₦airaland Forum

Truckpusher:
As long as you do not have any kind of meter to read the amount of emotional damage you're causing to your partner while you're on your silent treatment there is nothing as a mature soul in this case.

you are reading this as a one way strip issue, if you have an idea of what it takes to maintain your silence in the midst nagging partners and mr / Mrs always right people you will understand that silence sometimes is golden

Truckpusher:
Silent treatment is immature and childish.

If you have a problem with someone ,the best way is to talk about it and if that person is mature both of you should be able to iron out your differences and whoever that is at fault should find it less hard to apologize and everyone involved gets to move on.

Most folks that prefers the silent treatment are emotional blackmailers and I for once do not hesitate to walk away from such drama.

There is no point staying with someone that wouldn't talk to you for days or do things with you in harmony,I'd rather get myself a manikin at home than live with a silent emotional abuser........They are manipulators and you do not let anybody manipulate and play with your emotions.

it depend on how the power is wheeled, what if the person is not mature enough ? if u ever deals with a nagging partner you will understand that silent treatment is for mature soul to practice.

all this PR stunt who give a damn if she drop a million into you ass, has nairaland depreciated so much that this stuff is find it way to the front page na wa ooo

kaybiel2u:
u c my broda, for dz kind of scenerio, Ruth case cant be left out, if a woman marries a man, she has married everytin abt d man. Ruth case is a perfect example 4 dz type of scenerio. moment she marries, she bears d name of her husband. And Remember Our Lord Jesus Christ, He Keeps Telling Us That Has He(Jesus) Is Head Of D Church So A Man The Head Of D Family.

most at times we blow this word of husband is the head of home out of proportion, the bible did not end there it goes further to say love ur wife as Christ love the church if you truly love your spouse i believed you wnt force your belief and practice of faith on her

kaybiel2u:
if she truly loves her husband she must attend the church her hubby attends. she must love her husband with everything i mean everything 4 beta 4 worse, u knw and read the case of Ruth In The Bible. Remember What She Said To Naomi. YOUR PEOPLE SHALL BE MY PEOPLE, YOUR WAY SHALL BE MY WAY, WHEREEVER YOU GO I GO etc.

what has love got to do with faith? we may both believe in Christ and practice our faith differently, if you care about your wife as you claimed to b, then it's not right for you to lured your way of practicing your faith on her, you can't use Ruth case in this scenario, because nobody force their faith on her she willing fully decided to practice their faith and believe in their God on her own accord. Am a christian and am glad to b one, there are some churches that no matter how i love the person i cnt go to those churches with you. their way of practicing is just responsive to my faith .

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their fada .. Na today? another avenue for greed bastard @ d top

Cuteclem: i never believ if they pospone the meeting it will cost them more, those who already traveled down will have to go back and come again, which will increase the chances of them dieying by accident except dey lack reasons or maybe is NEMESIS alot of poeple cursed them

if u don't have anything to say Jst learn to shut up ....what yeye Nemesis are u talking about ? What is bad in people fighting for what they believed in, against all odd ?

[/b]quote author=Ayoobscom]The Underaged girl
She will not be fornicating like u

[b]Cos married people. Dnt do adultery ?
She will not go into prostitution like you
Cos underage marriage is d way out of prostitution? Mumu, 75% of prostitution is attributed 2 poverty I guess in ur village only single people are poor
She will not practice yearly abortion like you
What about d issue of VVF? Na only single ladies dey do abortion?
She will not be visiting babalawo looking for husband like you
Only low esteem ladies of ur type dey visit babalawo because dnt have anything to offer a man Dan to dey pour out pikin like pigs
She will enjoy legal marriage and early bath
What is dere to enjoy?bn 4uck by a disgusting person old enough to be ur grandfather or what is d bliss of underage marriage wen u don't hv a saying over who to marry ?
The underage will attain puberty before being intimate with
She will not be victim of many heartbreaks
Mumu, na. Only single people dey get heartbreak? What about divorce, Dat1 na enjoyment ba? Or bringing anoda wife, dat1 na happiness?
She will not be victim of Hiv like you
Cos d say na only single people dey get am
Let us be objective in our reasoning bcoz at least I ve more than 12 christians stalking to date me some of them despirate if they were given out at tender age they will not become this halfused,overdecorated and oversampled mammywater that they have become
Bird of a feather flock together, only retarded people like u will wish to hv u as their husband.

They wake up with furry of lack of love
Cos early marriage or underage marriage is a gurantee of love
They wake up with million heartaches of irrepearable past
Married or single nobody is immuned against dat
They wake up with waning hope of ever getting a honest man
[/b]Are u dat stupid or dumb? So underage marriage provide honest man[/b]
They go to bed with neighbors,strangers just incse might get the ring
I dnt blame u, ua surrounded by low esteem and fools of ur caliber dat why u think everybody sleep around looking for a ring

They develop into monster seeing goes men as rogue and worthless liars
Are they lieing? Are some men not rogue and liars

So what is your argument before you rant without logic
D argument is dat people with ur way of thinking dnt belong among human, zoo is ur destination

Those who voted were the only Godsent in the house...
With people like u Nigeria is doomed.
So shut d smelly mouth.....[/quote]

[/b]quote author=Ayoobscom]The Underaged girl
She will not be fornicating like u

[b]Cos married people. Dnt do adultery ?
She will not go into prostitution like you
Cos underage marriage is d way out of prostitution? Mumu, 75% of prostitution is attributed 2 poverty I guess in ur village only single people are poor
She will not practice yearly abortion like you
What about d issue of VVF? Na only single ladies dey do abortion?
She will not be visiting babalawo looking for husband like you
Only low esteem ladies of ur type dey visit babalawo because dnt have anything to offer a man Dan to dey pour out pikin like pigs
She will enjoy legal marriage and early bath
What is dere to enjoy?bn 4uck by a disgusting person old enough to be ur grandfather or what is d bliss of underage marriage wen u don't hv a saying over who to marry ?
The underage will attain puberty before being intimate with
She will not be victim of many heartbreaks
Mumu, na. Only single people dey get heartbreak? What about divorce, Dat1 na enjoyment ba? Or bringing anoda wife, dat1 na happiness?
She will not be victim of Hiv like you
Cos d say na only single people dey get am
Let us be objective in our reasoning bcoz at least I ve more than 12 christians stalking to date me some of them despirate if they were given out at tender age they will not become this halfused,overdecorated and oversampled mammywater that they have become
Bird of a feather flock together, only retarded people like u will wish to hv u as their husband.

They wake up with furry of lack of love
Cos early marriage or underage marriage is a gurantee of love
They wake up with million heartaches of irrepearable past
Married or single nobody is immuned against dat
They wake up with waning hope of ever getting a honest man
Are u dat stupid or dumb? So underage marriage provide honest man[/b]
They go to bed with neighbors,strangers just incse might get the ring
I dnt blame u, ua surrounded by low esteem and fools of ur caliber dat why u think everybody sleep around looking for a ring

They develop into monster seeing goes men as rogue and worthless liars
Are they lieing? Are some men not rogue and liars

So what is your argument before you rant without logic
D argument is dat people with ur way of thinking dnt belong among human, zoo is ur destination

Those who voted were the only Godsent in the house...
With people like u Nigeria is doomed.
So shut d smelly mouth.....[/quote]

ugojamali: Why is nairaland filled with over zealous kids who don't read posts properly before commenting. The post clearly states that the federal government will not invest money in the carrier and will only own a limited stake in it. It will practically be driven by private investors.

So the issue here is getting the so called private partners not FG wasting her money!!!!

how do you own a stake in a business without putting money into it? it seem to me ua the over zealous kid that can't add 1 + 1 together.

Policewoman: The stories are conflicting. I will not believe either party till i hear from the official sources.

what official source(s) will admit to dat ? wise up bro na nija u dey

Sincere 9gerian: There's no point trying to challenge a senseless article. This is the oil multinationals fighting back to stall passage of PIB. All their effort is dead on arrival. QED.

Meanwhile, I understand the fact that HATERS (losers at the 2011 elections) will fight amongst themselves in attempt to queue behind the senseless article.

you think thru your anus, what has PIB got to do with what we are discussing? foot soldiers dat will never b an official,keep singing their songs while they milk you dry.

Sincere 9gerian: There's no point trying to challenge a senseless article. This is the oil multinationals fighting back to stall passage of PIB. All their effort is dead on arrival. QED.

Meanwhile, I understand the fact that HATERS (losers at the 2011 elections) will fight amongst themselves in attempt to queue behind the senseless article.

you think thru your anus, what has PIB got to do with what we are discussing? foot soliders dat will never b an official,keep singing their songs while they milk you dry.

bubadaniel13: OP just a question for the confused Mr Joel Brinkley,Is GEJ the first leader of Nigeria?how many years has he spent on power so far?Nigeria has been ruled by bad leaders for decades and u expect GEJ to turn bad things around within three years,the writer of the article must be dreaming.

same mentality display by d oga on top is exhibited by clueless fool like u, what progress has he made to justify is 3 yrs in power? all wrongs cnt b made right overnyt, but a least there suppose to b progress in d right direction.

tomakint: May you live long, may you walk and never stumble, indeed, you have spoken like an Oracle! God bless you!

drunkard, u don take kaikai dis early morning... First class mumu go get life

taharqa: Bros, are you talking about yr Father dis way? You are just too damn disrespectful. Your own Father again, who gave life to you? Haba! He does spew Gabbage from his azzz now; he usuali does so from his mouth. Plz, shld sm respect.

shut up ur mouth b4 I shut it for u, what has dis yeye president done to earn anybody respect ? lies upon lies abusing collective intelligent on d nation.

Positiveminds: You just proved how empty your head is. If Diya and a few others were granted pardon under previous administration but was not effected does annul the power of government to implement it?

What is government implementing ? U must b a learner. Clown

I can't vouch of global impact, but locally they are making waves
1. Payment gateway:eyowo
2. Open VR by INITS

berem: Dude, please learn how to write your words in full. How could you be writing words in short form? Am so ashamed that a graduate like you, that is if you are one, writes like a University drop out.If you are trying to make your points understandable, write your comments well. smh

I guess ur brain must b working on Pentium 2, is writing in short form peculiar 2 university drop out? D point is clear enough.

uupgrade: God punish you sayso or wateva they cal u? Them tif ur money? Watin concern you concern am? Abi na ur papa property. Infact watin ur papa get wey them 1 tif? Abi wat ur state get wey 1 tif or ur useles tribe! Idiot. Take time oh.. And al dos people wey insult. D firts lady.. Thunder fire una mouth. I no blame una. Una papa no teach una well idiot.

.u sound lik a retarded person. Who d hell is d first lady? A position by association, Looting tax payers monin if d those properties where not brought thru proxy how could dey hav access 2 it ?people lik u dnt hv identity any where belle face monkey.

Regiblinkz: Bcuz una no get job no mean sey others no get too...

u must b a learner,

dramatic speak: http://news2.onlinenigeria.com/news/top-stories/190192-mountain-of-fire-ministry-fires-50-pastors-for-embezzling-church-funds.html

was it not suppose to be the other way round? from top to bottom but what we see in our nowadays churches is for bottom to up. SHM

afam4eva: Many Nigerians won't think twice to grab the offer. At least it can't be worse than poverty. But personally i won't.

u sure? na only $3milloin fall farouk lawan yakata for fall oooo

Bélla3: Illahu Akbar!
He is stirring muslims to hate Christains more. The sheik is indeed from Allah the most merciful and kind of all gods in Kabba.
Illahu akbar

see wey tin dis monkey dey yan? so u even know say na gods una dey serve boko haram family

dedeike: Criticism is cheap especially when the critic is clueless. Doyin's admonition is crystal clear. If you feel that government is not doing anything, you adduce reasons why and proffrer alternative solutions. That way people will take you more serious. That is the foundation upon which credible opposition is built.

You can't just call your self an opposition leader and you repeat the same pedestrian lines that an arm chair critic in a local bar will do.

El Rufai should tell us how better he could tackle the Boko haram challenge. He should be able to say GEJ was wrong in appointing the NSA OR the CHIEF OF DEFENCE STAFF or the new IG of Police.
El Rufai should be able to tell us that, if we had the misfortune of having him as our president in these trying times, he would have sacked all the policemen and recruit new ones so that Boko Haram will stop.
El Rufai should tell us whether he will mount roadblocks on every street in Nigeria so as to prevent suicide bombers from killing themselves and other Nigerians on the process.
EL Rufai should come out and tell us that he wouldn't have charged Senator Ali Nfume to court or he will just shoot him directly.
El Rufai should tell us whether the setting up of JTF is wrong or not.
El Rufai should tell us that he will not be resident in Aso rock while the people are dying hence he will relocate to the streets of Maidugri and govern Nigeria from there.
El rufai should tell us that he will send drones to destroy the people of Maidugri because Boko Haram is in their midst.
Arm chair criticism never brings power. It may be popular in the interim but it has a way of leaving the person hollow at the long run.

i wonder where you come from, El rufai should do this El rufai should do that na wa for you.. Na El rufai be president? when d guy dey power whether you love it or not the man's impact was felt.. will you keep wasting your precious time given advice to a useless administration that has their minds made up? talk is cheap action is difficult

A double standard country, what do u expect? poor man will b remanded for next six months before next court appearance.

when you have your pastors that shed you from reality and preach fable messages to you no problem, but when you c a man of God that stand on the truth-- "religion must not mix with politics".. Jeremiah preach such in is life time but the children of Israel turn a deaf ear, but what is the outcome? they kill most of them, remaining was taking into exile but, the word of God stand still and Jeremiah wrote their lamentations. " HE who have ears let him listening to what the spirit is saying to the churches"

I will get laid first then other things can follow

I strongly disagree with odumorun 1.
your analysis lacks merit. what did u mean by the school is funded by the government? who are the government? government are steward put in a position to manage resources of their people. so, the university, senate and students are not Nigerians ba? they are chico. the tuition fees that they pay are for fun?. the senate are empower to manage, discipline and run the affairs of the University. but, they are are not deem fit to be informed about changing the name of the University? dictatorship mentality they worry u .

"Unilag is funded by the majority of the people of this country, not the students or their lecturers". because na free education unilag they run mumu

odumorun 1: I strongly disagree with Wole Soyinka on this.

The furore regarding the renaming of Unilag is elitist posturing of the worst kind, dressed up in the garb of democratic protestation. This has nothing to do with anger that the council of the university was not consulted. The university and its senate and governing council do not fund the school. The school is funded by the federal government from the federal purse representing millions of hardworking Nigerians most of whose kids will never enjoy the benfit of a university education let alone a prestigious one like Unilag.

The storm in a tea cup is another example of middle class Nigerians, particularly yoruba ones (the most snobbish and self regarding version and yes i am a Yoruba) refusing to be associated with a person largely revered by the poorer classes. The same happened when Uiversity of Ife was renamed in 1987 in honour of Obafemi Awolowo, when a few hundred students largely of middle class origin demonstrated their objection, while the poor people in the town, carpentars, shoe makers, tailors and others who benefited from awo's reforms celebrated.

This is all about a few priviledged and educated yoruba people wanting to retain what they see as an eleitis label placing them apart from the majority of the population whom they secretly despise. If the school had been named after Barack Obama would they be protesting, even if it was done without consultation - Of course they wouldn't - they'll probably be fantasising about getting an easy visa ride in the American embassy.

Wole Soyinka is a radical and progressive Nigerian but his elitism is a well known flaw which is why he has never inspite of his undoubted courage been able to buod a mass following for his ideas.

Unilag is funded by the majority of the people of this country, not the students or their lecturers. Most ordiany Nigerians respect the sacrifices people like abiola made - they, not the spolit middle class kids kicking up a fuss in Unilag are the majority. The noisy minority in Unilag should be ignored. they will son go back to their Ipads

If they don't like the name when they receive their degrees let them rip them up. They don't own the school, the people do -i've not seen any demonstrations in mushin, shomolu, bere or sabongari against it.

If wole is not happy let him write a poem about his fury. He is a great man, but on this occasion he is wrong"

I strongly disagree with odumorun 1 on this.


your analysis lacks merit. what did u mean by the school is funded by the government? who are the government? government are steward put in a position to manage resources of their people. so, the university, senate and students are not Nigerians ba? they are chico. the tuition that they pay are for fun. b4 u rise to a position of a senate of a university u must have contributed your quota in one way or the other to the development of the school. the senate are empower to manage, discipline and run the affairs of the University. but, they are are not deem fit to be informed about changing the name of the University? dictatorship mentality they worry u .

"Unilag is funded by the majority of the people of this country, not the students or their lecturers". because na free education unilag they run mumu