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Muslims are not bad, at least not all of em but, some of you have such temper. Everytime someone makes a comment, next thing you are rioting. You guys don't even wait to read some meaning into anything. Now i think thats bad.

Donzman:
I notice there are alot of Imo and Abia people around here which makes it ridiculously difficult for an Anambra born and bred like me to understand what you're trying to type.

Welcome to the club. I have given up on reading.

C'mon now, this is not the kind of thing u ask in a forum. Unless there is an attorney here, and one that is specialized in this kind of issue. Dude you need an advice from a lawyer please.

Ha, ha

what is this supposed to do to your life? The person that is asking this question. Is this of any importance to ya? There are more important things in life than this question of yours. Not very smart i must say.

Courage! Find out the history of the persons name on the back of Alababa state quarter (coin)

Ouch!

I am more than cute. I am beautiful, thats one of the reasons my hubby married me.

You are very welcome, just make the right decision for you and goodluck!

People like risks i must say!

earthrealm:
@babe1,

lmao, noooo how i go fall, i.just like the name babe1, it sounds kind of cute,

are u a nigerian?

I am Nigerian but also an American.

TaniCarr:
This is all to gut renching for me.I feel like my life is on this website!I met this guy in febuary through this rich lady at my church who appears to be a women of God.She told me about her brother and to make a long long long story short.We started talking and after a couple of weeks we started talking about the future and marriage.We pray together and everything.I made up my mind that this was the man that God had chosen for me.When I got on this site to seek opinions,my whole world was turned upside down and inside out.I am headed for manchester september8 which is a little less than two weeks away.I'm still going but I have decided,to cancel getting married to him because I'm scared.Why do men have the mind to deceive even christian women? Why can't he just see me as I am love me and want me?I'm sad and hury all at the same time.It's not fare to me at all.

I don't get it Tanicarr, Why are you not marring this guy?

Busta:
is it me or are girls these days in a desperate haste to get married


****GUYS BE WARNED****

Busta, it is not that we are in desperate haste like you put it, but women have what is called biological clock and we know when it starts ticking. You don't want to marry a 40 or 40 something old woman that will not be able to have babies or have difficulty carrying your child now do u? And you would not want your sister dating a guy for 2 to 5years only to find out that he was never gonna marry her? So c'mon now.

soulpatrol:
thanks for the advice, babe1. i think some guys just need a little pushing sometimes. because he might just be taking his time and the girl is wondering when is he ever going to bring it up. they need some encouragement when it comes to having the TALK. up until now, i really didnt care about committment, but seeing as i aint no spring chicken no more , i'm kind of wondering whats going on in my relationship, where its heading to. (going on three years) ive initiated the TALK with my partner time and time again, but he doesnt seem to be too concerned about the future. he never brings it up, i always have to make the first move to ask. so im contemplating moving on. because i don't want to hang around and eventually find out that i was wasting my time

Three years is actually a long time but maybe the first few years you were not ready and maybe he was not, but if you think you are ready and you ain't getting nothing out of him, then maybe you need to really tell him that you want him to give you an answer but on the other hand, if he is not established, that could be another reason beacuse most real men don't want to live off a woman. Try and talk to him again and ask him what his reasons really are and if you love him and wanna hang around much longer, do it. You might not regret it, but being that you alone know your man, i am sure you can figure out if he is just there for a ride or if it is ever gonna happen. It being marriage but If you are religious, pray over it. Goodluck!

Eiya,,ndo, pele sorry!

chinani:
Birth control isn't fool proof, esp if she's taking antibiotics. Just wanted to throw that out there. Be safe folks.

Do people take antibiotics all year round and whenever? Hmm!

zebudaya:
drop it the first time. most people don't have AIDS , it's more exciting that way.

Huh? What world do you live in Sir?

bumstuff:
Well its not always easy to get married to ones 1st love because except you’re well of age before meeting your 1st love, I mean you’re already thinking about marriage before you meet him/her.

Well said, because most of the time you are too young to even know what love is! Some people have first love at 12 or 15 yrs of age without sex but you sure ain't ready for marriage at that age, unless you keep the flame till you are of age.

dearie:
@ babe 1,
Thanx for buzzing in, but i wasn't particular about the oil companies, it was a general question!

Oops my bad. I guess there was so much talk about oil companies, i lost track of your question.

To tell you the truth, you really don't need to drill anyone. When a guy is ready for marriage, he will ask you and if you are dating someone and know you are ready and they haven't asked, then you can have the TALK but it should be a normal conversation, not asking with anger. And depending on their response, you should know where the relationship is going from there. Mine was ready and asked and i was ready so i gladly said yes and yes and yes. You don't have to ask a guy about future plans if they are serious, they will let you know but the ones that don't ask, i would think after 3months with someone, you should be able to ask whats up? Love doctor babe1 here

Yes clocky.

You must be out of your mind, who wants to join anyone across the niger? maybe you and all your friends but no way me. I don't care where the money comes from, home is where your heart is. He lives in Asaba and thats his state capital, so he better bring that money, cos i want some too.

I have no clue, i was busy watching after my daughter crawling all over the place. Forgive me lord for i have sinned.

Maybe you dude, but not me. But different folks different strokes!

Whocares where she lives, as long as she ain't your mama or someone's wife.

Messy!

I know that there is no way in hell, i would attend an ex's wedding but on my wedding day two of mine were there. I for one didn't invite them. My family did because we all are family friends. It is really up to you what you wanna do but if you do decide to go, girlfriend, make sure you are looking good aiight? Cool!

Nada, why would i be missing anything that has to do with my ex. Thats the more reason why he is an ex and if you are gonna be with another man and missing your ex, then something ain't right.I would have married him if that were the case. I have all i need and then some in my hubby, so ex poof be gone.

All i can say is OMG, what goes around, comes around! You knew what you were doing when all this was going on, you can apologise all you want and i hope they forgive you but let all be in your past. Move on please.

I don't know how old you are when you talk about age, but if you are teens, then no problem but when you become 20 and 30 something, i tell ya, age would not be an issue then because, you are most likely to meet a guy that is 25 and he acts more mature than a guy that is 35 and it goes both ways, so it all really depends on individuals. And what age group you are talking about. Another thing being that when you find true love, and i mean true love, that is when age becomes nothing but a number.