rabankonchas:
Very thoughtful answers.....

Scholace:
mumu talk.

Fiscus105:


If she can't see a single man from husband family and no single man from her own family to be discussing her marital issueS with but unrelated male friend, such woman is nothing but rag. She is olosho in making who wouldn't think twice to bed her so called bestie.

Ask urself honest question, if ur wife is fun of discussing ur marital issueS with her male friend, how would you feel?

Vinnie2000:


Ogbeni, Catching of FEELINGS must creep in from either the Guy or Lady.

Anyone in a BestieShip, who believes otherwise is Deceiving his/her self.

Fiscus105:



U see many of proponents of female besties don't know the different between CLOSE FRIEND AND (NEIGHBOURS, CO-WORKERS, SAME-CHURCH, SCH-MATES even ACQUITTANCE.)

Ireportlive:
Yes. Depending on your age and maturity

From your teenage years to perhaps 36years your libidos are high, you have high testosterone and you want more sex...

sometimes after 36 you have probably fvcked black white, yellow, green, fat , slim, girls.. and sex isn't your priorities

When sex is no longer your priorities you set a realistic goal of relationship

Quality20:
Why can't they be? Haven't u seen many girls on campuses who have guys as best friends n they remain cool

Olatara:
You want to sleep with everything that comes your way abii?

Feel free, in my world friends are friends, boundaries should be set.

Vinnie2000:


Lol,😄

Female BestieShip DEFENDERS should come and see your Post.😏

I did The Stuff with a Lady for 3 years. But she caught Feelings and I didn't Reciprocate her Love,
She Ghosted me and HATED me like Madt, thereafter.

iamtardey:
when you dey plan fxck her wotowoto New year eve is tomorrow sha sharp

WINDSOW:

Guy, you s!ck o.
S3x kill u there. Ewu

Eriokanmi:
After seeing your moniker, I didn't bother to speak my mind. Be civil little boy. Not everyone is a dog

rabankonchas:
Very thoughtful answers.....

maasoap:

They're friends and he's a man who she thinks would probably understand the mind of another man and she trusts him not to mislead her. Must she take advice from her family members even when she feels that she doesn't want family members involved?

brain54:

I live in the moment pls...

You digress a bit. All friendships end eventually for one reason or the other. I have also had very good male friends in the past some we no longer relate with each other. Some we relate just in passing. That bond that make a good friendship no longer there. Not that they were issues but maybe the friendship had served its purpose and we out grew it and moved on. These were guys we were so close we did everything together apart from sleeping with each other's girlfriends.

You think married guys do not end relationships with their unmarried male buddies too? I can tell you a personal story for free of how a guy I was best man for at his wedding started acting up right after the reception of his wedding towards his unmarried buddies and how he will "welcome" them back to the "click" when the become later married.

What is real friendship? Bro I feel everyone- male and female go into friendships for a reason. You are friends with your friends for a reason Dude. Does that mean you are taking advantage of them? Could be companionship or whatever... In the end no intention is truly genuine 100 percent.

Don't make it sound like women are villains for these reasons. Life happens.

It's odd and off you would say "the only friends a guy can ever have are his female relatives"
People do have sincere friendships with the opposite sex. I used my case as an example.


For the records none of My female friends were unattractive or ugly. I remember one in particular being a hottie and well composed/calm person who all the guys wanted.

In the very end we all have our different interpretation of life!

casualobserver:


If you have a female friend your wife is not aware of, there is something unwholesome about the relationship. If you are friends with a man’s wife and he is not aware of or fully aware of the nature of your friendship, there is something unwholesome about the relationship. Full stop!

You are not brought up well if you think as a married woman or man you can have platonic friendships with people of different sex that are not also friends to your partner or a relative.

Does your father have female friends that is not also a friend to the family? Does your mother have male friends that are not friends to the father or the family? Nonsense!

If you have a relationship/friendship so close to someone that you share intimate details and your partners are not aware of it, it is a signal, you should not be in that relationship/friendship.

There is nothing like different interpretations of life. There is right and there is wrong, there is moral and there is immoral. “Different interpretations of life” and all that crap is what people say to justify bad immoral and wrong behavior.

brain54:

You have really gone kukuu dude...