₦airaland Forum

drlateef:
They don’t need to fly first class when they could buy a brand new private jet with their loot. Was Deziani’s son not seen a private jet owned by his family?

adonaimart:
Still kneeling down for prayers with all the fame and money. Very humble woman

Opintiwa:
Bola Ahmed Tinubu I a guinea conackry cocaine sniffing bastard

brain54:
People who commit suicide are brave…


Rest In Peace!

BigDawsNet:
So now legally Bandits are part of law enforcement agency in the Northern part of the country


I like Tinubu normally

But I don't fancy two things about his ambition

I don't want Muslim Muslim ticket

chatinent:
Make I just dey watch Nigerians and their politics sha...until 2023

bennybuhari:
I think Buhari is too soft on the bandits because they are majorly muslims

PenpalOso:
No p bro. Just did. ��

Viccur:
Pls send to olawande94@gmail.com

SwissMass:
Is pandemic greater than your creator?

toujurs:
Davido is enjoying a stolen wealth, Osun government money, Is that how to make money? By stealing tax payers money that is for the development of osun state, if not for aregbesola osun state would be as dead as kwara state. My parents are not thieves, neirher are we greedy, we are cobtented with what we have. Life is about impacting in peoples life, With what you have. And not stealing from the people. Learn this and have peace Oga.

chatinent:
Ok, I'll go to the market and tell Iya Basira to osmodialize processed cassava flour for me? May hunger not kill me in the process.

timesup234:
Everywhere is calm in Ajah. People are even on the street dancing and praising Buhari and his wonderful achievement. Buhari is the greatest thing that ever happened to Nigeria. People have built more houses and bought more cars in this Buhari regime than any other time in our history

Bola146:
Be there talking, you can't have my vote for your second time, be ranting till all Oyo state people are finished in the hands of wicked bandits

Failure44:
Damn Elon musk and china for almost sending me to my early grave.

Left sports betting addiction to crypto and it's the same result but this time I really got hit hard especially since I put majority of my savings in it.

I'm resuming school as a fresher next week and I don't know how am gonna survive with the last money I have.

Do i invest the little i have in crypto with the Hope's it goes back up
Advice needed am badly hurt and confused

Gangster1ms:
make sense.. na high party be that. The one i attended early this year was awesome. Packaged Rolled blunts and condoms with one olosho to accompany u back home.

odiks:
So Saraki and Dogara came? Thought they were planning a walkout and defecting to PDP? So they stayed back after the initial Grara?

Rapmoney:
We all have our struggling days. Most wealthy people you know in the society today all had their struggling days; except you were born with a silver spoon. It is nothing to be ashamed of because as the Bible puts it: 'Do not despise the days of humble beginnings'. One true fact is that you won't even remember your struggling days when you finally attain success.

If you were born with wooden or no spoons at all, you need not despair. Success is not only achieved by physical strength; it also has to do with your mental strength. Your level of rational thinking matters a lot, for without it, your physical strength will be equivalent to pouring water into a basket. I believe you know what that means.

Below are some things you should avoid as a struggling bachelor:

1) BEER PARLORS/DRINKING JOINTS: It's not a bad idea to visit a bar for one or two bottles of drink occassionally (that's if you drink). What is killing is when you make it a habit to be there everyday to oblige your urge for alcohol! These spots are pocket-drainers for struggling guys. At the end of the day, you'll discover that you've not been able to meet most of your important needs. Why? Your habit is draining your meagre resources at the expense of self-development.

2) CALL GIRLS: Once you entangle yourself in this unfavourable market where deposits are allowed but no withdrawals, you can be completely compared to a fly that's entangled in a spider's web! If you spend N20,000 monthly on prostitutes and your monthly income is N40,000, my brother, your future is not brighter than the back of a cooking pot!

3) FINANCIAL WOMEN: (Apology to Phyno aka Eze Nnunu). If you can afford a phone of N280,000 for your girlfriend without waving, very fine. After all, we give in love. Bro, but not when you are struggling. There's a time for all things. Leave these set of people for those who are already comfortable, rich or have enough to throw around. Life is not and has never been a competition. You too will get there if you strive. Don't be fooled by flashy appearance. Women are created with brains too; they can work and take care of their needs. Don't kill yourself to make a woman look super fly while you are struggling to survive. It makes no sense, for tides and times come and go. Let whoever you are with know your present state. The good ones will encourage you but the materialistic ones...hmmm. That doesn't mean you should be stingy; give freely but let it be within your means. Give with no intention to receive.

4) COMPETITIVE LIFE: This has never been a helpful friend to struggling guys. What will it profit a struggling guy if he spends N2,500 for a bottle of beer in club, knowing fully well that the neighbourhood shops sell same for N200? The kids who spend lavishly right in the club or elsewhere trust their account balance. Trying to compete with them is useless. My brother, na you go still go house go cry! Regret is a personal thing. Nobody regrets with you Ogbeni, experience na the best teacher but to learn from anoda man own go make you escape paying the high tuition fee.

5) MULTIPLE AFFAIRS: Just like patronizing call-girls (Point 2 above), engaging yourself in multiple affairs as a struggling guy is a fatal blow that can slow your progress. Apart from wasting resources, you will become less focused. My brother, wetin you dey find go Sokoto dey inside your Shokoto o! Even if she's a 'village girl', you can 'package' her as far as you both love and understand each other. Look for an understanding and emotionally mature girl to date; she must also be engaged in something worthwhile. Stop running after these little slay queens! They'd rather prefer a yahoo-yahoo guy to you.

Rapmoney:
A friend of mine recently lamented badly how he has been subjected to a mere source of income for his wife's family. Apart from buying things for them during festive periods, he is still been called on every now and then to take care of minor issues that should ordinarily be taken care of the family. There are grown up men in his wife's family but this young man will still be called on to foot medical bills of his father-in-law, support house rent and other funny things such as paying for DSTV subscription. Whenever he complained to the wife about these, she would tell him if members of her family could help, they would have done that. The eldest male in the family who is almost 42 still calls my friend for financial assistance!

Now, my question is: Does it mean if my pal's wife didn't marry him, the entire family would have been wiped out by financial problems? I personally feel his unnecessary kindness towards the family is becoming a huge burden in life. I believe he is been used.

I believe this is a common phenomenon in some families which makes it look as if it is the responsibility of a man to cater for his wife's family no matter how comfortable or not the man may be.