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Lemos14:
Truth is bitter my dear...and yes they reflect badly on us...so your crying up and down will not change anything.

If you dont like it then sorry because you cannot beat us🤷‍♂️

So I'm right!

You're scared you wouldn't be good enough for an experienced woman. You want someone you can groom, someone with low expectations so when you fu** up, she wouldn't mind. You want a girl you can introduce to your friends, talk about how she was brand new when you both met and you were the lucky man who deflowered her...

Insecure! Insecure!! Insecure!!!

The same men who want ignorant women they can abuse are the ones who would sell their fathers' properties to spend a night with Mia khalifa... They would even borrow money to pick up prostitutes... They would spend their 200mb downloading porn they would watch while masturbating for hours. Not videos of virgins praying tho.

Let's pretend men don't want women with 'ashawo' vibes... They are the reason most of you cheat.

Virgins are just nice things to talk about... Nothing more.

JASONjnr:
How do people go to functions and be expecting food?

I don't get this....


I have friends that will be very vexed if he attends weddings and he wasn't given something to eat.

Omo, I thank God for my kinda person. There's absolutely nothing in this life that you will offer on your ceremonies that I haven't taken or eaten before... That I will stoop so low to get myself worked over N300 Fanta and N500 meat pie.... As how?

Even if I'm starving, I can't beg for food served atban event... Neither would I react if I'm not given. People don't eat at home before going out? Or carry money along so they can buy themselves something to eat?

Lemos14:
Nawa oo..you're still on this matter?

By the way your shaming tactics are still very weak...you might want to improve on it...if you had just kept your virginity you wouldn't have had to litter everywhere 💁‍♂️

He dropped this comment on my thread, I'm responding here.

I'm stating a fact, not shaming anyone.

Give me three good reasons women with high body counts are not relationship or marriage material! Do so without the "they reflect badly on me" crap. Okay?

Autobot05:
Men divorce
Women divorce too
Thats not the topic here ... the topic is you advised men to marry prostitutes.
Why do women go into sleeping around in the first place = greed . Y'all should keep yourselves in check

Not the topic? But we were talking about marriage...

Franzinni:
I will start with married women, many of them cheat and get away only becasue the husband is absent on the relationship ... Or he is not meeting her emotional or sexual needs and I don't blame her becasue if he is present in body and mind he will read the change on her body language... For your information, human beings communicate 70% with body language.

And for the prostitutes, they are paid to play so it's not cheating .. to her she is selling a good time for some money ... I dare say all girlfriend that are sexually active are prostitutes becasue they are selling a good time for thier boyfriend for what he can offer them ... The only difference is they agree to to privatize each other...

So if you have a boyfriend that is piping you down .... Hmmm. It is well!!!

You don't get it.

Prostitutes have sex with hundreds of men. That should tell you something. Women can cheat with men they don't even like. Same goes for the married women who cheat. It's just for sex.

So your argument makes no sense. I'm sorry.

Men who think women fall in love with those they have sex with are naive...

You are wrong!

Like I said, a woman's body count bothers insecure men... And you proved me right with this

Basically, men don't want promiscuous women because they will cheat or they will never be satisfied... Yet women are getting married to men with high body counts. Won't they cheat too? And compare their wives to the experienced girls they've slept with?

Secondly, it wouldn't be a risk if she's clean, right? No STDs, cause that's the only legit issue. The irony of how a lot of women complain about their husbands infecting them with diseases.

Stop being emotional.

Autobot05:
Thank God you said amongst the younger generation.
When i say our mothers were not like this generation of women..yall will start going offensive

Wrong. Men are the head of the family, no? They are responsible. It's unlikely a man would divorce his wife, so obviously they are the ones messing up.

Franzinni:
But for a man cheating is different for a woman ... A man cheats like someone who feels like eating suya, he can afford it so he goes out buys it and eats ..then he goes home to his wife's cooking. But a woman cheats with emotions they fall in love with someone new, and use thier body to prove to the person that they love them ... It's different

Women cheat with emotions?

Including...

Prostitutes? Women who have sex with strangers? Married women who cheat so well that they are never suspected?

SenecaTheYonger:
From my brief Google, motility means capability of movement

“ If the test sample shows that less than 25 to 30 percent of the sperm move forward progressively, the motility is considered low.”

Likely the op's fault?

Faber:
No be your nudes full telegram like this where you dey collect 3some...

Pig
🐖

You're ugly irl. You should shut up more.

Franzinni:
Well from your comments I know your are between 20 and 25.... At this stage for a young woman, you are at your prime so you really think you know it all ... But I will just tell you an open secret

There is nothing a man wants in a woman more that her feminity and her purity... Becasue a hoe mother will have hoe daughters there is no way around it... The apple doesn't fall far from the tree ooo

Bye bye

That's the thing. People have unrealistic expectations. Women want multimillionaires, doesn't that mean they are right to broke-shame poor men?

The apple doesn't fall far from the tree? Okay. Why don't you think the girls learnt from their fathers?

Again, if humans are creatures of habit, does that mean men who aren't virgins are more likely to cheat while married?

Autobot05:
Yeah yeah . goan check the rate of divorce too

Amongst the younger generation? Can't you see the pattern?

Autobot05:
Most are happy ??

Yep! If not, why are millions of people still getting married? Social media isn't real life. People exaggerate on Nairaland, I don't take them seriously. It's all bullsh**.

Franzinni:
I can but you are not trying to understand rather you want to argue haha ... On a good day I will engage you but I know you will just be turning it to gbas gbos ... And I just finished argument with one woman offline to come and argue with another one online ... Anyway let me answer your question so you will at least see my perspective.

I'm waiting

Autobot05:
Ok the family men wail in the family section while the boys wail here . Noted

Check my profile, I created a thread for them. Most are happy. Ignore the children here

advanceDNA:
One...U dont know me....but u are free to assume everyone fvcks around like you...

Did I hurt your feelings? You sound like a bit**.

.two...saying most men have high body count isnt true..thats just fallacy....in fact there are more virgin men than women....
u women get díck weda u are broke or not... u get dick for urgent 2k, for indomie, with real boyfriend, with the guy u are crushing on, at random party u attended, with a neighbor that happened mistakenly ...and the list goes on..

And they are having sex with other women and spirits?

Bolded: if I were an emotional bit** like you, I would ask if you're describing your mother but I won't. Learn

Three....i am not biase so i will advise both men and women same way ......people with riduculously high body count lack discipline..they are not relationship material... they have no business being in serious relationships or marriage cos they are bad market...it basic risk management 101.

If you were smart, you would understand that this is my point.

Kantebets:
this shows you don’t have sense
You be mugu

Take my advice, it's the best you've received yet.

Everyone goes through the whòre stage. Your wife would in your home, would you like that?

Franzinni:
you are female so I wouldn't try to make you understand what is damn near impossible for you to fathom... If you have a high body count just don't disclose it although with time it will show in your actions

Typical. You're so logical yet you can't counter my 'silly' argument.

I'm female, so what? If you were half as smart as you think you are, you would easily give me an answer...

Autobot05:
Yeah yeah .. we've seen guys that didnt care.
They come here to cry everyday


Kindly give this advice to your brothers and other ummarried males in your family . Thank you

Correction: boys in their twenties come here to the romance section to complain after having their fragile hearts shattered.

The happily married men on the family section, you think their wives were virgins?

Franzinni:
A man cheating successfully is not the point stop moving the goal post ... We are talking about why men care about high body count of a woman .

Lmao. Can't defend your argument?

My point is, men shouldn't care that their woman have high body counts cause it doesn't affect the relationship ... You claim it does, women with high body counts would likely cheat ... So I asked why you don't believe men would too and you're giving me this crap.

Lemos14:
Why are you asking me ...do whatever you feel helps you sleep better at night

I intend to sweetheart

God1000:
You need to stop having suicide thought, I don't want to ask you too many questions.

Find something to do and be positive

You're so annoying. People who are depressed feel suicidal. How can he stop thinking about it? Do you have any idea what he's going through?

If you can't advise or help him, stay away... You're being toxic.

Sadness isn't a cloak you just take off.

depressedlad:
but he helps others i know a lots that he helped

Don't be ridiculous. They were lucky, that's all.

Lemos14:
My dear sex hurts women emotionally not men...unfortunately that's how the world works and men dont like used products..sorry if you dont like it


Go and ask kim Kardashian why her kids get bullied at school and her marriages keep failing

Kim Kardashian is one woman and she's pretty lousy. You are aware that even pornstars retire and get married, right?

Sex hurts women emotionally? I had no idea. So the prostitutes men have sex with are emotionally damaged? The women having one night stands too?

Franzinni:
becasue a man values a woman to marry based on a lot of things but one of them is sexual purity ... Same way a woman wants a man who is financially stable.

Also for a woman to get sex ass she needs is just to walk to a man and ask him for sex... Meaning it's easy for women to the point that it has no value for a woman to have sex with many people rather it's a shameful thing .. but for a man it is damn near impossible for a man who doesn't have money, cars, good house, or any semblance of financial stability to be able to sleep with multiple women and have high BC. He would have to work very hard to be that type of man and so it is a position that demands praise .. a man who can sleep with many women usually has his shit together in his life becasue that is what attracts women in the first place ... So my point is women and men see sex differently and place value on it accordingly.

My question was, "Why do you believe men with high body counts wouldn't cheat on their wives?"

Let me tell you why she would hardly cheat ... Now human beings are creatures of habit and we like to stay within the familiar.. that is why for instance you won't smoke crack despite the fact that it will give you great pleasure, but your limited knowledge about it will keep you away automatically.

Lmao! Nigeria is the poverty capital and the sixth most populated country... Poor men get sex. What's your point?

Life is generally unfair. The Middle Eastern god in the sky wouldn't save you. Stop blaming others, take responsibility.

Lemos14:
If you wanted to marry a guy and you found out he was an ex cultist and convict will you not have second thoughts about marrying him even though he may be financially stable?...that's the same way we see women who have been ran through...as men we cant trust women who are promiscuous because no level of dick can ever satisfy her..once a woman tastes sex she finds it difficult to form a romantic pair bond with her lover....

It's part of the reasons why most ladies cant even hold a conversation or communicate effectively because too much release of oxytocin has messed her up

I would avoid an ex-cultist or convict because I'm worried about my safety. What they did is dangerous and wrong. I can't be with someone who's hurt others and could hurt me.

Sex doesn't hurt anyone.

Bad comparison... I couldn't read the rest

advanceDNA:
Lol..... women..!! They call u childish and immature once u dont let them have it their way

Most men have high body counts. I'm sure you aren't a virgin

Franzinni:
Let me tell you why she would hardly cheat ... Now human beings are creatures of habit and we like to stay within the familiar.. that is why for instance you won't smoke crack despite the fact that it will give you great pleasure, but your limited knowledge about it will keep you away automatically.

Same with a woman with low body count or a virgin ... Women like these still hold virtues in high regard and as such chastity is embedded in her identity as a person .... [b] But a woman with high BC has already broken through that veil and she inadvertently view her body as a transactional tool [b].

So why are men with high body counts different?

Bolded: So women only have sex for money? In other words, a woman can accuse a man of using her for sex? They don't enjoy it?

almarthins:
E no fit be like person wey don taste gbola many times. Pornography na film trick, if u try wetin dem show for porn, you wound ooo

But do they know it's not real? Nope. Pornstars for example aren't obsessed with sex, prostitutes too... To them, it's overrated. If they cheat, it's because the other guy is richer, more successful or caring... So maybe we should all allow our girlfriends to explore so when they settle down, they really settle down.