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Tunagee:
The truth is she has never been intelligent, and does very annoying things, hence my verbal abusive nature towards her. The worst part is that she allows her mother to be dictating terms for her

You knowingly married an unintelligent woman?
What was your attraction?
Her breasts?
Whatever attracted you should be strong enough to keep you.
Let this be a lesson to the young people out there
Choose wisely
I don't even want to comment on your admitted verbal abuse since i see you are already in pain.
Since you admit you have a problem there,tell her the same and stop abusing her verbally.
I would also leave you if I were her

GOFRONT:


Estar was my crush way back Until Tubaba came in with his functional preeq....

Her Velvety voice tho!!!

She dated tuface?

He needs psychiatric help.
He is not a preacher

All rejected,expired, tired,worn out and retired US artists end up in Nigeria

Tunagee:
My wife started behaving strangely immediately I lost my job in April 2017. She leaves home to her mum at the slightest disagreement without even communicating or making to express her feelings; and to worsen it, her mum gives her a great welcome with a room and parlour for her to stay, without even calling me to discuss what the problem. Whatever her daughter says is always the final, and she concludes on that.

My wife literarily destroyed my image before my in-laws to such an extent that I can't even visit them again. She tells them i insult her and her parents, and i make negative remarks about them, that i abuse her verbally at the slightest provocation. Several lies against me that I did not allow her travel out, I don't give her money, I told her not to have another kid, that I told her not to work, her mother has decided to keep her with her as I speak without even calling me to discuss, even despite all my appeals. She has been with her mum now for almost ten months(my wife is a fully grown legally married faithful woman of almost 40 years)

All these disrespect, probably cos I lost my job two years ago of which I fulfilled all responsibilities to the home. i don't drink, i don't smoke, don't womanise(even till now) I have never beaten her, I never another child out of my matrimonial home, and never impregnated another woman.

Rather than resolve her marital problem by discussing with her husband, she takes it to her family claiming emotional abuse. Fine, I agree I get provoked cos of her persistent shortcomings, and of course, frustration which leads to unguided vocal utterances towards her, but this could have been resolved easily without having to involve her whole family. Now what she keeps telling my family is that her family said she should still hold on at her mum's place. This is the 10th month since October 2018.

The last time my mum went to her mum's house precisely June last month, she was asked if she was still interested in her marriage, and she said yes, that she does not intend leaving her marriage; but we should give her time. Her mother practically told me to go and do something meaningful, and that there is time to marry, separate, reunite and hustle. Her mum is the one controlling her movements and everything about her for now; not even giving her room to give me audience.

Pls advise on what to do.

We are legally married.

I feel for you.Ndo.She is very immature.
There was a time my husband had no paying job for about 2 years and worked as a volunteer.I was the only earner. my parents came to stay with us for 4 months and never knew of this.
Your wife is foolish but please be patient with her.I can't imagine how painful this is for you.
How about her dad,what's his opinion or the wife wears the trouser in the house.
I pray you get a job soon.

Tunagee:
My wife started behaving strangely immediately I lost my job in April 2017. She leaves home to her mum at the slightest disagreement without even communicating or making to express her feelings; and to worsen it, her mum gives her a great welcome with a room and parlour for her to stay, without even calling me to discuss what the problem. Whatever her daughter says is always the final, and she concludes on that.

My wife literarily destroyed my image before my in-laws to such an extent that I can't even visit them again. She tells them i insult her and her parents, and i make negative remarks about them, that i abuse her verbally at the slightest provocation. Several lies against me that I did not allow her travel out, I don't give her money, I told her not to have another kid, that I told her not to work, her mother has decided to keep her with her as I speak without even calling me to discuss, even despite all my appeals. She has been with her mum now for almost ten months(my wife is a fully grown legally married faithful woman of almost 40 years)

All these disrespect, probably cos I lost my job two years ago of which I fulfilled all responsibilities to the home. i don't drink, i don't smoke, don't womanise(even till now) I have never beaten her, I never another child out of my matrimonial home, and never impregnated another woman.

Rather than resolve her marital problem by discussing with her husband, she takes it to her family claiming emotional abuse. Fine, I agree I get provoked cos of her persistent shortcomings, and of course, frustration which leads to unguided vocal utterances towards her, but this could have been resolved easily without having to involve her whole family. Now what she keeps telling my family is that her family said she should still hold on at her mum's place. This is the 10th month since October 2018.

The last time my mum went to her mum's house precisely June last month, she was asked if she was still interested in her marriage, and she said yes, that she does not intend leaving her marriage; but we should give her time. Her mother practically told me to go and do something meaningful, and that there is time to marry, separate, reunite and hustle. Her mum is the one controlling her movements and everything about her for now; not even giving her room to give me audience.

Pls advise on what to do.

We are legally married.

Chao
I feel for you.Ndo.She is very immature.
There was a time my husband had no paying job for about 2 years and worked as a volunteer.I was the only earner. my parents came to stay with us for 4 months and never knew of this.
Your wife is foolish but please be patient with her

BlackPantherCri:
Na so Bobrisky take start until he finally blow.
Na so James Brown take blow.

No worry Mr. Tranny. You go soon blow

Exactly.
Once upon a time an ugly dirty cross dresser with expired wig wearing 3rd grade okirika was caught in Lagos and paraded by police.Today it is called Bobrisky

Damoche10:
Walahi, if na me e haapen to, I go finish am with serious beating strip am naked then push him out on the street...

The bobo fit strong pass you

Wow
I'm in luv
I hope they don't eat him

GistMore3:
Operatives of the National Agency for the Prohibition of Trafficking in Persons (NAPTIP) have arrested a 41-year-old engineer, Festus Femi, for allegedly raping three pupils of the same secondary school. .
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The first victim, a 13 year old Junior Secondary 2 pupil, stated that she met Festus through her classmate, who asked her in school to escort her to Festus’ house, and claimed he was her uncle. .
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On getting to the house, her classmate and Festus went out briefly, and on their return she told the victim that Festus wanted to have sex with her. The victim’s refusal and pleas of being a virgin fell on deaf ears. .
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Festus turned the volume of the sound system very high and raped her in the presence of her friend. He further threatened to kill her if she tells anyone.
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The second victim is a 12 year old Junior Secondary 2 pupil. The same classmate took her to Festus’ house and told her that Festus wanted to have sex with her and he also raped her.
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The third Victim, a 15 year old girl, is the same person that introduced the other two victims to the suspect. She stated that Festus was her former neighbour and each time he had sex with her, he gave her N500. .
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He also told her to bring girls for him and he would give her N300. She stated that so far, she had brought 5 underage girls to him. She further corroborated the first victim’s story on the rape and threat to life.
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In a related development, a 51-year-old bursar of Government secondary School Dangara, Abaji- Abuja, was also arrested by NAPTIP officials for allegedly drugging, raping and impregnating a 15-year-old SS3 student.
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The suspect, Luke Gabriel Ekundayo, was the victim’s guardian in school, and she spent short holidays in his house. .
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The victim, an orphan who was on Scholarship, was threatened by the suspect into having sex with him continuously, or he would tell her sponsors to stop paying her school fees. The rape continued until the victim got pregnant.

See more photos; http://gistmore.com/two-men-arrested-for-raping-several-schoolgirls-in-abuja

I think 4 out of 5 Nigerian men are rapists

This.coza of a man is guilty as hell

They have sambisa forest which they say is thousands and thousands of acres.why can't they lodge and quarter their nama in portions of the land there.
There should be enough plants to eat there

Dem no dey sell rubber for your town?
Go ahead and open maternity

Timih:
Thank you all for all your inputs,i truly appreciate.
I've talked to him this evening, I asked him questions. He was trying to lie and do some sorts but I found my way in.. He said its not his first time of touching the girl's breast and she too do touch his pen.is sometimes. I was seriously down when he said this. He said more than thrice. I asked him why he didn't tell me or his mum, he said did day he wanted to tell me I was on call and mom was busy also then later mom called for night prayer. I was like, you could have told me still but I guess he's was afraid or ashamed to talk because I always give him attention when he calls me.
Well, I have talked to him like a son and brother, I've told him the implications of what he did and how bad it is,I've told him that he should report anybody that touches his manhood to me. He was close to tears though but I didn't threaten him throughout our conversation.

I've changed his plans, limited TV, more time with me, siezed his ball (still have some toys with him) and I'll have to make him spend more time with his books.. Hopefully he will change.. He was kind of relaxed I didn't beat him though

I haven't informed my wife about anything cos she's also faced a lot .. I seriously don't know how she will react and I don't want her to bounce on the maid, I just looked for something to make sure the maid goes and I've called the person that brought her that she's done here. I didn't even talk to the maid. I don't want to let anger take a high toll on me.. I just left her.

When they pick her up tomorrow, I'll tell her ward about what she did. I'll also take him to school tomorrow and tell his teacher talk to him and watch him too.

I pray he change...thank you all.. May God keep us and our children safe

Stop watching sexually explicit shows where the kids are around.
Stop squeezing your wife where he is
He learned all that from somewhere
Let your next nanny be a toothless grandma

Jesu
Was she killed by a bible?

A prostitute that jumped out of the window to escape a fire in her apartment may have lost all her wordly possessions but her source of income is still intact.
Kemi you can leave ibadan and Nigeria but the madness still dey

The young man is now dead and unable to defend the accusations.
What a friend

Coza wedding

A 7 year old is already squeezing breasts
You and your wife have a 14 year old slave in this modern age.Maybe this is punishment for your wickedness.
Go and hire a proper nanny
Idiots
How are we not sure she is not doing with your son what you are doing to her.Mr peeping Tom
Perverted house of horror

Umu buhari

Some unfortunate agberos will pay

Igbos keep off.it is a family issue

Hahahahaha
Mr integrity
Intergrity wey dey smell like the nyash of fulani nama

Yorubas and fulanis are brothers.this is a family affair.
Their big bros boo boo is on top of the matter

I hope you don't bring AIDS and dash her from your night crawlings.
You think.all your readers are daft
This is what happens when a womam.marries an immature,insecure, under achieving man

He must be a rapist
Mr primate

Men tell your evil mothers and sisters to stop pushing your wife into desperation
The women who do these things have wimpy husbands that can't stand up to their evil family members harassing their wives because of no baby
Women don't allow yourselves to be manipulated into deceit and harming yourselves.
The Cyptic baby may come but you will be living a lie and may not be alive to enjoy him or her

The man needs a haircut.he looks too archaic for that fine lady

Does he have green card yet if not na permanent return o

FreeSpirited:
Bitchiness, nagging too loud and creating scenes either in public or at home when we have issues....I hate those lousy traits in woman..it makes them looks like shit to me no matter their beauty I quickly start contemplating break up. I want peace, I hate stress or avoidable quarell.

Some women no get sense, small issue like this and they start shouting and cussing up and down..... If u try that with me and after warning u, u dint heed, then your days are numbered with me. All I need is peace.

You sound like the bitchy male type already so makes sense u wouldn't want your type

Physical abuse.I will be gone forever

Buhari is a loser