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RomanceRe: Wow! So This Is Why Male Nairalanders Are So Bitter And Miserable? by Banilla: 10:32am On Mar 21, 2023
narite:
So basically when a man finally as money, success he does not need to be faithful, loyal, responsible and committed to any woman because all that his meaningless. His money goes away and the lady goes away!!!
Blame men who call women useless because they only bring their feelings to the table... Your gender claims superiority for the sake that they have money.
RomanceRe: Wow! So This Is Why Male Nairalanders Are So Bitter And Miserable? by Banilla: 10:19am On Mar 21, 2023
odinson1:
Lol someone up there talking about dj cuppy and her millions. What women fail to realize is that men don't give a single bleep about a woman's money or success. All they care about is her looks,age,if she's not sleeping around,and her ability to be in a relationship with a high value man.

That's why no matter a woman's achievements,men will always ignore it and ask why she isn't yet married to a man she loves,admires and respects.
Women,you can either cry about it,or accept reality for what it is. It's up to you!


Why is everything always perceived as "hating on the entire female gender" to you people?
Whenever a man says something bad or terrible about a woman, women automatically perceives it as hatred on women. we live in times where feelings comes before Common sense and logical reasoning
You're not smart.

The topic isn't: what's a man's definition of a high value woman.

Read to comprehend.

DJ Cuppy is fu**ing rich and happy, regardless of what you say. That's the point. What you and the other poor miserable men think doesn't matter, never did. You think if DJ Cuppy lowered her standards, she wouldn't find a man? grin

The only thing that gives men the right to say, "I want this or that in a woman" is money... When he doesn't have that but she does, his opinions are valueless. Keep bullying her tho. She doesn't know you exist
RomanceRe: Help The Simps by Banilla: 9:27am On Mar 21, 2023
zed7:
I like it when hôrny kids gather to 'educate' other hôrny kids. Nemo dat quod non habet.
They aren't against fornication, they just want free sex. tongue

No one says, "men avoid women cause they are evil"... It's, "how to get sex without being manipulated into paying for it"...

They are cheap, not decent...
RomanceRe: Wow! So This Is Why Male Nairalanders Are So Bitter And Miserable? by Banilla: 9:18am On Mar 21, 2023
Yesterday on Facebook, I came across a post by LegitNG... reading the comments made me sick.

DJ Cuppy said "I don't need a man to complete me but I want one to tell me how awesome I am"... Something like that...

Men were so upset, talking about how she's proud and she would die alone and miserable... She needs a man and her horrible character is the reason she can't get one... Blah blah blah...

The irony is that DJ is a multi-millionaire who wouldn't date any of them even with a gun to her head! Their girlfriends would dump them to be Cuppy for a day!

Like I said, the only thing men have over women is money, success too... Take these away and they are basically worthless and they know it!
RomanceRe: To Men Whose Girlfriends/wives Are More Successful: Submit To Her! by Banilla(op): 7:48am On Mar 21, 2023
MrBrownJay1:
i am not understanding that your levels of uselessness... so you think that its ok to marry a useless man (who cant fulfill his own role in the marriage) so long as he fulfills "your role" in the marriage and submits to women?!

here is a simple clue: men will be men, regardless of their financial status or otherwise. if a useless man marries a desperate woman who is willing to overlook his "useless status" then chances are, he will never submit to this desperate woman.

you cant willingly buy a broken glass and then complain about that same glass being broken.
But she's right.

Typical marriage:

Finances: men 100%
Home management: women 100%

How can a woman be the breadwinner and housewife? The other guy was complaining that his working girlfriend complains that she's too busy to clean the home and cook and so on. And he's jobless!!!!

How does that work? huh
RomanceRe: Please I Need Advice From People In Abuja. Am Depressed! ??? by Banilla: 7:43am On Mar 21, 2023
Failure2019:
Download Grindr and start making money asap
Rubyjade:
What's the app all about?
It's a gay app. I don't know why he's there... So many Nigerian men in the closet. undecided
RomanceRe: To Men Whose Girlfriends/wives Are More Successful: Submit To Her! by Banilla(op): 8:31pm On Mar 20, 2023
Autobot05:
Lmao no guy will type this crap unless he's a fool . That's how I know ya a girl ... y'all always derail topics and play the victim role
Boys monetize respect . Real men respect each other regardless of achievements or properties.

Did your dad treat your mum that way ( no offense just asking ) . And you previously said that couples are happy in the family section . Are the females happy with the way the men treat them like slaves ?? Dont let your bitterness over men overtake you
Typical! grin

Tell me how I'm detailing? You're on my thread wailing like an overfed bit** it's disappointing undecided

Boys? The grown men who publicly humiliate their girlfriends are boys... That means they won't take responsibility for their actions, right? If women did the same, you would ignore it too?

Men don't expect other men to take care of them. Horrible comparison. If you had to work for your rich friends and have sex with them, they would definitely treat you like sh**. Do they demand submission? The fear of being beaten would make them think twice. Ask yourself why men tend to be more physical with women than other men? undecided

Fun fact, my mum was richer. But you just assumed the reverse was the case cause you're a misogynistic piece of sh**. grin

Who cares if they are happy or not? Someone sensible would see it's wrong... undecided
RomanceRe: To Men Whose Girlfriends/wives Are More Successful: Submit To Her! by Banilla(op): 8:15pm On Mar 20, 2023
Autobot05:
That's why there are many unmarried feminists these days.
Meaning when a man provides for his wife .. she should be his slave too right ? Your logic is myopic and silly .. you must be a very bitter lil girl cheesy
Did you call me a little girl? I'm not a grown man with two hairy balls? You're sure huh

Here's my answer.

You've heard cases of men stripping their girlfriends naked, taking back the gifts they gave them... Imagine if that happened to you! A lot of girls have been in that position. But everyone says they deserved it.

And husbands who threaten to throw their wives out after they are caught cheating...
Men monetized respect! They use it to intimidate their partners. Don't get mad when you're the victim.

Men treat their poorer, less successful wives as slaves... undecided
RomanceRe: To Men Whose Girlfriends/wives Are More Successful: Submit To Her! by Banilla(op):
Killbillz:
Well u have a point and since u already know me u know I don't get down like that or subscribe to such. How are u btw... Ur still my lil muffin' I can't believe it's u wow 😁
grin

No one ever truly leaves Nairaland..

And I do know you. smiley
RomanceRe: To Men Whose Girlfriends/wives Are More Successful: Submit To Her! by Banilla(op): 7:50pm On Mar 20, 2023
Tenrack:
like how long are you gonna keep up with this? It's tiring...tbh. you've made your point in your submissions on different threads..
It's exhausting. They get it. Trust me.
No. They don't! If they did, the broke-shaming would stop. But do you see them respecting poor women? I don't!
RomanceRe: To Men Whose Girlfriends/wives Are More Successful: Submit To Her! by Banilla(op): 7:48pm On Mar 20, 2023
Killbillz:
I never and will never talk badly about a girl who hustles. Why should I? A girl who hustles and depends on no man but herself is a Queen irrespective of how much she earns. She's independent. U probably didn't get my message. I only dislike ladies who are leeches, lazy and opportunistic like the one on the said thread. Or u mean hustling women to mean those who hustle men to live?

Okay u know me from before.. no wahala 🙂
Well, it could easily be misunderstood. Most guys on the tread commented badly about them. Saying, "it's slavery to be working so much that you're always busy", as if they didn't struggle to be successful...

You've heard cases of men stripping their girlfriends naked, taking back the gifts they gave them... Imagine if that happened to you! A lot of girls have been in that position. But everyone says they deserved it.

And husbands who threaten to throw their wives out after they are caught cheating...

Men monetized respect!
RomanceRe: To Men Whose Girlfriends/wives Are More Successful: Submit To Her! by Banilla(op): 7:40pm On Mar 20, 2023
Tenrack:
How long .......?
Till what? huh
RomanceRe: To Men Whose Girlfriends/wives Are More Successful: Submit To Her! by Banilla(op):
Killbillz:
Dumb... So going by ur thesis, poor girls like u should be treated as lowly slaves right 😁
They already are. That's my point. Rich men treat their girlfriends like trash... Some people love to dish what they can't take. Weren't you the one talking badly about hustling women on SeaTrade's thread? Get my point? grin

Outta respect for you, I won't be rude. smiley
RomanceRe: To Men Whose Girlfriends/wives Are More Successful: Submit To Her! by Banilla(op): 7:30pm On Mar 20, 2023
Autobot05:
Read your bible ma'am. Even naturally a woman cannot walk up to a man and say she wants to marry him . Stop hallucinating
The same Bible acknowledges that it's the man's duty to provide for his wife. undecided

If you decide to become a bit**, you're no longer the husband and head of the home but her servant... 😒
RomanceRe: To Men Whose Girlfriends/wives Are More Successful: Submit To Her! by Banilla(op): 7:23pm On Mar 20, 2023
Bluezy13:
Calm down...
Who served you breakfast cheesy ??
I won't calm down!

Poor men should know their place in the lives of rich or well to do women! angry
RomanceRe: To Men Whose Girlfriends/wives Are More Successful: Submit To Her! by Banilla(op): 7:19pm On Mar 20, 2023
Autobot05:
Who married who ?? cheesy
They married eachother. undecided

You're a Christian, you believe in pagan traditions? undecided
RomanceRe: To Men Whose Girlfriends/wives Are More Successful: Submit To Her! by Banilla(op):
Cc: Blacksam01 Saintinoo

Go and make your money so you can afford high value women! You should be grateful they considered stooping low to date you! Men treat their poorer girlfriends/wives like sh**, women learnt from you horrible men! The same men who threaten to end their relationships to keep their women in line, the same men who cheat and justify it with the "I'm the head of the home and I can do whatever I want" bullsh**, the same men who regard themselves as demi-gods and expect to be treated as such!

May God bless feminists world wide! The tables are turning!!! grin
RomanceRe: To Men Whose Girlfriends/wives Are More Successful: Submit To Her! by Banilla(op): 7:11pm On Mar 20, 2023
Any one who doesn't believe, ask yourself this:

Take away money, what's the value of a man? Apart from sex, nothing! That's why they tend to look down on cheap women... Because love and trust and loyalty- all overrated according to them!

So once a man has nothing to offer except from sex and his 'heart of gold', dump the useless thing or make him your stay-at-home boyfriend/husband! angry

I came across this thread and I'm so mad!!!

https://www.nairaland.com/7619520/how-men-cope-educated-working/1#121913632

So many entitled poor men these days! Someone who can't afford to feed himself, who has to borrow 200 naira from his girlfriend demanding she submits to him! The audacity! angry
RomanceTo Men Whose Girlfriends/wives Are More Successful: Submit To Her! by Banilla(op):
Note: I won't respond to stupid comments. You don't like my advice, find a brick wall and slam your head!

That's right! If your girlfriend or wife makes more money than you do, submit to her!

A high quality man is one who's rich, successful... Ask Andrew Tate!

What is a man who can not provide for his woman? Useless! Absolutely useless. Even his family thinks so!

Men demand respect why? Because they are the breadwinners! Take that away and what do they bring to the table? undecided

If you allow your woman to become the head of the family, she's the MAN and you're her BIT** ! So submit! Reverse the roles, suffer the consequences!

*Drops mic*
RomanceRe: Only Insecure Men Care About A Woman's Body Count. by Banilla(op): 10:27pm On Mar 19, 2023
Softmirror:
THE IRONY OF LIFE IS, MORE THAN 80% OF MEN MARRIED WITHOUT EVER HAVING SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE. WHILE ONLY 5% OF WOMEN GOT MARRIED AS VIRGINS.
IT IS THE 20% OF THESE MEN THAT 95% OF WOMEN ANXIOUSLY HAVE SEX WITH BEFORE MARRIAGE. YOU WILL FIND ALOT OF MEN IN THEIR 30S AND 40S WHO HAVE NEVER TOUCHED A WOMAN'S BREAST.

RomanceRe: High Body Count: Reasons To Avoid As A Man With Something Going For Him In Life. by Banilla: 10:19pm On Mar 19, 2023
Hed0nist:
It seems you just want to go back and forth for the sake of it. I just gave an analogy to show how your question sounded. We all know that the most important reason for not drinking gutter water is to avoid ingesting germs. Why then will you take the main reason away when answering the question. Don’t just read to respond. Nobody called promiscuous women gutter water.

In your other responses you keep alluding to men who don’t really have anything going for them. The thread was created to inform men who are either successful or have the potential to be. Relax.
Metaphor. undecided

Same thing. Don't date promiscuous men, it's like drinking gutter water (why would you want to ingest germs?) undecided

I never did that! undecided

Rich and poor men should respect women regardless of how many men they've had sex with.
RomanceRe: Only Insecure Men Care About A Woman's Body Count. by Banilla(op): 10:15pm On Mar 19, 2023
HellVictorinho7:
weirdhuh can't we begin to know each other 4rm today?
I don't think so. smiley
RomanceRe: Only Insecure Men Care About A Woman's Body Count. by Banilla(op): 10:15pm On Mar 19, 2023
Softmirror:
CHILDISH LOL! grin. THERE IS ALOT OF NEGATIVE PSYCHOLOGICAL IMPLICATIONS WHICH CAN DESTROY A CHILD'S PSYCHE CIRCUMSTANTIALLY. FOR EXAMPLE, A BOY'S PATH CROSSED WITH ONE OF THE MANY MEN HIS MUM USE TO HAVE SEX WITH BEFORE SHE GOT MARRIED TO THE BOYS FATHER. THE BOY WAS RUDE TO HIM. GUESS WHAT THE MAN TOLD HIM. "GO AND MEET YOUR MOTHER AT HOME, ASK HIM ABOUT EMEKA? IN SHORT TELL HER YOU MET THE PERSON THAT DISVIRGINED HER".

THE BOY, THOUGH A CHILD DIDN'T FEEL CHILDISH ABOUT IT .
Imagine if we all met the people who deflowered our fathers and mothers and grandparents and siblings and uncles and aunts... Yes, it would indeed be awkward. The boy should get over himself, he's a brat. As if a girl wouldn't take his virginity someday. undecided
RomanceRe: Only Insecure Men Care About A Woman's Body Count. by Banilla(op): 10:02pm On Mar 19, 2023
HellVictorinho7:
why undecided
I don't know you. Why are you being weird? huh
RomanceRe: Only Insecure Men Care About A Woman's Body Count. by Banilla(op): 9:59pm On Mar 19, 2023
HellVictorinho7:
can u ever have sex with me?
No. undecided
RomanceRe: High Body Count: Reasons To Avoid As A Man With Something Going For Him In Life. by Banilla: 9:54pm On Mar 19, 2023
Nia69:
Weak comeback. 🤣
She's actually a virgin.
Let them continue to slut-shame me. grin
RomanceRe: Only Insecure Men Care About A Woman's Body Count. by Banilla(op): 9:51pm On Mar 19, 2023
HellVictorinho7:
u won't have sex with me , isn't it because u don't like me undecided u don't want to have me near ur bed , this post must be annoying to u , so annoying that u feel am talking shit, u know who u prefer, well, if i remain a virgin till i reach 60, i won't blame u, i will take it as life doing me. cry cry cry
huh
RomanceRe: High Body Count: Reasons To Avoid As A Man With Something Going For Him In Life. by Banilla: 9:48pm On Mar 19, 2023
HellVictorinho7:
she means if men are not made unacceptable 4 arriage by promiscuity , then women should not be condemned too.
Don't mind them! grin

As if the women with STDs didn't get them from men... The women who sleep around are having sex ghosts! grin

Don't you love how much they insult promiscuous women, completely ignore the men they have sex with? grin
RomanceRe: High Body Count: Reasons To Avoid As A Man With Something Going For Him In Life. by Banilla: 9:45pm On Mar 19, 2023
Hed0nist:
This is how you sound:
Give me 4 reasons why drinking gutter water isn’t good for the body!!! Do this without the “they contain germs that could give me diseases “ crap.
Oh! Okay... Who are they having sex with tho, spirits? grin

If promiscuous women are gutter water, the men are too, right? Every man who's a non-virgin, who sleeps with prostitutes, who fornicates... grin
RomanceRe: High Body Count: Reasons To Avoid As A Man With Something Going For Him In Life. by Banilla: 9:43pm On Mar 19, 2023
Hed0nist:
The list of for men with something going for them in life. Not women. Not bums. Cos you’ll never admit it’s true.

That being said. There are up to 3 good reasons up there that have nothing to do with how the promiscuous woman reflects badly on the man.
STDs?

Something most men are familiar with. Most STDs can be treated. How many men have complained about being infected? If a promiscuous woman catches a disease, she can easily treat herself before getting married. What men do! undecided

So it doesn't make sense.

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