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Mariojane:
the list above is not for wrong relationship at all, it is for imprisonment. who can survive all that?

lol

jayjay00:
Not so sure about Number 4 tho

not just number 4

Knowing she’s had quite a handful of partners is not just something you can pick supernaturally, but being observant can sure go a long way in helping you decipher.

Here are four signs that mean she is more likely to be very sexually experienced.

1. The way she talks
Women who are sexually experienced are quite outspoken when it comes to doing the do. Even if they are the most quiet human beings ever, you get to see their real mien during sex. More sex usually mean more sexual confidence, especially if she is having great sex. Once a woman is sexually confident, she will have no qualms about discussing sex-related issues.

2. When she knows exactly what she wants
The more sexual experience a woman have, the more open she is about her needs. Also, the more sex she has, the more knowledge she garners about what works for her and what does not. So if she tells you to go about sex one exact way, then be sure she didn’t just start having sex yesterday.

3. When she teaches you a thing or two
You might consider yourself a bedroom don, but when you get in bed with her, she begins to show you explosive things your body can do that you never knew. This is because, not only has she been pleased a lot of times, she has also learned how to please.

4. When she is unashamed
A woman who has had quite a long list of experiences does not find it difficult to take off her clothes and dance for you. She can throw caution to the air and rock that cowgirl move like a porn star. If she seems to be very uninhibited and able to let go in the bedroom, then she is no JJC!

Source: https://www.naij.com/894411-4-signs-lot-men.html?source=article_readnext

You people are funny, una change am for the OP... From phone to nails. Op sorry even if it is not your nail.

Many relationship are not worth holding on to, many thinks they can still hold on to it and handle it meanwhile, nothing will change it, it will never yield good fruit but what you have already known it will be.

Some of the signs you should note that will not make your relationship stand includes:

1. When your partner don't believe in you

My God! What are you still waiting for? And you think something can change that conception about you? No two ways about it, you are just being used pending the time that your partner will get a better replacement that he/she can believe in his/her potential.
This happens to women majorly, i was shocked when i heard a man will always shun his girlfriend whenever she tries to speak English when he is around just because she is a drop out with statement like "is it your kind that speaks English language?".

What else do you need to prove to you that you will suffer even if he marries you?

It is abuse on your part if your partner don't believe in you if you don't know.

2. Your partner does not have your time

You claim you are in a relationship and your partner is giving you attitude of being busy more than Dangote or Otedola, you are on a very long thing if you don't run to those who will cherish you and accord to you the time you desire.

If you think a miracle will happen over night you can keep it going, no matter how busy someone will be he/she will always find time to be with the one he/she loves, don't be deceived.

3. When your partner is not proud to introduce you

Yes, many have been introduced, yet, nothing good comes up. Good thing didn't come up not because you too are not serious about the relationship. At times destiny steps in and there is nothing anybody can do about.

Do you know being proud to introduce you gives your partner the sense of responsibility for you?
That alone has a lot attached to it for those who really mean business and not for just children.

If your partner keeps telling you it is not yet time, it might not be time till you die separately at old age.

4. Your partner is Stingy uncontrollably

I am not saying your partner should give indiscriminately. But you will know when your partner is stingy. If it is the man, though you might end up in marriage but the future is very important, he will be stingy till everything get worst.

Part of being caring is to give your partner freely when it matters, not that you refuse to give when it matters or it doesn't.

Please run for your dear life if your partner is stingy uncontrollably, your relationship will not go well if you are not determined.

5. When your partner is jealous uncontrollably

The fact remains that we are all jealous but we just control it.
If that of your partner is uncontrollable, then you are in it for the worse as anything can happen, your partner can kill you if you are not careful.

6. Your partner don't give room for mistakes

You need to watch it when your partner nags at every slight opportunity.
Their should be room for errors, and this is why communication is necessary in any relationship.

You are human and you are bound to make mistakes and also bound to be corrected as you are also bound to yield positive response towards the correction.

Here, a man should not be too arrogant to be corrected, no one is above mistake.

7. When your opinion does not count

Two heads they say are better than one. You should be allowed to make suggestion that will keep the relationship going. If it is only one out of two that is making decision it will affect the relationship.

Do you know the way we handle our relationship also shows how we deal with people outside.

If you are the type that is bossy in your relationship, you cannot be a good leader.

If you keep going in such relationship you are heading into destruction. It is good to let your partner feel he/she is important when it comes to decision making in the relationship.

Well, i have just shared my opinion, you might have a contrary opinion, feel free to share in the comment box.


Source : http://www.bamisepeters.com/2016/07/7-signs-you-are-in-wrong-relationship.html

Fabulocity:
6 Simple Foods Every Nigerian Women Must Know How To Make

Scratch that "woman" from the title. Anyone that knows how to get hungry must also know how to cook

typical ego-filled woman reaction, the OP no mean am this way you take handle am.

The aim of call centre is to put smiles on customer`s faces through resolving complaints, provision of positive information to inquiries and giving available answers to requests.

Of recent times, i have seen a call centre that has all what it takes to provide all it`s purposes to the customers calling in when we talk of platforms and all other needed materials, however, the agents are not willing to make use of all these platforms and resources.

With some of my research, i observed that most agents are not passionate about the job. Possibly, due to the fact that there are no jobs in Nigeria where everyone will be able to delve into his or her choice of job, so, they have to fill into the available ones to make ends meet and they will try all best possible to convince management to be recruited.

With the situation of things, those with passion to be in the call centre are not even ready to be there with what they hear about the way the agents are being treated.

At times, when you are treated well where you don`t want to be it makes your perception to change about that particular place.

Also, agents are being pressurized to meet a particular target. For example i know of a call centre where you have just 2mins:10sec with a customer and total handling time upon all calls in a shift must not be more than 130secs.

Yes, you may not spend up to 2 minutes with some particular set of customers while you will spend up to 10 minutes on some other sets of customers.

It is not the fault of the customer nor the agent. When you wake up in the morning and find out your money has been deducted due to one service you did not opt into then, there must be a reasonable explanation which no agent can give, not in this economy of ours. Most customers will not understand the agent knows nothing about it, but since they are the trash cleaners, they bare the brunt, yet, the company they are representing are not treating them well.

Apart from target, there is quality accessor(QA) who monitore your calls. To the QA you must not cut calls, you must attend to all customers needs and score at least 85% on all calls not minding the AHT of 130 seconds, in fact, that AHT doesn't mean anything to them.

It is against call centre rules to bring in mobile device or storage device, yet, no provision for agent to power his/her device working a particular shift for 9hours in this part of the country that we are facing power challenge.

Upon all this restrictions, you give them salary that is not even enough to cater for their health issues considering the health hazards attached to the job let alone fueling the generator they cannot afford.

You claim you don't want agents to store customers' information on their mobile device for personal use and you have forgotten their mails are accesible at work and home, don't you think those information can also be stored on mails and retrieved once they are home since their phone must not be with them for 9hours?

The most painful part of it is that these agents are not recognized by the original company they mention to every caller.

You are working for an outsourcing firm serving one of the giants of telecommunications in your country, yet, you don't have credit benefit for calls, data and sms each month. It is just like having mango tree in your compount with ripe mangoes, yet, you go out to buy. Apart from the salary, no other benefit like loan. Who even dare talk about loan when there is no job security in a company where they believe there are many people out there waiting for such opportunity you have. They take advantage of the fact that there is no job in the country, so they offer you a piece of meat-pie to carry a mansion on your head.

I see the next generation of call centres where people will be ready to put all their effort to assist customers in all possible ways because of the passion.

A call centre where agents that are to put smiles on customers faces are happy to be where they are and for the purpose they are recruited for.

A centre where agents will be proud of his/her profession wherever he/she goes. A centre where agents will feel important and needed.

Not a centre where agent is being pressurized, treated like a slave in his/her own country with a working government.

These outsourcing firms have their companies in their own countries too and cannot try what they are trying here in their own country.

This will not be achieved without a working government and i forsee a positive change because i represent one of the passionate customer service representative, and no pressure or treatment will kill that passion in me.

Cc: lalasticlala and co

Source: http://www.bamisepeters.com/2016/07/next-generation-of-call-centres-in.html

We call into any of the telecommunication call centre to either complain, make enquiry or to make request.

Most times we are at times let down by the way we are attended to by the representative and at times when you call back again into that same centre immediately you dropped the call after being treated unruly by a representative the other one again still treats you like shit.

Kindly know that it is not their fault, most of them applied for the job out of passion and out of choice and that cannot be detected by any HR as most people rehearse so hard in order to be favoured before going for interviews even when not fit for it(lol).

Also know that all of these telecommunication companies cherish time as much as you do and they will not want an agent to spend much time on a particular customer, so they have maximum time an agent can spend with a customer and it counts against that agent when he/she spends more than that time with you(the customer).

When you start spending more than that maximum time, if you are a good observer you will notice the tone of the representative will start changing, telling you to round up systematically, and you the customer who is already angry possibly due to unexpected deduction on your line who is supposed to be treated jealously began to get a harsh treatment from those your recharge cards are feeding after taking much time of the agent, not because the agent is not good at serving you but because there is someone shouting at that representative to be time conscious as it all counts at the end of the day.

Follow this steps in order to get good treatment whenever you call into any telecommunication company's customer service center.

1. Go straight to the point: The customer service representatives are there to assist you, and they will not be able to assist you if you don't know what exactly you want.

Knowing what you want before calling into the centre will make the job easier for the representative and you the caller and it will save a lot of time.

Before you call in, think about what you want or the clue to what you want in case you are not sure of what it is.

2. Choice of language: Most of the telecommunication companies provide you with almost all the major languages in Nigeria, do not be shy to choose the one you can speak fluently in order to avoid confusion and perambulation over just a topic just because you want to show off your skills.

That will only lead you to getting wrong information from the representative when he/she will want to end the call as fast as possible.

Your choice of language can save time for the representative and also make you happy as your issue get solved amicably.

3. Don't be too angry: This is so important. Many call into the call center of their telecommunication company irate due to deduction for unsubscribed services, drop balance, subscription error(data, tariff plan) .

You know the issue here is to stop that service causing deduction, do not be over irate as the representative you are speaking to is already feeling your pains and even before you ask him/her to remove it that representative has already done it, but if you did not call in the representative cannot do anything on your line as you are not known.
If it is other issue just go straight to the point and allow proper investigation to be done as the representatives are there to solve your issues.

You can be angry but kindly know the least the representative can do is to deactivate the service causing deduction on your line, work on other issues that is giving you headache and nothing more as his/her business is to make sure you stay on the network. The bitter-truth is that if you don't want to stay you will not even call in for assistance.

The best is just to tell the representative to stop the service if you do not want it immediately you call in and save time and also your money because if you get angry uncontrollably you might spit hell upon the representative which might not go well with him/her and might even cause the representative to place more services on your line that will cost you more deduction (that is extremely bad of the representative though) because you have taken more of his/her time as well.

If the issue is that one that will take more time just exercise patience as it will be resolved even if beyond 12hours.

4. Get all needed information ready: This is also vital. You want to do a sim swap for example, if you don't know the requirements you can call in to make enquiry and call back when you have gotten it rather than calling in with half information thereby making the already spent time useless for the representative even after spending more than the maximum time in order to assist you.

You want to complain about another number and you don't have it with you and you start calling someone far away from you for the number.

For those that call into the call centre often, you will notice your location is paramount, if you don't know any of your local government area, town or state(it happens) just indicate immediately you are being asked instead of racking your brain and wasting more time. ETC.

5. Don't insist to be served by a particular representative:
Don't forget these representatives are also human, once you ask that you want a particular representative to assist you probably because the representative handle your issue beyond your expectations the last time does not mean another representative cannot do better, your insistence can demoralize the representative receiving your call.

Some select gender for assistance. Kindly know that if you request to be assisted by a particular gender that receiver of your call will only ask you to call back and not that he/she will stand up to get the gender you want for you, it is possible the gender you desire picks your call when next you call in, do not be stiff-neck as each representative is qualified to assist you.

6. Concentrate and be attentive:
You save a lot of time for yourself and the representative when you avoid anything that may cause distraction during the period you are calling into the Centre for anything whatsoever.

Also know that as it is important for the representative to be attentive to attend to you, you must also be attentive to listen to what the representative is telling you as you might end the call with wrong information which might make you to call back again and probably the issue might be so bad if you did not listen attentively.

7. Avoid using loudspeaker or earpiece:
Those two will not allow the representative hear you well and avoiding them can save a lot of time and change of mood on the part of the representative.

If you need assistance make sure your phone is in good order.

The above are very important if you want to be happy at the end of the call.
If you do them, i bet you that you and the representative will be happy at the end of the call as you have gotten what you wanted and you saved a lot of time for the representative.

Always remember that the situation of the country makes those that are not qualified(degree-wise and innate ability) for a job to get it at all cost depriving those that are fit which we must all accept as our fate.

You can imagine how it will be when a trained accountant becomes a customer care representative, counting is different from talking from morning till night. Just like some of us prefer calculating than writing stories while in school.

But if you do those things and you are not still treated well then the representative needs to be retrained.



Source: http://www.bamisepeters.com/2016/07/7-things-to-do-if-you-want-customer.html

It is fun being in the call centre for some call centre agents due to the types of customers they speak to even though some rain abuses on them as if they are the cause of the issues.

I call the call centre agents professional cleaners because they receive the blames of the organization they represent with just few praises and most times, customers assume them to be the cause when they are not even recognized by that company itself.

The following are the list of the kind of customers calling into the call centre.

1. Irate customers

Irate customers according to their name are ready to shout at the agent. They will not go straight to the point, especially, when they get deduction on their line base on the service they did no opt in to. One good thing about them is that their issues are being solved before they finish talking because you know the reason for their call from their first statement. At times, some of them will start raining courses, incantations on the agent.

2. Knowledgeable customers

Those in this group call into the centre to test the ability of the agent. When they have issues, they start instructing the agent what and what to do and the application to use, possibly because they have once worked in the company or they have read about the company.

They also look forward to agent making mistake so as to bounce on that agent.

3. Exact customers

Call agents love this kind of customers. They know what they want and go straight to the point when they call.

Most times, agent do not spend up to one minute with this kind of customers and they are always happy and ready to assist them.
In Most cases, their issues are related to that of the irate customers but they just take it as normal occurrence.

4. Baby customers

This group is that of the children that calls into the call centre.

They call asking agent to send credit to them, to abuse the agent or to say something irrelevant. There are some that call for genuine reasons though but 50% of them are jokers.

5. Timid customers

This kind of customers knows what they want but are shy to talk with the agent. They are conscious of their grammar, though they also get quick resolution because they can't connect for too long.

Some even call to see what will happen if they initiate the call and will be so surprised when connected. call agents are not super human or something.

6. Clown customers

I call them clowns because they are ready to waste agent's time if the agent is not careful. Some of them will call into the centre and start singing. Some will call and start unnecessary argument.

Some will call seeking to speak to a particular gender while some will call requesting for the impossible. The funny thing is that 90% of those that falls into this category are men.

Please feel free to add to the list.


Source: http://www.bamisepeters.com/2016/07/6-kinds-of-customer-that-call-into.html

truthspeaks:
D Op told u half-truth. Dnt knw his intention though

na deceit dey enter front page na

Lucario007:
Sorry, but this article is stale. It lacks excitement, notability and drive. Its just too cliché.

thanks anyway.

geraldmezi:
u no make sex na. sorry sense

i know where you are going to

foolinlove:
True but money isn't on my list.

I make my own money, he makes his. Each contribute to financial needs of household and step up when the other has a financial problem like taking time off work due to illness.

I'm sure MEN want the things on this list too.

yes of course.

megareal:
If there is no jealousy at all, then there is no love from my point of view. A healthy dose of jealousy is needed at some point in relationships.

exactly my point, being jealous doesn't mean you don't trust your partner, overlooking some things reduce the level of jealousy. Thank you, thought you would have gotten annoyed with my mentions but you followed it all up.

megareal:
less jealous.

but small jealousy will still be there. And do you know that small jealousy can still destroy a mansion?

megareal:
Can't really say. I think it depends on individuals, how they are wired, their past and experiences. Those things affect future relationships. Both sexes are. jealous, just depends on the weight of the baggage they came with which affects their level of trust.

so you mean that when the trust level is low then jealousy takes the priority?

KRISTON:
boys get jealous....real men doesn't.

na your type dey hide am and explode when not expected.

firstking01:
On a normal day we guys get jealous the more...but me i think most times, the person who loves more gets to more possessive, clinchy and jealous.

this got me thinking sha.

Personally, i think we men jealous more than women. We don't want to even be thinking about it let alone seeing our women with one so call my senior in school, my childhood friend, let alone my ex.

At the sound of that my ex we go gaga and just maintain our dignity with pride like nothing dey happen, see, it is all lies, deep inside us the warms inside our belly have started lifting weight.

Women too jealous. If you want to kill them finally, just eat in another woman's house, if that woman is someone they are suspecting to be a treat you will not have ears to listen to any other thing.

But women still knows they can still have rivals even when they pray against it, nothing like rival for men.

But please who jealous more, the man or the woman? Please be sincere with your answer, tell us reasons and scenario if available.


Source: http://www.bamisepeters.com/2016/07/who-jealous-more-in-relationship-men-or.html

We tend not to let go till the end even with so many temptations on the way when we get into serious relationship.
Here are some of the things we shouldn't do when we want our relationship to last.

1. DON'T COMPARE

We all know we started from somewhere, he/she might not be your first, therefore, don't compare the one you have now with the one you once had or comparing other relationships outside yours with your own.

You don't know what those you are comparing yours with are going through. You are just seeing the physical part of other people's relationship, the one internal may not be bearable for you.

Also, comparing relationships with your own will lower the self esteem of your partner and will see nothing good in your relationship.

2. DO NOT KEEP MALICE

You too should be best of friends. Argument will arise definitely, you and your partner must be able to contain it in order for it not to get out of hand.

3. TRY NOT TO THINK OF YOURSELF ALONE

Always remember you are not the only one in the relationship, you alone cannot make up a relationship.

It is even better to think of your partner first. Thinking of yourself alone will not make the relationship grow.
In fact, at a point it will just destroy all you built as it will make your partner to grow some other intentions that may destroy the relationship.

4. NEVER EXPOSE YOUR ROMANTIC MOMENT

Your romantic life should be private. No matter how close you may be to your friend, no matter the secret you share, try not to disclose your romantic experience with your partner to your friend because what you are enjoying/disliking might be opposite to your friend of which they might want to be part of that experience.

Remember human beings can go extra miles to achieve whatever the desire. Not all foods should be given to your friends.

5. NEVER KEEP LOOSE FRIENDS

The friends you keep also determines how long your relationship will go.
And the way you respond to pressure also determines the longevity of your relationship even when you have the bad ones as your friends.

The best thing is to be careful of the advice you take from friends and the kind of attitude you emulate from your friends as it can shape or destroy your relationship.


Source: http://www.bamisepeters.com/2016/07/5-things-you-should-not-do-if-you-want.html

What is good for one goose they say is good for another goose. In previous post i shared the wants of any woman in a relationship, this is the reverse.

Men can be so funny with their wants all because they know they can still make choices even when married which the woman cannot object.
Here are some wants of men in a relationship:

1. TRUST:

All men want to trust their woman and want their woman to trust them even when they are promiscuous. What they can do they don't want their woman to do it. Jealousy will not kill men. You can play around with other woman, yet, you cannot allow your wife play with your junior brother.

2. UNDERSTANDING:

Every man want to be understood by their woman. Whatever they do without the knowledge of the woman they want the woman to understand it is necessary they do it even when they are caught in bed with another woman, they will still want you to understand the necessity in it while it must be understood by their wife she must not be caught in that situation.


3. MONEY:

Believe me no man with his right senses will not want to give his family the best of everything when he has the money. It is the dream of every man to be large financially, and this is why some men go extra mile to give his family the little he is giving. Every man wants her woman to look better than other women and also their child to stand out.

4. CHILDREN:

So far you have both signed the contract then the result shouldn't take longer than expected to come up. Every happy man want to see you(the woman) cry when it is time for you to drop the big deal while awaiting to replace that tears with joy afterwards. Every man who loves his woman will always hope for that day to come because they want to be called daddy even when they will be afraid to reach old age early because they don't want to die.

5. FOOD:

Men are naturally glutton, we were born hungry, no be our fault. Even those that don't eat much loves good food. Little wonder they say "if you want to keep your man, take care of his stomach. Men wan to eat different foods at different times, even lazy men want to eat better food. I will not stop pitying any woman that cannot cook, it is better you look for the man that loves junk foods or else you are on your own till death do you apart.

Please you can add yours as the list is endless.


Source: http://www.bamisepeters.com/2016/07/5-things-every-man-wants-in-relationship.html

After receiving confirmation sms for dnd i still got a call and sms from airtel this evening. I know that nonsense thing will not work.

Wetin the OP dey find go there if no be say e won cash out him money too?

Sebi na just do not disturb... Them go still continue to dey deduct your money if you leave am sleep.

Perfecttouch:
This gangoki cracks the most dry jokes in the whole of Nigeria. I don't buy any cd I see him. His jokes are whack and dry

lower your voice, you are shouting already.

Personally, i love my sundays to be work-free, either it is a sin or not depends on what sin is which i don't really know. When i start my business, Saturday and sundays especially is for my staffs to be with their families except if is is dead important and something positive will be attached to it for them. Sin or not, i don't know about that.

rexericx:
Most woman are like that, but will this ur post change dem
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Bamac

Should a man keep a woman that still confides in her friends on things that has got to do with d love birds?

Cc.
Lala

if it doesn't they will have themselves to blame now

Doing any of the above is just like doing this to a man

Yes, women need to be respected by men, but it should also be reciprocated.

It is not right in any circumstances to say any of the below statements to a man:

1. Shut up

For crying out loud, he paid your bride-price, jokingly or otherwise you need not say that to him.

2. If not for my parents

Well, if your parents did not make him who he is, he will still be what he is destined to be.

3. You are not fit to be a man

For him to have trapped you into the family way, forget, he is more than a man.

4 My younger sibling is wiser than you

Why didn't you go and marry your brother then?

5. My ex is stronger than you

Why didn't you stay with him? Did it break? Why can't you just be contented with him and move on.

Don't be frustrated to the extent of saying any of those statements to your man, he can loose it and anything can happen afterwards.

Respect him like you will want yourself to be respected even when he is going hot.

Do not worry, men will respect themselves too after reading this, so no need for quarrel.


Source : www.bamisepeters.com/2016/07/five-abusive-words-you-should-not-say.html

My post on 5 things every woman wants in a relationship got some amazing comments here on nairaland. In the comment, male readers believes the two major things women cherish in their relationship is money and sex.

Yes, money is the big deal and it has a lot to do in sustaining any relationship. But i have seen many women that built their relationship on love. They stayed with their man even when nobody believed they will.

Now-a-days, women cherish the love more than any other material things. In fact, most of them chose to be self dependant than depending on a man.

Do you know some women spends money on their men? Oh, because most of the women will tell you my man did this/that for me? The truth is that this women just protect the dignity of their man outside their home.

Many women are the breadwinners of their home, yet, you will still think the man is the one providing for the home.

Please, do not conclude that women wants the money more, we all do. Many women will shock you.

The truth is that what you have in your mind about them only manifest when you have one. And you can't expect a woman to cope when you have laid wrong foundation.

The foundation laid by many men is the cause of the issues they have with many women, and it will continue till they change their perception about them.


Source: http://www.bamisepeters.com/2016/06/what-some-men-thinks-of-every-woman.html

Laveda:
These guys no get chill

no mind dem

asodane:
Number 2 cover it all. Money all the way

lol