₦airaland Forum

bimbor:
Why will Atiku go on public TV and make such a foolish statement that if he becomes president he will “enrich his friends”? Which kind talk be dat?

If he had opened the statement longer by saying “I will enrich my friends, now who are my friends, my friends are you, you and you. My friends are 150 million Nigerians out there who deserve a 3-course meal, my friends are the Youths who deserve a well paid job after years in the University. My friend is every Nigerian who spend hours under the Sun to vote for a candidate and at the end of the day have nothing to show for it. My friend is Nigeria.”

But No, he won’t say this he’d rather showcase how foolish he could be. I am beginning to have a rethink on this man to be honest. I am not totally sure this man will be better than Buhari. This guy might sell Nigeria if empowered!

OBJ knows him better, and he said it all. Even though unfortunately now, same OBJ is backing him. But the truth remains that an Atiku led govt will be a looting spree for corrupt politicians.

You see why this man shouldnt smell our national treasury. His plan are just to loot and enrich his friends and families. No plans for that welder, farmer, brick layer, graduate and other everyday Nigerian.

What else did you expect from the man - Atiku? For the atikulated ones, I pity una. When em finish with una, una go get natin to atikulate.

Your success/happiness should NEVER be dependent on the presence or absence of ANYONE in your life.

If the bitch broke-up or left you. Very simple. Put yourself together and carry-on with your life. Develop yourself. Double your hustles. Make more money. Better people will come around.

If anyone is happy without you, let them enjoy their happiness.

If you carry this men matter for head, then the joke is truly on you.

Politicians and their families are living very large, and everyday Nigerians are killing themselves for them.

[quote author=addictiv post=73674945]Very sad. One of the major reasons people get physical is due to lack of respect. He doesn't respect you.
if you want him to stop beating you then you have to make him respect you. At this point it may mean cutting of all forms of reliance on him, get your own money, business, career etc. Respect goes both ways if you respect him as your husband and treat him accordingly, he ll surely return the favour. secondly he knows you ll come begging eventually so this time surprise him, do what he least expects you to do.
You need sometime apart to reconsider your life choices. Then you both need to talk to someone, a Councillor or guardian who can lead you on the path to mutual respect and understanding.
I see no reason why you should accuse a man without hardcore evidence.
Most times it pays to keep calm while your spouse is angry or agitated. Dont fuel it by responding word for word. A simple apology or walking away when you realise that the atmosphere is getting tense helps to avoid shitshows
Then the issue of malice, what you are doing will not work. You are both being kids. One of you will have to become the adult. Communication helps alot so you need to break the silence if he is not ready to do so. An apology for accusing him without evidence. Explain to him your reasons for doing so calmly. If you are ready and have the means, you can tell him you are taking some time away from him for personal revaluation. He has to realise that you can have a life without him getting involved. Whenever he wants to keep malice next time.. dont beg him, just live your life, find things that make you happy and focus on them. The reason why he is using the silent treatment is because it has worked in the past. So if he sees you re always genuinely happy, and not worried in any way. he ll get tired

Thats the problem with Africans. We are so dogmatic and hold fist-thight to norms.

My dear, you might be the catalyst/missing link in his life, while he also is in yours. So, if you're well convinced he is the one, no waste anytime with am. Make am happen!

Lavoca:
I'm already tired of this country and her citizens. People collecting money from politicians to sabotage the future of other citizens

Would you have said the same thing if he used it to campaign for someone else other than PMB? ...Hatred is indeed a terrible thing.

Hatred is a terrible thing.

UyaiIncomparabl:
Mtcheew. That's what ECKankar made you believe. But na wetin concern karma and reincarnation here now?

I'm sure you read her post, and my subsequent candid comment thereto. You don't have to accept/believe what I said. "2x+3=9. find x" never made sense to us when in primary sch, but it later did in the sec.

UyaiIncomparabl:
All your own na karma and reincarnation. No dey use your ideology dey advise people. Advise generally. Stop being sentimental!

But thats the truth. There is nothing in this life thats unrelated with karma and reincarnation. coming to this realization means unravelling the mysteries of life. My dear, nothing (however trivial the act might seem) happens for nothing.

Why not aeroplane? ...Benz truck kee you der!

Though mothers are expected to be love banks, but believe me, you can never love everyone equally. They are your kids, so keep loving them the best way you can, but try not to let them (your kids or others) decipher the disparity in your love.

I really do wonder why mums usually have more love towards their male children

Briller:
Pls folks, I need help. I have a burning issue in my heart and it's threatening to break my home. Have been married for 8 years and my husband runs his own business while I also have a very good job. Hubby is the first son and only educated amongst his siblings and he is a professional. Unfortunately his siblings
dropped out of school because of either their irresponsibility, greed and stubbornness. Hubby is the first son and only educated one in his family. His siblings are all adults with their own families but still depend on him for financial support and unfortunately, their demands are endless. His only sister is a widow with multiple children. This sister of his thinks her children are my hubby's responsibility - to train them and provide for her needs and he (hubby) has taken it upon himself to do that.

It wasn't an issue earlier in our marriage but even when our kids started coming, he still channels all his resources to the sister and her kids as well as his other siblings, leaving me to shoulder all the responsibilities - paying the bills, school fees, feeding house rents until I built us a place, feeding, etc. It is very important to mention that yes, he makes the money but feels he has a mandate in life to help people in need and pls don't get me wrong. I am a great giver.

Now the challenge is that I have become bitter over time and I'm heart broken as matters concerning me and my kids are disregarded. To worsen the whole issue, that same sister of his hates me and have incited other family members against me. They treat me as a complete outcaste. During one of the family meetings, I was told to my face that I stole their brother. I wept non-stop that night till the next day cause I have been the one being exploited. I continued to ignore their actions and still maintain my calm until recently, I came into the room and overheard my husband's telephone discussion with his younger brother. I heard my husband explaining that his niece and nephew didn't move in with us cause my sister was with us. You needed to see the way my brother in-law was vibrating on the phone and threatening fire and brimstone as per why would my sister be in our house instead of his neice. This same brother in-law feels he is the "Commanding Officer and the one to call the shots" in my marriage. He called me once when I delivered to tell me his mom will come for my omugwo and I waived it off as maybe he was just excited or maybe he has had too much to drink that day. Of course, hubby and i already had plans to bring mama over to spend time with us after the baby arrives but for the guy to tell us who will do omugwo for my first child was odd.

I personally think my husband is aiding them in their attitude and I have repeatedly made my husband to understand the consequences of his actions all to no avail.

I have decided to move on cause I cannot remain an outcaste and at the same time not at least havesupportive husband. I would rather stay on my own than die prematurely from the pains I am feeling right now.

Pls I need advise from the married men and ladies in the house.

Try make him understand that his immediate family comes first, and that he possibly can't keep shouldering the responsibilities of others forever. This dosen't imply carelessing them.

That said, I want you to know that ALL our experiences in life stems from karma and reincarnation, and a good understanding of these will so help us get along with life harmoniously. Maybe they did same (or even more) for your hubby in the previous lifetime, and now, he has to do same for them.

So, just be grateful that you two have enough, do the best you can to help others, but in all, put your immediate family first.

Keyamo finish work!

When person ask you stupid question, answer in a way that shows that the questioner and the question were stupid.

Football is a game of passion, hence, celebration in an integral part of it. But its good to know that you're celebrating a goal, and not mocking the opposing team for allowing you to score.

So, respect is vital, and moderation is the key.

Ikpa, predict sure odds make guys smile. Leave politics for politicians.

Like Akpabio usually says: "You ain't seen nothing yet".

Pray you don't lose a loved one. There is nothing as devastating as that. That knowingness that you just will never see that person again is enough to break ones heart.

Once you find yourself in a hole, stop digging.

So, try dissociate yourself from anything/anyone associated with betting. let go of any amount you've lost, because wanting to reclaim it will always take you back to it, and you'll keep losing.

Reorientate yourself. Tell yourself that you've lost so much, and betting will do you no good, hence, it must be stopped.

Talk to God about it, and be sincere. His grace is the surest thing that can help you overcome this addiction.

Alphafeezay:
Mark my word, PMB wont get 100k vote in Akwa Ibom

Big fat lie!

And this man thinks he can rule Nigeria without (going to) America?
#NextLevel #4+4

SamuelAnyawu:
Nice Strategy.
Start in your weak areas and end up in your strong zone.

I Doubt if we got PDP here in Borno and Yobe

you call Akwa Ibom his weak area? February will proof you wrong.

some girls no just get sense.

Who is Udom in Akwa Ibom state politics? The men that matters have all deserted him, and he should be prepared to return to Zenith bank.

see who wan be president. Lie lie man!

His/her company might no longer be needed on the journey, but qualifying them with negative adjectives is a great sign of immaturity and character defficiency.

That ex (trash) could be one of the best things to have happened one. Life is a road of uncertain turns.

yeah, I'm an APC supporter, but traditional rulers shouldn't be openly partisan. I'm just wondering how PDP (and other parties) supporters in his domain will see him.

PMB is such an amazing person. You"ll never hear him attack anyone, not even his attackers. He extends love to his haters, or just ignores them till they fade away.

Thats my presido till 2023.

Richkid97:
Buhari Till 2023

Osinbajo Till 2031

Nuhu Ribadu Till 2039

Richkid97 Till 2047

Our yeast brodas can wait till 3099

Lol! you bad o!

A good manager you are, but your football philosophy in Man U was retrogressive. They gave you enough time but things didnt just improve.

All the best "special one". Atleast you're smiling to the bank even with your sack letter.

True, but marriage also very sweet and rewarding. If you must marry, marry that person whose presence, voice or thoughts of, makes you so happy. Marry that person, whom you can always be happy being with, with or without anything. Marry that person that personifies the life of every other person in your life.