Spylord48:



people will just view every favor in a spiritual way..What if the woman is sent by God to help out?
What if this opportunity will be a stepping stone to something good for him in future?
What if God wants to use the woman to opdnta way for him? and yet you want him to loose it because of little things that doesn't matter. he searched for job many years and when he got,he also got free accomodation, transport etc and U are telling him not to stop viewing some favour with ordinary eyes..If the favour isn't ordinary, yiy can help him with accomodation or a better job that will not be destructive na

Bro. There is no free lunch in life.
The guy enjoying the 'favour' knows where the shoe pinches him. That's why he brought the issue here.

He will become an errand boy eventually.

Now if he moves out, he runs the risk of losing his job. So he is trapped isn't it? For how long?

Come on, nobody really cares about your progress and wellbeing. You have to take bold decisions and damn the consequences. With prayer though.

I am not saying he should quit now. But he should start planning to quit whether he gets another offer or not because he may NEVER get another offer if he doesn't quit this one. Meaning he is doomed.

Quitting the job starts with him moving out. He has to plan towards it. I guess he is still single.

thegentleman:
You can't blame OP, OP couldn't resist the awoof offer.

If that guy is not careful, he will remain in that room for the next 20 years with nothing tangible to show for it.

Stop viewing every favour with ordinary eyes.

Some favours are destructive.

TonyeBarcanista:

I agree with the poster that the Mom is at fault 100%.


God through the Holy Bible commanded us never to spare the rod when a child err because sparing the rod means spoiling the child. Same God stated that He "chastises those he loves".

Your Aunt, his mum has already failed in discharging her duties. she refused to show him love by administering disciple when she ought to but took to pampering instead. It is a shame and highly unfortunate.

My man, only prayer and advice can change the boy right now as no amount of punishment would reconstruct his attitude. In fact, it will make him more hardened!!!

Wrong!

At 10, consistent, merciless flogging will get the job done.

He needs to be taken away from his mum and assured that he was free to die.

Too bad!

aflyingbird:
I waited for marriage. It's not a big deal. Even if I wasn't a virgin, my husband wouldn't have cared and he told me this. Ladies, the right man wouldn't care about you being a virgin or not, he's going to have other things he's looking for, things more important than virginity.

Your husband doesn't want to you to be proud that's why he is acting like he doesn't care.
In reality and at your back, he is boasting about it to all and sundry.
Every man loves and cherishes a virgin.

HisSexcellency:
Osinbajo is a disgrace to professorship and pastors all over the world. Like King Saul, God is regretting right now why He allowed him become vice-president.


Where was professor pastor when
1. snake ate our money in Inec office
2. Maina found his way back to the civil service
3. Herdsmen became land grabbers and murdered.
innocent lives
4. Cabals took over the presidency.
5. Rats chased mr president from his legitimate office.

Or cat got his tongue

So you expect him to lead an opposition within the presidency?

Where is that done?

Are you a dullard

So he knows...
Fulani herdsmen should relocate to the core north.
That's all!

Where can I do masters?

Virus777:


Tboss is from Edo state.

Some Yorubas are from Edo state.
Her name is Yoruba.

I love him.

Weldone sir!

12345baba:
There are more women than men in the world. So I guess they are learning to share so that the love will go round

That's a myth!

There more men than women.

Homosexuality and sex dolls will shrink the population of available men.

Also, every woman wants a responsible man who happen to be very few.

JustCryptos:


You for stay dey form entrepreneur naw. 2016, I almost slipped into depression and perpetual anger running my business. I had to take a break.

2016 was the year hunger and idleness reset my brain for good.

What a year!

EternalTruths:



Keeping watching Eastward while the Fulani Herdsmen Terrorists rape your women.

Nah. We are on top of this.

It's you who said there are no herdsmen issues in the yeast. Arrant bullshiit!

EternalTruths:
They are now in Afonja land.

SS/SE get ready.

After Obiano asked villagers to pay for 78 cows in exchange for N137,000 for damage caused to farmlands by herdsmen

Come on, the yeast is already conquered. Even MACBAN confirmed they dont need cattle colonies in the yeast cos it's already in the bag.

IamaNigerianGuy:


Paid employment is possible due to a business someone has made successful

My guy, somebody somewhere is paying/sponsoring the successful business - government, international donors, bank loans...

You are on your own if you don' have any of those backings especially in Nigeria.

Go figure!

Business/entrepreneurship is extremely difficult in Nigeria.

Nigerians are something else. They just won't patronise you no matter what they stand to gain unless it's a referral from a friend.
And when they do so they believe they are doing you a favour.

I had to scurry for paid employment when hunger wan kill me. Zero bank account, less than 1k in hand at any point in time.

Never again, in Jesus' Name.Amen.

SalamRushdie:
It was very wrong for Governor Shettima to attempt to tribalise the military ..In the heat of the battle when bullets are flying past , rumbling of explosives messing with the eardrum /balancing and the scent of death mixed with smells of burnt gunpowder and cordite fill the air , at this point there is no tribe , no religion , no colour or creed but just foes and friends , enemies and brothers , bravery and valor , comradeship and camaraderie ...Governor Shettima should not tribalise the battle front jare

True.

A southerner will always handle Boko Haram Terrorists more ruthlessly than a core Muslim northerner when given the opportunity.

We all know these abookis are sympathetic to Boko Haram including Buhari.

Now the brave general's career is going to be threatened.

Ok

I hope it's not to disarm one side.

AccessME:
women are used as sex objects. They don't have much values in the eyes of men aside satisfying their sex huge, giving birth to children, taking care of the children while growing up and looking after the house.


And after these effort by housewives, some men will still have the Gods to raise hand to beat their wife.

it just so saddening and disheartening!

It's 'guts'

superemmy:


And you think Buhari might not dump Osibanjo this time around SMH

For whom?

Ehn

Abenapes!

superemmy:
Used, Dumped only to be reused.

Some people call this one Godfather of Western Politics all I see is just - Tissue Paper

He still has a foothold in the VP.

Don't be a dullard!

Is Buhari a loooonatic

truthonmission:


Are there not yorubas who are paid to do thesame job？ bunch of failures.

Don't be a looonatic!

Can 2 people lead the charge at the same time?

I see siblings...

Gullible NLers

princeSammyz:
iddiot? Please don't. Colonies is a solution the government is looking into, and I think its workable, and may even be of economic significance. And if you have a good idea, you may suggest it too. This is a forum

Which govt? Do we have govt?
Are you from Ogun state?

Every reasonable southerner has rejected cattle colonies.

princeSammyz:
There will be no peace as long as these herders continue to roam free! The answer lies with colonies!

Don't let me call you an iddiot.

Colony kor settlement ni

Where are the men in these areas?

Where is the OPC in the area?

Aren't there vigilante?

Where is the governor?

Will Fayose leave Ekiti and come and fight for Ogun people again?

This Amosun is something else o. What kind of irresponsible governor is this?

Let the House of Assembly enact the anti open grazing bill ASAP.

What nonsense!