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I didn't read all the bullshit you typed up there, the best place to have sex is in a hotel

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MadamVanessa:
Nairaland is gone completely. Remembering years back, a thread like this by this time has generated close to 15 page plus. Is like everyone has left nairaland behind for seun and his Mynd mod. Good for them.

swears bro, since when seun decided to limit us from tribalism we've all gone to X

Tinubu till 2031 .....Obi is just too dumb to hold Nigeria for us

Cha Cha Cha kwenu oooo, kwenuuuu

SimpleGuy001:
So people of God….

I am 25, left home and working in Lagos. However, I am getting complaints from my mum and siblings about my dad.

It’s not like I am not aware because I know the home I came out from. My dad womanizes a lot, I’ve known that since I was young. My immediate sis got just out of uni yr, the third is in uni and the last in sec school.

Getting complaints that he doesn’t take care of them enough in terms of dropping money. I am doing well for my age, earn 500k plus but the family issue is now draining me cause my mom and siblings now request money from me a lot. I’ve decided to set up a shop for my mom come this December maybe with about 700k or so. Hopefully set up my sis that just got out of uni so she can be good as I don’t want them to look outside.

Here is the issue, I have really tried to overlook his character and act like I don’t know what is going on but I am aware of everything cause my sis and mom tell me everything (which I know of cause prior to when I left home I know his character so they aren’t lying).

I am a man, and I tried to stay on the fence but it is getting to my neck. I have not been calling him at all purposely, he one time told me to borrow him money, I sent him 100k (I acted like I borrowed in my mind I won’t collect it)

Now I got to know he is following a married woman and even paying the woman’s child school fee, like WTF. How can a married man be following a married woman, neglecting his own family responsibilities cause he is busy sharing resources where not ought to. I have really tried to neglect this but it’s getting worse…. He curses my sisters at will, laying curses and what not (they called me and told me which like I said I know him well cause I came out of same home).

Now, I am thinking of calling him to order but I am just trying to do it out of respect. Cause to be honest, anything that will make me to call him or message him, that’s it. I’ll never take his call again or have anything to do with him. At most, I will send him allowances and that’s it. But I really don’t want to do that,,,,,,,, I am the only son and first born. My mom have tried and my siblings have endured too, they can’t be suffering cause of his philandering and non caring nature. I really am having a pity on him, cause the father children relationship is nothing to write about, these girls will grow, leave the house and won’t even look at him again and just care for my mom (that’s my fear), I just don’t want to give that vibe to them but I may just throw in the towel, damn the consequences and call him to order on phone, say my mind and whatever that want to happen should happen but I am really really trying not to do that. How can a 50+ yr old man be acting as such?

How do I handle this case

Bro, I'm in a similar case as well, just that mine doesn't have human feelings at all and my mum is late,

Ever since my mum died it been from one woman to another even giving birth to a girl that me and my sis didn't know about till the child was about 2 years old, me and my sis faced a lot, I just graduated and hoping to get a good job so I would show him pepper he made me pass through ever since I was young

Enoch07:
my dear 2.2 is ur portion, because there is no guarantee u won't F at least one more course again b4 u graduate. so on behalf of d 2.2 graduates in Nigeria I welcome u to our fold

this thread just like yesterday ,you brutal with your answer

Mr seunnhas finally spoiled this forum so I must type 38 alphabet before I'm allowed to comment

Darkchocolate:
Congratulations to the incoming NYSC otondos ... You should all be proud of yourselves. I just finished my service year in July and I am here to answer any NYsC related questions you might have (to the best of my ability).

Camp confusions
How much you need
How to conduct or not conduct yourself
Activities to take up that might be beneficial in determining where you are posted to
Best CDS groups
Etc etc

Are you also a foreign student? Wondering how you will survive those 3 ghastly weeks? You are in the right place then!!!

Ask and it shall be answered!

Disclaimer: I speak from Lagos Camp experiences...other camps in other states and how they function may be different but any answer I provide should give you a general guide. I encourage you to conduct your own research and get a varied source for whatever information you seek.

P.s. Yokiti, how have you been? I've missed you like a fat kid misses cake

***New rule
If you want me to respond to your question, it might be advisable to NOT type in shorthand! ;DD

And guys...I have no idea how to access the email links. Im not ignoring you. Just post your message here and i ll try to answer it.

***added 07/02/16 - I am so happy that this thread has actually helped out thousands of people...people commenting, answering and helping each other and those viewing in ghost mode We have literally gone from just NYSC camp related experiences to JAMB to all sorts..lol... Gives me goosebumps (Err...maybe not...but..) Thanks to everyone that has helped me out. Couldn't have done it without y'all. Remember, if you need me to address any questions just say my NAME and I'll come running (well...not literally)...and hopefully I'll know or help you find out the answer. Cant answer any questions on JAMB though

Update 24/04/17

Wow...we are still here guys. Congratulations to the folks that just finished and those about to enter...Please let us know the experiences you have had...the good, the bad and the ugly. I heard so much has changed since I finished in 2015. Seems like only yesterday though!!!



***UPDATE 13/12/2017***

Oh my Goodness guys... this thread is still going and has helped so many people. The information nuggets in this thread as been invaluable to most. Thank you to all the contributors. You guys are the bomb!!!

On a different note...It's 12 DAYS to Christmasssss.

Wishing you all a fantabulous MERRY CHRISTMAS and a fulfilling NEW YEAR


****UPDATE 04/08/2019****

We still here fam! Goodluck to the folks about to start!


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****UPDATE 02/01/2020****
Happy New Year Fam.... We are still here. Just checking in on y'all.

So looking to open a whatsapp group so that you guys can get help and answers real time and also easily link up with any Corp members in your state. Eg: if you have just arrived at camp and need a question answered real quick...that type of scenario. If I get 20 or more people show interest, I will open it. Just let me know. Tag me with your number!!! It should be a platform that can help with job opportunites, further education (home and abroad) CV building and mentoring, etc

it 2025 man

Food4Thought:
In one of the above pictures, you will see evidence of such bags filled with gifts from me to him. I have been balling, globally, with the high & mighty long before WIKE got his first passport...
The lines above will throw Wike off balance.

No oo when Wike was governor he invited them to GRA himself not like Dele offered himself

highchief1:
anytime u are inside a plane just know you are a dead man.the slighted of fault plane don crash.why it always bursts in flame 🔥 is what tires me

plane is carrying a highly combustible type of kero, so once it make contact with land considering the speed it would drop with, a bomb type of explosion shouldn't be surprising

lightwind:
Omoh see that fire 🔥 🔥 . I don't think there would be any survival 😪🥺

there was one survivor he literally walked out of his seat with his plane ticket still with him!

2027 we feast

Ade0001:
The end is truly near and now is the time for those that thought they are standing to beware. One of the major problem in the church today is that everyone wants to justify and satisfy their lust of the flesh.

I pray that God will help us to see and embrace the truth always


http://blog.christianitytoday.com/ctliveblog/archives/2008/09/ray_boltz_comes.html

I'm quoting from 2025 the world hasn't ended yet bro

tunnyl:
If you are always weak all the time and lack energy to engage in daily activities, recite this two names of Allah and Insha Allah you will be surprised how hyperactive you will be throughout the day. Even if yo are skeptical, try it and see.

Ya Hakeem (The Most Wise) - you can recite at least 500 times (i recommend more though)

Ya Mateen (The Firm One) - also recite this name at least 500 times. Mostly in the morning after fajr prayer.


****Please stop turning helpful posts into a debate… I am not here to debate. I am posting helpful tips because the youths are in desperate need of Allah’s help. And when you recite allah’s names he will surely answer you.

lieeesss

I don't know why people on here don't engage post like this

Jamahyel:
The ones who graduated with second lower or 3rd class are doing great things. Graduate, drop your certificate and look for how to help yourself.

hmmmmm

I have a CGPA of 3.47 currently , this is my last. Semester I'm writing my final year project also this semester with 6 courses to write also making the total course unit 23.

Can I still make a second upper? My fear is graduating with second lower

protocol:
, this only reminds me that this world is nothing but a stage and we are all players.when i think about the vanity and nothingness of the things of this world, all i do is to echo Shakespeare -in his mackbeth where he said and i quote "life is nothing but a walking shadow,a poor player that frets and struts its hour on the stage and then is heard no more"Fellow mourners, in situation like this,what else can we do if not to console ourselves and the family with the words of william coper who said that this life is at best an inn and we are all passengers not forgeting james Ellin who said that far happier are the dead than those who fear it everday.Let all of us look upon life as a gift from God. We did nothing to earn it, so when the time comes for us to give it back, we should have no right to complain.Death be not proud that u took Dgrin for he did not die a poor death.One thing is certain,at the last day all men shall DIE AND DEATH SHALL BE NO MORE,DEATH THOU SHALL DIE TOO!

omor

Omor rest in pussy

So there's a day dedicated to Fat people

Namaster:
Mini-skirt.
Mid-calf boots.
Bright-coloured hair.
Big, dangling earrings

That is the UNIVERSAL uniform of a WHOOORE!

Plus, there are certain categories of women you must NEVER marry. Actresses are one of them.

They are surrounded by MEN who have a job largely because of their physical ATTRACTIVENESS and EXTROVERSION.

She's constantly being BOMBARDED by sexy and suave men who also happen to be FAMOUS.

Trying to stop her from cheating would be POINTLESS.

It's like trying to stop a hungry monkey surrounded by SEVERAL bunches of ripe and juicy bananas from feasting.

Also, if you have PROOF that 21 men FUCCCKED your wife but you are too AFRAID to even name them; your wife DESERVED to get fuccccked.

😂😂😂

All hail Liverpool

Karlovich:
What would Oledepo and Adebole have done in similar situation?

who is oladepo please expantiate

AllMight:
What i want to say now, hope you wont mind?

I went through you posts, and all i see is you begging for 5h, 2h, 1k etc. But wait how long will you continue? Don't you have something doing? I cant imagine a man going online begging small change. Atleast if you wan beg, beg with pride-10k above (pun intended).

All right, send your aza to my number(09013427234) hopefully by/before tomorrow, i will send you sumthing tangible...

Almighty boss am also in a financial mess won't mind if you could help me also with any amount God bless you

SadiqBabaSani:
Waiting for those Satanist anti Christ to come type their nonsense.

Use your head you fullish thing

Odotech:
Confirms the fact that Yoruba generally lack morals. From gov dapo (credit card thief), to tinubu(drug lord), to afe babalola ( court judgement buyer), to saraki(savannah banker), to OBJ who sold refineries to transcorp that he owned, to this goat thief, to all the ritualist pretending to be imams and pastors

God ponish your fada

vanbonattel:
This must be investigated, to rule out the possibility of this being a ritual sacrifice arrangement.

see how a Nigerian thinks and we expect to move forward

Thank Science for science if not religious morons for milk the woman dry