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Romance / Re: I Wish Nigerian Women Will Grow Vaginas Like These South Korean Women! by Banilla: 7:18pm On Mar 12, 2023
LikeAking:
Feminism has never dropped a dime in the pocket of any female nairalander or any Nigerian female. Maybe the leaders of the movement might have benifited financially, but the rest 99.9% have nothing to show for their sacrifice.

Let's be wise here, you will never see any movement about making money, moving forward in life, becoming creative, living a mindful life , etc. Even when they promote the above movements, it's handled lightly or clownishly.... Dem b clowns na..

But when it comes to non productive ventures like feminism, redpoll, mysgo, gay, lesbian, drugs, they promote it like our lives depend on it..

Be wise guys..

Don't let Dem fool..

Let Dem tell you how they made their money or keep quiet...

Foolish world, dumb people.

Who all these nonsense don epp?

It addresses rape, gender-based violence and discrimination (including domestic violence, child marriages, FGM). It has allowed women their rights to be educated, to work, to vote and be voted for, to air their opinions... I can go on.

Feminism has given women more than money.

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Romance / Re: This Is How To Become A Genius Man[photos] by Banilla: 7:14pm On Mar 12, 2023
CaveAdullam:


But successful people didn't fold their hands, lament from dawn to dusk, and sang the mantra "not everyone will succeed".

Of course, not everyone will succeed; but only in the sense that they seek equal success. That's, they want to be the world's greatest with equal power and resources simultaneously.

However, if each can find a niche they can do well, they can achieve much for themselves and move from the place of abject penury to the palace where they can take good care of themselves and contribute their parts to humanity.

If you're cynical about success, you'll never be successful, because you've already weakened yourself without even trying.

Thanks.
This mentality that men need to be rich and successful to be happy is toxic. That's my message. Wealth only makes it easier to cater to your needs and wants; it doesn't give you a sense of purpose. Some people would be happier living in a small, quiet town with their family... Others might be happy taking risks and going on adventures...

Not everyone would be rich because it's not what everyone needs.
Religion / Re: Does God Authorize Suffering To Test Our Faith In Him? by Banilla: 6:50pm On Mar 12, 2023
Kobojunkie:
1. Still, stop blaming the book particularly when you hold on to ideas that are not of the book. undecided

2. Bizarre that I accept what is written as is written? He is God all by Himself. He does not need my approval or acceptance to be God. undecided
Certainly. But you can still approve or disapprove of his actions. Can you not? Or are you too scared to criticize him? It doesn't make him any less God, but you might understand and therefore know him better.

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Romance / Re: This Is How To Become A Genius Man[photos] by Banilla: 6:47pm On Mar 12, 2023
Not everyone would succeed. Have realistic expectations, that's how to be happy.
Religion / Re: Does God Authorize Suffering To Test Our Faith In Him? by Banilla: 6:44pm On Mar 12, 2023
Kobojunkie:
1. Stop blaming the book abeg! undecided

2. Yes, it says God put Job to the test. I am not disputing any of that. undecided

I don't blame the book. I like it's weird stories.

It's bizarre, you agree? For God to act like that?

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Romance / Re: Don't Physically Beat A Woman by Banilla: 6:42pm On Mar 12, 2023
SmartGadgetz:



Women insults are not and must never be acceptable to men, I can't tolerate such and I can't never exchange words with a woman.

What I do, never ever put yourself in such position. What I mean is these, always discern if a lady is rude or not from pre-communications with her, from there you know if you should continue the connection or not. As simple as that.
Precisely! I won't encourage women to attack their abusive partners (as much as they deserve to, it may end badly). It's better to cut them off and report cases of physical abuse to the police so others aren't victimised.

As for verbal abuse, avoid toxic people. They are pieces of sh**
Romance / Re: Don't Physically Beat A Woman by Banilla: 6:39pm On Mar 12, 2023
GREATIGBOMAN:


Until she stab you knife or Tear you slap for this your mouth. grin
Why should you be with a violent woman in the first place? If she ever threatens you, go to the police and dump her crazy ass. undecided

Engaging with a psychopath doesn't re-affirm your masculinity, it makes you plain stupid.

TarOrfeeek:
If a wamen slaps you

SLAP her back.

This reasoning is responsible for 100% of the Male domestic violence related deaths.

This infanticizing of wamen is a weak Man's reprieve.

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Religion / Re: Does God Authorize Suffering To Test Our Faith In Him? by Banilla: 6:35pm On Mar 12, 2023
Kobojunkie:
1. The problem wasn't the book even yesterday but your refusal to abandon the myths you held onto in order to accept instead what is written. Like any other pick, you cannot pick from here and there as you like. You have to compile it all together into one for you to in fact comprehend all the bits and pieces. undecided

2. God created both good and evil. undecided

3. Did you read the book? I believe Job answers that question for you in Chapter 42 undecided

4. Yep, God only puts the man through what man needs to go through in order to come to a realization of His Truth.

5. God knew this but did Job know it or realize it or understand the importance of the realization before the ordeal? undecided

First of all, I'm not writing the Bible. If it didn't contradict itself, there would be no issue choosing a Bible passage to study.

This is Job 6

Now there was a day when the sons of God came to present themselves before the Lord, and Satan also came among them.

Here, God and the Devil were kinda getting along... In other passages, they can't stand each other.

***

This is what caused Job to be tested. Don't change the Bible. Please!

Job 8-12

And the Lord said to Satan, “Have you considered my servant Job, that there is none like him on the earth, a blameless and upright man, who fears God and turns away from evil?”

9. Then Satan answered the Lord and said, “Does Job fear God for no reason?

10. Have you not put a hedge around him and his house and all that he has, on every side? You have blessed the work of his hands, and his possessions have increased in the land. 11. But stretch out your hand and touch all that he has, and he will curse you to your face.”

12. And the Lord said to Satan, “Behold, all that he has is in your hand. Only against him do not stretch out your hand.” So Satan went out from the presence of the Lord.
Religion / Re: Does God Authorize Suffering To Test Our Faith In Him? by Banilla: 6:24pm On Mar 12, 2023
budaatum:


In the imagined eyes of an imagined God, you mean.
Yes! Yes... grin
Romance / Re: I Wish Nigerian Women Will Grow Vaginas Like These South Korean Women! by Banilla: 6:24pm On Mar 12, 2023
WhereMyLoud:
Only you post thread only u dey comment upandan


Dey there dey play.. Na one lesbian rape man dey serve 4 years as we dey talk.. When better konji do dem, dem go realise say vibrator nah toy.. E no dey show emotions.
A woman raped a man and you're using it to joke? undecided

The millions of men who rape women and girls and boys, even animals despite having wives/girlfriends and easy access to prostitutes... Are they spirits?

Rape isn't necessarily about sex but dominance. undecided

You can't out-do a sex tòy! Most Nigerian men drink herbal mixtures to last an hour. Don't flatter yourself.

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Romance / Re: I Wish Nigerian Women Will Grow Vaginas Like These South Korean Women! by Banilla: 6:20pm On Mar 12, 2023
BurialGround:
I opened the thread with all seriousness and happiness to see the pictures of the grown vaginas. I AM ANGRY RIGHT NOW grin grin grin
grin

I thought she was referring to the classic Asian bush. grin

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Religion / Re: Does God Authorize Suffering To Test Our Faith In Him? by Banilla: 6:17pm On Mar 12, 2023
budaatum:
A God that plays njabet with people's lifes should not be worshipped! Such gods should be taken to the bottom rivers and drowned after having their heads bashed against rocks.

The story was however not for you to focus on God playing njabet, but on the perseverance of poor Job on whom njabet was played..

P.s. You question is like asking if the fox can not blow down a pig's house that is made of bricks.

Reminds me of a comic I once came across. God is sadistic.

And I agree. He was a character to emulate! Although, no Christian would want to be him. Abraham, maybe but never Job despite him finding favour in the eyes of God.

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Religion / Re: Does God Authorize Suffering To Test Our Faith In Him? by Banilla: 6:10pm On Mar 12, 2023
Kobojunkie:
1. Only yesterday, you said Satan battled against God in His throne room. What gives? undecided

2. God is Sovereign meaning all things — good and evil — He works together according to His plan. Nothing can go against God's plan and purpose. undecided
Didn't I also tell you the Bible contradicts itself? Not my business. I only pick a story to discuss.

Doesn't that make him evil? What good did Job's suffering serve? To reassure himself that he's still God? If he knows all, did he need to put the man through all that? He even allowed the death of his innocent children! God should have known Job's faith in him was strong. He's God!

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Religion / Re: Does God Authorize Suffering To Test Our Faith In Him? by Banilla: 6:07pm On Mar 12, 2023
CodeTemplar:
Deuteronomy 8:3 he humbleth and maketh to suffer.
So God is in fact responsible for suffering (sickness and poverty)... Not really the devil. The devil is the one who carries out the sentence, but only with God's permission.

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Religion / Re: Does God Authorize Suffering To Test Our Faith In Him? by Banilla: 6:02pm On Mar 12, 2023
Satan is under the authority of God. If God forbids him from hurting a person, Satan can do them no harm.

Job 1:12

12. And the Lord said to Satan, “Behold, all that he has is in your hand. Only against him do not stretch out your hand.” So Satan went out from the presence of the Lord.


Does that mean the bad things that happen even to God's faithful may have been permitted by God himself to test their faith?

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Religion / Does God Authorize Suffering To Test Our Faith In Him? by Banilla: 5:59pm On Mar 12, 2023
Job 1:6-19

Satan Allowed to Test Job

6. Now there was a day when the sons of God came to present themselves before the Lord, and Satan also came among them.

7. The Lord said to Satan, “From where have you come?” Satan answered the Lord and said, “From going to and fro on the earth, and from walking up and down on it.”

8. And the Lord said to Satan, “Have you considered my servant Job, that there is none like him on the earth, a blameless and upright man, who fears God and turns away from evil?”

9. Then Satan answered the Lord and said, “Does Job fear God for no reason?

10. Have you not put a hedge around him and his house and all that he has, on every side? You have blessed the work of his hands, and his possessions have increased in the land. 11. But stretch out your hand and touch all that he has, and he will curse you to your face.”

12. And the Lord said to Satan, “Behold, all that he has is in your hand. Only against him do not stretch out your hand.” So Satan went out from the presence of the Lord.

Satan Takes Job's Property and Children

13. Now there was a day when his sons and daughters were eating and drinking wine in their oldest brother's house,

14. and there came a messenger to Job and said, “The oxen were plowing and the donkeys feeding beside them,

15. and the Sabeans fell upon them and took them and struck down the servants with the edge of the sword, and I alone have escaped to tell you.”

16. While he was yet speaking, there came another and said, “The fire of God fell from heaven and burned up the sheep and the servants and consumed them, and I alone have escaped to tell you.”

17. While he was yet speaking, there came another and said, “The Chaldeans formed three groups and made a raid on the camels and took them and struck down the servants with the edge of the sword, and I alone have escaped to tell you.”

18. While he was yet speaking, there came another and said, “Your sons and daughters were eating and drinking wine in their oldest brother's house,

19. and behold, a great wind came across the wilderness and struck the four corners of the house, and it fell upon the young people, and they are dead, and I alone have escaped to tell you.”
Romance / Re: Kopi Luwak: The Expensive Coffee Obtained From Civet Poop. by Banilla: 5:44pm On Mar 12, 2023
illicit:
I don't get it
Kopi Luwak is the most expensive coffee in the world. It's made from coffee beans eaten by the Civet cat and pooped half digested... Would you drink it? grin
Romance / Re: Kopi Luwak: The Expensive Coffee Obtained From Civet Poop. by Banilla: 5:42pm On Mar 12, 2023
funshint:
I actually thought this was a joke...it's real shocked
Of course it's real! grin
Romance / Kopi Luwak: The Expensive Coffee Obtained From Civet Poop. by Banilla: 1:01pm On Mar 12, 2023
Kopi Luwak is sold at $600 per kg, making it the most expensive coffee in the world!

Price range in Nigeria: 40k - 150k (from ads online)

Kopi luwak is made from coffee beans plucked from civets' feces. It's the world's most expensive coffee, and it's made from poop. Or rather, it's made from coffee beans that are partially digested and then pooped out by the civet.


Would you drink it? grin

Romance / Re: Some Humans Are Npcs; They Have No Souls And Only Exist To Protect The Illusion. by Banilla: 10:34am On Mar 12, 2023
Silentgroper:


Lmao .. they see hand signs as thought ..


This has to be one hell of a joke .


😁😁😁😁
Nope! It's real. Weird, but real.

Have you ever asked yourself, "How can people who have never heard a word their whole life hear their thoughts?" They can't.

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Religion / Re: Are Angels Allowed The Free Will To Sin Against God? by Banilla: 9:29am On Mar 12, 2023
Dtruthspeaker:


Satan is called devil because devil means "the-evil" ((D'evil) like D'day is "the day and Satan got man to eat "the evil", so we are inherently evil.

But we are not going to the new heaven and earth (not heaven) with this corrupt substance that makes us, but with a new one. And the Bible Said "just like angels" which means Angels do not have evil as shown by the Genesis Fall.

If angels do not have evil, how could they commit sin?

Plus, Lucifer had already committed the sin of pride long before Adam and Eve... So sin had already existed before they ate the fruit. Also, why would Lucifer sin? Adam and Eve were tempted, but there was nothing to tempt Lucifer.

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Romance / Re: Majority Of Women Will Marry Broke Men! by Banilla: 12:45am On Mar 12, 2023
Mekuseh11:



I don't involve my self in the weird bashing going on between hypocritical men and women who hide under hating each other but can't stay away from each other.
For every otedola in Nigeria there are tons and tons of average guys.

The argument should be women avoiding poor men ( it's understandable). Not generalizing and misleading Young girls.

Average men are doing well in the society and is a realistic option.
Average in this sense I mean steady source of income.
Over 40 percent of the population live below the poverty line. How many are well to do? Extremely few. Even with steady incomes, they are still struggling.

Must they get married? Can't a man say, "I'm poor, I shouldn't bring children into this world to suffer"? If he hustles and makes it, then he gets married and have kids... If he doesn't, then he's done himself and the society a favour. Same goes for women, but they still have the option of marrying rich men. So let them battle for the man who can atleast feed himself, whoever wins gets married and impregnated. Who doesn't stays single.

Isn't that ideal?

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Romance / Re: Majority Of Women Will Marry Broke Men! by Banilla: 12:39am On Mar 12, 2023
Mekuseh11:



If there is more of poor people in a society where is there so much clamoring to be with the rich( a mirage).
Wrong!

There's acute poverty in countries like Nigeria, where poor people's only concern is getting married and breeding like rats.

I would strerilize half the population if I could. Most of you don't even deserve to pass on your genes.

If you are poor, don't get married! If you insist, use a damn condom everytime you have sex. We don't need any more poor children of poor parents!

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Romance / Re: If Davido Was Living In One Room Apartment In Fadeyi Will Chioma Date Him? by Banilla: 12:32am On Mar 12, 2023
Weknowbetter:
Super fan worry about your own prick and picknin, what they eat won't make you fat
grin

He'll likely leave behind debts for his own children to inherit.

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Romance / Re: If Davido Was Living In One Room Apartment In Fadeyi Will Chioma Date Him? by Banilla: 12:31am On Mar 12, 2023
If chioma was unattractive, would Davido notice her?

You nedd to see her current pics how she looks so unkempt and hungry wizkid has a deal with his baby mamas that once his kids clock 18 they should all find their way and leave him with his kids
So the women are nothing more but wombs and nannies?

What makes you think the children would love him when they are older? They witnessed how he treated their mothers.

If they go to him, it's for his money. But I guess it's better to be used by your children than your baby mamas.

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Romance / Re: Majority Of Women Will Marry Broke Men! by Banilla: 12:22am On Mar 12, 2023
Most men will marry average looking women who aren't virgins, women they would be entirely devoted to. That's another fact. But everyone is disillusioned on Nairaland. Let's have our fun.

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Romance / Re: Majority Of Women Will Marry Broke Men! by Banilla: 12:20am On Mar 12, 2023
Again, this romanticising of poverty! This is abnormal behaviour. You mustn't be successful for a woman but don't you ever think, "I deserve much better"?

It's rare to find a lazy Nigerian man that doesn't have plans to get rich( even though the economy is harsh on most of them).
Yahoos boys, kidnappers, barrow pushers, hawkers and every hustler is chasing money but some will be Richer than others ( facts).
Is yahoo a decent job? Kidnapping too? Men who do them aren't hustlers but criminals who deserve to be locked up! Nigerian men will never contribute anything good to society, so they make up excuses, blaming everyone but themselves. Smh!

Women can wait for you to get rich. Isn't that an option? Or you aren't certain you'll make it? Just to be sure, you want her now?

Sweetheart, stop trying to manipulate women into settling for less (you). It's pathetic. You mentioned that women do in fact get married to the poor men around, so why create this thread? It's unnecessary.

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Romance / Re: Some Humans Are Npcs; They Have No Souls And Only Exist To Protect The Illusion. by Banilla: 11:15pm On Mar 11, 2023
obinna58:

If she can’t have inner thought or voice then how was she able to realize that

It’s as good as lack of self awareness which is a pure lie, only mad people has a bit of such characteristic
I think so too. Who takes 4chan seriously? It's trash. How do you even prove they were saying the truth?

Also, deaf people don't hear voices in their heads, they see hands signing their thoughts. I had my mind blown the day I found out! We never really notice how different others are till they open up. Different shouldn't mean abnormal because we don't understand it. But the op prefers to read meanings and see patterns.

The op writes a lot of bullsh** and people get carried away. He never backs anything up with proof. Everyone wants to feel special, don't they? grin

Imagine saying rich, successful people aren't real humans...

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Romance / Re: My Husband Paid N580K For My Bride Price And Refused To Help My Family Members by Banilla: 11:10pm On Mar 11, 2023
tochez24:



And the wife is rich baaa I don't know why most Nigerian girls are just plain senseless!!!

For your information, rich guys now are not settling for fine face, breast and yansh o they now go for valuable girls that has something else to offer apart from vagina.

No go find work inugo.... Dey play'
Are you among the rich guys? I don't think so.

When the topic is, "preferences of poor men", we'll let you know.

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