Chinny024:

Not the cases of all men though...I sincerely believe there are still men with prestige and reputation..Any man who goes along bleeping anything he sees just cos he feel she has better quality than the wife needs urgent psychologist.

U can divorce if ur specifications are not met..Then hv all the exuberant gratifications u need!!

Sis,you are female and I'm not. Generally,we can't view things from the same perspective.

Anyways, you're not totally wrong either. Some men may choose to do so,but not out of class or because they can't stoop that low.

And yes,all female are not the same. Some are more endowed and prettier than others. And certainly some are younger than the rest.

We men value pretty and young ladies, that's our own nature. Most househelps fit this discription.

If you are concerned about your husband sleeping with your househelp, then buckle up and do the housework yourself or better still hire an older or unattractive girl for the job.

pansophist:
Nice plan, but wait o, I have seen people with such plans here, and even if they succeed, their life will never remain the same, and probably for the worse. Oya grab a popcorn let go

So you land at JFK New York airport, and probably that night, you match one whale on Tinder, and a week later, you propose. She was so excited and said YES. She said YES

So fast forward three months later, you guys are officially married, and the dawn of your American dream begins. You are on a straight ride to your green card, congratulations.

But because you didn't love her, and only sees her as a means to an end, her presence disgust you. Just the imagination of her triple-gallop potbelly rubbing your body during sex makes you vomit and wonder if the juice is worth the squeeze

She proudly puts you guys' pics all over her Facebook, and something just looks off. Everyone can see it, even you. But since you are the best she can get, she doesn't care. She is happy that she found love.

Her life to you was very real, which makes it easier for her to live. But your own life is filled with lies, that made every day an agony for you. For example, she wonders why you hate holding her hands in public or going out with her since you do go out always.

She wants a child, and to keep the lies going, you have a child with a woman you desperately do not want. The sight of the child alone makes you angry, as it represents a living testimony of your lies.

Also, you are aware that even when you break up with her, the child becomes a dagger in your underbelly where you will pay child support till he/she is 18, to a woman you despise.

She probably is not an idiot. She knew deep down that something is off, and that you are with her for papers. If she doesn't knows, she has families, friends, and of course, social media to tell her that

She has evidence from your behavior because the last time you kissed her was last year, and even during her birthday, refuse to perform sexually as the black African man that you are

You keep asking yourself, does this paper even worth it? The job you manage to get is a job that stresses your life, and the money goes to sustain a home you don't want.

And if the devil wants to punish you completely, a few months to when you will be free from her without your immigration status being affected, she serves you the sweetest karma, by breaking up with you.

Then you start afresh.

To swipe for a new whale. But now you are older, probably broke as the average American, and under heavy child support payment. You just realize that suffering comes in different ways.

You reminisce on your freedom back home, and how even though you were poor, you had your life together. And wish you never started this journey.

This might not be your fate, but it's the fate of so many men in the diaspora. I personally know a 36-year-old guy with three baby mamas, still undocumented. He thought he was smart and went on an impregnation spree.

But the girls ain´t idiots. They realise he needed them for paper and never gave it to him. And if he successfully becomes a legal resident, he will start paying child support to three children. He might not even see his salary, it will be deducted automatically.

Then you realize that the saying ¨No peace for the wicked is true¨. And wish you never started this mess.

Chai... boss You too much abeg. He who has ears should listen.

Gamesmart:


Weak defence line that you, like almost all women, hate to take accountability for your choices and free-will actions but instead like to blame men for these?

Who dey suffer las las?

WOMEN!

Na una dey dey miserable and never get that thing you have dreamed about since you were a little girl: Your dream man, who would cherish you and live with you forever.

We just want sex with women we find attractive. Many of us get that.

Na una dey dey dumped when you are older and lost your looks, na una dey cry me a river and on anti-depressants.

Gamesmart baba I hail o. I commend how you on how you just dey give this bitches gbas gbos e dey sweet me die.

You are truly a redpilled nigga. A nigga most real niggas should befriend.

Chinny024:

Lol...love of his life u said?.
Is beyond madness if a man stoops so low to sleep with a house help..

You guys should pay close attention to what this lady said.

The biggest mistake girls commit is thinking they are the same with men. Women are generally hypergamous while men aren't.

A girl will hardly Bleep a man she believes is of lower status than her, which is not the case for men. Actually for men,the lower her status the better.(that means the more submissive she is the better.)

Yes. It's really hard for a lady with money to be submissive.

So, ladies you need to know that men and women are different. We men can Bleep our househelp as far as she is younger and more submissive than our wife. Which is usually the case most of the time.

If you think we don't have standards or we are stooping low for such acts then you are gravely mistaken.

UyaiIncomparabl:
Of course.

But, he must have invested ×50 of the worth of that car on me first to get the dividends. You can't expect me to gift you a luxury car when you can only offer me a bicycle.

Don't expect to reap where you didn't sow.

But it's okay for him to gift you a car when you CAN'T even offer him a bicycle?

Guys,mek una no dey mumu ontop women matter Dem no send anybody papa. They are the real READPILLERS.

But even if I'm Elon musk I can't gift no car to no bitch. I'll rather gamble with the money.

seetomorrow:



thunder fire you ...

See, anybody wey fit swear sey him go login for nairaland for a whole a day and nothing make am laff out loud I go credit am 10k.

Guys and babes on this forum una too much abeg.

See as laff wan kill me for here.

pansophist:
A gentle person that is always a victim of bully is like a tree without deep roots, a country without an army, or a lion without it's claws and sharp teeth.

You don't de-fang yourself because you don't intent to harm others, but you sharpen your fang because there are people out there looking for those without fang, to prey upon.

Watch a predator in the wild. They always hunt the weak, the sick, the old, the pregnant, and the less agile. Politicians does the same, marketers does the same, and Nigerian police does the same, and even you. You don't threaten to slap an army for example.

Humans are more animals than civilised, and we apply these traits interchangeably to further our interest, depending on the circumstances.

A pastor that considers himself as the gatekeeper of morality will switch to animalistic mode when he has to maybe remove public eyes from him. He will bribe, play dirty, then switch back to being civilised afterwards. Humans are hypocrites.

A gentle person that is only civilised will loose to the man that is civilised and also animalistic. You need both, and that will keep the malevolent folks away from you.

The evidence to this are everywhere. You just have to open your eyes. Like armies are deterrents for an invasion from external forces, it's the same when you integrate your Animalistic part of you, to become whole.

I think seun should start paying some members in this forum,such as this gentleman here mr pansophist.

Boss, you too much.

pansophist:
´To love´ is sacrificial, ´being in love´ is self-serving. It is why it's called "Jesus loves you", not "Jesus is in love with you".

When you love someone, you sacrifice for them, you do things in their best interest even if they don't reciprocate. You let them be with people they love even if you do not feature in the picture.

Because Jesus loves you, he died for you even if you're an idol worshipper, or will wrap your marijuana with the Bible leaflet. He loves you beyond your shortcomings, and if you pray to him, he will forgive. That's true love. It's sacrificial.

Now to be in love is like that girl who says she loves you, but insults you when you can't give her 5k. She is with you for her selfish interest, to pepper her enemies that her bf is rich, or sees you as a permanent cash cow.

Only a few people can truly love, and the closest to that you'll get is between a parent and a child, not between couples. It's sad, but it's better than living in ignorance.

Exceptional and pragmatic insight as usual...carry on boss,you too much.

thesilentman:

forget,some of this women are better than a lot of our young single girls but we ignore them cos they've experienced childbirth.I couldn't believe her puna could that tight.Almost had penile fracture.Even i went tru stress ejecting my dick.

To those that doubt the effect of kayan mata hope una they see life proof? Just imagine what this nigga is capping,sey woman wey don born go tight pass younger girls. SMH

To girls with borehole pussies,indeed there's still hope for you. Just get the right 'materials' and guys like this can't be able to tell the difference

Omor simps don suffer for this nairaland.

Anybody go just drop something kom insult simps follow. Well, tank God sey I no be simp

If you are one... accept my condolences

Mosba:
I want to join politics, my aim is to at least represent my constituency in the house of representative. I want to sponsor a bill to protect men from wickedness and life long cheats of women on them. Some of us here don't even know we don't belong in the same tribe as the man we call father. You see a child looking like Kamaru in the family of Obinna and you wonder more when his head isn't even flatty. Some men are Labouring to sponsor up to 5 kids in the school but have no single child of their own blood. I will sponsor a bill to have every Maternity Ward submit blood sample to hospital labs and the labs shall be equipped with personnel and machines for DNA test. My bill will include a draconian punishment of a minimum of 10 years imprisonment for any married woman who has illegitimate child in the matrimonial home. Vote me! Vote me!! Vote me!!!

Bro I don't know if you're Christian or Muslim I don't care to know either but if you really mean this may Almighty Allah Grant you that position. I'll also put you in my prayers henceforth.

obinna58:

If you think life is difficult try being a simp

Comrade...you wan somebody to die b dat

There's nothing worse than being a victim of paternity fraud as a man. Aside from the financial loss which you would likely recover from,the main damage is both biological and psychology.

The woman is saying in essence a man out there has a gene superior to yours and she's willing to take a risk to have a child by that same man and bring it to a FOOL to raise him up.

Well,girls really are the best redpillers in that regard. I mean relationship-wise.

Georgejeez:
Thing is , if as a Man ,you leave the necessary and important chasing of life to create time for Women , you will always attract, date , secs and roll around with them , even with or without money .... There's always a woman for a man no matter how broke he might be ..


Then on the other hand if you as a Man chose to chase life goals , dreams, aspirations and relevant skills to set a proper foundation ,, you wouldn't have time to be chasing around women or waiting for them at home to come spend the day for you to have opportunities to sampling different ladies daily ,,, even if you find time to squeeze in one or two ladies into your life , you wouldn't have enough free time to give them the needed attention they crave .
When she gets tired of trying to get your attention she might fall in the arms of Mr A by the side because Mr A has so much time to spare ,, she will still continue with the goal driven man because she can perceive his prospects and bright future but will still be sneaking to meet the loafer and keep him as a side boyfriend ..
That's why many Ladies carry pregnancy from their broke ass boyfriends or Ex into Marriage to heap on their Husbands who have worked off his fingers over the years ,, some even continue seeing the side cocks even after marriage ...

Well done boss. You've said nothing but the truth.

Women always crave attention and that's one of the reasons they Bleep around because one guy can hardly give them the kind of attention they want. Imagine Dem come jam d guy wey no get their time for the relationship?

Well,if he has money they can be fucking on the side while managing him. Simps with money,mek una tek note if not na another man pikin una go raise.

pansophist:


If you like, restrict yourself from enjoying the beauty of human diversity because of your prejudice, na you sabi.

As for me, even Afghanistan, and North Korea, I'll like visit am, as far my safety is guaranteed. Having said that, let me enjoy my life mr man.

And more on Kazakhstan, it's very welcoming. I felt like a superstar, all my time there. Girls are rushing you since you're a novelty there, boys wants to be your friend.

I went to a liveband where a Nigerian guy that speaks perfect Kazakh performs with his Kazakh band. He is so forking wealthy, as evidenced by the car he came with.

He plays for the higher echelon on the Kazakh society, and he feels at home there. So you'll expect him to return back to Nigeria abi, make naija deal with him wotowoto

Twenty years ago for example, people warn others from going to places like Poland, Slovakia, Ukraine etc, that they are skin heads and so on. But I can start listing Nigerian men that went there during those times.

Many are politicians, business men, and are well established there. The West is too saturated, you can be successful anywhere if you're useful.

I could have start naming some companies in places like Poland, where I met many successful Nigerians that have lived there for decades. I did my intenship in an insurance firm owned by a calabar man in Katowice, Poland. The

His son also owned an English school there. It's not difficult to meet them. Go to these countries and try to locate a rccg church there, meet the pastors, and he will connect you with the Nigerian/African community there.

So bro, don't restrict yourself. This life is wide and bigger than the West. The world is a beautiful places. Have an open mind, and you'll enjoy it. I pride myself from having friends in almost any corner on earth. That's an asset.

Omo! Nicely put. Well done boss

Olokobintin:
What will it take me to have this beautiful damsel? My life? My heavenly race? My achievements? Staying away from family and friends? Please tell me.

For Nigeria, I have no faith. But for this beautiful girl, I have all the believe in her to turn my life around.

Guy you be disgrace to all men, simps or otherwise including your forefathers.

If na me born you,na just to use you do ritual. Bloody simp

blaise26abj:
Nigerians can be very emotional sha . Jungle justice just dey our blood .
So many things could have led to that young man’s death . Let them investigate and find him guilty first. Cancelling him is just jungle, social media justice .

PS - I don’t like him or his music ( same guy said he wanted to have a three.some with a mom and her daughter) but in my opinion about this matter , he is being judged unfairly .
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Bro I like your perspective. You see,in this life it's never easy to BECOME POWERFUL AND STILL REMAIN POWERFUL TILL YOUR DEATH.

If you look at the current happenings objectively,you can tell more than half of the individuals involve in criticising this dude are motivated by deep envy and the sheer glee of bringing down a once powerful person.

I stand with NAIRA MARLEY. He is being accused unfairly and it's deeply affecting his career.

GOD GO PUNISH ANY BLOODY HYPOCRITES WEY GO TELL ME RUBBISH

#justiceformarley
#justiceformarlians

MS247:




Iyabo Ojo no dey use clout play

They even went to print Aso Ebi T Shirt, ontop MohBad that they don't even have his song on their playlist or support his struggle

It's good to see the women standing up on this issue as well

PS: were is this boy that took MohBad to the hospital and also away from the hospital, the boy that annouced his death and showed his corpse


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Comrade...easy with the koboko. Na truth you dey yarn. Nigerians na bloody set of hypocrites including yours truly

Normally a wise guy suppose go for 16-22 year old girl if you want enjoy life. Anything above that na confirm mumu you be.

The younger they are the better they taste. That's the reason why they say 'sweet sixteen'. A man can never be a sweet sixteen. Our own sweet no dey finish till we die.

Shalommy:
Like your sisters.

Ashawo oshi

onyxo76:
ok, so what of cases where most people go raise alarm that his organ disappear and then after we check out the area, everything dey intact..is that he suspect return the thing immediately or the person just wan raise alarm.
then why be say na blokos dem target, why dem no target kidney, breast, liver and maybe heart also, shebi those organs sef dey useful for rituals too

It depends on the particular ritual they want to do. Not all rituals are the same,most importantly not all orgarns are the same. Furthermore,they are different babalawo in this line of work.

Some rituals demand something as trivial as a black or white cock, while some involves higher demand such as a life of a young virgin, some kinds of roots or plants that are dangerous to obtain without risking your life and sanity to demons.

Mind you. Not all rituals are for money only. They are a lots more.

Hmm... baba,this life deep o.

Doyin2:


What a contradiction.

You believe there is Jazz, but why is it difficult to believe that the same jazz can make penis disappear?

A whole body can disappear, but you find it difficult to believe that a small part of the body cannot disappear?

God Bless you broderly. Me sef the question tire me.

Juju normally is something difficult to explain. Because it's something that can't happen naturally.

Imagine person disappearing to another place,or person becoming invisible while still being in that place,or person stealing all your money by giving you just a single note, or person making you turn mumu to someone you once hate,etc

All these things no suppose happen normally,but as a result of black magic,it does. And a lot others.

onyxo76:


of course jazz dey no doubting, but all this organ disappearance dey one kin, how come we never see anybody wey go comot im jeans show us the disappeared organ after the event take place.

Na shame. And most times if you dey where e happen,you go see am.

Normally,Dem dey return am on time if Dem catch them come give them better beating.

One the most stupidest quote I've come across is "SEEING IS BELIEVING". like seriously?

You believe oxygen is in the air,yet have you seen it B4? How do you confirmed it's actually oxygen we are inhalling?

You believe many crap the white man tells you without seeing them but when it comes to juju you go sey u no believe untill you see am.

Okay. My own be sey,if u get sense for this world,sorry for this naija, better fortify yourself o.

If e happen, na oyo be your case. They say prevention is better than cure. Black magic,juju is real.

If it can work on prophet Muhammed (SAW) then no being born of a woman it can't work on.

onyxo76:
i cannot just understand all this claim of organs disappearing ,is that person go shake your hand and your blokos go just vanish for inside your jeans? and appear for the snatcher pocket abi how?

Guy I swear to God na real. E fit disappear go anywhere wey him like,but Sha e no go dey yourside again.

Them dey use am for jazz,even farmers too dey use am.

If you think sey juju is not real,then you are seriously handicapped already. Imagine you come get enemy when sabi better juju... Abi una think sey politicians dey like that?

Thermodynamics:


What about getting out of your comfort zone?
I mean that there are some cases where you feel uncomfortable about something and you forge ahead then the thing end up working out.

Purchasing your purpose means being comfortable with being uncomfortable.

What you said is valid.

But there's a difference between the two. Here you feel uncomfortable because this is something new to you, like,I have to do this even though it feels uncomfortable, while on the other side you feel uncomfortable because something is telling you DON'T DO THIS,you are not suppose to do this.

Shalommy:
Op... Can a guy date a lady without asking for sex？If yes, then i can date a guy without asking for money. Stupid question.

So you be ashawo b that na

A305:
The greatest embarrassment as a car owner is to be broke enough to let you car run out of fuel in Lagos traffic, and trying you best to get passerby to help you push it to the side of the road, then faking a frowning and disappointed face just to lie that it's a mechanical fault.


Silly you

Baba one bottle for you...

Thermodynamics:


What voice? How do I hear it? I don focus and listen I nor hear anything.
How do I focus and listen?

Here's another trick. Whenever you intend to do something,watch how comfortable or not you feel when you try to go ahead.

Generally, you'll always feel comfortable doing things that align with your interest and strength. You can start from there.

Maybe you're good with instruments(musicians, instrumentalists) or you are blessed with a natural cunning & Machiavellian mindset( business& politics),or you have a wild imagination (writing and acting),or you're comfortable with numbers(engineering, programming) etc.

Some people are blessed with a natural strength in their field. They will almost always Excel compared to others motivated by solely money or attention in that same field.

Achieving your purpose means sharing your gifts with the world in another way.

Thermodynamics:


Hear the voice hear the voice which voice?
How do we find the voice? You've just said nothing.

You see, this is one of the reasons why most people choose not to thread that path.

It's really complicated. And it's a whole lot easier to just get a job,get married,make money and die.

Unfortunately that's the life script for losers and weaklings and it brings neither power nor fufilment.

If you're really serious,you need to focus within. One surprisingly frightening aspect of this purpose of a thing is you are never too old to pursue it.

No matter your age,the voice will always be there. You just have to focus and LISTEN.