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RETIREDMUMU:
I will make this post more straightfoward.
I always a guy that dont have a sociable life and a shy one,i dont roll or talk to pple i dont know,even the one i know i barely talk to them.
I dont gat a bit gut to talk to girl or stay in their presence which eventually awarded me into wanking myself to releasing and also leads me to have a huge taste to search for pornography online.
I had being in this nasty lifestyle for over three years which OVER TIME RESULTED into these negative reaction:

- i got an errection in any slight body contact with the opposite sex
-i got tired and dislike any girl i see,like i dont want to be in relationship
-i got more sexual urge than normal
- i got more errection in any sight of an attrative girl
- i patronize sex brothels which i never do before in my life
- i lose my ambitions and my focus because now i feel like doing any how(spending extravagantly,dont go to church again,dont thiNK LIKE B4.....)

THESE BEHAVIOURS NOT IN ME BEFORE I START THESE HABIT

please i beg you in the name of God and Allah dont MASTURBATE OR LOOK UP FOR PORNOGRAPHY,they will over time DESTROY U!

Mods, let's help people.

Send your number let me hook you up

Iammercy2018:
Four police officers have been sacked for claiming that 360kg of marijuana which disappeared from a Police warehouse was eaten by rats.

The disappearance of the drugs was discovered during an inspection of a Police warehouse for impounded drugs in the town of Pilar, 60km outside the capital city of Buenos Aires, Argentina.

The cannabis had been in storage for two years, before it was discovered to be less than the number of kilograms initially registered there.

Of the 6,000kg that had been registered, only 5,460kg of marijuana were found.

The city’s former Police commissioner, Javier Specia, was the first suspect because he had left the inventory for the impounded marijuana unsigned when he left his post in April 2017.

His replacement, Commissioner Emilio Portero, noticed the shortfall and notified the Force’s internal affairs division, who inspected the warehouse.

Called before Judge Adrián González Charvay, Specia and three of his subordinates all offered the same explanation: the missing narcotics had had been “eaten by mice,” they said.


But forensic experts told the court they doubted even a large number of rodents could have eaten so much marijuana.

“Buenos Aires University experts have explained that mice wouldn’t mistake the drug for food, and that if a large group of mice had eaten it, a lot of dead rats would have been found in the warehouse,” said a spokesperson for the judge.

The four Police officers have been called to testify before the judge on 4 May. The judge will seek to determine if the missing marijuana was the result of “expedience or negligence.”

(Guardian)

https://www.google.com.ng/amp/punchng.com/police-officers-sacked-for-claiming-rats-ate-360kg-of-seized-marijuana/amp/

As I read this topic immediately rat passed me by

kapelvej:
Hello all, I will try and make this simple.We have been married for 6 years and two children, unfortunately there have been very few times we have enjoyed peace, I have done everything I could to make her happy, but non has ever worked.

She insults me anytime anywhere and she does not just care, her mother and brother sometimes chastise her, but she does not just listen, her mother however recently has been agreeing to anything she says or do, even with her other siblings no matter who is wrong(this is because she got a job lately and has been satisfying her mother financially). In fairness to her, she also disrespects every single person in her family, not just me alone. Also in fairness to her mum, (her mum) and her family members sometimes think I am too soft on her.

Well again in fairness to her , she exhibited these signs right from day one, not just to me but to everybody even her mother and elder ones. I explained this to the elders of the church, but they said she will change after the marriage.

Meanwhile while we were dating, there was a time I ended the affair because of her cynical behavior, and she came to beg and promised to change. I forgave her after like one month. But then, it only lasted for a while.

Many different things have happened since the marriage, even flirtatious activities, but not adultery, I have tried to handle and forgive those things.

Presently I am working in a different city, and we had a little misunderstanding and she started insulting me as usual and hung up on me. This is what she does regularly, but each time, I will be the one to call back because, I felt I should take the initiative and also because of the kids. I have told her to stop hanging up on me and insulting me on the phone. So, This time around, I refused to call her, and it has been like this for 2 months now, she refused to call as well. To worsen everything, I lost a close family member, just before this problem, she does not just seem to care. We have been like that since the past two months. Something tells me that with this kind of behaviour, she might as well have moved on, please what do you all think.

Anything we have misundertsanding , even when I try to resolve the issue, she will be busy with her phone, no matter how late it is, then immediately she drops the phone, she says she wants to sleep, and that is all.

NB. For this six years, I have been the only person working, so this is not a a case of her being the bread winner. She just got a job 5 months ago.

Touching story, is obvious that you love her...give yourself a break...life is too short...dnt go n kill ursef becos of Ur wife...if u die it won't take her up to a month you will see in Ur spirit world that she is married to another.
give her some time to get back to her senses if not file for divorce and move on with your life...this time around be patient and get a good woman...who will give you a good home.

deliciousgeh:
This is a delicate issue. Stop the quarrelling for now and solve the issue with serious prayers and seek counselling. Try not to take the issue to your pastor or parents. Take your wife out, spoil her, then have a heart to heart talk with her. Tell her the dreams, tell her you love her and won't divorce her but ask her to explain y you always have those kinds of dreams
. let her know you were hurt by the lies she told but that you are willing to forget it all if she can totally open up to any other secret she might be keeping. Please be very gentle with her o.

If you love her divorcing her is not the best
sit her down and ask her all you need to know about her...she should tell you the truth.
As per you, if you are close to God you need to be closer now...pray always read Bible...pray for your marriage.. this is a spiritual problem you need to fight spiritually and not physically..

predmine20:
This is my own cheating though it went bad because I was caught by the exam invigilator but who never cheat before as a student,where he dey.

We were to sit for maths that day.

You know na maths is not easy due to the formula this formula that or find xy in that,where I wan find am.

That day I know I was in a very big soup because It is a very must I pass this paper.

So that day I smuggled in a prepared cheat inside the exam hall and pretend like say nothing happen.

5 minutes into the exam i brought out my paper after scanning the entire classroom with my roving eyes.

As i dey busy dey download the answers inside my answer sheet na one hand just land for my shoulder,ehn i froze that moment knowing the worst is here.

Na hin the invigilator say make i stand up and go outside before my 2 korokoro eyes he tear my paper despite my cries and pleas.

That was how i failed all my papers just because of one small expo,but sha thankfully i am through with all that now as i am already an undergrage.

Cc lalasticlala

Yes o
in my ss3 and my PGD

in secondary school I will put my expo on the floor and carry a wooden plank with my leg and place it on top of the expo
I carry it away when no invigilator is around me...I was never caught
during my PGD days I jot In tiny papers and hide them under my boobs
in exam class I slot the expo in my question paper after use I keep it under my ass
unfortunately one day I was caught and taken to panel.

lalasticlala:
Source: https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Aliko_Dangote

He looks like Sani Abacha

doreto:
We are presently separated for 4 months with no contact/communication.The separation was not related to trust issues,but miscommunication,insults and the likes,no violence.

While I am in a great place emotionally,I want to attempt to reconcile our relationship.

I need ideas.Is it possible? If it is,has any one here seen a case of reconciliation after a deep marital separation? Please share with me.

Thanks.

You are the head of the family
take a bold step and reconcile with your wife
take her out to a cool and quiet place and discuss how to stay married
The both of you should find out things you all disagree on and stop
after the reconciliation visit both families for apologies.
Good luck.

OgaDonald:
@WEB.ORG.NG

Two taxi drivers identified as Nathan Ogbara, 33 and Justin Amos, 32 have been arrested by the Bayelsa State Police Command, for reportedly raping and robbing their female passenger in Yenagoa, Bayelsa State.

The Taxi drivers who were about fleeing the crime scene, were arrested at Tombia Roundabout Yenagoa and according to the State Police Public Relations Officer (PPRO), Asinim Butswat, the mobile handset of the victim was recovered from the rapists.

“On 1st April 2018, at about 0200hrs, police were alerted that a young girl was sexually assaulted and her phone was stolen from her by two men operating a taxi, at opposite Jubilee hotel, Kpansia, Yenagoa. .

The victim, 22, reported that she contacted one Nathan to drop her at her house at Agudama Epie, after she participated in a dance competition at a car wash. The suspect, called one Justin to join him. .

Along the road, opposite Jubilee hotel, the suspects parked their cars and dragged the girl to a nearby bush and raped her. They took her phone and zoomed off towards Tombia Roundabout. .

Consequently, a police patrol team arrested the suspects and recovered the stolen handset. Their taxis have been impounded and investigation is ongoing” he said.

Before now, there has also been a report of a 36-year-old commercial taxi driver identified as John Madu, who was arrested by the Police at Obehie community in Ukwa West Local Government Area of Abia State, for reportedly raping a female passenger.

The lady whose name could not be ascertained was said to be a female passenger returning to Obehie from Lagos, to meet her parents before the incident happened.

 
It was gathered that all the entreaties made by the lady to the driver not to rape her as she claimed to be a virgin, failed on deaf ears as he went on to force himself on the lady and defiled her.

cc; lalasticlala

BY WEB NIGERIA : http://web.org.ng/1613/taxi-drivers-arrested-for-gang-raping-a-girl-in-bayelsa-state-picture/

https://web.org.ng/wp-content/uploads/2018/04/Nathan-Ogbara.jpg

Make dem cut off their manhood
useless people

Mutemenot:
Hi my colleagues!!
My Dad passed away, I tried to be a man but within me im dying in pains. I have had more time here reading threads and comments just to let the pains off my mind but I haven't found a lasting consolement. May I have a way forward from you guys ?

Sorry for your lost
it will take time for the pains to go away
first have it in mind that your dad travelled outside the country
second find something that will make you happy, watch comedy movies, go out with friends for sight seeing
stay more on social media and interact with people...I don't mind chatting with you.
take heart.

ikorodureporta:
If your daughter/ sister's fiance takes this type of shoe to your house, what would you do??


Lalasticlala, d'u hav this type of shoe, lemme com & borrow

I will definitely get pairs of shoes for him

aDEOetREGE:
I'll try and be brief

1. Haircut:

one of the most irritating haircut by most Nigerian guys is 'old skul'. Don't misquote me, there is
nothing bad with it if it perfectly fits your head shape, stature, and some other things like if you have a clean face. But imagine a hefty guy, with pimples, and all that keeping this kinda haircut, no matter how neat you are, it will portray you otherwise.

A real life example is of a bald guy I saw trying hard to keep oldskul.. Like TF?

Bald guys usually look good on skin
Square faced dudes are good with low-cut
And like that, every guy should know what's best for him

Mature girls like neat and good-looking guys. This is one of the things they look out for in guys.

2. Dress sense:

mature girls don't want you to have a wardrobe as rich as hushpuppy's, NO! Even if it's just 3 cloth combinations you have, make sure you know your way around. Dont wear native to a Monday date, don't use a stripe tie on a striped or multipatterned shirt......



3. Are you yourself?

A total turnoff for mature girls is you trying to be what you are not. If you don't have one naira, don't claim to be yusuf buhari.... Don't rent cars to impress her on dates. How long are you gonna do these for? Someday she is gonna realise and she is gonna dump your fake ass.

4. Be busy:

She doesn't care what you do as long as something keeps you busy. She doesn't need you to be the managing director in shell or first bank, NO.

She needs you to be intelligent and busy, then she trusts whatever you are doing even if the return is low ATM.

Trust me, she doesn't need a man to babysit neither does she wants a man who craves attention at every damn minute. Hint: Unavailability is a good spice.

5. Smell

Imagine you wearing a multimillion naira worth of wears, shoes and blings...Fine, you killed it but how about the strong smell from your armpit and what have we. Men are wired to have strong body scents and when not properly checked, it becomes disgusting.

This applies to the mouth too. Every mouth stinks in the morning, it’s left for individual whether to let it stink through the day or not.

For those with persistent mouth odour/halitosis, a visit to a doc ain’t a bad idea after all...

Remember, always smell nice even in your private closet.

6. Loyalty:


The preceeding points are the pros of mature girls but this right here is the major con about them. Mature ladies are extremely jealous and territorial beings. They want their man loyal to them and them alone.

If you are dating one right now and know how to keep your blokos where it is, good for you..... Else, it can make you a victim of

-Death,
-Arson (burn you or your important docs)
-voodoo affliction


You know the rest!

You try
but
e never complete

chisomnunu:
lol

I can't believe this girl has a dick

cococandy:
When the beef is browned, add in the diced potatoes and cook for 3-5 mins. Then mix 2 tablespoonfuls of corn starch in cold water and add to the mix. This helps to thicken it.

Cool until thickened. Turn heat off and leave it covered. Your meatpie filling is ready.

Yay. Two at a time.

Nice one
beautiful kitchen

[quote author=SaudiBoy post=65927340]Greeting to everyone. I am in serious dilemma and need matured advice.

I dated my wife for 8 years before we got married last year and God blessed us recently with a child.

My problem began when my business nose dived and we began facing a little difficulty, my wife's sister who happens to be my good friend also stepped in and helped us with a loan totalling 340k which i have paid 190k and still making out ways to pay back the rest.
During those trying times my wife and i would go there and spend days to alleviate pressure of feeding, please i went there with her because I felt welcomed and they never made me feel i was Inlaw, a stranger will think am part of the mums children.

Now the main gbese is this, my wife's mum has been staying with us since this year, taking care of wifey as she put to bed and we have been living peacefully.

Now my mum wanted to come and spend time with us, and the problem started when my mum told me to come with my car and carry her as things she bought for us were too much for her to carry and enter public bus, and i agreed. I went to inform my wife and she kicked against it, citing high fuel cost and lack of money. I talked to her to forget about the money side of her story and see it as a sacrifice. It is a 6 hour journey to and fro.
When she saw she could not convince me, she reported to her sister who tried to talk me out of going to pick my mum, but i refused and told her my mind was made up. Then my wife resorted to i will see those things your mother will bring and come.

Then it got to the day i was going to pick my mum, I called my wife and told her i want your mum to stay and be bathing baby and taking care of you, as I know my mum is now lazy and can't do these work continually, they both agreed. I went and brought my mum home. And the journey to hell started.

There is this girl married with two kids i have warned my wife about to quit been friends with her as despite been married she is a big cheat who sleeps with men for money. So this girl came to my house to visit my wife, and there was this white man at my wife's former place of work that my wife has been chatting with, I read all their chats and had nothing to fault with their conversation, until i discovered my wife sent scantly dressed pictures of her friend to the white man and gave the man the girls contact. I was very furious and felt disappointed, y she did this, that was where my anger started.

So I told her point blank to quit every conversation with the said white man, but she told me plainly she has her life to live and i cannot tell her what to do. This word hurt me and i harboured it in my heart for her.

I and her mum tried to talk to her she didn't still see what she did as bad, then i reported her to her sister whom I felt was close to us and will advice her but no she continued her chat and instead changed her phone pattern.

So we started having issues, every small thing irritated me, then my wife started complaining about my mum, once i go to work and come back, no welcome hug, it will be ur mum said this. Therefore i should Go and fight her if that was her expectation.

The wrong thing I did was not hearing her out, because I already had this grudge in my mind for her bcoz of the statement she made about the white man. And I was already under pressure, how to pay off my debts feed and provide for my family and the 2 additional mouths that came, run generator everyday, and doing everything not to allow my family feel any form of hardship.

Then one day her sister called me and there was nothing she did not say on phone that day, my wife called her and was crying my mum was maltreating her and i kept quiet.
In her sisters exact words, u should be happy my sister married you bcoz she would have seen a better man. These are now the words my wife tells me.

Now the main problem my mum fell sick and she wanted to go back, fuel has now become 145, she met my wife and asked her how will she go if i will drop her or she will take public transport, my wife came to ask me and i ignored it because I didn't want to stir up quarrel. So I met my mother in-laws and told her i would like to go and drop my mum and she said OK if i have spare money for fuel i should do it that moreover my mum is sick.

I wanted to go look for a way to tell my wife but my mum was already dressed thinking she was going that day and was in the room with my wife, and i was to take my mum to somewhere before she goes, and she was in a hurry, I couldn't tell her anymore of my decision, and promised to call her on phone. Only for me to come to the parlor, in front of my mother in-law,i told my mum I would drop her but she had to wait till the next day early morning as I had jobs I needed to attend to.

I then left with my mum to the place she was going to and when we came back, I was with my wife in the room and she was shouting on top her voice, that I shud choose between her and my mum, and that if I go and drop my mum off at her place, she will pack her load and go. I laughe thinking it was a joke.
So mum heard what she said and left my house in anger, in retaliation, that's how i feel, she went to make her hair, as my wife has been begging to come let them go and make her, she cited sickness as example. When I saw my mum with the hair i was bitter and told her to better look for an excuse to give my wife.

She came home and my wife saw the hair and was deeply hurt, mum tried talking to her but it couldn't pacify here, i begged her she refused, so I decided to leave the house and go back to my work, at the door my wife told me to make sure i come back early as she won't givevny mum food, I begged her still, called her when i left and sent an SMS from work, but alas when I got home around past 11pm she didn't give my mum food.

I called my wife, mum and mum Inlaw and tried talking to them so that what ever venom in them will soften, I spoke at length and my mum spoke, when it got to my wife's turn, she flared up and insulted everyone and left, I was disappointed.

The next day morning my mum was finally going to leave, my wife woke up, met her at the door and passed her without greeting and when we were about to leave my wife never came back to say good bye

I travelled and came back and true to her words she packed out of our house and went to Her sisters house.
I called her sister to enquire she wouldn't answer, I went to her house and for 2 hours nobody opened the gate for me, despite hearing my horns and my many calls to her phone which she finally picked and told Me no one was around to open gate for me, quite shortly I saw my mum Inlaw, I asked her how can she encourage her dorta to pack out of the house, she said she was not around when she packed. So my wife's sister knowing her mum was at the gate sent someone to open it and since I was still outside called me she was sending someone to open gate for me, in anger I left and told her not to worry as she was opening it for her mum.
I called my sister in-laws husband and informed him my wife packed to his house without my consent and he was away from town and said when he come back.

He came back and called me after talking to us, I told him I have already changed the padlock of our protector that my wife must apologise before i will let her in again. my wife's response was that she needed a break of 6 months then changed to she was done.

I posted a picture of me holding our baby and wrote some love touching words to him, my wife saw it and became very upset and jelos, and the new accusation became I value our child more than her and don't appreciate her. Then I went to work only to come back home, I saw the locks to the house has been broken, I met my wife packing her remaining things that she needs space, I tried talking to her, next thing her sister called that what is holding her, my wife said I was stopping her, her sister came to my house packed my wife's things including my mum in-laws things, before they left I called my mum Inlaw to ask if she was aware and she said yes, that she heard because of how my wife treated my mum that I said she will not come to my house again, a word I said out of anger. That was how they left.

It's been 3 weeks now I have forgiven my wife and we have settled and she even passed a night in the house and we made mad love

Now she wants to come back, I told her plainly I will not carry those load her sister carried, either she forgets them or I send a cab for her. She agreed to leave the load and come pick her later, immediately she told her sister, the music changed, my wife became abusive and told me if I won't come myself and carry the load then I should forget about her and my child, that she will never use a cab since I have a car and her sister cannot bring the load.

At this juncture I became irritated. Seriously I don't want a broken home since am a product of one, and I know the effects it has on a child.

For 3 weeks I have been jumping from canteen to canteen, I don't know what to do, if to go and bring the load or just allow them to remain there.

Please i need candid advice and criticism, not insult as am already broken.

Am 31 and my wife is 26



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Reading through let me make something clear about the money i borrowed from my in-law

You see am not broke, I live in an comfortable house, drive a good car, and have a land in the state i reside, with a back up bank balance that gave me confidence, but overnight i watched all i have go away due to circumstance better imagined.

I own a truck used for sand and stone transportation, and people into this business will know drivers remit 150k weekly.

My problem started when my truck was involved in an accident which cost a life and also condemned the car, my driver disappeared from the scene and my conductor was in custody for 13weeks

After police case and everything, I paid the family 2.5m for burial and compensation, I paid 400k to the driver of the car my truck hit, bailed my conductor, my truck and closed the police case with 150k.

So this expense cost me 3m that was y i had to seek that loan.

Now i decided not to engage in the trucking business anymore and sell off the truck, but the best price I have gotten from a buyer is 1.5m for a truck i bought 4.5m 2 years ago, so i refused to sell. Still waiting for the right price. To pay off my debt and run my home, I am secretly using my car for uber without my wife's knowledge.although she said i should just sell the truck and start again

I don't want to believe my wife is about the money because she met be broke and we built our wealth together before finally getting married, my problem is during this crisis, she started confiding in her sisters more, and this is where it has landed me




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You see there is more to this story that meets the eye.
That is why I decided to be calm about this whole issue, because it has really opened my eyes, I don't believe this has to do with the money i loaned because the sisters husband also loans money from me atimes,
And pays back, I was very very close to them.

I only soft pedalled on this issue because it is very clear to me there is a grand script been planned by my sister in-laws out of jelousy, because she has been childless for 7 years of marriage.

My wife made a statemet that startled me, that she will send me divorce papers, and that the baby been just 2months, court will award her custody and she will just give the baby to her sister and travel out.

Then i started working on my wife's senses, talking to her until she became soft and we settled my wife she needed time to heal, I offered her to come back home and heal she said know that her sister just had another miscarriage and she needs to be with her.

Now the day my wife came to visit me and decided to sleep over, the sister called her, I pretended to be asleep and I could hear the sister say, now now now, u Don run go sleep there bcoz of sex. The next day it was clear my wife didn't want to go back, I dropped her off around 2pm and before the sister agreed to to open gate for her, it was war after much exchange of whatsapp message
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Wow this is a touching story
the truth is that your wife's family don do c u finish
that's why they can treat u anyhow
my candid advice is for you to try hard and get more money...your wife have started seeing money from other people...she will loose the respect she have for you because you are not financially stable now.
Another advise is for you to consult a legal adviser about the whole story and how your wife is threatening to give your child to her sis if she travels out.
If you can yield to my advise .. though I know is not easy...stop calling her... continue with Ur job....look for things that makes you happy... research more on entrepreneurship...save money to start up your own business no matter how little it is...once you get there you will see how your wife will come begging.

[quote author=trioti post=65528534]Lagos State Government has made a law that makes having a credit in Yoruba language compulsory for all candidates seeking admission into all state-government controlled tertiary institutions in the state.

The law according to the Commissioner for Information and Strategy, Kehinde Bamigbetan is meant to preserve and promote the Yoruba language in all schools in Lagos.

This, therefore, implies that any secondary school leaver irrespective of their tribe will not be given admission into the state-controlled tertiary institutions if the candidate does not have a credit in Yoruba language in his/her O’level.


So, if you are seeking admission into tertiary institutions and you don’t have a credit in Yoruba language, you’ll need to steer clear of these six schools in Lagos.

1. LAGOS STATE UNIVERSITY.


2. LAGOS STATE POLYTECHNIC

3. MICHAEL OTEDOLA COLLEGE OF PRIMARY EDUCATION

4. ADENIRAN OGUNSANYA COLLEGE OF EDUCATION


5. LAGOS STATE SCHOOL OF NURSING

6. LAGOS STATE COLLEGE OF HEALTH TECHNOLOGY


The Yoruba Language Preservation and Promotion Law has since Thursday, February 8, 2018, became effective.


http://allroundblog.com.ng/2018/02/28/these-schools-wont-give-you-admission-if-you-dont-have-credit-in-yoruba/[/quo

Thank God I have finished everything concerning school for now
back then I never had A,B,C or D in Yoruba...is either F or E.

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jbaby265:
hello house please help a sister out.. my relationship of 6 to 7 years is about to crash..
I Love my man and he loves me too.. he stands by me in all times and I do the same for him too in fact our relationship is a typical example of grassroots relationship.. but recently I'm beginning to get frustrated at his attitude or should I say our attitude towards each other.. which is why I resorted to you guys.. this is a faceless forum so I feel comfortable to share my worries..

in recent years I found out that our quarrels, dispute, misunderstanding and bitterness has drastically increased and it bothers me alot.. he quarrel more often this days and can even stay up-to a month without communication.. he complains about everything I do and that's me angry.. AM NOT A SAINT HERE cos he complains of my non Challentless too.. but this our constant quarrels and misunderstanding is driving crazy.. I've cried and ask GOd to dissolve us if it's not his will for us to get married rather than us fighting all the time. HONESTLY AM CONFUSED PLEASE YOUR ADVICE IS NEEDED. I love him and he loves me but we fight a lot.. our wedding is Sept ( still don't believe is possible though)..

My dear this is devil at work
if you can yield to my advise it will work
STOP ANY COMMUNICATIONS WITH HIM
Don't be the first to send messages or to call
continue with what makes you happy
If he is the right person he will definitely come back to you without wasting time
get closer to God....he will review so many things to you.
remember marriage is a life time institution...if you enter you don enter be that.
one needs to be careful
Good luck...

Medics007:
Hi everyone, please I need a help from people who struggle with stage fright and won. Facing the audience is a very big headache for me, which seems to be very impossible to overcome, so whenever I have to do it, I must take drugs to control my heartbeat, which I want to stop taking now. Please I need advice on on how to easily overcome stage fright without using drugs. Thanks in anticipation.

Make sure you are a little bit tipsy
A LITTLE BIT oh
when u r on stage look on top of their heads
that's all.

Jakumo:
One man's "problem" is another's blessing.
Who need sister, get am. Who no need am, no need am.

Take am easy dey think OK

Jakumo:
Moot point, bro. I ain't got no sister, so I don't give a flying puck who say what to who.

Thank you for your support, and God breast Nigeria.

lol
now I see where the problem is coming from

Jakumo:
Is the phrase "beautiful in their own way" another euphemism for dog-ugly, obese and utterly repulsive ?

If so, I couldn't agree more with your observation. These are a couple of nasty fat slobs, without a doubt.

How will you feel if your sister is a pulse size and she is been called nasty names?

GISTM0RE:
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They are all beautiful in their own way
let's learn how to stop body shaming people
is not nice

luminouz:
Huh Now ur a mummy oooooooo

Not yet

Cadec007:
you are probably married now right?

Not yet

luminouz:
Small geh!!

lol that was 2011 the year I graduated from university

Cadec007:
sorry no vex......i am not uncle yet o.........hw old were u?

I think 21/22

Cadec007:
out of pity, ke?? Its unheard of pls can u expantiate a little?

Uncle
he was crying and begging

laxetude:
Seriously.. Is he still in possession of the virginity? And what is he doing with it now? Smh

You better continue to smh
he never knew I was a virgin

Zceesneh:
Hi, Good people of nairaland, How are you guys doing? is being long since I last posted, let me start by saying happy new year, so ladies and gents, what's your biggest regret in life so far?

Let me start with mine, my biggest regret in life so far is I can't really say, I have lot of regrets in life that I don't know the specific one that has done more damage in my life, some I did because I thought I was wiser while some I did out of ignorance, I don't want to blame anybody or anything for my mistakes.

So let me share with you guys the one I think is the biggest, not writing jamb the year I graduated from secondary (2014) school, I actually thought I was young so I opted to stay at home for a whole year before writing jamb, but now even though am in school, I call myself names for not writing jamb that year, i could have graduated or being in final year by now. So ladies and gents may we know yours

I gave a wrong guy my virginity
I did that out of pity

DevelopNaija:
7:00am!!!

I jumped up from my bed just same way you realise you weren’t urinating in the toilet in your dream, rather, you just BED WETTED IN REAL LIFE!

Preparing by 7am for work that starts by 8am made me realise that God bestowed the ‘fast’ skill on me even better than what he bestowed on Usian Bolt.

7:15am – I saw myself boarding a keke (Tricycle) to where I can get a bus straight to the office. Oh my God! I just repented yesterday from giving flimsy excuses for late coming and I have already seen myself backsliding today! Struggles of being perfect……sigh! No thanks to the Lagos Traffic for contributing to my late coming.

I hurriedly took a peep at my fellow passengers in the Keke. Seated by my left was a young girl on her way to school who probably was still in primary school. While on my right was a young man who I guess was in the same ‘late’ situation with me.

Suddenly, the Keke driver’s phone rang, he picked the call as he kept on driving. I noticed the young girl beside me became uneasy and poked the driver. The driver felt the young girl has reached her destination, so he ended the call and stopped the Keke so she can come down.

I am not coming down here! The young girl claimed

‘Okay’ said the keke driver as he drove off.

The driver’s phone rang the second time. He picked the call and kept driving. Immediately, the young girl gave the driver a slight blow that made him stop swiftly.

Shey you talk say you never reach where you go drop, why you come dey disturb me? The driver queried.
“STOP TALKING ON THE PHONE WHILE DRIVING. DO YOU WANT TO CAUSE AN ACCIDENT? WHAT YOU ARE DOING IS VERY WRONG! – she retorted

A strange silence filled the keke immediately. Seconds later, the other passenger and I wore a bright smile on our faces. “Well done, girl! I am proud of you”, I said in my thought.

I couldn’t help but ponder on what happened in the Keke as I entered the office by 8:30am,! By the way, I came to work before my supervisor, so I had no one to query me. Yay! God gat my back, in fact, my whole body.

Back to the matter; what the young lady did in the Keke is what many of us overlook. I am so proud of the school she attends and her ability to practice what she learns. This shows the level of quality education the young girl receives in school and even at home.

This also shows that there is hope for the future of Nigeria. Imagine if all the children in Nigeria get quality education, what a powerful economy Nigeria will become.

There are many children out there that do not have anyone to put them in a quality and affordable school due to various reasons. We aim at achieving the Sustainable Development Goal of Quality Education in Nigeria by 2030. Hope you aren’t hoping on the government, because government cannot achieve this alone, it is you and I that can make this happen.

This also shows that there is hope for the future of Nigeria. Imagine if all the children in Nigeria get quality education, what a powerful economy Nigeria will become.

There are many children out there that do not have anyone to put them in a quality and affordable school due to various reasons. We aim at achieving the Sustainable Development Goal of Quality Education in Nigeria by 2030. Hope you aren’t hoping on the government, because government cannot achieve this alone, it is you and I that can make this happen.

Here are some suggestions that could help us achieve this
1. Sponsor a child through school (To tertiary level or beyond)
2. Improve the quality service delivery of a school by volunteering to teach the students,
3. Endeavour to get QUALIFIED STAFF (Owners and managers of schools)
4. Make sure your academic curriculum is up-to-date (Owners , managers and teachers of schools)
5. Ensure students what they are being taught (Teachers and Parents)
6. Donate or contribute massively to improve the quality of a school (such as donating classroom equipment, giving scholarships to outstanding students, renovating a school etc)
7. You could build a school that offers quality and affordable or free education

A big thank you to all those who in one way or the other have and is still contributing to Quality Education in Nigeria.

• What other ways can one contribute to Quality Education in Nigeria? Your suggestions are needed in the comment section.
• What are you doing to contribute to Quality Education in Nigeria? Kindly let us know so we can showcase your good works no matter how small or big your works are.
• Do you know anybody or organisation we can reach out to that can contribute to quality education in Nigeria? Do well to inform us.
• What other things can be done? Any idea?

Nice one
Hope you paid for her keke?