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Manculated:
My Chief, I will be brief on this topic.

The Spiritual World is real and our Soul is also a spirit.

One of the easiest way, if not the easiest way to scramble a human's life most especially a man is through corrupted sex.

As a man, If you are still a virgin, I mean never had any form of intercourse with the other gender. If you mastvrbate, you are still intact. Make sure you guide your virginity so well because you are carrying a pure spirit at least to some extent. I discovered most of these secrets myself.

Many of, "If not all" those we call Elite, Wealthy and the Rich knows these secrets and are still manipulating this situation to their own advantage up till this moment.

See, I have to tell you one particular secret i discovered before i leave and it applies to men precisely. There are too many dark sides to men lives, I mean absolute dark sides. Most men (prevalent in nigeria) usually makes mistakes when they were young (Ignorance Precisely) (Not Having A Good Guardian/Custodian) and when they eventually grow up, they will make sure the upcoming generation must not escape it too. They do these things out of pains, regrets, emotions and stupidity because they felt they were cheated and manipulated by those who have grown and wiser in life so they have to return the same favor to the upcoming generation in order to satisfy themselves.

You see those Joint Houses people usually visit and have FUN with their hard laboured wage for just Five Minutes or More lol, Many of them have signed up for either immediate or future miseries unknowingly. The only option they have so they can evade misfortunes is to seek spiritual help to salvage their situation.

Most of the Elite, Wealthy and The Rich are the biggest patronizers of those joints. But you know the funny thing? They aren't there for seex, They are there for Real Spiritual Business which is acquiring your Semen from the seex workers.

There are too many daark thin things i can't put up on here. It's not meant for public consumption.

I will recommend this comrade to you Deepspirituals incase you need more insights about life generally, Help and how things work in Nigeria precisely.

NB: I am not in any way affiliated to him, I just like his expertise. Best of luck.

but boss this particular issue have a good counter-approach na.

Normally I don't support visiting brothel or the likes for sex,it is always recommended to have sex in your place because you're in full control in such instances.

That's why paying for hookup is actually better than visiting a brothel.

And I have many reasons to believe you because most brothel girls can never follow you anywhere no matter how much you're willing to pay.

Better still avoid any sex vendor and focus on your social skills. They're thousands of girls available to lay with using just your looks and game.

One more thing,ordinary waka is never wise in today's world. most players tend to end up unfortunate in life. The other fortunate ones more or less have their spirituality well protected.

In other words,get a solid protection if you want to life a player life and retire with grace .

Manculated:
Comrade please leave them.

Most of them do not know how sacred seex is to both gender.

Sex is a gateway and portal in both gender.

I was ignorant of these important informations in my teenage years but not anymore.

Afterall, Everybody learns in the end!

senior man abed educate your younger ones make we learn from you. portal as how na?

dontai:
we can and we should, you can hold many people responsible at the same Damn time, it depends on the circumstances. We aren't talking politics here, you can discuss that with hellinus".

I take it you missed my point. Your reply makes you sound emotional. Learn to keep your emotions in check brother. It's a damn cold world.

Martinez39s:
In as much as female nature is invariably universal, some women are more calculative and smarter than others. Some won't easily fall for certain things that others will fall for (though they have the same objectives, some will be shrewd to thoroughly clear doubts and ensure safety before jumping ship). For example, some women will fall for strange numbers asking them out while others will be careful and suspect if their boyfriend is orchestrating it all to test them. This can be due to experience or common sense.

Your girlfriend, if she goes on to date someone else, will more careful given the experience she just had with you. Her future boyfriend will see it as a win? Lol. Maybe she was too careful in your tests because she was caught blatantly in the past. Many of these updates (e.g. boyfriend testing you, etc) have already been dicussed in many female whatsapp groups. Some even go as far a having a secret phone that their husbands and boyfriends don't know about and will likely never find.

Some have some experiences that others don't have. Sometimes, a woman's response to accounts online will depend on circumstances and factors. For example, what is your status and the perceived status of the guy asking her if she has a boyfriend? It is easy for a woman to reject a guy who has a lower status for relationship. Would that be the pass you were looking for? If it were a much richer guy whose identity she had verified and was sure to bag, would she have rejected?

You just need to accept that no woman is beyond hypergamy. Your mother, sisters, girlfriend and all the woman alive, dead and yet to be born will jump ship for the better deal. No woman is different. If you are looking for a relationship, you must have this in mind and proceed wisely: in how you trust, in how you invest in her, in how you lead, in how you prepare for a possible rainy day and disappointment from your spouse, etc. Stop looking for a different woman who only exists in lala land. If your girlfriend had an option better than you, she would leave you.

Life is just what it is. Hypergamy is not going anywhere. Hypergamy is not good or bad (personally, I think it is good), it is an unchangeable part of human life. Make peace with it.

Hypergamic attitude applies to men as well.

See the way old men are defecting from pdp to apc or how employees are dumping their jobs to a rival company that was once a competitor. We can't really hold it against the ladies.

Omoawoke:
How many people have animals killed this year?

How many humans have died due to human cause this week alone?

Are you seriously asking me this? Humans have been killing themselves even as we speak and you're sounding like it's not a common occurrence.

Omoawoke:
Talking of modern warfare? It’s no longer by numbers but by tech…
And I’m talking of species not limited to humans, I’ve not seen where animals wage war on each other

Humans are also animals. And aggression is not limited to only humans,lots of animals especially from the primates have been confirmed to be more aggressive than even humans.

Also,we both know that your analogy is based upon ancient civilisation and not modern day scenario.

Omoawoke:
It’s simple nature

Don’t let modern people with their hypocrisy wannabe deceive you


That’s the way it is…

Men and women are different and never the same..
that’s why a man has penis with uncountable sperms

For any specie to survive, the females must outnumber the males…. The males must be strong enough to defend the clan while the females must be numerous enough to repopulate.

Imagine an ecosystem with 10 males and 100 females and compare to one with 100 males and 10 females, the later is prone to be wiped out faster due to lower rate of reproduction.

If you want to run an animal farm, you will get more females and very few males to make sure there’s faster reproduction and growth

As a man, your ultimate goal is to make money and populate as much as you can..

At the bolded,you're very wrong if you're talkinga bout humans.

Due to our aggression and violent nature,a war is likely to break out between the two factions.

Now 100 men vs 10 men,who do you think will win? The former of course. And they will take the woman along with them thereby ensuring the survival of there genes.

jeffizy:
A congregation of yesterday men.

Comot body guy. Those people still get level for naija and will continue to remain so till death.

SmartPolician:
I didn't ask for it. I'm just explaining a trend. I still maintain that we don't have brave men in the military anymore. If we did, Boko Haram wouldn't last for 2 years.

That's because one crazy soldier will team up with other sincere ones, fish out the fifth columnists among them and wipe them out.

Boko Haram na small thing for soldiers who are brave enough to take over power from a military head of state.

You're indeed a smart politician who understands the game of power.

pretydiva:
They really need to step up their game
They have been quite disappointing

What do you know about football? I can bet my two hairy balls you've never run a 100km race in your life.

Iceberg3:
Abeg which miners are they talking about and what are they mining that there had to be an explosion?

Comrade na true o. Shey na skull mining abi mineral mining mek we know

Streak47:
Every bad behavior, every entitlement mentality, all the whole problems of gender dynamics. Every wrong you see today from the female folks are all the by products of simp men. Like all the bad attitudes your present gf is dishing out are all by products of simp men. Forget about all you see in this thread, you will be surprised that 99% of men in Nigeria are all simps.

You call your gf she dey ignore calls because there are 1000 men out there ready to pay just to get her number.

Or is it the ones that look down on 1 to 5K, na money for Garri. Cause there are many many men out there willing to spew cash. Any girl with strong values from even a rich home or a rich girl won't look down on money especially from a loved one. If that's all the person can give at the moment. Even if it's 100 Naira. Then, you will be surprised where the entitlement is coming from. All engineered by simp men.

A girl post a pics on social media, 100 men in the comment with likes.

Check a girl's DM, 1000 unread messages, like the normal 'send ur aza'

Check a girl's Whatsapp, u see "I'm the best guy for u please just accept me and forget about that ur boyfriend" next is, 'name your price'.

The ones that will be sending d"CK pics.

Onetime, a girl was telling me, do I know the number of men on her matter. I told her I no send, my own if you're with me, this is how I roll, what they do for u outside is none of my business.

The point is, there are several tasty men on the queue ready to give *5 of whatever you are given her. From attention, to money, unmerited stuffs just for existing. If u know the extent that some guys will go just to get a sniff of a pant, you will just give up on the entire thread.

It's not that one shouldn't give them female folks but the manner at which it's done. The ones that will abuse their wife in presence of a new girl just so they can shift new pant. So many examples.

That's why, you see some ladies read this thread & in reality they don't find these 1% of men with strong principles as portrayed in the thread. If you're the 1%, you find out you are a rare gem and you will gain respect among generations of tasty men that can go any length just to have a sniff of pusxy.

You all might not be able to understand the extent that these men go and beyond, only if you have female friends or sisters that are free with you to expose these things.

All the problems are caused by simp men. Like ubunja said, if men begin to change women too will readjust.

Bro you've said it all. Men are to blame for the excess of women in their domain.

Whether it's a country,state, down to a home setting.

Just imagine the shits women are doing in us or uk which lady could get the ball(sorry) to do so in saudi or iraq?

Tallesty1:
You don't have sense sha

see as laff wan kee me. Comrade why you come brutalize am sharpaly like dat? At least mek others sef chook mouth b4 you go give am K.O.


The guy sense sha no complete even if him get at all.

KingLennon:
Oga handler, do u thing you will remain ever young till u die? It is at old age that you will see the repercussion of the choices you made

Stop disgracing your ancestors.

Just how certain you are of being alive from now till the next day? How about a week? A month? 2 years? A decade?

Floky215:
Forget matter, some of them got baba working for them in the village, special case like yours they know would bring them money would be specially worked on...!! When if happen you said its their prayer not knowing kts the handy work of baba in the village, of course baba would get his own cut too from the money you are bringing in..!!

We all know as e be...nah those wey no sabi dey fall...!!!

If you fall for that, you become their eternal slave and would be remoting you any way they wish...!!

From your story it could also be coincidence and the pastor would cashout majorly from it...!!
But fact remains, they have baba working for them on special cases that they know money would come out of.....see he quickly point out tithe to you as if, if you don't pay tithe your business would crash....it's all manipulation to get into your pocket bro..!!

Bro too much sense will not kee you. Na the package wey dem run for him head b dat

samuelson06:
A big f— to that. Just gambling.

You don't go back to do Masters when you don't have a job. Your career is what supposed to determine the area you should do Masters. But these, people do PG studies ignorantly simply because because they have money or feel that's what they need to get a job.

Once you can determine your career direction, you can do your PG and stay there, then continue to advance to PhD and professional certifications. From there, those advance degrees and certifications will earn you promotion and you keep going. You don't do a PG program blindly.

Bro you're right. Wish many could see this. Some are even doing PG studies as a form of competition among peers.

LilMissFavvy:
I knew it would be a black-bald-baboon. Poverty and laziness will always make the female gender stoop to accommodate anything.

Banny don't be pained. You can still be my 4th wife though if you're interesting enough

KingLennon:
Marrying 2 women is like walking on a dynamite field o . Don't even think about it

You are a pussy nigga and you're still scared of that same pussy.

If you can't handle two cunts in a long-term relationship then you're not fit to be called a MAN.

samuelson06:
You've touched some real good stuff in this comment. Like you've said, children are only a blessing when they are well taken care of—not choking them up in a room and expecting miracle of success when they grow into adulthood.

There's a baby genius in Maths on TikTok. The child is just two and can't really talk but can do wonders when it comes to arithmetics (not simple ones). You keep wondering how he does it, you don't understand. The child gives you straight answers to multiplication problems that should take long steps to get the answers.

When commenters asked the mom how she did it, the young mom explained that she exposes the child to learning on YouTube. So, the child keeps absorbing and absorbing those materials until it got to a stage that his brain got configured to also solve those problems without further classroom learning.

What are we saying here? The parents were able to sacrifice a screen in the house, got internet connection, and made time to supervise the child to consistently feed on the content of whatever channel that was coming from. They sacrificed the time needed for the child at that time. Now, we can only imagine the genius that child will become in future. And that's going to make things very easy for the parents because the child is going to start making money earlier than his peers.

So, once you have prepared for the child and have everything in place, parenting becomes easy. You just get result without much struggles. How many parents make time or have the financial muscle to raise a child like that? But they don't see it that way. They don't even see anything wrong with their abysmal parenting situation. Their only joy is that they are married and God has "blessed" them with kid(s).

Then when it comes to contraceptives, I think the sensitization isn't enough, but then, who are you waiting for to sensitize you on what contraception method is best for you or how it can help your life? Sadly, there's so much knowledge gap there. Do you know that most married men don't even have regard for contraception? I had a neighbor who's now in his village because of self-induced hardship. Then I used to bring condoms to the compound and I'll call him to come get some like guys do, but nigga will be behaving as though I'm introducing him to some sort of sin. So, I stopped and used my weapons alone.

Years later, he's burdened his life with two kids in a bedroom flat. His wife was doing nothing while he was a Bolter. Long story short, they had to relocate to the village because of hardship—they couldn't afford the rent again. But what brought the hardship? Unplanned marriage and pregnancy! Once women enter marriage, they want to have a baby. They hardly care whether you use condom or you don't, afterall, everyone enjoys skin-to-skin. So, you got a child when you were not doing anything serious and as if that wasn't enough, you impregnated the woman again while she was breastfeeding the baby and that forced her to wean the child at hand.

The man rejected contraception because he thought married men don't need it and the woman wasn't responsible enough to insist on protection or no sex. So, it's a whole lot of issues that require reorientation of our people. They won't just listen to you and when the chips are down, they want to push some of their responsibilities to you else they see you as not wanting to help them. Meanwhile, both of you hard same opportunities and even from similar backgrounds but you were able to delay some gratifications to fix yours.

Sometimes, they may even feel you are doing fraud without knowing that there's nothing that can bring a man down so quick like him rushing into marriage and beginning to make babies he can't raise. That thing is one way ticket to poverty and when their eyes become clear, they regret everything. By then the children have probably become street children and no longer respect them, because the children now see them as useless or near-useless parents.

Again, where's the glory? Where's the joy?

You're talking facts bro. You've earned a follower.

Any young man between 18 - 30 from less privileged home or still struggling does not suppose to be thinking of marriage.

Na man you be. Even at 60 you fit still born abi you get menopause?

freshvine:
A lady will apologize to you before marriage but you'll start from where she stopped in marriage to the very end.

Banny try to give yourself brain. There are two types of men. The simp and the wise one.

There's a law of power that stated "ALWAYS KNOW WHO YOU'RE DEALING WITH".
So as a lady you should try to know the kind of man you're rolling with

If na simp then you go know the kind of tactics to apply on the unfortunate fool. On the other hand if na wise guys like me...you better watch out.

Jewessgratitud3:
The words were said out of anger. If you check well, she may not really mean it as a curse. She acted on her feelings at the time. She only needs to be corrected not thrown out like that.

What if she didn't say it out and is cursing him behind his back? That one too dey happen and the man will never know.

Abeg the lady spoke out of pain. The man too stingy

Just shut your damn trap. Any man that refuse to spend on your unnecessary nonsense is now being stingy.

What the f"uck does she need a wig for? Can't she survive or sleep at night without a damn wig?

Sonnobax15:
. . The way some of una dey reason sometimes dey make me dey wonder if na pap dey inside una brains or e just empty throway

So simply because I'm in a relationship with a woman,she should now see it as a MUST-DO something that I must provide all her needs? . Come on nigha, which particular pap dey inside your brain exactly? Guinea corn,or custard?

Bros na man you be. Na too much manipulation na him make their brain con dey see nonsense as normal

OtuologyProf:
I couldn't believe my ears.
She just grabbed my shoulder, jerking all over me and shouted "Babangida".

I have never been this confused all my life. See me wey be nwa afo igbo, at a time I started questioning my identity, like na me be otuologyprof abi my papa na from the north?

You never can tell. Maybe na your bura too sweet for am abokina

Olatara:
You want to sleep with everything that comes your way abii?

Feel free, in my world friends are friends, boundaries should be set.

If i should remain just friend with a girl then the benefits should be huge and obvious. If not then she have to pay with her pussy.

Olatara:
I have two male friends and I can't have sex with them. They more beneficial to me as friends.

Sometimes, I have the thoughts like if I sleep with so and so, how do we continue being friends?

Nah!!!

I reject am!

Una don see why girls like male friendship ba? If you like be foolish as a man and remain friends with a girl. Las las na you useless yourself

Juliearth:
You should have used the study route to emancipate yourself from this dilemma from the get go. Exploring that option now may liberate you, but then again, your innocent wife would end up heartbroken. Time fixes all things, so I would implore you to give it a year. No woman is ugly, you can bring her fashionably up to speed

Stop deceiving yourself. Many women are ugly as f*uk.

luminouz:
Your two cents is balderdash! You are LORD SIMPDERMORT!!!

That you can't even reason logically on the matter dey shame me as a man. How can you say "all the red flags are on his side"? Did you read the story at all? He wasn't perfect but that girl ain't the one for him at all. She is rude, proud, classless and a cheat. That you didn't see all these is a red flag to me. Na your type dey go behind your friend's back to do aproko to his gf.

I don't pray to have a person like you as my friend. You can kill me because of pussy.

Comrade no vex. As a real man you should always remember that you are living in a world full of simps.

if you don't master how to detect and deal with SIMPle men then you should blame yourself for whatever shit happens to you.

fadilaMaikiriki:
Tor, ba masala. Wani business ne kenan? Gaya mun, ina so.

Yawwa. Amma sai fa kin chire kunya. Kinsan mazaje most of them na idiots. Da sunga nonuwa ko duwawun mace sai hankali su ya fita su zama kamar sunyi hauka.

Amma fara turo min hotonunan naga ko zasu birge ni.

Niok:
you haven't eating since Thursday evening,
My guy this is Thursday evening na,
Why you dey lie like disss,
Next time if you dey copy and paste, dey look the nonsense wey you copy, before you go post am scammer

Comrade no loud am. Na him own hustle b dat no dey cast am like dat na

fadilaMaikiriki:
You will have to pay me though. You will have to pay me to keep them for me. What do you think?

See new business model. Another version of onlyfans albeit local.

Omo if only girls knew the true extent of power their body and pussy have over men(i mean SIMPS)..chai many girls for no dey ask for urgent 2k.


Girls it your body and your pussy. Use your natural resources to your advantage.

Fadila mai kiriiki ni bani da duri da nonuwa kinga Allah bura kadai ya bani. Amma inkina son partner a sabon business se kiyi mini magana. Za a samu kudi sosai fa aciki

luminouz:
So to you those attributes I mentioned in these two girls are PERFECT ATTRIBUTES? Abi you didn't read my story well ni?

As for your advice, it's bullshiiit. When there is no integrity or morals in a woman, which other mumu characteristics she fit get again biko? If she loves him, she won't make such disrespectful statements and if she is well mannered, SHE WILL MUDAFUCKING REFRAIN FROM TEXTING A STANGER LUSTING FOR HIS KISS!!

Jesus!!! That's why I hate engaging some of y'all women on this forum. Your emotions becloud logic and makes it seem as if una no go school.

Favvy or Fatai...just leave me alone biko...

She dey make justification on behalf of the lady because she'll definitely do the same if she come across such dude.

Anyways attraction has it own powers so no too blame the ladies.

Silentgroper:
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The said girl doesnt give a shiit.

Why you come dey carry am out for head like pesin wey dey sell gala for express

Omo gala sellers don suffer for nairaland. If anybody mention dem again i go carry the matter for my head LIKE GALA