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Religion / Are Angels Allowed The Free Will To Sin Against God? by Banilla: 6:36pm On Mar 11, 2023
Luke 10:18
And he said to them, “I saw Satan fall like lightning from heaven.

Revelation 12:7-9
Now war arose in heaven, Michael and his angels fighting against the dragon. And the dragon and his angels fought back, but he was defeated, and there was no longer any place for them in heaven. And the great dragon was thrown down, that ancient serpent, who is called the devil and Satan, the deceiver of the whole world—he was thrown down to the earth, and his angels were thrown down with him.

Revelation 12:9
And the great dragon was thrown down, that ancient serpent, who is called the devil and Satan, the deceiver of the whole world—he was thrown down to the earth, and his angels were thrown down with him.

Revelation 12:4
His tail swept down a third of the stars of heaven and cast them to the earth.

2 Peter 2:4
For if God did not spare angels when they sinned, but cast them into hell and committed them to chains of gloomy darkness to be kept until the judgment;

Jude 1:6
And the angels who did not stay within their own position of authority, but left their proper dwelling, he has kept in eternal chains under gloomy darkness until the judgment of the great day—

Ezekiel 28:14
You were an anointed guardian cherub. I placed you; you were on the holy mountain of God; in the midst of the stones of fire you walked.

Isaiah 14:1-32
For the Lord will have compassion on Jacob and will again choose Israel, and will set them in their own land, and sojourners will join them and will attach themselves to the house of Jacob. And the peoples will take them and bring them to their place, and the house of Israel will possess them in the Lord's land as male and female slaves. They will take captive those who were their captors, and rule over those who oppressed them. When the Lord has given you rest from your pain and turmoil and the hard service with which you were made to serve, you will take up this taunt against the king of Babylon: “How the oppressor has ceased, the insolent fury ceased! The Lord has broken the staff of the wicked, the scepter of rulers, ...

Revelation 12:7
Now war arose in heaven, Michael and his angels fighting against the dragon. And the dragon and his angels fought back

Isaiah 14:12-15
“How you are fallen from heaven, O Day Star, son of Dawn! How you are cut down to the ground, you who laid the nations low! You said in your heart, ‘I will ascend to heaven; above the stars of God I will set my throne on high; I will sit on the mount of assembly in the far reaches of the north; I will ascend above the heights of the clouds; I will make myself like the Most High.’ But you are brought down to Sheol, to the far reaches of the pit.

Ezekiel 28:1-26
The word of the Lord came to me: “Son of man, say to the prince of Tyre, Thus says the Lord God: “Because your heart is proud, and you have said, ‘I am a god, I sit in the seat of the gods, in the heart of the seas,’ yet you are but a man, and no god, though you make your heart like the heart of a god— you are indeed wiser than Daniel; no secret is hidden from you; by your wisdom and your understanding you have made wealth for yourself, and have gathered gold and silver into your treasuries; by your great wisdom in your trade you have increased your wealth, and your heart has become proud in your wealth—


I have a few questions...

Can angels sin against God?

If they can, doesn't that challenge God's authority as the creator and ruler of all that exists?

How could Lucifer sin (pride) when he was still the angel of light and not yet the devil? Who or what tempted him to defy God?

Is heaven an imperfect place?


Thanks!

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Romance / Re: Paris-based Nigerian Lady Says She Will Pay Any Man Who Agrees To Marry Her by Banilla: 9:29am On Mar 11, 2023
pocohantas:


It is just too much and I wonder their aim. If you repeat that thing he said now or say all the men you meet want only sex, that same guy would type another epistle telling you to check yourself. But see them suddenly claiming all men want is sex. They don’t mind denigrating themselves when necessary to score points.

Which one be say men no dey snatch wife?
For this Nigeria? Lol!
They are shameless. grin

Of course they don't snatch wives... They are all saints on Nairaland. The side chicks of married men usually remain side chicks... It's almost as if the men dating married women are ghosts... When he wants to complain about Nigerian women's infidelity, he would suddenly remember the women who were snatched from their husbands by richer, more successful men. grin

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Religion / Re: Commitment Begets Commitment by Banilla: 9:12am On Mar 11, 2023
Some people are not even committed in paying just 10% of their income to God as tithe and they want Him to be committed to their financial success
In other words, God is a business man. grin

Either I'll start my own church or find a man of God to marry...
Religion / Re: Why Don’t Jehovah’s Witnesses Accept Blood Transfusions? by Banilla: 9:06am On Mar 11, 2023
Jokanem:
"The life of every sort of flesh is in it blood" - Leviticus 17:14

To God blood represent life, so since life is sacred blood is also Sacred.

"Keep abstaining from blood" - Act 15:28,29

Genesis 9:4
Leviticus 17:10
How exactly to you abstain from blood? Why do you abstain from it?

It's something you can't necessarily avoid, don't you cut yourself? Is it that the blood is bad or what? I'm curious...

You take blood from one person and give it to another, how's that bad? You're not taking a life, rather saving one...

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Romance / Re: Men And Women Can Never Be Equal by Banilla: 8:55am On Mar 11, 2023
Autobot05:
An obvious fact ...
Men are better than women till you need pity... grin

Then it's, "Men are victims of women"... "Women are evil and manipulative"... "Avoid women for your own good"... grin

Superior mumu gender. Nonesense.
Family / Re: Prenuptial Agreement: Would You Be Willing To Sign A Prenup Or Offended? by Banilla: 8:51am On Mar 11, 2023
Obnoxious2001:


I no sure say them know the repercussions of divorce legally. Besides na who get asset to protect go reason this way
The person who has no asset would be offended... More upset if they infact married for money... grin

Kobojunkie:
You go retire from internet too? undecided
Certainly not!

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Romance / Re: Ashewo Clothing Brand, Coming Soon.... by Banilla: 8:47am On Mar 11, 2023
siofra:


I saw these ones on Pinterest but I've made a few myself for my friends. Mostly bikini bra though.
I crochet too! But I only know 4-5 patterns... Can't make anything reasonable yet, except for really small purses... I'm still learning. grin
Romance / Re: Paris-based Nigerian Lady Says She Will Pay Any Man Who Agrees To Marry Her by Banilla: 8:37am On Mar 11, 2023
pocohantas:


Men “snatch” wives and It didn’t start today. Way back in the old, warriors dey snatch person wife and add her to his harem. She go born for am and life goes on. Even now, rich man dey snatch poor man wife. Financially stable men dey snatch broke guy babe. Pastor dey snatch member wife. So leave all the talk. When it happens, you guys won’t call it snatching. It would be how women are insatiable and hypergamous. Any small thing, “we only fck her and return her”. We no go hear word on top fck matter again. Them no dey fck married man and send him back to his wife? Abi you think side-chicks want to be saddled with the man for life? No be money them come for? MOST side-chicks want to end up happily married to a man ignorant of their past. So how many of them do you know that want to “snatch” married men clean? There are a few that are open to outright snatching (i.e) polygamy or babymama, but they are not the norm.

If person read una post, it would look like men have stopped going out of their ways to get women FOR ALL THE RIGHT REASONS. It is only on NL that men only want fun from women. Abegi!!!
Honestly, he didn't even comment reasonably... Ignored what I was saying to write something that makes absolutely no sense. Even widows remarry... Every woman has the choice to settle down. She could decide to turn down her suitors for whatever reason, or drop her standards and just choose one for the sake that he's a man and she needs a husband.

It's only on Nairaland that they all want sex... Offline, they would still find a woman to settle down with... Most of them come here complaining that they were dumped by their partners cause they are poor... Now, they all claim they never took relationships seriously. grin

If every Nairaland male is nothing but a fu** boy, why should we take them seriously? They got what they deserved then. But when they want pity, they'll portray themselves as saints who wanted to marry their imperfect girlfriends and give them good lives but they were rejected...

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Romance / Re: Paris-based Nigerian Lady Says She Will Pay Any Man Who Agrees To Marry Her by Banilla: 8:28am On Mar 11, 2023
pansophist:


I think that for a woman to say that she has lots of male options, then it must be that all her male options are comparable in status, but this is not mostly the case.

As an analogy, a Nigerian passport can go to many countries, but all the countries combined are not up to one useful country, for example, Canada. So tell me, does a Nigerian have options? grin

So the same thing applies to women thinking they have options. No, you don't. What you have is a bunch of simps that a hundred of them are not up to one Davido in net-worth. It's about the quality of suitors, not quantity.

The simple truth (or bitter truth to you since many of you women live in delusion), is that most of you will settle with average men. Not because there is anything wrong with average, but because women overvalue themselves.

We live in a time where being an average man is the new abnormal, and women are prime victims of this reality they've created, where they crave top-tier men, but don't want polygamy. It's mathematically impossible.

And while you're feeling fly because you create, impose and break the rules as you feel fit when dealing with your loyal simps, real men, the one that you truly wants, who have options, and have their masculine energy intact, will not abide by it.

You will have to come to face the fact that if you do not measure up to their expectations, there are truckloads of younger, beautiful, richer, and feminine women waiting to not only snatch him away from you but beat you to stupor if you messed up. There is no sisterhood when a high-value man is in the picture grin

Ever heard of a man snatching another man's wife? Don't the word "wife snatcher" sound strange? Men don't snatch wives. We fit borrow her from her man and have fun, but men always return her back. But your fellow women will snatch him clean. Even using juju turn you into a mad woman. I repeat, no sisterhood when a high-value man is in the picture simply because men are assets for women, but women are responsibilities to men.

Even worse, such top-tier men can have more than one wife or concubines in non-polygamous societies. Then you come to understand that women may win the battle, but in the main war, a man will always win, if he is a real man. Maybe then you can be humble, cut off your arrogance, and see that you're also disposable to the men you desire.

Lots of you women feel fly not because there is anything special about you, but because a bigger idiot (usually a man, a foolish man who pays for his oppression) is in the background bankrolling you, fueling your narcissism. Making you unrealistic and living in a perpetual state of delusion.





I don't expect this from you... Honestly, did you even read what I wrote? I know the others are irredeemably stupid but not you too. undecided

Am I on a forum with men suffering from lack of common sense. Can't you read? How did you get your degree?

I'm making a point that no woman in her 30s to 40s was never asked out by a serious man... These women rejected them cause they were picky... Do I care why? No. That's not the point.

The person I was arguing with tried to make it seem as though there's a scarcity of men blah blah blah... The truth is that there are millions of men willing to settle down but most are rejected due to their financial status.

If you put a gun to a woman's head and say, "get married before a week's time", she can easily find a man, whether he's what she wants or not, whether he's a simp or not... As long as she drops her standards, there's gonna be someone.

Was I bragging? I don't even want to get married, especially not to a Nigerian man, so I'm not trying to win anyone over or whatever your small brain thought I was doing. You're extremely disappointing. undecided

Nothing you wrote relates to the arguement... undecided

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Family / Re: Prenuptial Agreement: Would You Be Willing To Sign A Prenup Or Offended? by Banilla: 11:21pm On Mar 10, 2023
Obnoxious2001:


Honestly I would
( I personally have a problem with court marriage in the case of divorce. I personally feel the law is too weighty on men)


Let me clearly state my losses in case any should happen....

The way you are thinking is sharp. You are making good use of boredom undecided
I'm surprised many men are against it. Maybe it's really a western problem.

Oh. Thanks. I'll soon retire from Nairaland for a while.

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Romance / Re: My Dad Suspected My Mother Of Infidelity by Banilla: 9:16pm On Mar 10, 2023
budaatum:
Some parents can be ignorant as fuq.

Thankfully for them, we are taught to forgive them for they know not the harm they may cause.
Which is incredibly toxic. A parent should have more sense than their child. This culture of forgiving horrible parents needs to stop!

I get what why you wrote that, I'm just so upset it's a thing!

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Romance / Re: Ashewo Clothing Brand, Coming Soon.... by Banilla: 9:13pm On Mar 10, 2023
These are gorgeous!!!? Omg!

Honestly tho, who makes them?

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Romance / Re: Reasons You Will Never Get Into A Relationship by Banilla: 8:06pm On Mar 10, 2023
RTID:
Reasons You'll probably never get into a relationship.

1. You don't like phone calls.

2. You watch your phone ring and you don't answer. You'll deceive yourself with "I'll call them later." You and I know that's a big lie.

3. You just want to come on WhatsApp, check people's status, laugh, post yours and leave the app. Sending someone a message is never part of your plan.

4. When you receive a message, you reply it in your head and move on.

5. You visit a message days after you received it, and continue like nothing happened.

6. You always forget that you're dating someone.

7. You care, really but you just don't know how to show it.

8. 99% of the time, you just want to be on your own.

9. You don't even remember your birthday, how you go take remember another person's own?

10. People bore you easily.

Bonus: Your phone is always on silent. Lol, my dear.

You dey find partner and you still dey do any of those things up there? And you know the worst part? You don't even want to change.

Just dey play!
I rarely respond to posts like this, but this is totally me. This is the reason I created a thread recently asking why if I'm normal, but I got bashed. grin

I'm glad others can relate...

I'm on Facebook sharing posts most of the time, reading messages then ignoring them... I forget I have a boyfriend I completely adore till I realise we haven't spoken/texted for days, maybe weeks...

That's why relationships (friendships) are so hard, people expect so much... And these days, I can't even force myself to be interested in a conversation... I'll rather be on my own, reading or stealing memes from weird groups on Facebook.

But my relationship has survived a year and 5months cause of the time difference, language barrier and my boyfriend is kinda like me... You should see his pictures, he's not a fan of humans too! grin
Romance / Re: Can You Marry A Lady That Is Older Than You? by Banilla: 7:58pm On Mar 10, 2023
okerekingsley90:


Man you are everywhere on NL
He's jobless.

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Romance / Re: What If Weed And Drugs Expose You To The Real Realm God Hid From Us? by Banilla: 2:02pm On Mar 10, 2023
Jayzel:


Bro it depend on the kind of weed u smoke ( fresh not preserved )
Here in Sacramento I have a favorite store I do get my fresh cannabis
And as a therapist I need it for my working activities

Don't just smoke for the fun
Smoke and poke
what sorta therapist? undecided
Romance / Re: Who Lies More, Men Or Women? by Banilla: 1:54pm On Mar 10, 2023
Rayban25:


I wont argue with you about this...you women have to lie to some extent to aid your manipulation....so with the example you gave me just now if one of your boyfriends asks you

"Banilla am I really the only love of your life?"

Wont you lie and tell him yes?...abeg make i see road...and just incase you feel like arguing more look at the meaning of lie in dictionary

It also means to create a false impression...so you technically dont have to speak to lie.
If I say, "yes" then I'm lying... But then again, he could be the love of my life, maybe I just have sex with the other men... So my "yes" wouldn't be a lie anymore... Doesn't change the fact that I'm deceiving him for my own good- manipulation.

Besides, the definition a lie- a false statement.

Omitting the truth or hiding it doesn't mean I'm lying.
Romance / Re: It's Affecting Me Psychologically, Please Help! by Banilla: 11:47am On Mar 10, 2023
Grgton:
Take your mind off sex

Act like nothing happened
How does that work? You take your mind off the sex you wanna have? undecided

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Romance / Re: It's Affecting Me Psychologically, Please Help! by Banilla: 11:46am On Mar 10, 2023
Stop using drugs... Never take anything herbal medicine or mixture or whatever.

Maybe you're not used to it (sex) yet... So you're overly excited. You haven't had sex till now and you don't masturbate. Give it time, you'll adjust.

Then see a doctor.

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Romance / Re: Who Lies More, Men Or Women? by Banilla: 11:24am On Mar 10, 2023
Sixfeetbelle:


I like how you just exposed your ignorance
I hope he was joking... I don't think people can be so dumb. grin
Romance / Re: Who Lies More, Men Or Women? by Banilla: 11:22am On Mar 10, 2023
Rayban25:


Oga you cant manipulate without lying...lying dosent have to be verbal...if we are both in a bus and I have 200 in my pocket I can pretend to have lost the money and act confused..out of pity you ended up paying for me...now I didnt say anything but I have actually lied by manipulating you into believing that I dont have money


Women wear:
Wigs
Makeup
Fake nails
Lashes

Those are all lies because it's not theirs...talk less of now verbal..oga women lie everyday
Technically, that's not a lie.

A woman can date several men and treat them all specially, so much so they each think she's only dating them... Not a lie, but manipulation.
Politics / Re: The Hatred For Me Is Too Much, Desmond Elliot Cries Out by Banilla: 11:17am On Mar 10, 2023
BurialGround:
sad

Desmond Idiot that built a wooden bridge for his constituents.

Why won't they hate you.


Look at the idiot shamelessly commissioning a wooden bridge.
grin
Nairaland / General / Re: Happy 18th Anniversary Nairaland by Banilla: 11:12am On Mar 10, 2023
Oyindamolah:
Before he left, meaning he didn't graduate ni. The founder has done a good thing but he should deal decisively with the trial bigots and tribal remarks/comments otherwise he would only turn here to an e-tribal war zone.

In addition, he should listen or have a support thread where complaints, opinions and suggestions are registered.

In all honesty, it been a great place but he has also lost valueable members. From ishilove to lala and to name a few.
I noticed that too. He didn't graduate?

Nairaland could have been Africa's number one forum... There are a few foreigners here... But this is a toxic space. Not only tribalism, misogyny too.

Lala isn't a mod anymore?

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Romance / Re: What's Wrong With Me? Can Anyone Relate? by Banilla: 10:35am On Mar 10, 2023
Kingofhoes:
Just sent an e-mail. Looking forward to your reply.
Oh! I'll check it out.
Romance / Re: Paris-based Nigerian Lady Says She Will Pay Any Man Who Agrees To Marry Her by Banilla: 10:33am On Mar 10, 2023
Fahvvy:


You're missing the entire point undecided...
Women being approached is not the issue here, a woman WILL ALWAYS be approached by men especially if she's young and pretty!!

But the question is "what's their motive for approaching her?" undecided...

Believe me, for most of the time it's just for nacks undecided...

Out of a 100 men that'll approach her, she'll be lucky if 5 men are actually serious with her, but guess what?

She'll turn them down!! Thinking she has "options"

And the illusion of options steams from the number of men (100) she sees approaching her, not knowing that her "options" are a whole lot smaller (5) than what she really thinks undecided...

Her eyes will only open when she gets older and by then, even fewer men will bother to take a second glance at her, that's the point!
The argument started on another thread. Like I said, if a woman is desperate to get married, she always can. The idea that every desperate woman in her 30s was never approached once by a man willing to marry her is bullsh**. She rejected them, that's the issue (not my concern). If marriage were a do or death affair, many women would easily get a husband, even if they all settle for less.

I don't have to repeat myself. But most of you have comprehension issues. Did you read my responses?

He's trying to make it seem as though there's a scarcity of men, which isn't true. The unavailability of the 'type' of man they want is why some women end up single.

I want a 25year old billionaire who's drop dead gorgeous... If I turn down all my admirers for my fantasy man, that's the reason I'll be unmarried in my thirties. If I decide to marry anything with a penis, I have options.

Do I need to dumb it further so you can understand? undecided

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Romance / Re: Women Are Fighting Against Patriarchy, They Indirectly Accept Patriarch by Banilla: 10:11pm On Mar 09, 2023
pansophist:


My definition of a woman is a human that is born a female and capable of being pregnant and bearing children naturally. That has xx chromosome, can breastfeed and have menstruation.

What is your definition of a woman?

Barren women aren't real women? Not every woman ticks your box.
Romance / Re: Smash Or Pass by Banilla: 10:07pm On Mar 09, 2023
Reminderz:


leemao, define loser?
A human trafficker? Someone who needs to be rich to be considered a catch? Disliked immensely by women but adored by the beta males he takes advantage of... I could go on...


Besides, he's not attractive to me... Not at all.
Romance / Re: Paris-based Nigerian Lady Says She Will Pay Any Man Who Agrees To Marry Her by Banilla: 10:04pm On Mar 09, 2023
Autobot05:


grin lol not every man that asks you out actually wants to marry you ... that's his point and that's reality
Yes, so?

A woman in her 30s was never approached by one serious man for 12 years? (Since she turned 18)

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Romance / Re: Women Are Fighting Against Patriarchy, They Indirectly Accept Patriarch by Banilla: 9:43pm On Mar 09, 2023
pansophist:
How foolish can this woke women be? Now you can actually become a woman, not because you've have your deek butchered away Bobrisky style, but because you identified as a woman. grin

Just imagine Mike Tyson declaring himself as a woman, and those dumb feminist will defend his right as a transgender woman, and fight other men to treat her with respect. Can a person be this consciously stupid?

Then they call me transphobic because I'm not attracted to a man.
If Mike Tyson wears a wig and identifies as a woman, he's not. If he underdoes hormone replacement therapy and surgery, then he's a woman. If you disagree, what's your definition of a woman? And what makes her different from a man?

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