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If one woman is not enough for you, one hundred women will not be enough for you. Solomon had 300 wives and 700 concubines yet he wanted Queen Sheba. The problem is not your woman. The problem is you. You can look for a thousand and one reasons to justify your philandering ways, but the truth is that you're sick and you need help. The primary essence of a relationship is not sex. It is companionship. Being with a person who completes you; with whom you can be vulnerable, open about your feelings, share your dreams, aspirations and pains, get encouragement and support...that's a proper relationship and the essence of being marriage. It is an error for sex to be the primary attraction. There are 24 hours in a day. Let's say you spend 3 hours having sex – based on say you no get work – which is highly unlikely – what will you spend the remaining 21 hours doing? Dating or being married to a person who you can't talk with and play with is one of the most foolish mistakes you can make in your short time on earth. We wish you good health from Balm in Gilead Natural therapy center. The home of solution to all kinds of disease. Contact DR Evans Edionwe to get FREE consultation - +2348055515629 +2348034875234 +2348050505666
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1- When a woman is angry, she doesn't mean over half of what she says... if possible always hug her to calm her down. 2- The most difficult time for a woman is when she is away from the man she truly loves. She can get distressed. 3- It takes time for a woman to trust a man, its hard to change her mind when she does, but if you mess-up, you might just forget it. 4- A woman is such a school you will never graduate from. 5- Your wedding certificate with her is not a "driving licence", its just a "Learners permit". Continue wooing her. 6- She can be very bitter now, and a very sweet angel later on, it all lies in your approach. Yes treat her right always. 7- A woman hardly forget things, she remembers hurts more, avoid making her hurt. Avoid negative words and affirm her always. 8- A woman can be highly secretive... Most times when they prove hard to men, they go to their closet and cry to friends. Make your woman your best friend. 9- All women Love to be begged. Men often miss out on this. Yes please handle them like babies sometime its all they want. 10- All women have a unique character like salt, their presence might not be noticed but their absence makes all things tasteless. 11- if she loves you she can do everything you ask of her as far as it makes you happy, so never force her to love you. 12- If you don't take care of her, she will find someone who will. They are always there only that she chose you. 13- If a woman truely loves you, even to ask money from you she will be shy, but as a gentleman don't wait to be asked and most especially if she loves you she can never leave you to spend unnecessarily. that’s what makes them special... If you have a good woman in your life, don't take her for granted. They are expensive jewelry.❤️ We wish you good health from Balm in Gilead Natural therapy center. The home of solution to all kinds of disease. Contact DR Evans Edionwe to get FREE consultation - +2348055515629 +2348034875234 +2348050505666
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Don't start celebrating DATING ANNIVERSARY on facebook . There is NOTHING yet to CELEBRATE!! Don't start taking COUPLE PICTURES and flooding the social media with it, you have not done ordinary INTRODUCTION. And mind you, INTRODUCTION is not marriage o. After INTRODUCTION, things can still very much scatter and everybody will go back to his mini flat or self contained rooms, or face-me-i-slap-you-one-toilet-for-five. Don't put yourself under PRESSURE. If you are married, you can post your couple picture everyday, assuming you and your husband are jobless of course. But at that point, it will be your cup of tea, a permissible tea for that matter. But you have not married, you have sprayed the universe with 'My Boo, my husband, my wife'. You even do FATHERS DAY for your boyfriend. And say 'thank you for leading us '. Leading what?! Isi Gini? Ogini kwa? You are not thinking well o, Nwatagwo. Get married first, then Flunt later. Don't marry out of SOCIAL MEDIA PUBLICITY DURESS. I have done that stupidity before, I was warned against it, but lovu wantintin, lovu nor dey hear word, lovu ear-block. It will look as though your counsellors are not feeling as the love is sharking you. Or maybe they don't want you to celebrate love. Okay o. Now, when the relationship collapses, you have to hide in shame. The funny thing is Facebook never forgets. After you have moved on, facebook will still show you pictures of your stupidity five years ago. Just in case you wish to celebrate it. We wish you good health from Balm in Gilead Natural therapy center. The home of solution to all kinds of disease. Contact DR Evans Edionwe to get FREE consultation - +2348055515629 +2348034875234 +2348050505666
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When last did you call your husband a pet name?, During courtship? Your mode of calling him is Daddy.... Where are those names you call him before? Names like honey, my love, my crown etc When last did you buy your husband a gift? Yours is to receive his'. When last did you carry your wife? On your wedding day? When last did you two spend quality time and watch movie together? During your dating period? When last did you intentionally hug? If your wife should hug you, you begin to wonder what she's up to! When last did you wrap your hands around your wife's shoulder, only when you want to snap? I dare you to visit your wife while cooking dinner today, wrap your hand around her shoulder and say"Well-done, my wife." When last did you tell your wife "I love you"? I DARE you to send your spouse this message �right now and see how he/she feels. Darling! You're beautiful (handsome) I love you. ❤️ Please keep the love going. The journey is still far. Let your kids know that "Ow! Dad loves Mum" Let them say "Ow! Mum loves Dad!" We wish you good health from Balm in Gilead Natural therapy center. The home of solution to all kinds of disease. Contact DR Evans Edionwe to get FREE consultation - +2348055515629 +2348034875234 +2348050505666
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1/ give her money � 2) just give her money 3/ just dey giv her money 4) my brother just dey giv her money � 5/ my brother no stop just dey giv her money � 6/ even do una brk up just dey give her money � 7/ my brother giv her money oooo�� 8/ my brother I said giv her money We wish you good health from Balm in Gilead Natural therapy center. The home of solution to all kinds of disease. Contact Dr Evans Edionwe to get FREE consultation - +2348055515629 +2348034875234 +2348050505666
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My wife is my wife, her past is her past. If you've ever slept with her or you know people who have slept with her, that's your problem. Every woman has a past she surely regrets and every good human being makes mistakes, but that doesn't prevent her from being an ideal woman for another man. I don chop am before no mean anything to us. Won't stop us from marrying her. She's a class of her own, there's a queen in her. You saw only S*X, We saw FUTURE �. Brothers, let's take the time to make them happy, to value and to get others to respect our women instead of taking the time to listen to criticisms of our women while promoting/encouraging hypocrites to denigrate our women. Past is past, yesterday can never come again, it was a lesson, it was a process that helps remoulded our lives for the now and later. We'll never be kids again, we're growing each day. Don't be tired of learning as long as life keeps teaching. We wish you good health from Balm in Gilead Natural therapy center. The home of solution to all kinds of disease. Contact Dr Evans Edionwe to get FREE consultation - +2348055515629 +2348034875234 +2348050505666
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1. Many couples hardly kiss and they only hug each other when they receive good news. ����� 2. The husband only puts food in his wife's mouth only when she is terminally ill and cant feed herself. ����� 3. If you see a man opening car door for his wife means the door is faulty, we all know this one... We been dey talk am like joke but na true ����� 4. The only thing that makes an african man touch his wife's neck is when she complains of fever. He wont touch it again till the next fever. ��♂️ ���� 5. The only time he can carry his wife on his arms is when she is in labour. ��� 6. if you see them seated outside at night, dont think they are romantic. They are only waiting for the smell of insecticide to vanish. ��♀️��♂️ 7. Many wives buy gifts for their husbands only when they are hospitalized.��♂️��♀️ 8. The only time they race together is when there is danger and everyone is running.���♀️��♂️� 9. The only time they go for evening stroll is when they want to go and lay a complain to the parents of the person that beat their child or got their daughter pregnant.���♀️��♂️��♀️ 10. The only time they bath together is when both are late for work. ����♀️�� 11. the only time a wife looks closely to her husband's eyes is when he complains of dirt in his eyes.��♀️�� ��♂️ In short in Africa, many marriages are just for sleeping and waking up, raising kids and ageing together till death comes. But it's not supposed to be so, Let's change for better, change begins with you..... Don't wait until you see someone do it before you start doing it, do what needed to be done so you go enjoy your marriage. Dear future wifey, be ready oo! Cus me I'm ready, I go finish you with romance! � Thankiu We wish you good health from Balm in Gilead Natural therapy center. The home of solution to all kinds of disease. Contact Dr Evans Edionwe to get FREE consultation - +2348055515629 +2348034875234 +2348050505666
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A graduate in zoology was having difficulties in finding job......He saw an advert in one of the daily news paper for a job at a zoo. At the interview, the manager told him that their gorilla which has been a tourists attraction has died, so they needed someone to dress and disguise as a gorilla since they have not been able to afford a new gorilla. The graduate was embarrassed but since the salary was very okay and attractive, he accepted the job offer On the first day, he put on the gorilla skin and entered the cage, started jumping up and down, beating his chest while roaring like a gorilla......... The next day, he put on the gorilla skin and started moving around the zoo again and mistakenly entered another cage untill he found himself starring at a lion , the lion roared and started moving towards him. The scared graduate forgot that he was a gorilla and started shouting like a human being "help! help!! help!!!".,, The lion leaped onto him, knocked him to the ground and whispered onto one of his ear; DEJI ... it's me GBENGA your course mate, no fear, guy no work for this country,....., Infact you see that crocodile wey dey inside that water ?, Na Micheal Oyetoro our class rep be that oh�� We wish you good health from Balm in Gilead Natural therapy center. The home of solution to all kinds of disease. Contact Dr Evans Edionwe to get FREE consultation - +2348055515629 +2348034875234 +2348050505666
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DEAR WIVES... 1. If you want your husband to make love to you often, have a good attitude. No matter how sexy you look or dress, your husband will not find you attractive if you have a bad attitude. 2. If you want your husband to be eating with you, be pleasant to be around. No matter how tasty your food, it loses taste when being around you is stressful. 3. If you want your husband to be opening up to you sensitive and difficult information, learn to keep secrets and not to overreact. A man refrains from sharing too much when he is scared information will be leaked or be misinterpreted. 4. If you want your husband to be praying with you, stop acting as if your prayers are more powerful or you are closer to God than him. Allow your husband to pray his kind of way. 5. If you want your husband to be taking you out often, stop bringing drama and ruining dates with issues that should be dealt with at home. No man wants to go spend time and money at a venue where he will be emotionally drained. 6. If you want your husband to solve the issues in your marriage, stop seeing yourself as the angel and him the devil, stop attacking him or labelling him as "The agent the devil is using to ruin your marriage". See also your fault, show him you are on the same team and seek solutions, not finger pointing. 7. If you want your husband to come home early, be peaceful. The wife tends to own the home and so can easily make the husband keep off if she becomes harsh, uninviting and combative. 8. If you want your husband to be chatting with you and calling you up, be fun to talk to, make him miss you. If each time he calls you or chats you up it ends up with you starting a fight, reminding him of his wrongs or ordering him around he will avoid communication with you. 9. If you want your husband to receive your suggestions and corrections then speak to him with a tone of love. If you come at him shouting, dictating at him or manipulating him he will harden up. If you got value, please share this post and God bless you. ❤️� We wish you good health from Balm in Gilead Natural therapy center. The home of solution to all kinds of disease. Contact Dr Evans Edionwe to get FREE consultation - +2348055515629 +2348034875234 +2348050505666
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Dear future wife, Listen to me carefully, divorce is not an option. I forgive you for whatever mistake you are going to make, it's already forgiven. No matter how much you get mad at me or annoy me, you see these my hands ✋ ✋, I will never use it to hit you. No matter how angry I am, I won't reject your food, ask my mother (Nne Ndubisi) she knows I don't joke with food especially Jellof rice� or Fufu with well garnished egusi soup and meat and pomo I am going to teach you so much and I pray you do same too. I am going to make you love football, even if you don't support (Man United)it's fine just love it. God will catch you, when you'll support Chelsea or Arsenal�, we shall see� When my friends come over and we are watching a football match, I don't want you to be bored and run off into the bedroom You will sit down with us and argue about the match. Baby, see eh, if it's zeeworld you like, I will cram the names of all the casts and crew and I will also make sure I follow the story religiously. I won't even miss an episode, as long as we have other things to talk about aside school fees and work I am happy. We will settle our misunderstandings before we go to bed every night and pray in peace to sleep. I will pay the school fees, buy us a house, take you on trip with me for all my vacations in Dubai. You will drive our first car while I save to buy another one, don't worry I will enter a taxi, no wife of mine is going to jump into a keke while I own a car. Hope you know I will be very popular and I will have huge fans, pretty admirers, horde of stalkers and groupies? Please, that's what they will remain, fans and nothing more. Just don't worry about them� I will respect and love your parents like mine and never will I get into a fight with them, as long as they don't give me a long list of things to buy oh.� Ehen baby, please, we won't have a timetable when we want to process Chidinma our first kid and her brothers into this world oh, please note that. Everywhere in the house is a potential bedroom so forget about comfort zone. I will wake you up early to start your makeup on time so we don't go late to Church. If you are angry with me, don't yell in front of the kids, else I will kiss� you to shut you up and when we reach the other room, hehehehe ..don't let me talk� Here are three things I will never do; I will never lie, steal or cheat!! If I ever lie, I will lie in bed��with you all day� If I ever steal, I will steal your heart� away. And If I ever cheat I will cheat death to be with you forever� Divorce is not an option, we'll grow old loving each other, no divorce. WE DIE HERE!! The day you tell me you are tired, I will buy you energy drink to continue this journey oh, nobody is leaving anybody� It's for better for worse; remember?? From your Future hubby � Only mature people will understand what am saying�and only caring people would share this� Please, make me smile too by following � Olubunmi T. Israel II God bless every hand that follows. I love you. �❤️ We wish you good health from Balm in Gilead Natural therapy center. The home of solution to all kinds of disease. Contact Dr Evans Edionwe to get FREE consultation - +2348055515629 +2348034875234 +2348050505666
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Dear future wife, Listen to me carefully, divorce is not an option. I forgive you for whatever mistake you are going to make, it's already forgiven. No matter how much you get mad at me or annoy me, you see these my hands ✋ ✋, I will never use it to hit you. No matter how angry I am, I won't reject your food, ask my mother (Nne Ndubisi) she knows I don't joke with food especially Jellof rice� or Fufu with well garnished egusi soup and meat and pomo I am going to teach you so much and I pray you do same too. I am going to make you love football, even if you don't support (Man United)it's fine just love it. God will catch you, when you'll support Chelsea or Arsenal�, we shall see� When my friends come over and we are watching a football match, I don't want you to be bored and run off into the bedroom You will sit down with us and argue about the match. Baby, see eh, if it's zeeworld you like, I will cram the names of all the casts and crew and I will also make sure I follow the story religiously. I won't even miss an episode, as long as we have other things to talk about aside school fees and work I am happy. We will settle our misunderstandings before we go to bed every night and pray in peace to sleep. I will pay the school fees, buy us a house, take you on trip with me for all my vacations in Dubai. You will drive our first car while I save to buy another one, don't worry I will enter a taxi, no wife of mine is going to jump into a keke while I own a car. Hope you know I will be very popular and I will have huge fans, pretty admirers, horde of stalkers and groupies? Please, that's what they will remain, fans and nothing more. Just don't worry about them� I will respect and love your parents like mine and never will I get into a fight with them, as long as they don't give me a long list of things to buy oh.� Ehen baby, please, we won't have a timetable when we want to process Chidinma our first kid and her brothers into this world oh, please note that. Everywhere in the house is a potential bedroom so forget about comfort zone. I will wake you up early to start your makeup on time so we don't go late to Church. If you are angry with me, don't yell in front of the kids, else I will kiss� you to shut you up and when we reach the other room, hehehehe ..don't let me talk� Here are three things I will never do; I will never lie, steal or cheat!! If I ever lie, I will lie in bed��with you all day� If I ever steal, I will steal your heart� away. And If I ever cheat I will cheat death to be with you forever� Divorce is not an option, we'll grow old loving each other, no divorce. WE DIE HERE!! The day you tell me you are tired, I will buy you energy drink to continue this journey oh, nobody is leaving anybody� It's for better for worse; remember?? From your Future hubby � Only mature people will understand what am saying�and only caring people would share this� Please, make me smile too by following � Olubunmi T. Israel II God bless every hand that follows. I love you. �❤️ We wish you good health from Balm in Gilead Natural therapy center. The home of solution to all kinds of disease. Contact Dr Evans Edionwe to get FREE consultation - +2348055515629 +2348034875234 +2348050505666
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�����Dear Brother Say something. Don't assume she will understand. You're buying her recharge card everyday. You are always in her DM, you want her to celebrate grace, but celebrating grace is not the same as dating grace. You are calling her my Dear, Sweetheart, and she didn't say anything, and you now concluded you people are now dating, what of calender? Is that how they used to enter Relationship? It wee shock you. Open your mouth and talk Say something and let her Hear Something You have even started spending money, you buy her gifts, you are now shouldering her bills and financial burdens, as Man of the house, and in your mind, she understands.. Understanding Mathematics ni. For your own good, say something, before they will present wedding card to you tomorrow and you will start crying that they broke your heart, and used you. Stop acting nice and expect a lady to interpret your acting nice as a proposal from you, no dey disguise, soro soke, propose if is propose that brought you. Acting nice, protective, meeting her needs is like speaking in Tongues, not everyone can interpret Tongues, oga speak English...... Otherwise, what you are busy doing may end up as a mentorship program and humanitarian service. Don't lay foundation for another man to come and roof the building.. I come in Peace. We wish you good health from Balm in Gilead Natural therapy center. The home of solution to all kinds of disease. Contact Dr Evans Edionwe to get FREE consultation - +2348055515629 +2348034875234 +2348050505666
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My pregnancy period is not always an easy journey for me, because I do spit, vomit and I don't usually have appetite for food from the first month to the sixth month but I feel much better after the sixth month and I can't eat as many times as possible by then. So I use to be very lazy from that first month to the sixth month, because I'm always weak to the extent of taking drip to feel better. This write up is to encourage any pregnant woman like me. You are not lazy. I understand that sometimes, you feel like giving up, but don't give up. You will soon deliver your bundle of joy in Jesus name. Ask questions from experienced mothers. Most importantly, don't joke with prayers. Husband, please hold your wife's hand, pray for her, assist her with house chores and care for her. I know her food craving may be tiring sometimes, but please don't be tired. Your bundle of Joy will soon arrive in Jesus name. Always pray with her, encourage her, place your hand on her womb and pray for the baby as the Priest of the house. I pray from the bottom of my heart for every pregnant woman, you shall all deliver like the Hebrew women in Jesus name. I pray for everyone trusting God for the fruit of the womb, it is your time to Conceive in Jesus name. I pray everyone trusting God for who to marry, receive your rightful partner now in Jesus name. Be encouraged!!! Seeing Marriages blossoming and Children being raised in a Godly atmosphere is my utmost desire. We wish you good health from Balm in Gilead Natural therapy center. The home of solution to all kinds of disease. Contact Dr Evans Edionwe to get FREE consultation - +2348055515629 +2348034875234 +2348050505666
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You can't be deceiving yourself young Lady you see the signs but you ignore it, because you want to get married. If you ignore the signs today, please don't come crying tomorrow. 1) Don't Marry a Man who doesn't take God seriously. He doesn't even go to church, or he goes once in a month, doesn't even pay his tithe, doesn't have respect for Pastors, even talks bad about them, and make fun of them, he doesn't place any importance on prayer, or the word.. And you feel safe to introduce him to you parents? � Please don't come crying tomorrow!! A Man who doesn't take his maker seriously, is it you he will take seriously? ��♀️��♀️ 2) Don't Marry a Man who doesn't listen to anybody. You can already see that he is a Man of his own, anything he says is final, nobody can change his mind, even his pastor and his entire kinsmen put together can't make him change a decision, and you want to manage him? � Hmmm! Thinking he will change, okay na, Manager General and CEO of Husband Management Worldwide, continue ��♀️��♀️ Don't just come crying tomorrow!! 3) Don't marry a Man who doesn't take Correction, who lives by his own codes and ideologies alone. He doesn't even appreciate being corrected in the first place, but because you want to get marred this year, you ignore. After all every man has his own flaws, so you say, forgetting that a Man with a weakness who doesn't take corrections is no longer WEAK but WICKED.. Sister, please don't come crying tomorrow! 4) He has addictive and destructive habits. He smokes, He drinks, He parties, he gambles (I heard of a Man that gambled with his wife as the bet) A man's lifestyle and habits will always affect his Marriage. Always. Remember this! If you ignore this, please, don't come crying tomorrow. 5) He keeps very funny friends. His best friends, one is called scorpion, the other is called razor..And they call him Scar. And you are not afraid? His friends change women like wrapper, and you think he doesn't do and he won't do same to you? His friends will be the ones he goes to for advice on how to run your relationship and marriage anytime he needs advice, and this doesn't scare you? They say "a mirror shows the reflection of a man's face, but his choice of friends show the reflection of his heart." The cub lion that is pampered and ignored today will become the adult Lion that CANNOT be ignored tomorrow. My Sisters, look before you Leap. Wedding is a day. Marriage is for a lifetime. Marry Well. God bless you � We wish you good health from Balm in Gilead Natural therapy center. The home of solution to all kinds of disease. Contact Dr Evans Edionwe to get FREE consultation - +2348055515629 +2348034875234 +2348050505666
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Sexual immorality is on the increase all over the world. Adultery is fast becoming the norm and some men of God are also joining the club, married men and women are not left out either, many are having secret lovers and emotional affairs are becoming the order of the day. The rate at which immorality is increasing is alarming! It is spreading fast into every nook and cranny and children are also being initiated into the club. It's no news to know that 8-10 years old kids now have sex with each other. Staying sexually pure these days is becoming a Herculean task. One of the reasons people fall flat into illicit sex is over confidence. The wrong belief that you can be free around the opposite sex and nothing would happen is a big lie from the pit of hell, that belief is meant to deceive people, a lot happens! One of the ways you can stay sexually pure whether married or single these end time is to set strict boundaries. If you are too careless around the opposite sex, you will fall flat on your face! That is the truth. The earlier you believe this and work on it, the better. You can't be careless around the opposite sex and hope to stay sexually pure, set boundaries! There are some people who can't be your friends, it's okay to raise the standard. Anybody can call you names, that's their headache, you have your destiny to protect. As a rule, I don't make friends with liars, gossips and jealous people. They make life so complicated. If you believe in illicit sex, we can't be friends, period! Monitor your chats. Don't allow anybody send you flirty messages, no matter how innocent it sounds, warn them and if they refuse to stop, block them! Limit the hugs and touches, especially with the opposite sex. If your hugging anointing is only for me, I want none of it. Don't allow anybody call you pet names (except your close family members and close same sex friends if necessary), a friend recently made me realise that, it doesn't make any sense. Pet names turn the opposite sex on, if you don't know that, know it right now. Be sensitive to attractions. Don't be naive around the opposite sex, know when a man/woman is sexually attracted to you and move back from that person. If they focus too much on your physique and body, they are sexually attracted to you, move back. Know when you are sexually attracted to someone and move back. It's perfectly normal to have chemistry for someone. Marrying the greatest man on earth or the most beautiful, virtuous woman in the universe will not automatically stop you from being attracted to someone else. Know when the thought of another man/woman gets you excited and move back. Don't jump at new relationships. Give it time, study the person, know what they stand for, see if your core values are compatible, if not, move back! Leadership attracts all kinds of people. If you are a leader or you are gifted, talented or intelligent, the opposite sex will show more interest in you, be careful whom you allow to get close to you. Accept gifts with care. Men don't joke with their time and money. If he spends so much time and money on you especially when you do not ask, he may one day ask for sex. Stop begging men for money. Work with your two hands and raise your standard. Men will respect and honour you for it. Work on your marriage. Fix the problem as soon as possible or else you get attracted to someone who gives you what you lack in your marriage, adultery would be the result. Be prayerful, and be watchful. Jesus says, "Watch and pray that ye may not fall into temptation..." Don't stay with the opposite sex in a dark or lonely room. Don't counsel the opposite sex on a bed in a lonely room. Avoid provocative dresses and pictures. Let your spouse or parents advise you on what is okay for you. Mind the pictures you post on social media, if it gets unnecessary opposite sex attention, delete them. Don't visit the opposite sex alone, especially at night. It doesn't make sense. These and more are the things you need to do to stay sexually pure all your life. People may laugh at you, it doesn't matter. They may call you a neurotic, psychotic, fanatic, over sensitive or paranoid, don't let that bother you. Your destiny is too precious to waste on the altar of sin. Avoid friends who make fun of your holiness and make friends with people who appreciate purity. Finally, avoid the second look, as far and much as possible. I agree perfectly with Job on his resolution never to look lustfully at any lady. "I made a covenant with mine eyes; why then should I think upon a maid?" you can avoid the second look. Set your boundaries and never allow anyone to compromise your holiness. We wish you good health from Balm in Gilead Natural therapy center. The home of solution to all kinds of disease. Contact Dr Evans Edionwe to get FREE consultation - +2348055515629 +2348034875234 +2348050505666
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People today jump into relationship for various reasons, but it is a blunder to begin a relationship without building friendship. Friendship is the real foundation, it is stronger than any other thing. Ignoring friendship in a relationship is like erecting a building from the roof. The commitment of friendship has the longevity sex and romance doesn't have. Romantic and sexual passion in marriage dwindles over time but friendship increases with time. Focus on knowing each other better at the beginning, ask vital questions. Be sincerely interested in whom you intend to begin a relationship with, not just their social and financial status, skills, position, etc. Ask yourself this question, "how well do I know this person?" Don't make assumptions. Validate things. Know that the dating period isn't a license to intercourse but a time to seek Clarity because sexual intercourse beclouds logical reasoning. Build real friendship first because when that juicy feeling fades, friendship will keep the relationship going Your partner should be your best friend. Do have a lovely day and Cheers! We wish you good health from Balm in Gilead Natural therapy center. The home of solution to all kinds of disease. Contact Dr Evans Edionwe to get FREE consultation - +2348055515629 +2348034875234 +2348050505666
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If you are in a relationship and you are always the one giving , you are always the one offering something in that relationship, only you is making that relationship to work out, please leave that relationship because that relationship is sick and there is no true love because true love gives. Ladies, if a man requires to sleep with you before marriage, please leave such relationship because they are parasitic protogens that are always in for destroying your life. May God deliver us from all this in Jesus name. We wish you good health from Balm in Gilead Natural therapy center. The home of solution to all kinds of disease. Contact us to get FREE consultation - +2348055515629 +2348034875234 +2348050505666
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Sex is not a physical act, sex is more spiritual than it is physical. Sex opens up a gateway in the spirit realm and binds two people together. This is why it is only allowed in marriage unions. When two people get married, they create a legal and binding gateway in the spirit realms, this gateway is a very strong force that can hardly be broken. Through it procreation takes place. God the creator of sex knows what he created and gave instructions on how it should be used. He sternly warned against misuse because it carries grievous consequences. When a lady start having sex with a married man, she is illegally creating another gateway in the spirit and because it's illegal, spirits can easily have access to her. That's why some occultic men uses sex to gain access into your life and destiny, They deposit a demon spirit into you that will torment you for life, they give you money and good life while you are wasting. Something have gone out of you. Again, You expose yourself to the vengeance of the legal occupant of that gateway. The married wife has the right to make pronouncements against you and God will honor it. In the spirit realm, you are a thief. If you try the husbands of a praying wife, you are finished. Lastly, you are breaking a divine arrangement, Bible said " What God has joined together, let no man put asunder". You think you can be putting asunder in the marriage of another woman and end up to have a successful marriage, no no, there are consequences. I'm not saying this to condemn you as a side chick, I'm condemning your actions and also praying that you repent and clean up. As you read this, may you never has rest until you repent and leave those married amen alone. We wish you good health from Balm in Gilead Natural therapy center. The home of solution to all kinds of disease. Contact us to get FREE consultation - +2348055515629 +2348034875234 +2348050505666
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Don't make mistakes some of our Fathers or Senior Brothers made. Marry now with the little you have. Don't wait to be a millionaire, Have kids early so you can grow with them. Grow with your kids and succeed with your wife. You will never finish making money or achieving your plans. You might still not succeed at your target year. So start your life early, with consistency you will grow. My father said this to me: _When i was 25, i was talking about making billions before i marry. Many years later, billions didn't come, yet no kid no wife... I had an opportunity to marry the most beautiful love of my life very early, But my fear was, can i really take care of her? But right now She's married with Four grown up children. The guy that married her was still schooling then, but had the courage. They worked hard and succeeded together. I failed, so please if you can feed yourself, you can feed your wife. You have to believe it, marry early, don't wait. Don't make our mistakes, I see my childhood friends play with their kids.. Most of them are not doing as well as me.. But they are happier with their families.. Trust me it isn't money only, but Rather your Maturity, your happiness depends entirely on your wisdom and the way you Handle Life. With a well planned life they are happier. Trust me it isn't money, What is our problem? Build mansion, buy the latest Car in Town, marry Sharon stone type, but still we don't have those things we dreamt of, and of course the years we wasted, we can never have them neverrrr!!!_ Please don't be 60yrs old and your kids will still be in their 20's..What are you supposed to be at that age? Their grand father. Please young men, take my advice seriously. Marry, don't be afraid, that girl you are finding too many fault in has many good qualities if you look well. Don't think you will get every thing before you settle down. God can change your life in a blink, with a good and Focus wife by your side, you will succeed by the grace of the almighty God .... *DEDICATED TO ALL THE SINGLES, INCLUDING ME �. We wish you good health from Balm in Gilead Natural therapy center. The home of solution to all kinds of disease. Contact Dr Evans Edionwe to get FREE consultation - +2348055515629 +2348034875234 +2348050505666
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When I met my wife I was squatting with my wonderful cousin in the barracks, God rest his soul. If you know what barracks are like in this part of the world you would have a clear idea of what I'm talking about. I didn't have shishi. I moved out of my Mamas house because I had a fighting spirit, I renounced the temporary comfort of being provided for, I wanted to be a man. I tried applying for jobs, but none was coming forth. I'm talking over 7 years ago. I even tried to enroll Into the Nigerian Navy. Went for their exams and training, bro, Icouldn't deal. I ran away before Army use koboko kill me, a whole unripe Man of God. All this while, my wife Choco, then girlfriend, was with me. She didn't have much either, I was worse, but she stayed. I'm trying to tell you that I was at a season of my life where I knew that I had a calling over my life, but the calling had no clear vision. My girlfriend was still there. I remember, the first job I landed, I didn't have money to pay my way to work and back for the first month, my girlfriend sent me N10,000. At that time it was a big deal to me, huge money, I kept pinching and pinching it until it lasted me for the month. Inside that money was feeding, inside that money I still bought recharge card to call and maintain good communication with her, it was a distance relationship. Sometimes, especially my first month at the job before the salary came in, I would trek home from work just to save that N200 bus fare to buy recharge card and call her. I walked, when she asked I would cover up that I just love walking, as in, uncle John Walker. Little did she know that I was making that sacrifice because I didn't want her to be the only one burning airtime to call me. Fast forward years later, things worked out for me. I'm here today, fully immersed in my calling and purpose, and the woman who was with me when my purpose was blurry, is still the woman who is standing by me today when the vision is solid. I know this story is not your business, but I'm sharing this to teach you how to build with a man, or a woman as the case may be. I feel so sad when I hear woman say they stood by a man and he disappointed them. I feel so sad. And the question I want to ask you is: were you standing with the man that God gave you or the man you gave yourself? Answer it sincerely in your heart. In building from the scratch or from the middle with a man, you have to be sure he is a man you have heard God over, I mean genuinely heard God, not infatuation hearing. A man God gave you as a husband in his raw and unrefined form. The reason why you are ending up disappointment by men you stood with when they had nothing is largely because those men were never yours in the first place, and you weren't discerning enough to verify in the Spirit. You were just there doing Romeo and Juliet love, building a man for the entire community, aunty Baco super sac. Standing by a man takes wisdom my dear, it requires discernment, as tempting as it is, not all men are worth fighting with, or building with, not all men. If you don't let God pick the foundation for you, you will keep building men for other women to come and reap where they have not sown. One of the best things that can ever happen to a couple is building your lives together, being there for each other when the chips were down, it brings a special kind of testimony to your home. But yet again, build with wisdom my sister, build only that which the Lord has given you to build, before you become Julius Berger. We wish you all good health from Balm iTn Gilead Natural therapy center. The home of solution to all kinds of disease. Contact Dr Evans Edionwe to get FREE consultation - +2348055515629 +2348034875234 +2348050505666
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Abnormalities are now becoming a norm in the model days society, and it is a funny how you will see people celebrating nonsense � Men will dress � and cover up their bodies, why ladies dress � up and exposed every part of their bodies, no dignity, no self respect, no pride, and you expect your man to respect you, when you have already sold yourself one naira to the public, I know that the female celebrities initiated this fashion crazy but you as a human being should not be able to discern the different between the right and the wrong, I condem those types of clothes putting on. We wish you all good health from Balm iTn Gilead Natural therapy center. The home of solution to all kinds of disease. Contact Dr Evans Edionwe to get FREE consultation - +2348055515629 +2348034875234 +2348050505666
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Always spend time by treating wife's this way so that happiness, prosperity, and other things that you are praying for will visit your your home ❤️�� To any Man or woman reading this, share and say amen � We wish you all good health from Balm iTn Gilead Natural therapy center. The home of solution to all kinds of disease. Contact Dr Evans Edionwe to get FREE consultation - +2348055515629 +2348034875234 +2348050505666
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My son, I will be very raw and sincere with you. Do not worry about the size of a woman buttock or breast but worry about the size of her heart and brain. Worry about the size of her love and endurance. Because after 5 or 10 years, it will not be about the breast or buttock. As you can see, your mum now has a flat chest and almost flat buttock but we still live together happily, I still love her and she still love me. Be careful of a woman that loves money. I mean the woman that talks ‘every time’ about her hair, cloths, shoes, bags panties and make-ups. Marriage is not all about these things. Without make-up, cloths, shoes and panties a good marriage will still stand but without love, no marriage can stand. When I got married to your mum, I didn’t have a car or house of my own. I was not even educated. But I had dreams and she appreciate and support me. Any woman that does not support your dream is not worth thinking-a-minute about. There are women that will see your dreams better than you, you are lucky if you find one, My son, open your ears very well, there is a kind of woman you should avoid, do not make a mistake to marry this kind of woman or you will regret it. I mean a woman that always has bad things to say about everyone. If you see this kind of woman, run away. One of the worst kind of woman you can marry is the one that complains about everything. If you buy this, she says you should have bought that, if you do this, she said you should have done that. Please stay away! Most women enjoy talking but the one who talks for two hours and listen for two minutes is a potential ‘bomb’. Be wise, Be very careful of a pretending partner. A pretending woman is not hard to know. She will always know everything about everything, she will be careful. Just close your eyes and open your heart and you will see! No woman is perfect. If you see a woman who believes in your dream , who respects you who is committed We wish you all good health from Balm in Gilead Natural therapy center. The home of solution to all kinds of disease. Contact Dr Evans Edionwe to get FREE consultation - +2348055515629 +2348034875234 +2348050505666
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1: Warn your Girl Child Never to sit on anyone's laps no matter the situation including uncles. 2: Avoid Getting Dressed in front of your child once he/she is 2 years old. Learn to excuse them or yourself. 3. Never allow any adult refer to your child as 'my wife' or 'my husband' 4. Whenever your child goes out to play with friends make sure you look for a way to find out what kind of play they do, because young people now sexually abuse themselves. 5. Never force your child to visit any adult he or she is not comfortable with and also be observant if your child becomes too fond of a particular adult. 6. Once a very lively child suddenly becomes withdrawn you may need to patiently ask lots of questions from your child. 7. Carefully educate your grown ups about the right values of sex . If you don't, the society will teach them the wrong values. 8: It is always advisable you go through any new Material like cartoons you just bought for them before they start seeing it themselves. 9. Ensure you activate parental controls on your cable networks and advice your friends especially those your child(ren) visit(s) often. 10. Teach your 3 year olds how to wash their private parts properly and warn them never to allow anyone touch those areas and that includes you (remember, charity begins from home and with you). 11: Blacklist some materials/associates you think could threaten the sanity of your child (this includes music, movies and even friends and families). 12. Let your child(ren) understand the value of standing out of the crowd. 13: Once your child complains about a particular person, don't keep quiet about it. Take up the case and show them you can defend them. . Remember, we are either parents or parents-to-be. We wish you good health from Balm in Gilead Natural therapy center. The home of solution to all kinds of disease. Contact Evans Edionwe to get FREE consultation - +2348055515629 +2348034875234 +2348050505666
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Na wa ooo, together till death Nigeria man says as he takes blood oath with his girlfriend 9ja man seeks to spend forever with his girlfriend, has taken a blood oath with her as a mark of everlasting Bond, a blood oath in some cases stipulate that the couple would swear it and have vowed to be faithful to each other and never to live themselves and anyone who goes the guidelines would have himself or herself blame. Where do this kind of love exist? � We wish you good health from Balm in Gilead Natural therapy center. The home of solution to all kinds of disease. Contact Evans Edionwe to get FREE consultation - +2348055515629 +2348034875234 +2348050505666
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Men are egotistical. You will get a man love you more when you don't demean his ego. Every man wants to be a king in his territory. Don't bruise his ego, boost his ego. Respect him. Men loves respect. You can't disrespect a man and expect that man to love you, it's almost impossible. Men are attracted to whoever respects them. Marry a man you can respect. You'll naturally submit to a man you respect. Appreciate his efforts, however little. Do not focus on his flaws, praise him for something. Support his dreams, you shouldn't be with a man that you don't believe in his dreams. Help him fulfill his dreams. Be his best friend, know when to turn off your Emotions. Do not frustrate him, make him better. He is your man. Be proud of him. Remain blessed and have a wonderful day. Dear Reader, we wish you good health from Balm in Gilead Natural therapy center. The home of solution to all kinds of disease. Contact Dr Evans Edionwe to get FREE consultation - +2348055515629 +2348034875234 +2348050505666
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Women are more complex and emotional than men. They were made to complement men, a modification of the human specie, both internally and externally. You do not deal with a woman the way you deal with men. Men are mostly logical in reasoning while women are mostly emotional in reasoning. They process things differently so you must learn to understand her emotions and treat her accordingly. Women like intimacy. They like affection. They need to know they are secured with you. The strength and muscle you have is not to intimidate or oppress her but to protect her. She should feel comfortable with you. If you hold her in high esteem, it should reflect in how you treat her. She feels frustrated when you don't keep in touch because she communicates for affection. When you send her messages, when you do video calls, when you express how much you miss her, she feel loved. You can't be too busy not to keep in touch with your wife. Do not neglect her. Women are very intuitive, it's a gift God gave to them. Pay attention to her, she is the most important person in your life. Even when you think she is not making sense, listen to her, don't just shut her up. She feel loved when you give her attention. Be responsible, don't be immature. You can't be acting irresponsibly and expect her to submit to you. The headship of a Man is in Leadership. Be a true Leader. "Honour your wife, treat her with understanding, so that your prayers may not be hindered". 1st Peter 3:7. Do not frustrate her, make her happy and your home will be a home of bliss. Do have lovely day. Remain Blessed and Cheers! Dear Reader, we wish you good health from Balm in Gilead Natural therapy center. The home of solution to all kinds of disease. Contact Dr Evans Edionwe to get FREE consultation - +2348055515629 +2348034875234 +2348050505666
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