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PoliticsRe: In Solidarity With Ilorin Emir Against Isese Festival- A Rejoinder To Soyinka by BaEnki(m): 10:28am On Jul 09, 2023
The enclosed area really got me wondering what are the cultures & traditions of the people of Ilorin.

This statements is a slap on the faces of the entire Yoruba there who have lost or almost lost their sense of identity to these foreign mercenaries, but it’s none of my business, their forefathers sold them out, and they should continue being slaves and subservient to the alien rulership(Emir).

EducationRe: Mmesoma Ejikeme: Anambra Inquiry Says The Candidate Altered The Result Herself by BaEnki(m): 7:03am On Jul 08, 2023
Spy360:
This investigation should have been done first before calling her out.

All the same it's better to expose fraud than condone it. The fraud in Aso Rock should equally be exposed.
For JAMB to have called her out, they’ve done their investigations, more so, keeping quiet for a longer period in the face of such weighty allegations could have caused huge damage on the side of JAMB. The state government decided to do theirs ‘cos of public outcries and alleged persecution slammed on JAMB.
EducationRe: Mmesoma Ejikeme: Anambra Inquiry Says The Candidate Altered The Result Herself by BaEnki(m):
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Mr Saint What's your state let me help you with latest update on exam malpractice
I know it’s your job to dish out stats Mr ‘she’s from Enugu’😏. I’m a Nigerian and my state doesn’t matter Sir, as old as you’re you shouldn’t be engaging yourself in petty arguments and unnecessary dick measuring. Your likes are making this forum toxic for sane minds.

You hypocrite only brought this findings here to drive traffics to your website, deep inside you, you were & still pained by these findings. I know ‘cos I’ve been reading your warped inputs here regarding this Mmesoma’s issue.
EducationRe: Mmesoma Ejikeme: Anambra Inquiry Says The Candidate Altered The Result Herself by BaEnki(m):
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Most of you enjoying being stupid, the said girl is from Enugu State but resident in Anambra state, they took the responsibility because she is a resident of Anambra state, the girl that got the highest core she is from Anambra state
Keep quiet Mr man, you’ve always been an hypocrite, I’ve been seen how warped & tribal your mind is with your submissions on this platform.

So because she has finally admitted her ‘fraudtivities’ she’s no longer from Anambra, and suddenly became a migrant from Enugu. Hypocrite!!
EducationRe: Mmesoma Ejikeme: Anambra Inquiry Says The Candidate Altered The Result Herself by BaEnki(m): 6:35am On Jul 08, 2023
She’s so emboldened. Little girls of these days lose their minds & morals once they start following boys up & down, especially the ones following yahoo boys.

Not surprised a bit, I’m sad for her ‘cos she’s forever dented😞

Jokes EtcRe: Bachelors, Come And Tell Us Your Rank Here by BaEnki(m): 6:07pm On Jul 07, 2023
Lieutenant Bachelor 😂
PoliticsRe: Tribalism Has Finished Nairaland - This Is Serious by BaEnki(m): 6:13pm On Jul 06, 2023
WorldRichest:
Hausas are not maong, only about 2% of them can read and write.

The tribal war is between we Omoluabis and the drug pushers who were bought at the baby factory
You think only about 2% of Hausas can read & write?
That’s absurd and a joke taken too far.
PoliticsRe: Tribalism Has Finished Nairaland - This Is Serious by BaEnki(m): 6:11pm On Jul 06, 2023
The main culprits of tribalism on nairaland are the Igbos and Yorubas, Hausas hardly engage in such.

I hope these set of people reason with their heads and stopped being nuisances on public forum.
EducationRe: Ruger Told A Lady To Say Fvck You To Her Boyfriend On Stage by BaEnki(m): 10:46pm On Jul 05, 2023
This bs might get him into some deep shit. Some brothers are so cold & numb.
EducationRe: FACT CHECK: Did Mmesoma Ejikeme Actually Presented A Fake Result? by BaEnki(m): 8:15am On Jul 05, 2023
Jogs1900:
Jamb said she used her personal number to send USSD for her result 4 times and her original result was sent to her..Did she not see her original result too or someone else used her phone for the ussd
I’m not disputing this fact, Of course, she got her real result from JAMB via text but was carried away by the fake that was doctored for her by herself or someone close.
EducationRe: Why JAMB Is After My Daughter – Ejikeme Mmesoma’s Father Opens Up In Tears by BaEnki(m): 7:59am On Jul 05, 2023
This man clearly knows nothing, many false claims in his statements.
EducationRe: FACT CHECK: Did Mmesoma Ejikeme Actually Presented A Fake Result? by BaEnki(m): 7:55am On Jul 05, 2023
Guys let’s face the fact and stop being sentimental. The said result she held in her rebuttal clip is clearly a doctored one, how she came about such result is what I don’t understand, I mean did she doctored it herself, or someone did so on her behalf? I’d go with the later because she already exonerated herself of any wrongdoing by claiming that she printed the ‘result’ from the JAMB portal(false), and I believed that proper investigation unravel that. Having said that, the JAMB result notification slip she was holding was stopped being issued by JAMB since 2021 due to such issues like this.

My guess is someone close to her rode on ignorance to pull such a damaging stunt to attract public gains for her with or without her consent, and she was made to believe that the result is from the exam body. There are many fake JAMB portals & result upgrading scam sites out there to feed on these youngies naïveté.
RomanceRe: I Need Help, I May Never Get Married. by BaEnki(op): 10:26pm On Jul 03, 2023
Aladdin1:
Bro is a long story! and i assure you its a serious battle.but how i overcame is that;"i went spiritual" so my advice to you is do some findings and checks about this ur issue and "go spiritual".if you do nothing .it tends to Bleep up ones lovelife,relationship and its goal is to prevent you from being happily married.
Do you think a dead person can still pass for a spiritual husband or wife?

About doing some findings, I don’t even know where to start from, or where to go.
RomanceRe: I Need Help, I May Never Get Married. by BaEnki(op): 10:23pm On Jul 03, 2023
ojaysam25:
Op, excessive masturbation has messed up your head.
Only if that would impress me. Wrong notion.
RomanceRe: I Need Help, I May Never Get Married. by BaEnki(op): 10:21pm On Jul 03, 2023
Pukkalolo:
Losing someone very dear to you can actually make one feel the way you feel: less human, no emotions, unreal feelings, no love, so cold & numb.

I understand how that feels. You really 'love' that person, but she's gone. The love you had for her is still hanging somewhere... Love is like an energy: it cannot be created or destroy. It's only transferable. You are finding it difficult to transfer that genuine love to any other woman.

That is why even though your girlfriend love you with everything, you couldn’t reciprocated the love because the love belongs to someone else i.e the person so dear to you that you lost in an accident.


Let me know if I'm making sense.
You’re right, I think that’s the genesis of my current dilemma, I’m wondering how I could get out of this.
😪😒
RomanceRe: I Need Help, I May Never Get Married. by BaEnki(op): 8:58pm On Jul 01, 2023
HellVictorinho6:
u can go to hell
Who be dis one?
😏
RomanceRe: I Need Help, I May Never Get Married. by BaEnki(op): 8:44pm On Jul 01, 2023
FRANCISTOWN:
It's either you are suffering from depression, PTSD, Bipolar Disorder, Conduct Disorder or Borderline Personality Disorder.

I think it's more or a Borderline Personality Disorder.
Don't worry about it, it's a phase. BTW, you need something that'll make you extremely happy, maybe a whole lot of money or a career breakthrough
I checked out all of these ‘disorders’ and I seemed to had a bit of them all. Well I guess all human does?
RomanceRe: I Need Help, I May Never Get Married. by BaEnki(op): 8:42pm On Jul 01, 2023
Aladdin1:
Am not kidding at all o!.it may be funny sha! but it the truth.i have been there!.
How did you get help please?
RomanceRe: I Need Help, I May Never Get Married. by BaEnki(op): 8:41pm On Jul 01, 2023
Pukkalolo:
Have you hurt any woman in the past before?
No, I haven’t. However I’d lost someone so dears to accident I was fortunate/unfortunate to have survived. Her memories are so fresh, and hard to let go.
RomanceRe: I Need Help, I May Never Get Married. by BaEnki(op): 10:22pm On Jun 30, 2023
@Slawomir, jman06 and everyone’s that’s commented, my issue isn’t just bout women alone, I don’t know the best way to present this. My current predicament is that I’m loosing my humanity , I’m so numb and cold, I don’t feel anything, so I need help asap until I’m finally lost in me. Women is just btw ‘cos I thought I found someone that could bring me back from this strange and confusing journey that’s getting me lost.
RomanceRe: I Need Help, I May Never Get Married. by BaEnki(op): 10:15pm On Jun 30, 2023
Davidcorny:
The movie pearl made me understand that some people smile but don't know what joy is and just fake those emotions.
You got my point, I fake everything, the smiles, the feelings, the affections, the gestures, even the love but I’m so bad at faking or lying, it’s all bad on me. Friends got me but I got no friends because I don’t feel any of them.
RomanceRe: I Need Help, I May Never Get Married. by BaEnki(op): 10:12pm On Jun 30, 2023
Aladdin1:
Go settle with your spiritual wife. you no normal at all.this i have seen!.lol.where dat nairaland falseprophet self? make e come break coconut for ya head.
For the first time I read sense to this, but you’re kidding right?
RomanceRe: I Need Help, I May Never Get Married. by BaEnki(op): 9:17pm On Jun 30, 2023
@Reminderz thank you, the first paragraph is right, I’ve gotten so used to solitude & other spirituality stuffs. I’m lost within myself & all effort to get back to the outside world hasn’t Ben effective. It’s kinda getting worse.

About the sex, I don’t even feel it again, I feel no pleasure whatsoever. The only thing I still feel is music, I’m tired & wearied out of any other thing.
RomanceRe: I Need Help, I May Never Get Married. by BaEnki(op): 9:10pm On Jun 30, 2023
And please it’s not about marriage, I only brought that up ‘cos I thought I found someone that would give me that feeling, she’s the best candidate so far, nothing came close. But I was wrong and that got me in thinking mood what could be wrong with me.
RomanceRe: I Need Help, I May Never Get Married. by BaEnki(op): 9:08pm On Jun 30, 2023
Olarewaju89:
grin

The only thing you are lacking now is sense of humor and you really need it.
How please? You don’t seems to understand my point, I’m currently unmoved by anything, and I want to change that.
RomanceRe: I Need Help, I May Never Get Married. by BaEnki(op): 9:06pm On Jun 30, 2023
slawomir:
Damnnn niggar

Just relax you are not the only one in this situation

Someone told me am not mentally ready for that life style

And I accepted...
So how do you cope?

I want to get out of these circle, I don’t know what I really needed, I’m blessed with the things I wanted, but they changed nothing.
RomanceI Need Help, I May Never Get Married. by BaEnki(op):
Why?

I easily get tired of relationships, I don’t think I can sustain one.
We had a great one why we were apart but that changed upon her coming to spend some time with me, I discovered that I didn’t really love her the way I thought. I can’t quite bond with her during her time with me, I know that I’m so cold and numb to most things and she feels like I don’t love her. She loved me with everything but I couldn’t reciprocated the love, she thought I was seeing someone else. I had to call it quit to stop hurting her feelings, but she became more hurt & devastated. She left to her station so sad, never planned that.

Guys help me, I feel less human, no emotions, no pains, unreal feelings, no love, so cold & numb, the things I love in the past that make me happy changes nothing again. I got myself all l needed to feel human but I’m still cold. I had of the most beautiful & classy lady out but I throw her away, I doubt if she’s ever gonna forgive me.

How can I regain my humanity? Practical solutions plsss!!!

Ps
@Slawomir, jman06 and everyone’s that’s commented, my issue isn’t just bout women alone, I don’t know the best way to present this. My current predicament is that I’m loosing my humanity , I’m so numb and cold, I don’t feel anything, so I need help asap until I’m finally lost in me. Women is just btw ‘cos I thought I found someone that could bring me back from this strange and confusing journey that’s getting me lost.
RomanceRe: Newly Wedded Nigerian Army Officer In Trouble For Posting Wedding Video by BaEnki(m): 10:23am On Nov 27, 2022
That's the standard in the military.
Christianity EtcRe: Who's Your Favourite Bible Character? by BaEnki(m): 9:08am On Nov 27, 2022
Melchizedek
FamilyRe: Ladies, Would You Let Your Husband Do This With Your Baby? (Photo/Video) by BaEnki(m): 10:27pm On Nov 05, 2022
Explorers:
Me alone sef, i can't try that sh***t.



See video:

https://www.instagram.com/p/B29gIkfjLlQ/?igshid=bwvkpn8uud4j
If I was a lady I would. As a man, I can do that and more smiley

Life's all about funs, adventures, and rediscoveries.
PropertiesRe: How Many Plots Of Lands Are In 1000ft X 2000ft? by BaEnki(m): 10:13pm On Nov 05, 2022
Should be little above 6 plots I think. Experts can come in.

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