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YOUNGSTUNNA:
...at least they should learn to explore whatever app they used... each app I download, I usually make sure I explored it and know the full functionality of the app.


..no wonder those phone engineers dey charge some people any how for minor fault wey dem sef fit handle

So you can know it all right? Why can't you also be a mechanic, a carpenter, even phcn? Forget story, you are silently calling those that take their phone to engineers for small issues fools and na your type dey fall mugun pass.

We get to know people in places we go often. School, place of worship, place of work etc.

At a point or the other, you do not need to attach so much importance to your relationship with that of the person you have left for long who does not even care if you are alive or not.

Yes, you might have gone to the same school and were best of friends doesn't mean you cannot move on in life alone and with new set of people.

At each point there is someone to either move with you to the next point, you move alone or you part ways towards different and unrelated greater directions.

When you try making them feel important but they are not reciprocating, then, you need to drop them and move forward.

There are some instances whereby you move with some people who are not ready to support your dreams not just financially.

Not everything is money. There are some people who do not have the money to move your dream, but encouragement and their faith in what you can do or become is enough to make them useful in your life.

Don't just keep some people in your life for keeping sake. What is the point keeping them when they don't believe something good can come out of you?

Financially and morally they are no where to be found, then your success is already determined as they can cut short your dreams.

When some people start giving you attitudes like no matter what you do they will always be greater than you, it is high time you left them because they can kill you untimely if at the end of it all you are more successful than them.


Source: http://bamisepeters..com.ng/2016/08/when-is-it-right-to-part-ways-with.html

Please leave story, he makes good cash, he features on big stage. You are where you are because of your beefing.

You have gotten more than enough advice, it is left to you to decide. There is nothing else i will say that has not been said.

When we enter into any relationship no one knows when and how it will end and that is if it does halfway.
Many relationship leads to marriage. In fact, relationship is meant to lead to marriage.

Relationship that doesn't lead to marriage is the reason for this post.
We do not need to end a relationship in a bad way. I use to tell those in relationship that listens to me that it is better your partner is the cause of your break than they being the reason for the break because they will regret it at the long run.

Not all relationships ends on a bad note, some were dissolved through mutual understanding which is a great way to end a relationship.

Clean end to a relationship gives you peace of mind and no regret.
Many do think that after a relationship the two parties involved have nothing to do together forgetting that we are in a funny world where the person you hate so much might be the one that will lift you to greatness.

Now, if the above statement is the case, what happens when you that is destined to be lifted to greatness is the cause of the break-up with the person that should make you rise?

If you had done it rightly he or she will never refuse to help you, but if you do it badly, you will not be able to even sneeze when he or she coughs.
Remember that bad news spreads faster than good news, and the way you deal with just a person determines how you will deal with people.

Your conscience will always prick you at the sight of that person you left badly, especially when that person is a lady and she keeps shinning better than how you even met her the first day.

To her it will be a good thing you ended the relationship, but to you, it will be hell on heart as you will be restless and keep wondering what happened.

It will also hurt a lady after she ended the relationship badly and she sees that the lady with the man she left is far prettier and hotter than her, she will also start wondering what went wrong.

Well, medicine after dead will not lift a hair on the dead let alone the whole body.

Relationship is not easy to maintain.

Only those who scale through can tell the story. Do all you can to maintain your relationship even against all odds when you can so that your story will motivate others to emulate you.



Source: http://bamisepeters..com.ng/2016/08/why-clean-break-is-best-way-to-end.html

kolaish:
1. MTN

2. MTN

3. MTN

I LEFT MTN because OF THEIR BAD CUSTOMER SERVICE. I WENT TO THEIR OFFICE IN V.I. TO LAY A COMPLAIN BUT WAS SHOCKED ABOUT THE WAY THEY RESPONDED TO ME. INSTANTLY, I REMOVE THEIR SIM AND GIVE IT TO THEM AFTER 10 YEARS OF BEING WITH THEM. NOT MINDING THE FACT THAT THEIR IS ABOUT N1,800 CREDIT ON THE SIM LINE. I AM NOW WITH AIRTEL.

Thank you for choosing the smartphone network.

This is not directed to a specific gender, it could be anyone.

Have you ever asked yourself the reason behind their hatred towards your partner? Or don't you feel it is something strange and worthy of worry?

It is rear for those two vital groups to feel differently about someone your soul regularly yawns for.
Even if the family feels unhappy, your friends who are closer shouldn't feel same way about him/her or even vice versa.

Have you ever confronted them to know their reasons if genuine? And have you ever put yourself in their shoes?

Are you aware that those people are part of those he/she is in the relationship with and not just you?

And do you know that the bond that suppose to bind you all together might be tampered with if the hatred lingers beyond repair?

You know relationship are not always rossy, who are those you will fall back to when you need someone else apart from your soul mate when things are not right between you and your patner?

You even dare not go to them as you will be swallowed raw.

Jen Soule a contributor in an article on elite daily stated some questions that must be considered in this kind of situation before moving on.

1. Can I see myself in this relationship in a year, three years, or five years?

2. Am I truly happy in this relationship, and is my life heading in the right direction?

3. Am I actually in love with this person, or am I just comfortable?

4. Does my friends and family have valid reasons for hating my soulmate?

5. Is the relationship worth losing any of the other people in my life?

Those are valid questions you need to ask yourself even if love is blind, and answers to those questions will give you clue(s).

Make your decisions for the future and not just for now. Remember whatever you do now may arise for or against you in the future.

Don't just overlook their judgment when you are in love, they were there before you knew him/her and all or some of them will still be there when he/she will be no more(separation or death).

You might think they cannot decide your happiness or your life, but they are also an important factor you must consider before you make the final decision because life does not end where you and your partner lies.

My little cent though.

Source: http://bamisepeters..com.ng/2016/08/when-your-family-and-friends-don-like.html

jideniceguy:
Wetin make you dey shine yo brown teeth?? What's so funny bout this.

haba! You too dey take thinz personal, for him eye death na comedian na. RIP to the dead jare.

joe17:
Pls I can't subscribe to aitel #50 for 1.5GB...help. Just got the sim

kindly migrate to Smart trybe 2.0 to enjoy that benefit by dialing *312#,reply with 1 to migrate. After you have migrated, recharge the amount you wish to use for the data, then when it is past 12 in the night kindly dial that same code then reply with the amount of data you wish to subscribe to, you will be able to browse in the night from 12am-5am.

Kindly know that if you have done any migration within the last 30days you will be charged #100 migration fee, but if you have not done any within the last 30days it will be free.

Also, on that tariff, you will be able to make your local calls at 11k/s after your first 50sec call of the day is charged at 20k/s.

Thank you for choosing Airtel.

leofab:
Benue and bad news ehhh.. I still regret why am posted to that state to serve!!!!



Meanwhile sleeping with a girl in Benue

that state, as in e get as e be for that state....


On a lighter mode, show us the picture of how that guy escape the thing e dey rape for that picture.

azeecoboy:
WHy should u privatise a relationship?

but the way you see it is different from other's view.

izzou:
The state of the nation is enough news for the world, not my relationship

looooool

Having 3 REASONS TO KEEP YOUR RELATIONSHIP PUBLIC on https://www.nairaland.com/3270364/3-reasons-keep-relationship-public, which would you prefer, is it the public relationship or the private?

I know your have your reason(s) and wouldn't mind if you can just tell us the one you prefer and the reason(s) for that choice.

I prefer making it public because i have got no hidden skeleton.
Please share yours and let's see other people's reasons too.

Let the discussion start.

Lalasticlala which do you prefer?


http://bamisepeters..com.ng/2016/08/to-singles-which-would-you-prefer.html

Aim07:
I got dia invite too but am not going. I just saw d msg not long ago.

why?

Relationship to me is not something someone should just make private if you are serious about it.

Making it private means anyone else no matter how close or important apart from the two parties involved cannot know about it.

For a serious relationship, here are reasons why you must not keep your relationship private:

1. LACK OF COMMITMENT:

There will be no security. At any point in time anyone can just decide to leave the relationship since there is no one to ask questions as regards the abandonment.

And you are not on a right part if you don't know some friends, relatives of your partner to some extent when you call yourself lovers.

Those that even knows the biological parents of their partner are being dumped any how let alone you that is claiming to be holy by keeping your relationship secret.

2. IT CLOSES UP THE CHANCE FOR DISTURBANCE

When your relationship is public it reduces the chances of you being disturbed by the opposite sex especially the lady.

There are some men that once they hear you are in a relationship they keep off.

And as a man, it gives you a sense of being watched by someone unknown because you are already in a serious relationship and almost everyone knows.

3. BREAKING UP WILL NOT BE EASIER

Relationship isn't for children, but for adults who are ready to surrender all ego and differences to build a decent and lasting union.

Breaking up should be the last thing on the list this kind of determined minds.

Making your relationship public will make any of the parties involved think twice before taking a decision since you know there are some people looking up to your relationship, and there are some you wish to prove wrong about your relationship, especially those that thinks nothing good can come out of your relationship.

Not that those points i have mentioned will guarantee a successful relationship as there are so many relationship that are made public, yet, the unthinkable destroyed the union. But, they will go a long way to determine the success of any relationship a bit.

I know some people are very stubborn, they know you are in a relationship, yet, they will keep coming and coming thinking you will change your decision in their favour one day if they don't allow you to breath, but it is to a certain level that will last if you are determined.

Don't be deceived by a man/woman who says it is not yet time for you to know my friends or parents when you know it is over time, that statement is sign of no commitment and if you really know what is good for you you need to do the needful before it gets out of hand.


Source: http://bamisepeters..com.ng/2016/08/3-reasons-to-keep-your-relationship.html

The topic should be "a possessed Man Rapes His Mother In Edo, Beats Father"

Ask4Info:
I put it to NCC THAT THEY ARE LYING.


After i saw Visafone and Multilinks listed as active CDMA (data and voice providers) i just can't weep for my Country as people in authority always chun out lies and deceit at will.


WHILE MTN HAS TAKEN OVER VISAFONE SINCE ABOUT 4MONTHS NOW, MULTILINKS ON THE OTHER HAND HAS BEEN TOTALLY DEAD OVER A YEAR AGO.

While didn't NCC also include Celtel, Mobitel, Starcomms, Intercellular and VGC telecoms?

The ONLY CDMA surviving company in Lagos right now aside Visafone which MTN has taken over is 21st Century telecoms.


By the way, while wasn't Swift Network, Spectranet, Smile and other internet providers included?

thought i was the only one who disagree. I know the rigorous complaint resolve on a daily basis including data subscription for the telecommunication company i work for and people are still dying to make enquiries.

Don't blame any company for poor network, each location has the network that work best, thats just the truth, it is not supposed to be so though, but that is the situation we find ourselves in in this country.

Let's see the survey that led to that hasty generalization NCC.

For a successful relationship there are 3 keywords necessary for the growth and life span of the relationship according to Pope Francis which i will like to share with you, they are:

1. PERMISSION

Seeking permission from each other decides the success of any relationship.
A man must not always think he is the only one in a relationship neither the woman, two good heads are better than one, so, before you act it is advisable you ask your partner if it is right to do this or that.

Decision making in a relationship should be through agreement and not just by one bossy fellow.

2. FORGIVENESS

It is good to forgive one's partner even before the offence.

We are humans and bound to make errors. No one is specially made perfectly and we will not be perfect no matter how hard we try to.

Once a mistake is recognized and apology is tendered, it should be accepted.

Relationship therapists and researchers agree that forgiveness is a key ingredient in a successful bond. After all, no partner is perfect, wrote psychology expert Lisa Firestone for The Huffington Post last year.

3. THANKS

Appreciation is very essential in a relationship. Don't say because he is your partner so whatever he/she does is what is expected of him/her.

It might be what he/she is suppose to do but it is good to still appreciate.

Learn to say thank you after a good meal. Say thank you for every gift and every thing.

Showing Gratitude is almost the same as saying "i love you", and it keeps the bond alive.


Source: http://bamisepeters..com.ng/2016/08/3-keywords-to-successful-relationship.html

Pasonally, the two keeps me going, the job will be miserable without any of the two.

Passion is the feeling of enthusiasm or excitement for something or about doing something.

It is one thing to work for you passion and another for the money, but believe me, passion alone cannot earn you the desired happiness without a reward.

Your passion will not pay your house rent, neither will it feed your family nor pay all other bills.

Passion for the job is good but so many things can kill that passion if not in place.

How many doctors will treat a patient without pay? How many lawyers will defend a client in the law court without pay? How many teachers will teach without pay?

The truth is just that the passion will only make the job enjoyable and the pay makes it more pleasant as you are rewarded as a result of being passionate about what you are doing.

Don't forget that even those that have no passion for that same job get paid let alone you that enjoys doing it.

There are so many things we have passion about, but once no gain is coming from it the passion goes with the wind.

Don't let us deceive ourselves, not just because of the economic factor, it is all over the world, passion alone cannot guarantee you the desired happiness when the monetary aspect or good working environment is not involved.

If you want to put it into practice, kindly ask those in charge at your work to stop paying you and lets see if passion will provide your needs.

I am not talking about the services you render in your churches or mosques but the job you do.

Job is what we do with or without passion to earn money.

Passion only makes you to enjoy what you are doing and the reward for the passion is the money, meanwhile, the money is not even for the passion but the job you have done.



Source: http://bamisepeters..com.ng/2016/08/my-opinion-what-keeps-you-going-passion.html

Well done to those men and women who are responsible for all the positives in their home or relationship.

It is not easy to sustain the home and the relationship especially with the hard labour required of the places of work where the resources to maintain the home and the relationship is coming from.

Jobs available this days requires more time and commitment considering the economic brouhaha.

Companies want more than the best from their workers to be untop of their game due to various competitions staring at their faces.

The job is important, so also the relationship and keeping the home is important as well, because even your relationship or your home can give you the happiness you desire to carry on working.

Yes, to manage the relationship and your home requires the gains from the job but you can't make the job your spouse.

Well, we have some people determined to be single till death take them but what about you who wants a home?
There should be time for everything, your job is important so also your home.

Though understanding makes two tangle but playing with the intelligence or understanding of the other in a relationship may cost you dearly.

When you love someone and you don't wish to lose that person, then you have to do all it takes to balance everything up.

Apart from the physical job you do, take your relationship or home as another job which you must not toil with.

The life span of your job is higher than the life span of you yourself let alone your relationship or your home.

Also, do not let the issues causing you discomfort at work to affect your relationship and home. Job and relationship are two different things that must not be mixed up, because some bosses might get your angry or even some clients/customers.

No matter how much you make, if you don't have time for your relationship or your home you are calling for strange visitor who is not earning what you are earning or not earning at all.


Source: http://bamisepeters..com.ng/2016/07/well-done-to-those-men-and-women-who.html

Don't feel too important about yourself as regards your relationship with people.

Don't feel people will always come to your aid when you need them, because the truth is that everyone needs help but the kind and volume of help and varies.

You do not need to hold grudge against people when they fail even when you think they are physically fine.

Do not forget the power of the cloth we wear, the make up and the beautiful smile that portrays one to be happy even when fire is burning under the cloth.

Please, no one owes you anything as you do not owe them any responsibility, if you are assisted by chance just be grateful and if those you think will rise up to your aid fails, just keep putting them in prayers because you don't know the true colour of what they are going through since appearance is not reality.

When you ask for help from people, no matter how sure you are about the person, it is advisable not to rely on it because anything can rise up, life isn't bed of roses and what no one ever expected may just arise which might not be their fault.

They shouldn't be the determinant of your destiny. Their disappointment should be your strength and their approval should be just a booster.

We are humans and are bound to have issues which you must put into consideration when seeking financial assistance especially.

Something that is certain is that if it has been destined that you will be assisted by that person nothing can change it. And if fate has it that you will be assisted by that person, you don't need to stress too much as it has happened even before you ask.

Always be ready for whatever the outcome of you seeking assistance from people will be without any emotional attachment, because they that you are asking for assistance from also have one thing or the other they cater for.


Source: http://bamisepeters..com.ng/2016/07/they-didnt-help-you-do-not-mean-they.html

In Africa, male gender is preferred than the female counterpart due to so many associated beliefs like a woman builds another man's house, a woman cannot be the head of a family and on and on..
Many of these beliefs have changed in this century anyways as people are now thinking towards various directions.

Some people like me are now dreaming to have a female child as the first born.
You need to be proud to be a woman as you have greater potentials than the male gender by nature and in the society.

Some of these potentials are as follows:

1. ABILITY TO GET WHATEVER YOU WANT OUT OF MEN

Adam and Samson fell because of Eve and Delilah, so many great men have also fallen through women and this will not stop.

Women no matter the beauty have the power to make man rise and fall, their ribs might be shorter than that of men but they can make that of a man shorter and theirs greater if the man is not firm.

2. YOU HAVE THE NATURAL ABILITY TO GIVE BIRTH TO YOUNG ONES ALIVE

You can say without man they will not conceive, but don't you think if that is the case then God should have made Joseph pregnant through the Holy spirit instead of Mary to give birth to Jesus.

You can decide to give birth to the child or not even if the man is proving to be the head of the family.

No man can even be the head of any family without the woman or can the man give birth to himself or those he will be head upon by himself?

What man can use their stomach to store is food and beer.

3. WOMEN ARE MORE FAVOURED THAN MEN

In our society, women are more favoured in all ramifications. The bitter truth is that they are more favoured than the male counterpart in the sight of men themselves.

Most times a female with 2nd class lower get the job earlier than the man with first class, not because of the grade but because of the good tidings attached to the female gender especially in the marketing world.

This is not to say all female marketers use their body. Most of them are wise and sharp that they know how to get themselves out of mess. The fact is that the female gender is just attractive on it's own.

4. YOU ARE RESPONSIBLE FOR THE SUCCESS OF ANY MAN AND ANY CHILD

Behind a successful man there is always a woman, and behind a successful child, there is a mother who went extra mile.
When a woman is ready to do all it takes for her man or children to succeed, there is no stopping them.
Not that men are not also responsible for success of woman too, but as gentle man, they don't shout.

5. WITHOUT THE WOMEN THE WORLD IS INCOMPLETE

The world cannot be complete if the women are not present. Who will cook the meals? Who will take care of the kids? Who will run the errands when you have a party even when you hire event planner? Who will bring out the man factor in any man?

No matter how enjoyable the beer you take is, it can never be compared with that of your woman, take it or leave it.


Source: http://bamisepeters..com/2016/07/5-reasons-you-should-be-proud-to-be.html

IffaCatchYouEhn:
Why can't they use
AHMED MUSA

you no like nkem owoh...

Issokey, it is his time now "for the main time"

john4reala:
this is An Insult to Covenant University

watapen now?

hummerwise:
....I saw people coming out of the supposed building that looks like a complex, they look perplexed and dejected like they bin defrauded some of them were even singing christain songs like they were thanking God he saved them....

this part got me cracking... Sadlyfunny.

Dem scam you sotey, you collect testimonial.

Please let them celebrate, one step at a time, we all do it at one point or the other.

Oga o, celeb no fit sneeze for this land anymore, and na kind thing wey dey sweet Nairaland front page be that.

iykekelvins:
[color=#099999]Wahrisdis!!!![/color]

WAR ni o

Read the post on Naij.com and i just need to respond since there was no way to add comment on the post. You can also read it here on nairaland https://www.nairaland.com/3235160/4-signs-she-sexually-experienced

The list in that post will only make many women to be pretenders to their man.

With that list, any woman will want to watch what she says since it is possible for her man to have come across that write-up, and if he is the kind of man that accepts everything he reads hook-line-and-sinker then, that woman is in trouble.

You cannot say because a woman is free to say anything about se-x then she has slept with many men, that is erroneous.

Saying she knows what she want does not portray her to be wayward considering the fact that she might have been seeing many of those things she ask from you through surfing the internet or by word of mouth or through films. She might even want to try it for the first time possibly because she over heard a man saying he would love to experience such escapade with his wife, you cannot tell.

If she is telling you things to try, then you need to applaud her because she really want you to be satisfied and possibly her satisfaction too, and bet me, if you can act accordingly she will always be dreaming to have you and you yourself will be happy you have all you desire in a woman.

Who knows if you as the man is even nursing that intention in your mind and you are trying to keep quiet so that she will not start asking questions.

When you visit some relationship counselors, they will even admonish you to try new things when it seems you are no more enjoying your se-x life with your spouse.

And why will she be ashamed to take off her clothes or dance naked for you her man for crying out loud?

This list will only bring down the moral of any woman that want to keep her man for herself only.

All those things mentioned in the list are those things that makes many men go out in search of prostitutes.

So, the writer mean it is okay for the men to go for a prostitute and bring the disease that will ruin a family instead of enjoying more than the prostitute can offer in his own bedroom?

Please don't let us ruin a home or a relationship because we want to make common sense.

Don't be shocked that many of those woman who act according to that list might even be those ones that are loyal while those that are quiet with their husband are the green snake under the green grass who will try funny things with other men outside.

Though, it is the opinion of the author and this also is my own opinion.


Source: http://www.bamisepeters.com/2016/07/4-signs-she-is-sexually.html

halfricanadian:
Exactly wen i cried nt for d love bt for d pain nd torment i was put true

He will never go un purnished in Gods presence

For d hardship nd nt heartbreak

sorry, ehn?