₦airaland Forum

Jerryherd:
Go on Facebook and see how different things are... Pere is like their commander,

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Be deceiving yourself.

Whitemoney has the highest fan base and social media rating, followed by liquorose, even yousef pass Pere

It's just Young Boys FC

Abeg, help me ask them?

Me sef dey reason say 100k no reach, e come be 30k.

How una take dey do am?

BellaBliss:
Marry who get sense not big yansh

Biko leave those people.

Married?

Religion of peace indeed!

Hello house, I graduated earlier than 2017.

Any advice on what to do about it, please.

They are puppets sef.

They should reduce their numbers.

This post is moved twice(duplicated) to the front page.

Real dating about 20 or more, if I add short dating after knacking or due to knacking, it will be around 24 or so.

I quit dating after I broke up with my ex(recent one).
I no get time to waste again.

I'm not surprised at all.

I did my NYSC program in Kano, I supervised both waec and neco.

Liverpool have my vote on this.

Kadejo:
Please, no insult, advice needed from experienced person.

Thank you.

What IF the relationship doesn't survive the time?

She may meet another person during her NYSC program and you know what's up na?

It is either you try and convince her to agree with you doing something on her and after she grads, you guys can certify everything with marriage,
Or
You impregnate her knowingly, which in turn will require you marrying her.

My advices are valid only if you want to marry her and ready to shoulder some of her responsibilities, because as a schooling married woman, her parents go comot hands small for her responsibilities.

GerogeI:
Of course, they are not, only the people advocating the unplanned rowdy arenas where people, cars , carts and refuse struggle for road are Archaic.

Please travel some and see how other smart people engineer and plan their spaces.

Your first line is what I want to be cleared on.

BTW, why do some people assume you haven't travelled enough when you have contrary opinion on issues like this?

GerogeI:
This is the basic difference btw public spaces in first world countries vs third world shitholes. Lack of thought and planning.

Take roads for example, you construct an asphalt road, how much more does it take to add side walks, road markings and traffic light.

World class does not mean exorbitant. It is simply about space planning, social integration and public convenience. If Aba is to attract retail and wholesale shoppers from Accra, Sokoto, Abuja, Lagos and Yaounde, she must present a bright, mordern, swift and safe environment for trade.

If you are a business person beyond road side kiosks, you will know that customers value convenience next after the value of the goods.

You're making it look like lock up shops are outdated, which in the real sense are not...

Simply because the doors are changed from wooden or metal doors to glass doors doesn't change it from being a lockup shop bro/sis.

There are reasons why lock up shops won't fade any time soon, are you the one that will pay them for the loss in an event of theft etc.

Even shopping malls like shoprite, justrite, etc included lock up shops in their structures.

Get a very strong conc acid and melt the placenta with it.
Afterwards, dilute it with enough liquid and flush it down the toilet or into a water body.

GerogeI:
Someone should let the Governor know that lockup shops are outdated.

He should use the opportunity to build a multi floor mall or trade complex. And allocate shops to the traders indoors.

Provide for bulk storage, traded items need only be few on display in shops for individual buyers.

Bulk buyers will be dispatched from bulk loading gantry near bulk storage warehouses.

Transport out of the facility should be buy rail to a trucking terminal at least 20 mins away.

Shoppers should have a private car park outside the facility, with a centralized mordern bus service roving from the complex to car park and bus terminals on a timed schedule.

He should please think beyond the local and plan for the future.

You go just open mouth� waaah.

Are you the one that will help them in paying for the multi-floor shops.

In most markets, business moves faster and better in lockup shops area than that one you're speculating.

I doubt if you are a business person sef.

Being nice no dey help in a country like Nigeria.

Just be wise!

Perfect combo, well and proper representation.

With due respect sir, charity they say begins at home.

Is your wife "BEAUTIFUL?"

I'm not surprised at all.

It's the poor ones that are being controlled.

Honestly, that salary is very low, but I won't discourage you because I have done a teaching job that paid 15k immediately I stopped my first post-NYSC job of 40k due to distance and rising cost of transportation back then when I was in Lagos.
I used it to get experience and moved to another that paid more than double before I decided to start my own business.
BTW, I did other side gigs with it.

Now, any person working in a job that doesn't pay MORE than #100,000(with other added benefits) is an underemployed person to me.


Anyway, if I am to advice you, I will advice you to stay in Ibadan because there is higher probability of getting a better job in Ibadan than in Osogbo.

Aside from cost of living, what other do you think she will gain from Osogbo but in Ibadan, she may be lucky to get better opportunity as time goes on.

TheZebra

Your post is for those that cares about dating relationship.

Who has that time to devout all his attention on relationships when it won't work if you fail to cater/provide?

Nice post tho.

Veryfoolishboy:
you did well

Abi na, thanks bro.

SavageResponse:
Greed and dishonesty is in the DNA of most Nigerians. It's good to know you dealt with the guy!

No be lie bro.

I'm telling you, reason why I don't trust people again.

Na wetin I take calm myself that year when the pain of the failed business broke me down, even made me cry at a point.

Remag666:
I think you should have called him and strike a compromise in the end both of you lost out but na him own worse

Na person wey dey reachable person dey siddon discuss with na.

He blocked every means of communication, even his secretary's number was no longer reachable.

I had no option than to do what I did.

Few years ago, during my NYSC days, I was involved in a business with a foreign clients(one of the UK Pharmaceutical industries) with a Nigerian man acting as middleman.
The amount involved was large and the quantity needed was over 30 tonnes.

After spending my money running around to get info on where and how to source the needed materials and logistics(find out how to move it to Lagos), the Nigerian guy played oversmart(greed) by cutting/shutting me off and getting the material himself i.e he wants to act as middle man and the supplier(me) at the same time, just to have the profit(over 5m naira) to himself.

Sensing that something fishy has happened, I kukuma spoiled everything by alerting the white men on his actions and giving them vital details on the sourcing.

Although he was sacked and the white men sourced the material themselves, but the pain that we could have shared the money if actually that is what he wants made me feel hurt.

olu77:
You are right even the girl will agree with you because she is intelligent enough to know that. Bloggers and amateur journalist will go to any selfish extent to generate traffic

You get the point!

Lovenorth:
Don't allow envy to kill you

You have been successfully ignored.

Congrats to her...

Wrong caption... there is no such thing as world brightest student because there is no competition for that.
What is the standard of measure?
She can only be "one of the" but not "the...", to show there are other bright ones.

PS: I'm just being realistic here.

SonofGod231:
Thanks for the advice. I think,I expected more and didn't get it.Eversince,I became rebellious.
I wanted to dey my dey,make every body dey their dey.
After all I'm not begging for a job anymore or to feed.

That rebellious attitude is more reason your dad said what one of your relatives said.

Learn to make them happy, and make them be glad they hustled to give you a good life.

Sometimes ago, I discussed with my day on challenges of doing business and so on, and he said "shey you are now seeing what I saw back then"
He was referring to moments I requested for tuition fees etc and will be expecting him to give me immediately I asked for the money.

I told him he really tried and God bless him for that, I told him "I love you"
Bro, I could feel the emotions from him from my side, these things/affections matter.

How will you feel if you are the receiving end?
Make them happy abeg, even if it is for you to get your right and not lose it because of arrogance.

Things like this if not well handled may give relatives, strangers etc opportunity to infiltrate later on. Hope you get the point here?

SonofGod231:
How am I ungrateful and why the abuses.
I have heard relatives say my Dad has been saying"He would "will" his properties to charity".
I'm not happy about that.
What have I done rather than hustle but still I am not half as rich as my Dad and Mum.

Appreciate them and focus on your own hustle, if your dad notice your independence and gratefulness, I can assure you, he will have a rethink.

His decision or plan to give it to charity is because of his fear that you will mismanage or misuse it, maybe you liquidate properties alot i.e sell your stuffs alot.

SonofGod231:
My Parents left the house they built in the 90's to go live in the latest one they built.
And I have been living there alone since 2010 but of recent,any time I ask them for the documents to the house. They begin to insult me and make it an issue,that I can't wait for the man to die before I start asking for papers.
After my graduation,the car they bought for me the very first time I carry the car travel na serious accident I go get along Port-harcourt-Owerri road.
I nearly die.
As I am speaking I've sold the car,rented the place out while I allow some of my friends to occupy the b/q. I thought they will make it an issue but they've being quiet about it.
Country hard,every body dey find extra cheddars now.I don't know why God gave me this set of Parents.

Nawa for you bro...

Well, like the common saying "some don't know what they have or value what they have because it came easy."
Anyway, it is your choice and life but on a lighter note, asking for that paper when they are still alive looks awkward and desperate.
Giving you the papers should have been their own freewill(decision), not you asking.

You don't have to be ungrateful bro, you can rent the place out, sell the car and still be grateful to them or silent about it in case you don't want to tell them without making a fuss about it.

You would have understood if you didn't have such privilege.
The best thing you can do to them is make them happy by appreciating their efforts.