VeryWickedGoat:
You chook your elbow inside toto abi wetin for you to ask if na STD?

Lol

Persephone1:
Or how accepting trans women relates to patriarchy? Do trans women identify with patriarchy or masculinity? .

I think I need some chill drink to break this code🧐

Precisely. The whole point of feminism is defending the rights of women. Trans-women go through the same crap cis-women deal with; the discrimination and assault and such.

So if I say, "End rape"... It means "Stop raping cis-women and trans-women."

Still a feminist against patriarchy.

Reminderz:

you need an Andrew Tate

No thank you. Don't need a loser.

LIVINGICONREBOR:
If na whitie, no probs. She go feel the magic stick. But say na African most especially naija gals, na 2 gbaga. No be me you go push demons into.🤔🤔

She could be wiccan?

thebosstrevor1:
So i recently watched a video of an award named the most courageous woman, guess who received the award, the man who dressed like a woman, this was funny as hell because he was competing with REAL women.😂

Women are fighting against patriarchy but those who shape society which are the elites with the hrlp of the media like the news, movies and music, literally any method of mass communication also pushed the idea that a man with a penis who wear wig and dress like woman is a Woman 😂

So while women are fighting against patriarchy, they indirectly accept patriarchy.

while women are fighting for equal pay, they are also indirectly fighting for some men with wig to be paid higher than them.

So while women are fighting against discrimination, they are actually fighting for these men with wig to not be discriminated

So literally if you look deep into all this you will realise that the trans movement pushed by the elite is a trick of divide and conquer to stop the excesses of feminists who are fighting against so called patriarchy.

If you realise, the feminist fight was against so called patriarchy but now the fight is for the acceptance of men who dresses like women. A real woman cant talk bad against a trans.

The trans is now the real woman, he infact can participate in women sport and competition and win all the award without discrimination.

When these 'men on wigs' take hormones and undergo surgery... Are they now women?

Persephone1:
Perhaps I'd reserve my comment till someone makes sense out of this. My confusion is seriously confused right now 🤔🤔🤔

He's making a case against trans-women. How that relates to feminism, only he knows.

shantti:
Will you proceed or not

I want a boy with a snake tattoo... Maybe on his chest, forearm or back. Definite smash.

Ehinjuola:



That's the question I have been pondering since I saw that pic.

Why would you go to that extent just to prove how creative (stu!d) your thinking ability is?

Some people like reptiles. For example, me. You might be scared of snakes, others aren't. She's not proving anything just showing off an insanely beautiful tattoo.

Prettygirl200:
Okay since am being superstitious and it's not stupidity u can as well do same to your thighs.

But it isn't stupidity. If it had been a butterfly or a cross, would you say the same? A snake is a reptile... Nothing special there

saladinnoir:


I worded that wrongly. But you get the point. From sex to societal expectations to validation, men treat women better for a variety of reasons that aren't "pure goodness" but they still treat them better.

I agree. Women are the weaker sex, they deserve to be pampered... That's the mentality.

But men hardly help women they don't find attractive. Fat women for example are basically invisible... Women considered masculine too (she's hairy with a deep voice). And so on.

But I get your point.

EmekaA125:
Yorubas.

RIP to them.

God go still punish any of you even after death for voting for that calamity Tulumbu.

Spits

This is a stupid comment. Peter Obi is a wealthy man living his life, he's probably moved on and you're here wishing bad on innocent people. The poor black man is truly the lowest of the low.

Zincfingers:

Emeka, rest
Godforsaken osu scum

The person you're quoting is likely a Yoruba troll. Don't let stupid people lead you to do stupid things. I'm not Igbo btw, just annoyed you fell for that imbeciIe.

saladinnoir:


I said average in my original post, 10 is not average.

I thought you meant average as in, the average number of women getting approached... Not average looks.

I even said that pretty ladies could meet the encounter rate nairaland males place for them. Women are usually treated well by men that isn't a point of contention.

Women get treated better by men with pure intentions? If so, why should sex(gender) matter?

Usually men are much nicer women they find attractive... That should tell you something.

advanceDNA:


U dontt talk with reality most time...u are talking as if all the men u women turn down wants to marry u......
..if u all trully have limited options then none of u should be single above 30 ....u should all have husbands ....it only means even in ur prime the number of men that are available to marry u are limited...if not u woukd have gotten one even with all the tuening down..

Take it or leave it....if u cant chose or approach like men do whenever u see what u want ...it makes ur options significantly limited....

Do u even undertsand what it means to wait before u get what u want or even settle for what comes ur way....do u get what it means by not being able to go out and ask ur spec out.??..yet u are claiming ur options are limited....yeah right!!!!! its like u dont undertsand statistics and probability

You don't get it... When I say options, I mean a woman get approached, even by men she doesn't want. That means, she has more than enough men to choose from. If she disqualifies them all cause they aren't her type, that's her business. But if it were a must she gets married, she can easily get a husband.

So you believe a woman in her 30s who's begging for a husband never got approached by someone serious for 12 years? (From age 18 to 30)... Lmao! Joker

There are men willing to settle down. Their financial status is usually a problem.

saladinnoir:


I meant physically. You're right about the internet / social media thing. "Twice a month" is something but it's not everyday or every week.

Depends on the woman. Is she a 10 or not?

Depends also on how she's approached

She could be spent on by interested strangers... Rarely, men walk up to a woman and say, "I wanna date you."

Observe how the women around you are treated, even by men they don't know.

advanceDNA:



So being in paris now makes it difficult to find a man.??.i thought u women get hundreds of toasters?? Suddenly U know how to apply reality into ur dialogue.......

How many Nigerian men reside in Paris?

Did you skip the part I mentioned that different cultures make it harder for immigrants to find partners in the West?

Nigerian men abroad still come back to find wives (most)... And not because they wouldn't marry a foreign woman. Do you know how many men refuse to relocate their family abroad cause they are scared of their wives 'misbehaving'? One is bitterly complaing in the family section.

Nigerians do things differently, especially romance and marriage.

I dontt really care why she's doing it...its not the first time i would see women desperate for men.....it only comes back to my point u were dodging earlier....ur so called many options is just theory couple with the fact that 95% guys that approach u just wanna fvck you and doesnt really like you....in reality u have very limited options

The desperate women are mostly under 25?

Like I said, it's mostly older, desperate women... if marriage were a do or die affair, every woman would easily find a man whether he's bald, poor, or has a pot belly. But these men usually get rejected, in favour of mister perfect. Only after a woman is tired of waiting does she go back to the dustbin to source for a husband.

Have you seen a young, beautiful woman complain about the lack of men? Unless she's posting it on Facebook or tiktok (then you know it's for clout)... The lack of rich, successful and handsome men; that's the issue.

Again, women have options. This same woman has turned down men in her past. You don't think so?

saladinnoir:


Thank you so much for saying this we men seriously overestimate the amount of times average women are approached on average. Some pretty women might meet the encounter rate but an average girl doesn't meet a new guy everyday or even every week.

Create another account, change the gender to female... Your dm gets flooded before you've posted a single thing.

Social media doesn't exist? Many people start relationships on the internet.

Even if a girl gets approached twice a month, that's still something... But we both know the average girl receives far more attention.

You don't approach women, that's your business. There are times, I've been asked out twice a day by different men and I'm not exceptionally pretty or anything.

But someone wants to console himself because he's never been asked out by a girl.

No one?

advanceDNA:
I thought u women have plenty options... when did it get to this level??

Clout?

She's based in Paris... Finding a partner would be more difficult (different cultures).

But did you ever think, maybe she's going this to get attention?

You really believe she would pay a man to marry her?

AntiChristian:
Catholics and worshipping the dead are like 5 & 6!


In Mass.

Father: St. Ignatius of Loyola

Congregation: Pray for us.

Me: He's dead! He can't even help himself!

Followers of every religion invoke the intercession of dead people.

You're a Muslim, aren't you?

Hi! I was thinking about this recently.

Assuming your partner is well to do, would you willing sign a prenuptial agreement if they asked you to? Or would the request offend you?

Prenuptial agreement: An agreement made by a couple before they marry concerning the ownership of their respective assets should the marriage fail.

Mynd44
Lalasticlala
Seun

I found it so hard to believe...

Nia69
I'm outta data, so I can't send a message on WhatsApp. But I need you do so something. Search 'Nia' on the Nairaland search box. First ten posts or so.

advanceDNA:


Lol......u still dodging reality.....I like it when pple chat from reality....

A lady in her prime...can be approached by 100 men in a day..yes......but please explain the reality, why many of u in your 30's are not married if u all get approached by hundreds of men and ur options re truly limited?? Tell me??

I'll xplain it to you....the so called choice u claim u have is in reality very limited because u cant maximize ur choice since u cant ask the u like men out when u see them..
.. u have to wait to be approached sometimes u settle for what u dont want..
...both women in their 20s and 30s settle.. its not always about desperation....its Undertsmading that ur exact spec may never approach u...

We're talking about marriage... Not marriage with your ideal.

If a woman is desperate to get married, she can. Whether it's with the man she wants or not. Deciding to reject a hundred suitors in favour of her spec only means she has high standards. It's common sense

If we're talking about preference, many men settle for less too. If the op had options, he would easily find miss perfect instead of wailing here that she doesn't exist. Same goes for the redpillers commenting, "all women are bad"...

IyaebeTheGreat:
Women who spend on men are gradually digging their own grave, men naturally don’t appreciate this kind of gesture. Men don’t value women who spend on them , they value the ones they spend on because it boost their ego. I don’t pity her because she sold her sense of reasoning for some useless sweet talk and brainwashing. How women dy take give man money sef? As in how you go take give am? E even dy do my body somehow as I even type am. I can only dash or help a random man with money and gifts but once you are my lover I will never spend a dime on you because I’m setting you on a path of irresponsibility. I can only spend on a man I love after marriage because that’s the only time it makes sense. No be me another person’s son go take practice gigolo .

advanceDNA:


U are just talking theory.....

Theory is that u can be approached by 100 men in a week...reality is that u may nit even be approached by any man in 6 months.

U are not seeing reality...Rejecting suitors shows just how limited ur options are.....and the fact that u cant choose or ask the men u want out when u see them shows just how incapacitated you women are even though u claim u have many options.....

Be truthful...havent u heard the statement "he was never my spec but i just said yes because he was bugging me so i later liked him" thats the reality of the gender that doesnt have the luxury of asking out men whenever they want

You obviously don't know what it's like being a woman.

A woman in her youth gets approached a lot... You don't believe me? Change your gender to female for a week.

Those who settle for less are often older women desperate to get married.

advanceDNA:


He doesnt have to show you both....pple dont have to give their views how u want it....... its not dishonesty...its called writing from a single perspective

.an article or write up can be about pros only ...it can be about cons only....and it can be about both......it all depends on the writer...

If i say women are beautiful...its a perspective /context..... i am not being dishonest even though there are tons of ugly women in the world

Now we are back to the beginning... Thank you for the time wasted.

This isn't a 'Women are beautiful' topic.

The op wrote, "The disadvantages of marrying a wife"... Didn't he? Then he included that his parents have been happily married for 50years, meaning he knows there are advantages of marriage too. So his entire write up is biased.

If you say, "All women are beautiful" then end it with "Some women are not beautiful", you've contradicted yourself. You're being dishonest.

advanceDNA:


I ddnt think or say he has changed the mind of thousands....i said u cant measure the impact so dont assume.....jeez!!!...why do u like to assume alot when u dialogue...
..u jump from A to Z like a gazelle....i dont know if u do it so u can have a reason to insult or u are finding it hard following the context of the discussion...

I know you didn't say that. You mentioned thousands of people viewing the thread, I'm telling you that most of them weren't affected... You forgot what you wrote?

There are billions of men who want to settle down?? Okay...i never disputed this statement with you....

But talking about options....its the men that do the asking out...so technically, its men that choose and its men that have options
Unlike u women...though u carry marrige on your head but cant chose whenver u want simce most of u cant ask men out.

...u have to wait to be chosen.... and thats why the statistics shows there more single women in their 30s who have never been married than men......

So yeah...in theory...there are millions of options for u women...in reality u have to eait to be chosen...so ur choice becomes limited since u have to wait and even sometimes settle for men u dont technically want

You don't even understand.

The average woman gets approached by a lot of men. That gives her options, to decide who to date or not. So if you decide to remain single, like the hundreds of thousands of priests and monks, no woman would care. No one would even notice. That's what you should remember.

The women who didn't marry early, do you know how many suitors they rejected? Even the most unattractive woman has a higher chance of finding someone.

advanceDNA:


Btw...I dont have to assume ur gender...its clear from ur chat pattern....

That's an assumption.

Now.......u are the one with the issues here...Its the op's opinion..he can write it how ever he likes...he doesnt have to say his mind how u want it....u are the one thats not getting it...

You have serious issues.

I initially stated that the op is airing his biased opinion, that he doesn't have to since he's entitled to his choice... Then you countered me saying he's trying to expose men to the reality of marriage.... So I asked, 'if that's his motive, why focus only on the cons?'... Now you're back to this.

He has the right to his opinions. Doesn't change the fact that they are toxic and illogical.

Furthermore...U assume alot....and its not a nice way of dialoguing....just because a person is married for 30 years doesnt mean they wont advice someone else against marriage....so it is possible his father can agree with his opinion..

Again, you're the one assuming. Same way another man who's been married for 30years would promote it. You're demonizing something that's endured the test of time. So the problem isn't marriage but the people with shi**y values.

I have seen many successful people who went to college but said college is a waste of time..if they could go back in time...they would take back their 4 years and use it for something more productive.....

And you've also seen people who are successful going back to college to get a degree.

I have seen plenty bankers with big houses and cars but advice young graduates against a banking career...

And plenty of bankers who would choose the career again and again.

.i have seen plenty older men tell young men that if they can, its better to be single, even though they have been married for many decades...

And even more married men disappointed in younger men who choose to remain single

Life is not black and white...no need to view it that way,

Precisely. Don't ignore the white, show us both colours if you wanna be honest.

advanceDNA:


Yawn!!... u assume alot...
U know he's poor ...how?? Or u just want to insult him for his opinion
...leave the impact...there's no way to measure it for real...and quit ur fallacies and assumption for once.
u cant assume a site thousands of pple view will have zero impact. Do u even know how data is collated from many sites these days and used to form basis of research? Jeez!!

Lol...she said what happens here has no impact.??..tell that to śeun making huge money from nairaland...

No one here is asking to marry you ...how did we arrive at ur outburst that u dont want to marry me or the op?? Did we ask you?? You are tge one flattering urself thinking i or anyone here is interested in you in the first place...

All ur ranting just shows i was right that u women will come here and rant over the op's opinion... its just an opinion..why are u triggered by it so much..??

Lmao. If you think the op has changed the minds of a thousand, no a hundred men then you're a clown. Even the so-called aphas here are simps offline...

You said I'm a woman who carries marriage matter on her head... I'm telling you now that there are billions of men willing to settle down, you're not a great loss.

Or you don't agree that women have many options?

Semen leakage
🔹Loss of sexual drive towards the opposite sex
🔹Premature ejaculation (ejaculating too early during sex)
🔹As a lady, you kill your ability to enjoy sex in future.
🔹Erectile dysfunction (weak erection).
🔹Dizziness
🔹Vaginal dryness and low sensitivity during sex.
🔹Great exhaustion after exercising.
🔹Nervousness.
🔹Insomnia (lack of sleep).
🔹Loss of appetite leading to weight loss especially in female.
🔹Decrease in manhood size and length.
🔹Prostate enlargement which eventually leads to Prostate cancer.

Masturbation also causes kidney failure.

Money cannot save, that is why most people with money still get killed, are barren, are lonely, etc. Most people with good health just drop death, most people with new car still die through accident, most people goes to the best hospital in the world and are still sick.
The question still remain, who can save you from sickness, failure, loneliness, family curse, setback, death, limitation disappointment, accident, barrenness, poverty, hardship, etc?

Bad things don't happen to born-again Christians?

Jesus wasn't born rich and he too suffered, so did his disciples.

Death, sickness, poverty, accidents are all normal.

advanceDNA:


Na woman she go be...na dem dey carry marriage matter for head

Assuming my gender?

One poor man doesn't want to get married, who cares? The op hasn't made any impact, billions of men would still get married and have children. He's only achieved 15minutes fame on a forum on the internet. Congratulations.

The fact that you think what happens here matters in the real world tells alot.

If I wanted to get married, I wouldn't choose the op, wouldn't choose you either. Are you successful? Rich? Handsome? Don't think so. You're a beta male. Don't flatter yourself.