From what you posted, I don't see much that indicate u are a failure.
In case you don't hear this often, "you are on the right path in life". Don't let people's shallow view of you affect your energy and preclude you from being what you are meant to be. What most people do not understand is that everyone is created differently to suit different life purposes. If you were not the way you are, maybe you wouldn't have been so successful in your education. Keep being positive about the steps you take because only the wisest make such choices in time.
Software engineering is very interesting and might take years to know much. But you are still young, you've got time, don't rush it and don't give up.

I would like you to search the internet for some self-help books. They'll help improve your mental state and make you view life in a much different way.
The law of human nature by Robert greene is a great book that everyone should read at one point.

There's no true gain or gratification that comes from stealing or shortcuts.
You will be more proud of earnings that come through legit hard work than money you steal from people that simply trust you.

Madampauline:
Back in the days I dated a married man I was 19 he was 35 married with kids.

He had done a lot for me, thanks to him I am in Europe now he has done everything for me.

I broke his heart after moving in Europe in 2011, I blocked him and moved on with my life.

I am happily married since 2015 with 2 beautiful children.

I learned that he passed away this year march and his wife and five children have nowhere to stay.

She is actually staying in church with 2 children while the other 3 are with relatives.

I feel so sad and I want to help her with accommodation and will give her money for business, I want to do know anonymously because if she knows it is me who want to help her I don't think she will accept the money.

Should I do it anonymously or I should let her know I am the one who want to help her.

Advice me please

You must have f*cked her up in many ways for you to want to be anonymous.

My humble advice is that you send her a warm apology letter attached with a decent amount of money . Bare your heart out in the letter. I believe that's the only way you can both truly have peace.

KingSatan:
I anticipate the return of Donald Trump.


Power is a fine wine. Drink a glass or more but never get intoxicated.


Congratulations Musk.

Na your quote be this?
E strong o

I'm proud of you bro!
I hope you succeed in doing away with this for good

falcon01:
alot of grey areas n your write up, what do you see when a Gay person is mentioned? It's psychological and yet biological let's say I have gay sex and get hooked then I'm just curious person with no morals, but a gay person is one who is only attracted to same gender there's no in-between they view the opposite gender exactly how you view the same gender. Yes there are people who are gay just for selfish reasons but I think we are talking about 2 different types of people here those who do it because it's the only thing they can do thats who they are and those who do it because they can do it ir ain't bound by any morals religious or societal Norm. That been said Homosexuality has been in existence since the appearance if man in this world people do it, people are doing it and people will do it there ain't nothing you can do about it. There are normal people, there are mad people the world ain't perfect there's a defect.
Homosexuality is a disorder and this people need help but since they ain't harming Nobody that's why it's not considered a disorder.

P.S I did not say he is gay, I said he might be gay and that's my personal suggestion. I might be wrong but his predicament doesn't seem to be a problem to me I just here to give my own 2 cents.

Okay keep suggesting pls. Be kind enough to extend the suggestion to your future sons. Tell them they might even need boobs. Tell them to aim very low when they are distressed.

falcon01:
people like me? Come on, you don't know what you are saying. There's alot of deadly diseases from straight or gay relationships and did I ask him to experiment on been gay? Why don't you read to understand? And yes he could be Gay and I'll say that again you are having trouble maintaining an erection with a woman a@ain't that a sign you don't find women attractive? Attraction comes from the heart so he has to you think people come online to seek for help? Some people are just looking for something to prove to themselves that they are not what they hate maybe he hates Gays but he is gay and he comes here create a topic so that hell get advice that's not related to been gay. And about Gays that's not a western trend, I know of a boy while growing up he has always liked boys that's way before we know of the Internet. Now I ain't saying I support the lifestyle but there are people who are genuinely born like that it may be a defect or something but there are people like that. So if this guy is gay why not allow him to find peace withing himself rather than struggling with the truth?

I personally consider homosexuality as a disorder and they need help not discrimination and hate
And I'm referring to normal individuals having sexuality problems not idiots like Bob risky and James brown

Once had an experience of people telling me I could be gay when I was younger simply because I used to be soft. It took a miracle to keep me from experimenting the act.
Yes there might be people born that way, and I think they should be respected the way they are. But I believe it is dangerous to tell people they might be gay because that's the first step of transition. Every one has the tendency to turn gay. You probably don't know this because you've never experimented the act and you've never been sexually abused by a man b4.
It's better to keep homosexuality at a minimum because there are much more diseases that stem from homosexuality than heterosexuality.

falcon01:
some people are having trouble discovering themselves, some people don't want to accept who they are especially religious one or when you live in a society that consider the lifestyle a disgusting one. It doesn't matter who he is or what he feels he wants deep down how does he feel? That's why I asked him how he feels about the same gender. Been gay now Is not a big deal more and more people are embracing the lifestyle so if he's gay that's his problem.

The dude said he's been masturbating all his life (obviously not to gay porn)
But you are coming out to tell him he could be gay!! You see, this is how most gays are created. Because people like you go about telling people to experiment these things because you follow too much Western trend. Do you realize how much diseases came from homosexual relationships? Deadly diseases.

falcon01:

This is exactly why you should not masturbate too much, only when required. You've successful taught your body how to be excited without the touch of a woman to the point that a womans touch doesn't move you and youve destroyed the sensitivity of your Male reproductiveorgan. Well you'll have to stop masturbation learn to feel attracted to the opposite gender because at this point you've been psychologically damaged. Just stop it by any means, stop it! Feel the touch of your partner and rekindle the feeling inside you and also eat well and drink alot of water.

***Modified

Come to think of it, Maybe you are just gay. How do you feel about the same gender?

You made a lot of sense until you mentioned gay.
He's not gay. Don't ever say such words to anyone! ever!! If he was gay, he wouldn't need your help finding out

VeryWickedMan:
Kilishi is just normal beef. The secret is to masticate it with aboki saliva to get that texture.

It has to be aboki saliva that's why no other tribe can prepare it just like Afonja ewedu and gbegiri.

Mumu.
You don't seem to realize how your föölish comments Foster wide hatred. It's poverty I blame not you.

WiszyFraud:
Did you know??



Things to remove from your life right now

- Over-thinking
- Living in the past
- Bad sleeping habit
- Trying to please everyone
- Thinking you’re not good enough
- Sacrificing your happiness for vanities

Bros! Like say you dey inside my head

Romanoff:
I never considered profession before I got married.

I just needed the person to have sense. That was the most important for me.

Must you spoil everything

Yampotatocarrot:


We dey the same boat... Funny part is those who cram Mbaka's own and use it when they're praying

Then, those of us that know the song will be like, "is this guy praying in tongues or repeating the tongues Mbaka said in one of his songs?"

Hmmn.. May God have mercy.

Tobechuckwu:


I'm being sincere with you here
Speaking in tongues is not an issue for born again Christian. If u start having issues with speaking in tongues, then check ur salvation very well.

Apart from when the holy ghost came down in d day in the book of Acts, that was the only time pple heard them speaking in their language bcuz they needed to be saved.
Check carefully, all through the book of Acts where pple heard them speak in their native language when they spoke in tongues.

The OP clearly stated that he is not against speaking in tongues. The issue is that, many Nigerian gospel singers have formed the habit of incorporating it in popular Gospel songs which is meant for everyone to consume. Didn't the Bible speak against using the gift this way?
Don't you think this will cause lots of people to abuse it just to look cool?

Tobechuckwu:


Do u believe in Jesus Christ?
The Bible says these signs shall follow them that believe "they shall speak with new tongues".
If u are born again Christian, u should receive the holy ghost with evidence of speaking in tongues.

The Bible says "He that speaks in an unknown tongues speaks to God and not men.

That u don't speak in tongues doesn't make it fake or bad, don't hate on born again Christian who do. They received the word of God with gladness of heart.
That u choose not to receive it is nobody's fault.

You are accusing the OP of things he did not say or imply. The problem here is that, you have already formed an opinion of him based on mere sentiment.
The OP has raised fair questions which shows that he is concerned for the future of the church. Why don't you examine the questions and try to come up with a more cogent response.

I've always wondered the same.
In my case I don't speak in tongues. So, I often wonder if it's okay for me to say those unknown words while mimicking a song.
What are listeners like me supposed to do with such informations.

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Plssssssssssssssssss I'm begging you Bimpe

Wordsfrombimpe:
You could have scroll pass my timeline

I never ask for your opinions period

Just shatap

ZombieSlayer1:
I want to ask questions concerning the rubbish going on in Nairaland

Why does it seem like the Yorubas and Igbos are the only tribes who are always squabbling here?

Why does it seem like the Yorubas bear animosity towards the Igbos but the other tribes don't?

Why is it that on any thread concerning a crime involving an Igbo man or Igbo land, the Yorubas will take over the entire front page castigating the entire Igbo tribe but you hardly see same on threads concerning Yorubas?

The Yorubas are the only tribe I've seen here who wish the total decimation of any other tribe, why is it so? I've not seen any Northern leader threaten to throw people from other tribes into the lagoon.
What's really going on here

The fact that you don't see the igbos doing the same thing shows you must be full of sh*t

slawomir:
Damnnn niggarrrr
Isoright

Mark Zuckerberg
Giving admin too much power

Mark Zuckerberg should add that feature that states that this particular number is scam

Just like telegram ...Anyway not a fan of Mark
I be he enemy...he get why

But you be scammer nah

popez:


Lol. Which kyn childish rant be this?

Abeg smell shit shit comot for my mentions!

It ain't childish if it's true

popez:


Foolish things like you should be used as bait for bandits. If I ask you to mention the family business Obi invested Anambra funds in, I'm sure you will crawl back into the pit where you came out from. Bloody twatt!

We know you are nothing but a terrorist from the East. You can't properly disguise as a true supporter because you lack the cognitive ability to properly sell your preferred candidate so, you end up messing this one up too.
You are probably wondering what you will do with your life if this doesn't work out, hmmm.
I feel sorry for you "boy"

popez:
The ones they've been asking Peter Obi on AriseTV, channels and other platforms are what?




On a second thought; OP no even get sense!

Why don't you answer the question? Or perhaps you are the one who is stup!d for knowing nothing about the candidate you claim to support

Gentlerespect76:

He said front page. Every stupid post now goes to front page. Yes, Seun, push to front page. I know you don't mean well the moment I saw you talking about 250,000000 million and mentioning Obi's name. Rubbish!!

Why do you guys develop extreme anxiety whenever anyone asks a question about Peter Obi?
Are you afraid that your candidate might not be the saint you paint him to be?
Is there something you know that we don't?

Christistruth00:
CAN needs to Crackdown on Suleiman, Fatoyinbo and Fufeyin Seriously and stop allowing them to continue their atrocities

they are worse than Witchdoctors and Ritualists

This is the sort of thing one can say when he finds himself in a tight corner

Pwettylinda:
This pastor must have delt with her ruthlessly and made her confess under duress

You are not different from the woman

AntiChristian:
Why can't the president be elected from NE/NW among the Christians there?

Na so so Southern leadership all the time!

Na only politics tribalism suppose dey why is CAN afraid of Northern leadership but Christians are always wanting to convert them?

You are anti-christians so, go to hell

GOTVee:
Even though I'm a born again Christian, I think we Christians should be ashamed of ourselves for heating up the polity unnecessarily. We Christians and Muslims should understand that Nigeria do not revolve around our both faiths. We have traditionalist and nonbelievers who have been politically marginalized all this years without been given any sort of consideration. There is nothing bad in having a Muslim/Muslim ticket if we truly care about the development of our country. We have had a Christian VP In Osinbajo for almost 8 years, how has it helped we Christians?

Let's stop condemning our Muslim brothers and sisters for political gains. We Christians and Muslims are one. I urge everyone one of us to support the Muslim/Muslim ticket for the prosperity of our nation. We Christians should learn from the tolerance of our Muslim brothers so we can have a peaceful nation

You are bloody Muslim my friend

fvck:
If not that CAN has been politicized,if they should say no christian should vote Tinubu, everyone would had adhered to it.

speak for yourself and other confused christians online.. most christians will listen when CAN speak.
i've been watching you f00ls come online and undermine the major body responsible for protecting the right and interest of Nigerian Christians. So what if there is a few irregularities here and there? has the mission of CAN ever changed from defending Christians to supporting the agenda of Muslims??
We Christians in the North know the value of CAN and you all will see it too. I just hope it wont be too late.

MufasaLion:


Don't be filled with bitterness and hatred . Go and stream Love, Damini.

He shot two people because they won't let him fork their wife.. I don't like that sort of person