kobikwelu:



you wey get work, you are posting on this thread

Seriously posting here is more rewarding than wasting my precious time watching some lazy youths messing up. Arghhhhh! (no offiencsse )

Thanks ladies for your kind words,i really appreciate.

Busy_body:

Wahala dey oh. Hmmm, just like another OP asking if she could go ahead and marry a dude whose mind is made up about not leaving his catholic faith, y'all ladies need to wake up and realise this one wey you dey handle like play like play fit burn later, berra sit up and use this opportunity to sit down and sniff around and think wisely if this is the only thing this dude are going to be adamantly and vehemently against.

Dunno any serious suggestion to proffer, but why not tell him too that if yyour name is not coming first, then no wedding then, since he has put his foot down by saying if his name does not come first, then there would be no IV. If he hadn't mentioned this part, I'd not have had any cause for concern.

Remember people can't be changed after marriage, they only typically only change for the worst. (Chei, is change for the worst correct English sef, oops hope my Lecturer nor dey around sha)  

He is a good man and i wouldn't want him any different. He is very collected and level headed, he only thinks whoever made that rule must have been drunk and should correct it

ifyalways:



@Topic,Thinking of printing 2 IV's is as childish and unrealistic as they come,IMO.Cool but deep down you,are u very comfortable with the way he handled this and the part you too played?
Does this say anything to you,warning bells on how to handle this man in future ?

As it seems u have no further objections,sit your man down and let him know you agree to his suggestion but most importantly the way and manner he went with it is definitely not the best.Now you know u have a hard nut to crack so brace urself for the ride.

Congratulations btw.

We are still planning and i believe he's going to drop this weird idea and accept it the way it has always been. Thanks

Ini is da bomb

People still watch BBA? Una no get work

@Ify: Personally i don't have any problem with printing his name first on the card,it's just that i wanted to know if there is a good reason why it's usually the woman's name first. I googled it and it seems it's always the woman first,but as you said it's our wedding and we can afford to do as we wish.

How long will this continue in my dear state?

lol

Cool

He's alive!

Abby thanks, i'll ask others to reason with him. I hope he agrees, he's one stubborn guy

Uju nwam ke kwanu

He's seen cards but he thinks they are all mistakes and he wouldn't accept it.
What should i do?

Jenny why cuss this way? Too bad.

Now this is almost ruining things for me. My man has this weird idea that it's the man that weds the woman and not the other way round, that the idea of putting the woman's name first on the invitation card is a mistake from wherever.

I've checked all the cards in my possession and it's always the woman wedding the man. He has put his legs down that there will be no card if we don't correct that mistake and put his name first . I on the other side don't think this is correct .

Please i need your useful contributions before i ruin my perfect plans

Sizzling

Sizzling

Happy bd Genny

Me like

;d ;d

If your period was suppose to be on 29th and u fooled around with ur bf on 28th then you are not pregnant. I think it's only late and u r worrying unnecessarily.

Is he on NL?

Seriously,if i wear Kate's dress you guys will call it indecent bc i will certainly fill the d a mn dress.

Wow! He is one hell of a sexy pastor then Bless him

evilspirit:

@ op immigration papers don complete abi? congrats

You bad

Congrat @ OP. Your boy is adorable

chic2pimp:

Amadioha strike anyone that ever tells me "Money Is The Root Of All Evil"

It's not anybody that said it but the Holy Book. And that place didn't say that money is the root of all evil, but 'the love of money'.