₦airaland Forum

bukatyne:
Una blood don mix abi?

bukatyne, I don't understand you. What blood did you mix?

bukatyne:
Is This Babe?

Color me shocked

The elections will surely be Good.

I like to reference Nigerian because that is What I am familiar with. I don't even reference African men because that cut across a lot of dynamic cultures.

Like I said Some years back, the 'fight' now should be mental.

If people's mentality do not change, We will be stuck in the same spot.

wetin dey shock una?

Honestly, the solution lies with women. They are the ones that want to change the status quo.


So far women like the one in the OP exist, men like shymexx will continue to think that's the picture of the ideal woman. And so far women remain marraige hungry, the men will continue to go for those type of "superwoman" women.
Like someone said "who no like mumu person? ".

The women that isn't the woman in the picture will always be considered a "bad wife", "non-wife material". And by natural selection, they become extinct.

coogar:
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gross, but I'm right.

edwife:
Nah,you can-just like you can control who you want to have sex with.@rape,not all rape victim get wet,i can guaranty you that;especially when they are brutally raped that's why they bleed most often.

I never said all ráped women got wet. Some did. Some didn't.

Assuming they were not brutally raped (not all rápe cases are brutal), they do get wet. Glad you agree.

yes, you can control who you have sèx with. But you can't control how your body responds when it's down to the wire.

Coogar may not like the sight of fat girls; but tie him down and bring a fat girl (gbogbo big girl) to "ride" him, he may not respond, but his pènis will.

Abi Coogar?

edwife:
Now this is sickening!

Never will i consider such a fellow as normal,never....

Lol. But it's nature. You can't control how your body responds.

You can control what you expose yourself to.

Even women that are being ráped get "wet". Do they like getting ráped? No. Can they help how their bodies respond? No.

edwife:
Well those women are weirdos if you ask me and i won't be surprise that the 35% are white women.

It's all in the mind.....

why white women?

I don't think they're weirdos. It's just nature. It's like a man being tied down and his daughter walks up to him to give him a mindblowing head.

yes, his mind hates the situation, but his pènis will respond to stimuli....100%.

They all have valid arguments. Very solid points. And that's why there will always be husbands, wives and side chics.... till thy kingdom come.

freecocoa:
Lol

Okay then, what's your issue with the NL version?

its fun to get under people's skin. plus i know all the feminism chants na wash.

freecocoa:
Good to know.

I'm alright, just kinda exhausted from cooking, cleaning and being an african woman. *yawns*

Hubby and the kids are doing great.

Been meaning to ask your take on feminism, mind sharing?

I don't even know. all I know is I'm anti-feminism on NL.
In the real world, it's more complicated for me to hate or love it.

freecocoa:
BABE3, how are you?

Fine. Hawayou? Hubby and the kids?

DollyParton1:
You are just full of shīť.
Thats the problem with people like you, you think its only when someone gets married and have kids that they can speak on issues like this.
We watch people like you in the society, and we learn from the shït u pull with your family.
Nigga go through ur posts again you sound like a slave master to your wife.

I don't think there's anything wrong or unfair with the way timbuktou runs his family.... he pays all the bills; she does all the chores; she keeps most of her money to herself.

Super fair! He can claim head-ship.

The problem though is with the economy, most homes need the 2 hands on deck when it comes to providing. In this case, it's only fair they share the chores. But the men in these homes don't want chores at all.

Any woman that puts up with that is a masochist.

Like that woman in OP's picture, the excess baggage must be giving her orgasms.

pickabeau1:
^^^ finally someone who lives in the same Western 'paradise' (as some of our ladies here put it) and can say it for what it is

Too many ladies here just assume abroad - everything is dandy

Too much naija men bashing

Don't we have white trash abroad
Don't we have white people on benefits?

Yet sell these girls abroad is utopia and they flock like moths to the flame

I agree with damiso too and slimyem.

The "problem" is very universal.

Hollywood and Disney paint the white man as the "ideal modern man", and we believe it. The true picture of a typical western family is very different.

the white man complains of his wife getting fat after babies. He also uses that as an excuse to cheat.
the white woman too complains of being overwhelmed even with the availability of dishwashers, vaccum cleaners etc.

a typical white male (young or old) still expects females to cook for him while he plays fifa '15.

Like slimyem said, the gender equality thing is going in the wrong direction.

The men are still stuck in their old ways/roles. They dont feel the need to change since its women that want equality anyways. But for gender equality to work in any setting, both parties have to actively change their ways.


I don't see that happening anytime soon.
We can force men to pay child support and outrageous divorce settlements. But can we force them to do dishes and help in the kitchen?

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alutacontinua:
and what next if all these come out positive?

ask for dad's blessings by fire by force.

My point is, it'll be better if she's totally sure if he's the right man before involving her dad.

Herzumpther, I'm so sorry to burst your bubble.

Since your dad is against you marrying this guy, you'll need to let go of the emotions/butterlies and start doing your homework about the guy, logically.

The worst place to be in a marriage as a woman, is having a bad spouse and having parents that warned you against him. You'll be completely alone if you later find out this man isn't who you think he is.

so firstly,
-you said he shuttles from Nigeria to america. Have you made sure he doesn't have a second life in America?

secondly,
-you said he's a virgin and you're not. I think it's important to make sure you're sexùally compatible. I don't know how that'll happen but I believe it's important, to avoid stories that touch

sexùal incompatibility which often leads to infidelity is a leading cause of divorce.

thirdly,
-How well do you know him ? Knowing someone on the surface is way different from knowing someone on a deep level.


You should ponder on those. Get a pen and paper. Let go of emotions. Do your pros and cons list. Do a background check too.

wonlasewonimi:
lmao who is denzel2009 E gbami o, I'm doyin13 too, they will still call me lalasticlala soon

You don go sign on to your babe3 account

stop panicking. I'm only using your mumu logic against you (though I am right). Since you say I'm coogar, it's also safe to say you're denzel2009.

coogar:
wait, wonlash is also denzel?
the same envious denzel2009 on your thread? hahahaha - fowl yansh don open ö.

denzel, it shall not be well with you. it was never well with you from the outset though, so this isn't a curse at all. your status quo from birth is "unwell"

oloshious fellow.....

yes, the same one. Very troublesome and nosy boy.

wonlasewonimi:
YES SIR...OGA MI OLODO SIR MO JUBA



Don't be deceived he operates the moniker BABE3...It's amusing when you see him quoting 'her' comments.

denzel2009, I'm not coogar... and if you're so sure of your claim, prove it or forever be quiet.

Why would coogar be following himself ? Denzel, you need blood tonic.

coogar:
i am yet to see the so called post.
surely, you guys are just ruffling feathers to give it back to the coven witches. if any of youse have a link to the post, share it. i want to know the obese single mother of 2 with an abusive alcoholic father
i just hope it's not miss jackson - the one with fish oil on her lips.

Fish oil o... chei!

who's miss jackson again?

thetruthnl:
BABE 3 please come back with the revelation already,i can't post it and stop some old witch from crying .e pain am like this?there is no smoke without fire

Jesus Christ. This boy wants to.put me in trouble.

why can't you post it? The same fear wey dey catch you na the same fear wey dey catch me.

the person haven't done nothing to me; can't reveal. Ask coogar to post it. He has the energy to fight people off.

coogar:
where's the post?
i hope you are not kidding or trolling. if these witches descend on you.......i hope you got the ammo to fight them off.

bruhhhhh My fighting days are over.
I'm a proud feminist. Feminists don't open each other's yansh in public, except they give me a reason to.

Trade secret..

coogar:
however, there are people raised by single parents and they hate every man they come across based on their difficult childhood. they have allowed their ugly past to becloud all their senses of reasoning and when they see any man, they always see their deadbeat dads in him.

these kinda women should be avoided. they can never see anything positive in men. as far as they are concerned, all men are monsters, rapïsts, child abusers, alcoholics, etc. personally, i would like to avoid posters like this in the family section......i dunno about you.

bia, chukwudi,

you're giving these people too much info. As soon as I figured her who the person was, I was like "no wondaaa she hates men sooooo much". it all started to make sense...

coogar:
where is the post? can i pay to see this particular post? you mean thetruthnl isn't lying after all?

is babyosisi reading this?
is cococandy reading this?

Sheisty af.

I dunno about the other accusations, but the single moda one?? Very true.

baby124:
Na wa o.



But so what if she is a single mum and had a dead beat father. What is wrong with that? Is everyone's life perfect So no one can be free to come to this section to air out their problems. We all have to act pretentious. Whoever she is God bless her. I probably saw that post, and i truly dont care to make it an issue. As it is not an issue at all. A lot of people here were raised by single mother's. I wonder how that is some kind of insult.

whoever said it was an insult?
I'm only confirming that there is a single desperate moda with a deadbeat fada in our midst.

cococandy:
Really? So the single mother of two with a drunk father told him this about herself?
Or I told him about my husband's numerous jobs?
I believe him

You're smart.
You know when someone is making things up out of their sick imagination.

....the single desperate moda with a deadbeat fada...

when thetruthnl posted yesterday, I did my research and found out who the person is. The thread where she posted "her story" is still very much alive....

All I have to do is copy and paste the link to the thread log off, and cross my legs.
But nahh

coogar:
obara jesus!!!!!!!!!!

Jesu Kristi Oluwa !!! "I" and "O".. our very own I and O ...

No wondaaaaaa... No wonder she's forever bitter.

thetruthNL, more tea pls...

thetruthnl:
Don't worry,she will soon quote me that's if she can withstand herself!

They'll never own up. But lemme take a guess

Does her username start with an 'I' or a 'J'?

Is she a well known feminist?

Nawa for thetruthNL o.... what's the use of half gist?

Who is the desperate single MODA with a deadbeat FADA?

coogar:
come, do you work for GCHQ or CIA?
who has an alcoholic for a father?

I really want to know too.

thetruthnl, don't leave us high and dry..

cococandy:
there are conflicting theories about soy milk and soy products and breeast cancers.
You can google 'soy and breasttt cancer' to read up the different articles on the issue although it is still an on going research.

So far they (researchers and scientists) have been able to agree that it worsens the case for those who already have breastt cancers and has been shown to stimulate the growth of tumors in women with family history of cancers but they don't know yet if a woman who isn't prone to cancers may develop it when she consumes too much soy products.

They have adviced women to consume it in reasonable quantities and always stuff up on veggies and fruits for balance.

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Well there's no smoke without Fire so me I kuku stop the soy kpam kpam. I can't be playing Russian roulette with my lovely brreasts

Every food is carcinogenic nowadays, especially in that yeye America.

I actually think foods are safer to eat in Nigeria than in America. You wonder why organic/real foods are so expensive in America.

moca:
I don't know if it's onlyy me this happens to.
I'm lactose intolerant and I hate it.
I can only take milk with pap.
It's so bad I don't drink our normal beverages or lipton/coffe and milk.
I thought it will stop but it's very stubborn.
Every day I will be buying milk I won't join in drinking
Okay o.
They said alternative is soy milk but I don't like it.

Adults shouldn't be drinking milk. We were weaned for a reason. They're for babies and baby cows.

They say soy, rice, or almond milk are "better" alternatives. Not sure if they're any good.

Fhemmmy:
No need for us to get into that anymore, if you have a wife and there is a problem and one has to leave the house that day for peace to reign, and you will sit in the house to see your wife pack a bag and leave the house for the night and you able to sleep well, then, bro, you are not a husband but a co-tenant with such woman . . . you ought to protect her as a wife and when she is HOT, you cool her down, if MOST men could get off their high horse and reason with their wife, so many wahala could be averted.

In this day and age of gender equality. Oga fhemmy, you're forgetting that men and women are now equal. Why can't SHE be the one to leave? Why must HE be the one to calm her down when things get heated?

Why must HE be the one to protect her? Protect her from what sef? Hyenas and tigers?