that kind person.

LilMissFavvy:
What was th reason Kim divorced Kanye, did he cheat on her? Is this not the same Kanye who claims to be born again/Pastor. Pastor that is already moving with different ladies after wife divorced him. Pastor indeed.

Keep kwayet joor.

She left him because he was struggling with a health/psychological condition not because he cheated.

EMEKUSBOY9:
Please how can i apply?



Or, where can i get a form

You get money?

MasonKendall:
Best? In terms of what? Man am not talking money-wise am talking football wise, EPL before the Guardiola era was trash. No teams played attractive football neither did the teams attack on a teamly level. All they wanted was counter attack. Prefer the German bundesliga to this EPL crap.

Learn to separate personal view/opinion from general view/opinion.

The general view is EPL is the best, your opinion doesn't count.

Sometimes I wonder how people enjoy watching laliga, their games are always boring and better placed/used as sleeping dose.

One thing is certain.

This man keeps winning enemies for his tribe people...

He wont rule for ever, when he steps down, that is when his people will feel the heat big time.

This is not hatred nor bad wish but common sense.

MasonKendall:
Lewandowski of the farmers league and not Marcus Rashford of the best league on earth. The English media has truly brainwashed you.

Fvck off... Christiano Ronaldo played in EPL before Spain and Italy.

A good player is a good player irrespective of the league.

League-wise, EPL is the best.

MasonKendall:
Since 92/93 when it was renamed the UEFA champions League, only four trophies have gone England's way. Compared to Barcelona's four . Such a whack league.

Since 2019/2020 nko?

Fraud of a league, thank God people eyes don open.

No more fraud for Barça, Madrid, Messi and Ronaldo.

Lewandowski has put a stop to it.

Ludlum:
This is just a ploy by the fulani hegemony to create disunity among the yorubas.
Yorubas leaders need to be careful, religion is a very dangerous tools in a heterozygous setting.

Heterogeneous

MasonKendall:
second tier gini? And how many UCL have all the teams in the EPL (currently)won? After you minus it with real Madrid's total.

Remove the ones they won at the inception of European cup i.e 5 consecutive ones(you need to know how the cup started to understand this) and place them side by side with AC Milan, Liverpool and Bayern.

MasonKendall:
After being renamed UEFA Europa League in 2009, Unai Emery has more Europa League trophies that all the English clubs combined. Chelsea-2 Manchester United-1. And this is the only trophy Chelsea has more than United

Rubbish history or record, it's a second tier cup, we EPL viewers don't care, we're more concerned with UCL.

Thank you guys(Villareal) from saving the world from heavy noise pollution.

Kudducini:
If I can vividly recall, two Spanish team has more UCL than all EPL clubs

Wrong, Liverpool has more than Barca.

Check the history behind the creation of European cup and how Madrid won the first five consecutive trophies/editions.

Remove that 5 and give credits to AC Milan, Liverpool and Bayern.

Kudducini:
Which country has been dominating in the Europa league for the past five season?

England focus more on UCL...

na stupid English clubs dey go UEL.

Can you ask same question for UCL?

The pain remain in Old Trafford, home of near success syndrome.

Yeye club.

smallsmall:
Animals like you dont deserve to have access to the Internet.
Let me assume the guy you are abusing is Yoluba and that you are into the usual, anonymous online stewpidity that is prevalent on Nairaland but the way you go about it, calling a whole race of people this and that, shows that you are not properly raised at all!
How much hatred swirls within your soul and how much damage are you doing to your soul?
I think it will be futile, to admonish you and expect you to show some decorum on a public forum, it is likely not part of your upbringing.

I am sure the British official who committed thi signoble act, when reading what ignorant dunderheads like you have turned it into (Abuse one another), will be having a great laugh and saying "Did l not tell you that those people are just sub-par humans"?

When they call you a Monkey, try to prove them wrong by your conduct, that you are a full-fledged Humanbeing, like any one else.

@Yorubas/Igbos: You can promote your Tribe, without insulting other tribes, that is what l want everybody to understand.
It is not a competition.

temitope27
BSdetector

You all have one thing in common, which is illiteracy and daftness.

Look at your mentions, they are full of errors.

I don't have time to waste with stup.id people.

Let me ignore you all because it is difficult convincing a pig not to go to a dirty stagnant water.

BSdetector:
Rettard..... that's the point, we lost a small part(a state), you lost your whole region the seize of Oyo state and 3million of your rettarded kinsmen as topping.

Go back to Primary school, your problem is not Igbo but lack of proper education.
With the free education Awolowo gave you people, you still don't know how to construct simple sentences and type words correctly.

See what dumb skull like you is typing and you expect people to take you serious.
Get out of here!

Some people will come and tell you Igbos don't do tech because their ijebu-ode newspaper said so.