Wow! Wonder they say shall never end. For the first time at least since the inception of the 4th republic 1999 till date, the ruling party is equally performing the the functions of opposition party.
He recently told me his intention to marry her, But before then he found out the lady know me through her comment on my Facebook post, Which he asked me if I know the lady. I told him yes that she's my friend but I didn't go deep to the level our friendship was. He's asked me if she's my girlfriend that he don't want it be dragging a woman with his brother.
I told him no problem that he should go on with her if he likes her(Already tired of her and didn't know it will lead to marriage discussion) The girl confirmed to my cousin she knows me very well and even know where I live in City,told him my area and street. But I don't know if she told him our level of friendship.
But before then the girl reached out to me and told me my cousin (junior) is asking her out, That what's our stand, Which I told her to go on if she like him.
Her reply was I am the one she love most but she doesn't understand my attitude towards her again.
I said Okay.
Now my cousin is talking about marrying her, Even some days ago I was with both of them drinking, watching Masquerade and being entertained (I went to my Town for new yam festival)
The lady lives in the same city with me, From where we meet,She came back,I don't know if is for the festival or for the marriage matter because my cousin base in my Town for now.
We dated for three months before I started ghosting her because of a character I can't live with. She is too possessive.
No lady will pass without her asking why do you look her Nash.(Even when i May not noticed the lady that passed)
Questions of how many girls you collected their numbers today, how many girls toasted you today. Always demand to go through my phones.
Outside that she had no issues with the little I know her.
I don't know if to mind my business because he's the cousin I am more close to.
You are very wicked. Your cousin asked you but you didn't tell him the truth. The worst is that you didn't break up with her meaning that the chances of you nacking her in future is very high.
I like this. Obi and Otti wan pass through the backdoor
Not sure INEC is aware of any Leadership vacuum, so this Stand-In committee will not be recognized by Inec and na that shame go make Pity Griiiiigooory and Otti decamp to wherever
Obi preaches Integrity all the time but couldnt even follow a due process in something as basic as this. Hijacker!!!
By the way, Those Obi defenders on NL, their names no dey this list...So nobody even sabi dem for LP and their voice loud like that
INEC doe not recognize Abure as LP chairman anymore. They (INEC) don't invite him to any stake holders meetings. There was supposed to be ward Congress, local government Congress and state Congress before national convention but there was non before the shenanigan convention that elected Abure at Nnewi as chairman. By law you can't build something on nothing hence non recognition of Abure by INEC when his tenure expired. You can listen to Sen Victor Umeh speech at LP stake holders meeting in Umehia last week. You know, I doubt if any LP member is more knowledgeable than Sen Victor Umeh in party administration as regards to litigation and party crisis. Anambra politics dey tire me self those guys can go to court ehh! Causing trouble here and there.
Rapmoney: This is before the society became so influenced by the ways of oyibo people. I remember how it was back then. Life was simple and people didn't see it as a do or die affair.
Today, to celebrate birthdays, special photographs must be snapped, clothes borrowed or rented and different activities must be involved. Even if there is no money, we must borrow to celebrate the birthday.
See how life was simple.
Very true but Okin Cabin biscuit is missing in the picture.
What does he expect? He failed to realise that he became a cursed person immediately he beats the elderly as such even if Tinubu govt wasn't like this his life wouldn't be different.
The funny thing is that if GEJ had defeated Buhari in 2015 we all would have been saying if Buhari/APC had won. Now we all agree that they have nothing to offer if the man that supposedly built Lagos. They just used propaganda and insecurity to attain power.
Successtube: I never thought I’d find myself contemplating divorce just two years into my marriage. As a bachelor, I’d look at couples splitting up and wonder how they ended up there. Didn’t they date and get to know each other first? Didn’t they see the signs? And yet, here I am, standing on the brink of making the same decision. I dated my wife for a year and three months before we got married, and I thought I knew her. But I was wrong. She lied and pretended to be someone she wasn’t. Now, I’m starting to see who she truly is, and it’s tearing me apart.
Immediately after our wedding, I noticed changes in her that hadn’t been there before. One month in, we were not having sex like any newly married couple would. Every time I tried to be intimate, she’d have some excuse—a headache, feeling tired, or being stressed from work. I tried to be patient, thinking it was just a phase. But it didn’t end. When I finally asked her what was wrong, she bluntly told me she didn’t like sex. I was shocked. How could she not like sex? We had been intimate enough times while dating for me to believe otherwise.
“How can we have children if we don’t have sex?” I asked, trying to keep my frustration in check. Her response was indifferent, almost as if it didn’t matter. From then on, she’d sometimes only have sex with me during her ovulation period, like it was a chore to check off her list. It went on like this for over eight months, and I felt more and more disconnected. I felt unwanted, unloved. Every attempt to bridge the gap between us only seemed to widen it.
But the cracks didn’t just stop there. Through a relative of mine, I managed to get her a job that paid her 300,000 Naira monthly. She seemed happy, and I was glad I could help. Then, fate dealt me a blow—I lost my job. After months of searching, I managed to find another one, but it paid only 120,000 Naira a month. I couldn’t afford to stay home, so I took it, thinking it would just be temporary until I found something better.
My 120,000 Naira salary barely covers our expenses. I take care of the rent, food, bills, and still fuel my car to get to work. The one that hit me hardest was when our rent increased to 700,000 Naira around the same time my car’s engine gave out, needing another 500,000 Naira to repair. I felt the walls closing in on me. I was struggling, juggling all these financial burdens alone. I turned to my wife, thinking she’d step up and help. After all, she was earning more than double what I was. But all she could offer was 50,000 Naira.
I was speechless. She looked at me and said it was a man's duty to cater to his family, and she could only "assist." Her words felt like a slap. Here I was, drowning under the weight of our expenses, and she was holding back. I had to sell one of the lands I’d bought back in my bachelor days to cover the bills. I never thought I’d be in a position where I had to sell my hard-earned property just to survive while my wife, who I had helped get a better-paying job, stood by and watched.
The emptiness gnawed at me until I reached out to someone who had once filled a different kind of void in my life—my ex. We had broken up years ago because of distance when she moved to London for her studies. But we never really ended things on bad terms. There was always a "what if" lingering between us. Now, in my loneliness, that "what if" turned into late-night conversations, laughter, and the kind of warmth I hadn’t felt in a long time. I sneak out every now and then to be with her. I know it’s wrong. I know cheating is not the answer, but I felt like I was drowning, and she was the only one who could save me. With her, I felt alive again, seen, and heard. Things quickly escalated, and before I knew it, I was back in her arms. It felt like a betrayal of my marriage vows, but at the same time, it felt like the only way to reclaim a part of myself that had been lost.
I never imagined I’d be contemplating divorce, but here I am. I want to marry my ex. I want a fresh start, a chance to feel loved again. I don’t know if I can continue in a marriage where I feel more like a burden than a partner. Maybe it’s time to face the harsh truth: some people change, and some people never really were who they claimed to be. Maybe it’s time for me to choose my own happiness, to take a leap and start over.
Don't make the same mistake I made. Study your partner thoroughly before to married, don't rush!
Have you discussed this with family members? From your narration you moved from 2nd stage of divorce to 6th stage. Your wife is not a nice person and I doubt if she ever loved you, though we didn't hear her own side of the story. Don't let her catch you cheating even though I have reasons to suspect she is cheating on you already. The good thing for you is that the union has not given birth yet so I advice you quickly and quietly sort yourself out because bad wife or bad marriage is the most expressway to men early grave.
Zonefree: He gave the girl N5M and gave the Church N105M.
Moral of the story; We don't value education in Nigeria.
The church cares for large people. If the church is to share the money to its needy members I bet they wouldn't get half a million each and it will still not go round. I trust the church will utilise the money religiously to care for those in need just as they cared for Rema and his family in their time of need. As for you, I advice you look out for good side of things than seeing negative in all situations.
TrendingNewz: Wow when I saw this on their TikTok & Facebook page Biafra Duru. I was amazed because it’s currently going viral. One thing I understand about this is the love of the name Biafra by the parents as to reasons the wrote which is sincerely nice.
NPF has become the most useless organisation in Nigeria. IPOB coming to "launch" an attack in Akwa Ibom with ONE AK47 rifle. And to think that IPOB members will abandon their vehicle and runway on sighting the police is laughable. One thing the NP seems not to know is that it takes a lot of effort to tell lies. I advice they do more in their next lie as for this one their yansh is open.
Sannisege: This idiot was with yaradua when he reversed the privation of refineries done by Obasanjo. That all suddenly know the right things to do once they are out of government.
Na you and your family be idiot. How dare you insult Segun? You dey craze. Unwanka!
AcuraZDX: It also showed that the Yoruba ethnic group accounted for 53 per cent of tests, followed by Igbo (31.3 per cent), with Hausa at only 1.20 per cent.
The statistics showed that most of the children tested were aged 0-five (54.0 per cent), suggesting a preference for early paternity confirmation.
I wonder what's the essence of an igbo man conducting DNA on his children except he is not properly married to the woman because in igbo tradition any child born by a man's wife is the husband's weather she cheated to borne the child is immaterial.
I doubt that one person owns up to 1000 or 3000 lines I suspect that the registration officials of these telecoms use one person's NIN to register numerous other customers lines who don't have their own NIN. I believe if they investigate they will uncover this practice.
ultraviolet27: Probably because you People started the hate it is a full Circle which must run it's course even your inability to always be accountable for your actions and misdemeanor, blaming others for your actions and always crying victimization whereas you are the ones doing the Victimization baffles me some of your tribes Men are already blaming Apc party members that they are the ones that Used Her in faraway Canada as She be dummy nah
I think you missed the point which is whenever someone does anything wrong that person or persons should be dealt with according to the law irrespective of where the person is from.
She ought to have known better if truly she igbo woman. I condemn her actions and such should not be condoned. But this double standard by Nigeria government is actually causes of this kind of behaviour. people from other ethnic groups have done worse towards Igbos and nothing happened to them in fact they were subtly encouraged. Not long ago we saw a video of a northern preacher in the presence of Nuhu Ribadu the NSA preaching hatred about the Igbos and Nuhu Ribadu was laughing at the corner.
Osaro4u2k: After several attempt here comes the old rabbit. God has provided meat for his children today. Don't even dare ask me of the fur because it's not available
What a pity! Despite the recent outbreak of Mpox which has been traced to bushmeat people still eat bushmeat. Is it ignorant or what?
officialwdhtv: “Please I’m begging you Nigerians please stop, you guys have destroyed so many businesses in South Africa” - South African man on his knees beg Nigerians.
londonbanks: Nigerian girls are crazy in bed. As a foreigner i cant wait to visit nigeria again
Just make sure you don't bring any yamama ailment into our lovely country and also ensure you come with more than enough pepper without which you might be dribbled.
EreluRoz: This one is fighting his mother's battle, some of us know the inside story. Big for nothing man. The senior wife in a polygamous setting always enjoy the wealth with her children after the death of their husband, so if you are married into a polygamous family as a junior wife please make sure you gained enough from him while he's alive because after his death the battle is over for you.
Will you say with clear conscience that AIT doesn't need change? Is AIT of today same as the one every Nigeria yearned to watch back then in early 2000? AIT is fast becoming like NTA. I think they need to change to keep up with the competition as it is they are lagging behind.
This would have been the most exciting piece I read in recent time until he said she can inherit the properties if her husband dies and this got me thinking what if she add a little.......... in his food or drink. This is why it's not good to disclose one death benefit for those that work in blue chip companies with life insurance policy. Again it is good that a man puts his house in order and secure his wife and children future in case of any eventuality to avoid "UMUNNA" reaping where they did not sow too.
Skty: Popular for making Hope Nzodima the Supreme Court Governor.
Congratulations ma
Wow! Was she the lead judge? One of the most controversial judgments in Nigeria even INEC couldn't update their website to reflect the judgement because it defies logic so Emeka Ihedioha remained in INEC website as the winner of the election for that four years.
It actually happend about 10 years ago but the memories will live with me forever . Although I have not talked about it on social media but I feel like telling the story so that people will learn. It's a long story but I'll make it brief.
I was cohabiting with my girl back in the Uni, we have been like that for a few years , but then one day I came back to my lodge late in the night because I watched a football game on my way back from school. I opened my door and met my girl on the floor. She was motionless and her eyes were wide open, I checked her pulse but I couldn't feel anything. Her teeth and her palms were clenched tight. I panicked and just froze at the spot not knowing what to do. I then called a few people in the lodge and alerted them about what was happening but before I knew it , the whole lodge people have gathered in my room and outside the door.
Nobody could tell what must have happend to her. We thought about rushing her to hospital but the school clinic is closed and there are no good hospitals in the area because the school is in a remote location, and it was almost midnight at the time. Some people did different type of first aid on her , trying to see if they can revive her but after few hours there still wasn't any sign of life. People started suspecting that she might be dead and started taking somethings from their rooms and leaving the lodge immediately. Out of the 30 occupants of the lodge only one person (student pastor) remained with me. The rest ran away from the lodge ,even my best friend .🙁
The student pastor prayed and prayed to see if she will come back to life but nothing happend , at about 4am the Pastor told me that he has done everything he can and that it's in the hands of God now. He then went to his room. It was just the two of us left in the building.
I sat down in my room, I didn't know what to do, I couldn't cry , I thought about how I was going to be arrested and charged for murder when in truth I'm innocent, which nobody will believe because of nigeria justice system. I thought about my parents , how they sacrificed to send me to school not knowing I was cohabiting with a girl . At some point I thought about running away, but that will mean I'm guilty and perhaps how far and how long would I be on the run before I would be caught.
I didn't know who to call , I was just bereft of ideas. I decided I'll submit myself to the police in the morning and explain what happend and possibly face the consequences. As I sat there waiting for day to break, I started scrolling through my phone contacts. Mind you, I believe in God but I'm not a very religious person. I came across one pastor that gave me his phone number a long time ago. I then decided to just try my luck and call him. I called him and he picked up the call immediately as if he was waiting for the call. I wanted to tell him what's happening, but he cut me short and told me he already knows. That he was disturbed in the spirit and God revealed it to him so he started praying but he didn't know it was for my situation he was praying for at that time.
He told me I should not be afraid , that everything will be fine. He asked me if I have any sachet water around , I looked around and got a sachet water . He then asked me to put the phone ontop of the water so her can pray in it. I did as he asked. After praying , he then asked me to try and force open her mouth anyway I can pour some water inside ,then sprinkled the rest all over her body.
I did everything he instructed. He then told me that everything will be alright and ended the call. By then it was almost 6am in the morning. I just sat there starring at her , then I saw her hand move a little bit, I cleaned my eyes and got closer to her so as to be sure my eyes were not deceiving me. Her hand moved again , then her legs . Before I knew it she opened her eyes and sat up. I couldn't believe my eyes, I was in shock and was wondering if I'm imagining the whole thing.
Then she spoke and asked me what's happening, and why is her body wet with water . I rushed out and called the student pastor who came running in to witness the first miracle of my life. He was singing praises to God. I knelt down and prayed to God and thanked him for the first time in a very long time . I made her a cup of tea after which she has a shower.
At about 7am in the morning, none of my lodgemates have returned . I looked outside the gate from my room and saw some of them with other people gathered in small groups whispering, waiting to get the full gist of how my girl died in my room .
I called my bike guy to come to the lodge because I want to take her to the hospital for checkup, I then came down to the gate with my girlfriend. As they saw her , they opened their mouth with shock and we're too surprised to talk.
To cut the whole story short . I learnt some valuable lessons . Cohabiting with anybody you are not married is very risky, you wouldn't know the risk until something happens to him or her. The second lesson I learnt was that, when you get in trouble that's when you will know that you are alone, people will run away from you.
Anyways , we continued dating, but I rented an apartment for her so stay separately. I also stopped her from sleeping in my place. Untill we eventually parted ways after I graduated.
Namaster: It's NOT abuse to reprimand an IDIOT who will NOT let people sleep in peace.
At 4 AM, people are in DEEP sleep. A LOUD noise like a morning crier would feel like something reached inside your head to FORCEFULLY tug your consciousness awake. It's jarring.
There are better ways to reach out to oeople for evangelism. Disturbing their sleep is NOT one of it.
The most annoying part is that these people will never preach in their neighbourhood and they will never preach when their faces will be seen. That's why they come very early and leave before daylight. And in their neighbourhood they are never in good terms with their neighbours.
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