Romance › Re: Who Lies More, Men Or Women? by Banilla: 11:22am On Mar 10, 2023 |
Rayban25: Oga you cant manipulate without lying...lying dosent have to be verbal...if we are both in a bus and I have 200 in my pocket I can pretend to have lost the money and act confused..out of pity you ended up paying for me...now I didnt say anything but I have actually lied by manipulating you into believing that I dont have money
Women wear: Wigs Makeup Fake nails Lashes
Those are all lies because it's not theirs...talk less of now verbal..oga women lie everyday Technically, that's not a lie. A woman can date several men and treat them all specially, so much so they each think she's only dating them... Not a lie, but manipulation. |
Politics › Re: The Hatred For Me Is Too Much, Desmond Elliot Cries Out by Banilla: 11:17am On Mar 10, 2023 |
BurialGround:

Desmond Idiot that built a wooden bridge for his constituents.
Why won't they hate you.
Look at the idiot shamelessly commissioning a wooden bridge.  |
Nairaland General › Re: Happy 18th Anniversary Nairaland by Banilla: 11:12am On Mar 10, 2023 |
Oyindamolah: Before he left, meaning he didn't graduate ni. The founder has done a good thing but he should deal decisively with the trial bigots and tribal remarks/comments otherwise he would only turn here to an e-tribal war zone.
In addition, he should listen or have a support thread where complaints, opinions and suggestions are registered.
In all honesty, it been a great place but he has also lost valueable members. From ishilove to lala and to name a few. I noticed that too. He didn't graduate? Nairaland could have been Africa's number one forum... There are a few foreigners here... But this is a toxic space. Not only tribalism, misogyny too. Lala isn't a mod anymore?  |
Romance › Re: What's Wrong With Me? Can Anyone Relate? by Banilla(op): 10:35am On Mar 10, 2023 |
Kingofhoes: Just sent an e-mail. Looking forward to your reply. Oh! I'll check it out. |
Romance › Re: Paris-based Nigerian Lady Says She Will Pay Any Man Who Agrees To Marry Her by Banilla: 10:33am On Mar 10, 2023 |
Fahvvy: You're missing the entire point ... Women being approached is not the issue here, a woman WILL ALWAYS be approached by men especially if she's young and pretty!!
But the question is "what's their motive for approaching her?" ...
Believe me, for most of the time it's just for nacks ...
Out of a 100 men that'll approach her, she'll be lucky if 5 men are actually serious with her, but guess what?
She'll turn them down!! Thinking she has "options"
And the illusion of options steams from the number of men (100) she sees approaching her, not knowing that her "options" are a whole lot smaller (5) than what she really thinks ...
Her eyes will only open when she gets older and by then, even fewer men will bother to take a second glance at her, that's the point! The argument started on another thread. Like I said, if a woman is desperate to get married, she always can. The idea that every desperate woman in her 30s was never approached once by a man willing to marry her is bullsh**. She rejected them, that's the issue (not my concern). If marriage were a do or death affair, many women would easily get a husband, even if they all settle for less. I don't have to repeat myself. But most of you have comprehension issues. Did you read my responses? He's trying to make it seem as though there's a scarcity of men, which isn't true. The unavailability of the 'type' of man they want is why some women end up single. I want a 25year old billionaire who's drop dead gorgeous... If I turn down all my admirers for my fantasy man, that's the reason I'll be unmarried in my thirties. If I decide to marry anything with a penis, I have options. Do I need to dumb it further so you can understand?  |
Romance › Re: Women Are Fighting Against Patriarchy, They Indirectly Accept Patriarch by Banilla: 10:11pm On Mar 09, 2023 |
pansophist: My definition of a woman is a human that is born a female and capable of being pregnant and bearing children naturally. That has xx chromosome, can breastfeed and have menstruation.
What is your definition of a woman? Barren women aren't real women? Not every woman ticks your box. |
Romance › Re: Smash Or Pass by Banilla: 10:07pm On Mar 09, 2023 |
Reminderz: leemao, define loser? A human trafficker? Someone who needs to be rich to be considered a catch? Disliked immensely by women but adored by the beta males he takes advantage of... I could go on... Besides, he's not attractive to me... Not at all. |
Romance › Re: Paris-based Nigerian Lady Says She Will Pay Any Man Who Agrees To Marry Her by Banilla: 10:04pm On Mar 09, 2023 |
Autobot05:
lol not every man that asks you out actually wants to marry you ... that's his point and that's reality Yes, so? A woman in her 30s was never approached by one serious man for 12 years? (Since she turned 18) |
Romance › Re: Women Are Fighting Against Patriarchy, They Indirectly Accept Patriarch by Banilla: 9:43pm On Mar 09, 2023 |
pansophist: How foolish can this woke women be? Now you can actually become a woman, not because you've have your deek butchered away Bobrisky style, but because you identified as a woman. 
Just imagine Mike Tyson declaring himself as a woman, and those dumb feminist will defend his right as a transgender woman, and fight other men to treat her with respect. Can a person be this consciously stupid?
Then they call me transphobic because I'm not attracted to a man. If Mike Tyson wears a wig and identifies as a woman, he's not. If he underdoes hormone replacement therapy and surgery, then he's a woman. If you disagree, what's your definition of a woman? And what makes her different from a man? |
Romance › Re: Is This An Std by Banilla: 9:32pm On Mar 09, 2023 |
VeryWickedGoat: You chook your elbow inside toto abi wetin for you to ask if na STD?  Lol  |
Romance › Re: Women Are Fighting Against Patriarchy, They Indirectly Accept Patriarch by Banilla: 9:29pm On Mar 09, 2023 |
Persephone1: Or how accepting trans women relates to patriarchy? Do trans women identify with patriarchy or masculinity? .
I think I need some chill drink to break this code🧐
Precisely. The whole point of feminism is defending the rights of women. Trans-women go through the same crap cis-women deal with; the discrimination and assault and such. So if I say, "End rape"... It means "Stop raping cis-women and trans-women." Still a feminist against patriarchy. |
Romance › Re: Smash Or Pass by Banilla: 9:23pm On Mar 09, 2023 |
Reminderz: you need an Andrew Tate No thank you. Don't need a loser. LIVINGICONREBOR: If na whitie, no probs. She go feel the magic stick. But say na African most especially naija gals, na 2 gbaga. No be me you go push demons into.🤔🤔 She could be wiccan?  |
Romance › Re: Women Are Fighting Against Patriarchy, They Indirectly Accept Patriarch by Banilla: 9:20pm On Mar 09, 2023 |
thebosstrevor1: So i recently watched a video of an award named the most courageous woman, guess who received the award, the man who dressed like a woman, this was funny as hell because he was competing with REAL women.😂
Women are fighting against patriarchy but those who shape society which are the elites with the hrlp of the media like the news, movies and music, literally any method of mass communication also pushed the idea that a man with a penis who wear wig and dress like woman is a Woman 😂
So while women are fighting against patriarchy, they indirectly accept patriarchy.
while women are fighting for equal pay, they are also indirectly fighting for some men with wig to be paid higher than them.
So while women are fighting against discrimination, they are actually fighting for these men with wig to not be discriminated
So literally if you look deep into all this you will realise that the trans movement pushed by the elite is a trick of divide and conquer to stop the excesses of feminists who are fighting against so called patriarchy.
If you realise, the feminist fight was against so called patriarchy but now the fight is for the acceptance of men who dresses like women. A real woman cant talk bad against a trans.
The trans is now the real woman, he infact can participate in women sport and competition and win all the award without discrimination. When these 'men on wigs' take hormones and undergo surgery... Are they now women? |
Romance › Re: Women Are Fighting Against Patriarchy, They Indirectly Accept Patriarch by Banilla: 9:19pm On Mar 09, 2023 |
Persephone1: Perhaps I'd reserve my comment till someone makes sense out of this. My confusion is seriously confused right now 🤔🤔🤔 He's making a case against trans-women. How that relates to feminism, only he knows. |
Romance › Re: Smash Or Pass by Banilla: 7:53pm On Mar 09, 2023 |
shantti: Will you proceed or not I want a boy with a snake tattoo... Maybe on his chest, forearm or back. Definite smash. |
Romance › Re: Smash Or Pass by Banilla: 7:51pm On Mar 09, 2023 |
Ehinjuola:

That's the question I have been pondering since I saw that pic.
Why would you go to that extent just to prove how creative (stu!d) your thinking ability is? Some people like reptiles. For example, me. You might be scared of snakes, others aren't. She's not proving anything just showing off an insanely beautiful tattoo. |
Romance › Re: Smash Or Pass by Banilla: 7:49pm On Mar 09, 2023 |
Prettygirl200: Okay since am being superstitious and it's not stupidity u can as well do same to your thighs. But it isn't stupidity. If it had been a butterfly or a cross, would you say the same? A snake is a reptile... Nothing special there |
Romance › Re: Disadvantages Of Marrying A Wife(for Guys) by Banilla: 7:48pm On Mar 09, 2023 |
saladinnoir: I worded that wrongly. But you get the point. From sex to societal expectations to validation, men treat women better for a variety of reasons that aren't "pure goodness" but they still treat them better. I agree. Women are the weaker sex, they deserve to be pampered... That's the mentality. But men hardly help women they don't find attractive. Fat women for example are basically invisible... Women considered masculine too (she's hairy with a deep voice). And so on. But I get your point. |
Travel › Re: 6 Dead, 80 Injured In Lagos Train - BRT Bus Accident by Banilla: 7:43pm On Mar 09, 2023 |
EmekaA125: Yorubas.
RIP to them.
God go still punish any of you even after death for voting for that calamity Tulumbu.
Spits  This is a stupid comment. Peter Obi is a wealthy man living his life, he's probably moved on and you're here wishing bad on innocent people. The poor black man is truly the lowest of the low. |
Travel › Re: 6 Dead, 80 Injured In Lagos Train - BRT Bus Accident by Banilla: 7:41pm On Mar 09, 2023 |
Zincfingers: Emeka, rest Godforsaken osu scum The person you're quoting is likely a Yoruba troll. Don't let stupid people lead you to do stupid things. I'm not Igbo btw, just annoyed you fell for that imbeciIe. |
Romance › Re: Disadvantages Of Marrying A Wife(for Guys) by Banilla: 7:31pm On Mar 09, 2023 |
saladinnoir: I said average in my original post, 10 is not average. I thought you meant average as in, the average number of women getting approached... Not average looks. I even said that pretty ladies could meet the encounter rate nairaland males place for them. Women are usually treated well by men that isn't a point of contention. Women get treated better by men with pure intentions? If so, why should sex(gender) matter?  Usually men are much nicer women they find attractive... That should tell you something. |
Romance › Re: Paris-based Nigerian Lady Says She Will Pay Any Man Who Agrees To Marry Her by Banilla: 7:05pm On Mar 09, 2023 |
advanceDNA: U dontt talk with reality most time...u are talking as if all the men u women turn down wants to marry u...... ..if u all trully have limited options then none of u should be single above 30 ....u should all have husbands ....it only means even in ur prime the number of men that are available to marry u are limited...if not u woukd have gotten one even with all the tuening down..
Take it or leave it....if u cant chose or approach like men do whenever u see what u want ...it makes ur options significantly limited....
Do u even undertsand what it means to wait before u get what u want or even settle for what comes ur way....do u get what it means by not being able to go out and ask ur spec out.??..yet u are claiming ur options are limited....yeah right!!!!! its like u dont undertsand statistics and probability You don't get it... When I say options, I mean a woman get approached, even by men she doesn't want. That means, she has more than enough men to choose from. If she disqualifies them all cause they aren't her type, that's her business. But if it were a must she gets married, she can easily get a husband. So you believe a woman in her 30s who's begging for a husband never got approached by someone serious for 12 years? (From age 18 to 30)... Lmao! Joker  There are men willing to settle down. Their financial status is usually a problem. |
Romance › Re: Disadvantages Of Marrying A Wife(for Guys) by Banilla: 6:41pm On Mar 09, 2023 |
saladinnoir: I meant physically. You're right about the internet / social media thing. "Twice a month" is something but it's not everyday or every week. Depends on the woman. Is she a 10 or not? Depends also on how she's approached She could be spent on by interested strangers... Rarely, men walk up to a woman and say, "I wanna date you." Observe how the women around you are treated, even by men they don't know. |
Romance › Re: Paris-based Nigerian Lady Says She Will Pay Any Man Who Agrees To Marry Her by Banilla: 6:30pm On Mar 09, 2023 |
advanceDNA: So being in paris now makes it difficult to find a man.??.i thought u women get hundreds of toasters?? Suddenly U know how to apply reality into ur dialogue....... How many Nigerian men reside in Paris? Did you skip the part I mentioned that different cultures make it harder for immigrants to find partners in the West?  Nigerian men abroad still come back to find wives (most)... And not because they wouldn't marry a foreign woman. Do you know how many men refuse to relocate their family abroad cause they are scared of their wives 'misbehaving'? One is bitterly complaing in the family section. Nigerians do things differently, especially romance and marriage. I dontt really care why she's doing it...its not the first time i would see women desperate for men.....it only comes back to my point u were dodging earlier....ur so called many options is just theory couple with the fact that 95% guys that approach u just wanna fvck you and doesnt really like you....in reality u have very limited options The desperate women are mostly under 25?  Like I said, it's mostly older, desperate women... if marriage were a do or die affair, every woman would easily find a man whether he's bald, poor, or has a pot belly. But these men usually get rejected, in favour of mister perfect. Only after a woman is tired of waiting does she go back to the dustbin to source for a husband.  Have you seen a young, beautiful woman complain about the lack of men? Unless she's posting it on Facebook or tiktok (then you know it's for clout)... The lack of rich, successful and handsome men; that's the issue. Again, women have options. This same woman has turned down men in her past. You don't think so?  |
Romance › Re: Disadvantages Of Marrying A Wife(for Guys) by Banilla: 4:12pm On Mar 09, 2023 |
saladinnoir: Thank you so much for saying this we men seriously overestimate the amount of times average women are approached on average. Some pretty women might meet the encounter rate but an average girl doesn't meet a new guy everyday or even every week.
Create another account, change the gender to female... Your dm gets flooded before you've posted a single thing.  Social media doesn't exist? Many people start relationships on the internet. Even if a girl gets approached twice a month, that's still something... But we both know the average girl receives far more attention. You don't approach women, that's your business. There are times, I've been asked out twice a day by different men and I'm not exceptionally pretty or anything. But someone wants to console himself because he's never been asked out by a girl. |
Family › Re: Prenuptial Agreement: Would You Be Willing To Sign A Prenup Or Offended? by Banilla(op): 4:01pm On Mar 09, 2023 |
No one?  |
Romance › Re: Paris-based Nigerian Lady Says She Will Pay Any Man Who Agrees To Marry Her by Banilla: 4:00pm On Mar 09, 2023 |
advanceDNA: I thought u women have plenty options... when did it get to this level?? Clout?  She's based in Paris... Finding a partner would be more difficult (different cultures). But did you ever think, maybe she's going this to get attention? You really believe she would pay a man to marry her?  |
Christianity Etc › Re: Praying The Our Father by Banilla: 3:35pm On Mar 09, 2023 |
AntiChristian: Catholics and worshipping the dead are like 5 & 6!
In Mass.
Father: St. Ignatius of Loyola
Congregation: Pray for us.
Me: He's dead! He can't even help himself! Followers of every religion invoke the intercession of dead people. You're a Muslim, aren't you? |
Family › Prenuptial Agreement: Would You Be Willing To Sign A Prenup Or Offended? by Banilla(op): 3:32pm On Mar 09, 2023 |
Hi! I was thinking about this recently.
Assuming your partner is well to do, would you willing sign a prenuptial agreement if they asked you to? Or would the request offend you?
Prenuptial agreement: An agreement made by a couple before they marry concerning the ownership of their respective assets should the marriage fail.
Mynd44 Lalasticlala Seun |
Christianity Etc › Re: Kenya's Self Proclaimed Jesus Christ Of Bungoma Now Claims His Life Is In Danger by Banilla: 11:24am On Mar 09, 2023 |
I found it so hard to believe...  |
Christianity Etc › Re: The Garden Of Eden: Could This Be The Meaning? by Banilla(op): 11:23am On Mar 09, 2023 |
Nia69 I'm outta data, so I can't send a message on WhatsApp. But I need you do so something. Search 'Nia' on the Nairaland search box. First ten posts or so. |
Romance › Re: Disadvantages Of Marrying A Wife(for Guys) by Banilla: 11:06am On Mar 09, 2023 |
advanceDNA: Lol......u still dodging reality.....I like it when pple chat from reality....
A lady in her prime...can be approached by 100 men in a day..yes......but please explain the reality, why many of u in your 30's are not married if u all get approached by hundreds of men and ur options re truly limited?? Tell me??
I'll xplain it to you....the so called choice u claim u have is in reality very limited because u cant maximize ur choice since u cant ask the u like men out when u see them.. .. u have to wait to be approached sometimes u settle for what u dont want.. ...both women in their 20s and 30s settle.. its not always about desperation....its Undertsmading that ur exact spec may never approach u... We're talking about marriage... Not marriage with your ideal. If a woman is desperate to get married, she can. Whether it's with the man she wants or not. Deciding to reject a hundred suitors in favour of her spec only means she has high standards. It's common sense If we're talking about preference, many men settle for less too. If the op had options, he would easily find miss perfect instead of wailing here that she doesn't exist. Same goes for the redpillers commenting, "all women are bad"...  |