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This is child abuse
I don't think the wife is a fully grown woman like me .it must be a little girl.you know how they like to marry minors.
Poor thing got frightened.

Alimi chaplet kwa?
Dem don enter uka ndi fada

Wonderful
Please where is the list.I hope boo boo tops that list followed by oshiribanjo

needful:
One funny thing about this men is that, they are all hypocrites. I wish all women will be cheating like that when they are maltreated. It pains men to see women cheat but they classified themselves as having right to change soup as they want. That is why I like America, u cheat in secret and I cheat on a broad day light. 99% of men in Nigeria are chronic cheaters, why are u guys pained so much that a neglected wive found herself a solace in someone else. Nonsense

Any man who cheats deserves a woman that will cheat on him for years .in fact a woman that will bear children fathered by other men under his roof.
That's a good payback for such a man
When he clocks 65 then he discovers he has no biological kids by the wife he neglected
Two can play that game

Tedpgrass:
You can not speak for Busola,sir.
You're not in her head nor offer psychological support to her.
Stop all this self-justification tirade, sir ..
The face in the papers does not look like that of a woman who's had closure..

How do you justify the (collateral) damage done to their children and other family members .. They have to live with the debacle for decades to come..
The children are the ones I'm most concerned about. They have to pick up the shattered pieces...

The only positive things from this is.. There's an increased awareness of the subject (though the legal remit is poorly understood and there's a need to change legislation ) and hopefully less inclination to re-offend on the part of the accused if the allegations are true apart from pecuniary gains to the accuser.


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Nigerians and their primitive reasoning.
This is 2019
There is no damage to her children and family .They are proud of her and many women and men are proud of her bravery. The shame belongs to Fatonyibo and all you rapists and rapist apologists that would demonize a victim for standing up against bullies.

NwaAmaikpe:




The Dakolos keep churning out false claim after claim.

This is a very sensational case; the type most lawyers will kill to handle so it can boost their CV.
But Falana in his wisdom declined it so it won't mess up his winning streak.
Even the blind can see that the Dakolos have lost this battle.

When Timi released the song "Iyawo mi", I knew there was something special about it.
I never knew he was introducing us to the woman who'd bring him to his doom.

I doubt there'd even be a marriage to salvage by the time Biodun Fatonyibo is done taking them to the cleaners.

Clout-seeking, sympathy hungry, mumu couple.

Abeg shatap!
You rapists and rapist apologist no go let us hear sumtin.
Keep kwayet

Foolish lazy man.
He abandons the woman and beats her up,tearing her clothes to shreds and destroys her things .why won't she find solace elsewhere?
There were some loving arms somewhere else and she fell into their embrace.I don't even blame her.
I bet you he was also cheating on her.
Thank God she has enough common sense to file for divorce before he kills her

Send then to his father's house in omuma.lead by example

gracegrace668:
Hello everyone. Please, I'm not a newbie on NL. I opened this account to protect my identity.

I never thought I'd use this word to ever describe myself. Sadly, I am an alcoholic. It has taken me a great deal of embarrassment and pain to finally come to this conclusion.

I'm a female in my early 20's. One of the first things people comment on when we have a conversation is how intelligent I am. Good enough, I fair well academically and have done so for as long as I can remember. There is this dark side of me however. I am an alcohol addict.

I've read about my condition, especially at times when I swear I would never indulge in excessive drinking anymore. A person like me is called a functioning alcoholic. I started drinking as a way to forget some emotional and troubles but as I see, this in no way helps especially longterm.

I drink everything from wine, spirits to liquor. I go out with friends that drink. I go out to drink alone. I buy some alcohol to drink at home. I go from laying on the bed to walking out to buy alcohol. I just drink, drink and drink. I'm very ashamed of this. Sincerely, I want to stop. I want to make more meaningful decisions and relationships.

Please, how do I go about this? What can I do? Is there someone/a Group that helps with this kind of condition? Please help me.

Please help me move this to the permanent site. I'll be reading for suggestions.

See the highlighted
There in lies the main issue
You have to deal with that emotional trauma first and heal from it so you don't need to medicate with alcohol anymore.What is it?
Where you raped or abused?
You may need to confront that or whatever it maybe headlong .
Did you witness violence .Was it an abortion that you can't get over?

afroniger:
https://www.vanguardngr.com/2019/07/we-will-never-leave-anambra-state-hausa-community-vows/

I hope they pay for the land.Land is not free to Igbos up north.

So the baby's father is also the grandfather

GrabHisBalls:
I don't care about his innocence, but I am more worried about Timi.

They've been married for 7yrs now and he knew about something so serious just last year. Shouldn't that tell of the kind of secretive woman he married? I let my man in the know of any incriminating past while he's asking me out. If he can't take it, he moves on.

Has Timi complained to you?
Go find your own husband jor instead of looking for balls to grab like akara

simiife:
So wat do u suggest?he shud b prosecuted 4 jumping from bed to bed as a pastor.Datz a sin against God and not man,and God will surely punish him 4 dat.

Show me a place on earth where som1 has been prosecuted 4 jumping from bed to bed bcoz he is a pastor

I don't know how to respond to foolish Questions from people without understanding.
Sorry

sassysure:
They hardly watch news on world affairs.

They don't upgrade their brains.

Go to other sites and u will be filled with shame.
No intelligent discuss here.

Any wonder why Nigeria is the way it is?
And it will get worst.

Sad
You made a point that captured my attention.
People are frustrated and taking out their frustrations on folks that seem happier than them.
That's terring but it's the answer I was looking for.
It is the closest explanation to why

sassysure:
Why are Nigerians heartless?

Hunger and depression!
They vent out their frustrations on anybody that seems to be happy more than them.

The boys(don't normally call them men) assumes that they can soar their wild oath but it's not obtainable to girls.
A girl is raped and she reported, they will start preaching how it affects her family especially children. Who told them that the children don't want justice for their mum or a closure?
Do they know if the said act has hindered their mum from giving out her best to them as a mother?
What do u get in a highly patriarchal society.
Do women have honour in Nigeria?

If ur husband shows that he truly loves you, he has become woman wrapper.
Frustrated souls.
Very wicked things.
I have never seen men as vile as these people
Like father like sons.
My joy is that there are still hood ones but few so their voice doesn't matter.

See where the men has lead Nigeria to.

And they are not ashamed of themselves.

I suspect many of the commentators are themselves serial rapists like Fratoyinbo
They are out to support their own.
Timi is doing what many men wouldn't have the balls to do. My respect for that guy has grown in leaps and bounds.
Even if nothing comes out of this complaint he has succeeded in unmasking these anointeds so that folks know that they can be touched when they mess up and God will not kill folks for them.
Secondly Busola has given a voice to rape victims.
They have nothing to be ashamed of.The rapists are the ones that ought to be ashamed of themselves

AreaFada2:
More annoying is that many are not ready to learn. It's much easier to learn a lot online now. But watching/reading gossip blogs, porn & gbe body are more up their street.

We now live in a knowledge society/age. If you do not update, you fall behind. Whether it's in law, business, ICT, AI, healthcare, education, engineering, environmental protection, green energy, etc.

You are one intelligent area fada

Wow
A confirmed killer with all the evidence is freed just like that and people are shouting that Dakolos produce an evidence to nail the ikwokirikwo 1 of krestland and the chief mounter of Coza.

Nigeria is a useless place indeed

Tamasaba:
so are u suggesting we dish out jungle justice in this case? What's ur point?

The man has filed a criminal complaint with the police,what else do you expect him to do when the police seems to be on the payroll of randy krestmaster.
It's busola today,it could be your relative tomorrow.
The injustice here should be of concern to everyone but you folks are bent on demonizing this couple.
Why?
Why are Nigerians this heartless?

AreaFada2:
Bia, where are they gonna know it from? From the failed education system? Don't be surprised if some shouting here may even have an LLB (God rescue us).

Who will tell them that it's the police & Prosecution Service who are in charge of taking cases to court? You seriously underestimate the level of ignorance among our "educated" youth.

It's appalling the level of ignorance amongst the youths.They can tell you word for word what they heard in BBNaija but totally clueless on how the justice system works.

For those who say he is disgracing his family and should be silent, in the day you cry for help,nobody will hear you.

BlueRayDick:
Some of nairalanders do not have sense and only comment on impulse.More like garbage in garbage out.

Timi stated it at the press conference how he reported the matter to the police officially 27th June and further explained how they've been to the police station on invitation for further investigation into the matter.

He didn't have issues with that and didn't come to Ur houses to tell about all that, until the lunatic kemi disclosed his home address online.

He stated that from that day he started seeing unmarked vehicles either trailing his car or his wife's. He had to raise alarm on Saturday when it was obvious they were there to abduct him on some Trump up charges. Mischief and whatever the 4ck they term it. But guess what? Falana and Falana chambers are his lawyers and they said mischief is not a crime.

It's known fact we have stupid police officers wanting to frustrate an investigation they are taking forever to start, but it's another thing entirely if some supposed educated people keep shouting go to court blah, blah blah...as if rape is a civil wrong where individuals can sue each other to court. They have reported but the police is not taking the accused to court for God's sake!

Thank God another nairalander has a working brain.
There are few posters that can articulate properly.
Go to court go to court,don't these people know there.is a difference between a criminal case and a civil case.
The Dakolos have filed charges with the police since June,is it them that should charge the accused to court in a criminal offence?
Many people here are so daft,it's not even funny

Tamasaba:
Go to court and stop this nonsense Oga. Social media would only give you likes not justice.

He had already filed a complaint but your criminal justice system is non existent.
You are the same folks that will burn a phone thief but now all of a sudden your courts are working and handing out justice to the aggrieved

akejujoe:
Busola may not get the justice she deserves but we all know she has done something courageous by coming out to say this and have saved other potential victims from pastor Fatoyinbo. Even if it was consensual sex like some idiots have said,is it right for a married pastor to be having sex with his teenage church member?

Thats how foolish Nigerians are
They are shouting he didn't rape her.is it proper for a pastor to be jumping from bed to bed with ladies in his flock .Is that part of ministry?
I wonder the IQ of the people that attend that so called church

drinoayo:
A Nigerian judge, Charles Omole, took to his Twitter handle today to give his analysis on the Busola Dakolo/Biodun Fatoyinbo rape scandal, Igbere TV reports.

According to Omole, Fatoyinbo will most likely not be convicted because the Dakolos have no substantial evidence against him.


Read what he wrote below;



Source; http://igberetvnews.com/832727/rape-fatoyinbo-will-not-be-convicted-because-busola-has-no-evidence-nigerian-judge/

The only thing this proves is that the criminal justice system in Nigeria is a sham.
A woman has evidence of her physical abuse ,the police loses the materials gathered and the abusive man was let go.
They should close down every law faculty and burn up the law schools they are producing idiots.
A man has to plead guilty to rape or abuse before a conviction?
I say seize every law certificate in Nigeria and burn it up.They are all useless

How was Bill Cosby convicted of rape 3 decades later?
Do you need a video of the act ?
The woman named people that knew of the rape back then.The men still work for fatoyinbo,has anyone questioned them.
Has fatoyinbo been questioned.
How about lie detectors?
Has the wife of fatoyinbo been questioned,there were pointers of her being aware of the husbands advances the night she went to babysit.
Has she denied the girl ever being in their home?
How about her brother that came to stab fatoyinbo back then in anger
The church folks that knew and came to beg her
Sometimes I think.many of you talking bull didn't have credit to watch the 2 hour interview but are just pulling out comments from an empty skull

I wish he had committed this rape in the USA

Unfortunately evil people full naija

GrabHisBalls:
He said so much, but ended up saying nothing. The post is filled with so much emotions than logic. First, you raised an alarm that there are armed gunmen in front of your house. Some of us were wise enough to know they can't be gunmen. Now, they were armed policemen with shabby looks. Were you expecting the police to visit you without arms?

That said, if you were forced to sign documents: why not call on your lawyer to be present before that? The police already know you to be a celebrity, so I don't expect a fowl play. Stop the media trial 'cause it's obvious this post is to tarnish the man's already tarnished image.

Umu Rapists kwenu
375 of them spotted and this is their spokesman

GrabHisBalls:
He said so much, but ended up saying nothing. The post is filled with so much emotions than logic. First, you raised an alarm that there are armed gunmen in front of your house. Some of us were wise enough to know they can't be gunmen. Now, they were armed policemen with shabby looks. Were you expecting the police to visit you without arms?

That said, if you were forced to sign documents: why not call on your lawyer to be present before that? The police already know you to be a celebrity, so I don't expect a fowl play. Stop the media trial 'cause it's obvious this post is to tarnish the man's already tarnished image.

Nigerians are indeed very wicked.
Maybe you need a taste if what this family has been through to reset your thinking.
And there are 373 morons that liked this poo?

Has tifnubu spoken?

At 74

Buhari is a goat
Every time he opens his mouth all I hear is mmeeeehhh

Tunagee:
You are right 400billionman. Its my mum that has been doing the pleading and visiting and av told her to stop, she won't listen. I last communicated and saw her on Jan 1st new year day.

Make one more attempt
Call her and apologize for being verbally abusive and decide to stop being abusive and then double up efforts to find a job or start something.
If she doesn't come back,you forget her and move on with your life ,you would have tried your best.
It takes 2 to be in a marriage.You can't force her
Her mother is obviously foolish
One of 8 wives,she obviously doesn't know what love or marriage is with her community marriage and is in no place to advise her daughter properly.
Tell your mother to stop going to beg them.They are not your life.
Be a man and determine to forge ahead.
You won't do well in any job interviews going with a defeated attitude.
Time to build up your self esteem,hang out with people that speak positive things into you and those who lift you up. .look up to Christ if you are a Christian.
I wish you the best