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ebide:
Of what significant if one may ask

Don't mind them small time they go begin fight.

Shinjawestern:
Death to all terrorists

Death to all haters of Israel

God bless Israel for doing the lord's work

God bless the good people of Southsouth and Southwest

South-south and south-west of where? Israel?
Terrorism is relational . A person or organisation considered a terrorist by one country may be praised as a hero or defender by another country. Don't forget Nelson Mandela as once labelled a terrorist but later won the Nobel peace prize.

Hezzyluv:
Good for both of them.

Because, the pains awaiting them if they eventually give birth to sickle cell child maybe traumatizing. It surpasses the brief one they will pass through now.

You are right but I wonder why they didn't don't the text before marriage?

Biznesworld:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kLuGaGC1eow

Billionaire Bill Gates' recent hot dog purchase from a street vendor has made headlines, not just for his humility, but also for highlighting societal differences.

In the West, individuals from all walks of life can move freely and engage with others without fear.

In stark contrast, Nigeria grapples with insecurity and social divisions. Prominent figures, including politicians, require heavy security, restricting their interaction with ordinary citizens.

Nigeria's insecurity, fueled by kidnapping, banditry, and terrorism, has created a culture of fear. Politicians, often seen as disconnected from the people, prioritize personal safety over public engagement.

Emulating Gates' humility seems unlikely for many Nigerian politicians, who: Prioritize personal interests over public needs.

Once there's security of lives and property in Nigeria. Everything will go smoothly.
Only then can Nigeria move closer to a society where everyone, regardless of status, can walk freely and enjoy simple pleasures like a hot dog from a street vendor here in Nigeria.

Forget Dangote moves freely in lagos in lagos. It is only those that want validation move around with police not because of insecurity.

dre11:
https://www.thecable.ng/breaking-tinubu-will-soon-reshuffle-his-cabinet-says-presidency/amp/

These people think they are still campaigning for office they have assumed for almost 2 years if not why they keep saying I will, we will soon.
The public shouldn't know about impending cabinet reshuffle not even the ministers but because they think it's an achievement to reshuffle cabinet.

nairavsdollars:
What do you expect from an Akpabio led rubber stamp senate?

Forget rubber stamp she is qualified for the job and the most senior judge.

ijustdey:
https://leadership.ng/fg-to-launch-new-school-curriculum-next-month/

If it's because of young people behaviours you should try fixing the family.

fernandez1:
U people think we are still in 1948..... same war he his fighting in Gaza with more superior power and still couldn't win for 11 months..... hazbollah isn't hamas..... Israel will learn the hard way that the propaganda he has been using in Gaza isn't going to work with Lebanese!


And don't forget he was defeated by this same hazbollah in 2006.



Mumu people quoting me below.... brainwashed educated cowards.

Mumu people quoting me below.... I'm not Muslim neither Christians.... but the Jews know even like una wey be Christians, as a Christians in Israel you can't work without been harassed.

Follow bbc,cnn and other media houses at your peril.... same way you're been lied to about covid19

You too dey watch Aljazira.

Cousin9999:
So if you have on clothing that looks "like a criminal," I should proceed to beat your ass or arrest you?

Don't be silly.

Don't you know that most Nigeria youths the police harass on the road is by profiling due to their dressing and hair style?
Your comment is senseless I bet you're too.

chemex002:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7xSwoJTDSw0

Go school they go say school na scam.

Gistmedia10:
An incident at a local phone charging station has sparked widespread outrage after a woman discovered that her power bank had been labeled with the derogatory term "Ashawo" (meaning prostitute) by the charging agent.

The woman, who had entrusted the young charging agent with her power bank, returned to collect it, expecting it to be fully charged. However, upon inspection, she noticed the offensive word scrawled on her device. Furious, she confronted the boy in front of a growing crowd, asking, “Have I ever slept with you before? If you didn’t know my name, why didn’t you ask me?”

Eyewitnesses captured the heated exchange on video, where the woman can be seen demanding an explanation for the disrespectful label. Background voices of bystanders can be heard condemning the agent's action, with many expressing disbelief at the blatant attempt to tarnish the woman's reputation.

"I don't understand how he could do something like that. This is uncalled for and humiliating," said one of the onlookers, clearly disturbed by the incident.

The charging agent, a young man, seemed speechless and struggled to provide any reasonable justification for his actions, standing silently as the enraged woman and other witnesses voiced their disgust.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WsyZDFN9sKA

The take away for me is dress the way you want to be addressed. Don't be deceived, how you dress is how people perceive you.

kidap:
Source: https://sureodds.ng/i-am-a-chosen-who-are-you-victor-olatunji-says-after-scoring-for-sparta-prague-in-champions-league/

The difference between this chosen and the home based chosen is that he didn't stand idly and declared he is a chosen for the ball to pass his opponent goal line or cast and bind his opponents for him to score the goal. He worked for it in fact he must have worked exceptionally well for him to make the team squad l.

nansng:
A social media user, Duchess Osayimwense, has taken to a popular social media platform to express her desire to find a husband. In a recent post online, Osayimwense pleaded for assistance in finding a suitable partner, stating, "I need a husband please help my life🙏🏽."

The post has since garnered attention online, sparking discussions among netizens. While some users offered words of encouragement and support, some others have been trolling her but she’s seems not to care.

All these ladies saying they need a husband my question to them is whether they truly need a husband or a man to shoulder their responsibilities?

alphonsojaybaz:
https://eyesoflagos.com/2024/09/14/nigerian-couple-goes-viral-for-serving-garri-kuli-at-wedding/

It's actually Kuli-kuli and not kuli.

ExAngel007:
Once a man introduce you to his mum, just rest your mind. He will surely marry you - Nigerian woman says


A Nigerian lady, Kifayat Ohunene has said that once a man introduces a woman to his mother, he will surely marry her.

Is this true though?

If only you don't change those characters he saw before taking you to his Mum.

Dapromzy333:
https://news360ng.com/just-in-i-will-never-support-fubara-again-in-my-political-career-wike/

It's your choice to support whosoever you wish to support but can you just allow him govern in peace?

ogododo:
https://dailytrust.com/were-concerned-about-state-of-affairs-under-tinubu-apc-states-chairmen/

Wow! Wonder they say shall never end. For the first time at least since the inception of the 4th republic 1999 till date, the ruling party is equally performing the the functions of opposition party.

Meerahbel:
From DM

Conflict of interest. Don't take the job if possible if not don't fail to discuss with your boss before accepting the offer.

Nonny95:
https://gazettengr.com/vice-president-shettima-promises-maiduguri-flood-victims-50-trucks-of-rice/

This government and rice giveaway are 5N6

chiagozien:
I don't know if to keep it to myself.

He recently told me his intention to marry her, But before then he found out the lady know me through her comment on my Facebook post, Which he asked me if I know the lady.
I told him yes that she's my friend but I didn't go deep to the level our friendship was.
He's asked me if she's my girlfriend that he don't want it be dragging a woman with his brother.

I told him no problem that he should go on with her if he likes her(Already tired of her and didn't know it will lead to marriage discussion) The girl confirmed to my cousin she knows me very well and even know where I live in City,told him my area and street.
But I don't know if she told him our level of friendship.

But before then the girl reached out to me and told me my cousin (junior) is asking her out, That what's our stand, Which I told her to go on if she like him.

Her reply was I am the one she love most but she doesn't understand my attitude towards her again.

I said Okay.

Now my cousin is talking about marrying her, Even some days ago I was with both of them drinking, watching Masquerade and being entertained (I went to my Town for new yam festival)

The lady lives in the same city with me, From where we meet,She came back,I don't know if is for the festival or for the marriage matter because my cousin base in my Town for now.

We dated for three months before I started ghosting her because of a character I can't live with.
She is too possessive.

No lady will pass without her asking why do you look her Nash.(Even when i May not noticed the lady that passed)

Questions of how many girls you collected their numbers today, how many girls toasted you today.
Always demand to go through my phones.

Outside that she had no issues with the little I know her.

I don't know if to mind my business because he's the cousin I am more close to.

You are very wicked. Your cousin asked you but you didn't tell him the truth. The worst is that you didn't break up with her meaning that the chances of you nacking her in future is very high.

EvilMerodack:


I like this. Obi and Otti wan pass through the backdoor

Not sure INEC is aware of any Leadership vacuum, so this Stand-In committee will not be recognized by Inec and na that shame go make Pity Griiiiigooory and Otti decamp to wherever

Obi preaches Integrity all the time but couldnt even follow a due process in something as basic as this. Hijacker!!!


By the way, Those Obi defenders on NL, their names no dey this list...So nobody even sabi dem for LP and their voice loud like that

INEC doe not recognize Abure as LP chairman anymore. They (INEC) don't invite him to any stake holders meetings. There was supposed to be ward Congress, local government Congress and state Congress before national convention but there was non before the shenanigan convention that elected Abure at Nnewi as chairman. By law you can't build something on nothing hence non recognition of Abure by INEC when his tenure expired.
You can listen to Sen Victor Umeh speech at LP stake holders meeting in Umehia last week. You know, I doubt if any LP member is more knowledgeable than Sen Victor Umeh in party administration as regards to litigation and party crisis. Anambra politics dey tire me self those guys can go to court ehh! Causing trouble here and there.

Rapmoney:
This is before the society became so influenced by the ways of oyibo people. I remember how it was back then. Life was simple and people didn't see it as a do or die affair.

Today, to celebrate birthdays, special photographs must be snapped, clothes borrowed or rented and different activities must be involved. Even if there is no money, we must borrow to celebrate the birthday.

See how life was simple.

Very true but Okin Cabin biscuit is missing in the picture.

adenigga:
Source: https://dailypost.ng/High-electricity-tariff-will-kill-businesses-APC-chieftain-Joe-Igbokwe-cries-to-Tinubu

Hahaha! E go soon touch everybody. No worry you must stand on that mandate ooh. No come dey cry like ta-ta here.

Nonny95:
"Go Back To Your Country & Contest"—Irish People Attack Nigerian Vying For Post

But if she is to participate in one sporting event that will bring their country glory I'm sure they wouldn't disown her like this.

NLCreator666:
https://saharareporters.com/2024/09/05/lagos-resident-laments-economic-hardship-hunger-under-tinubu-confesses-beating-elderly

What does he expect? He failed to realise that he became a cursed person immediately he beats the elderly as such even if Tinubu govt wasn't like this his life wouldn't be different.

1nice:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Y8W2PTQi7Qg
"NNPC GMD MUST GO” - Protests Rock Abuja Over Fuel Scarcity; Protesters Demand sack of Mele Kyari

This is how you know real protest. Spontaneous. Not scheduled ones.

Lizzysamuel:
Yusuf Dauran

The funny thing is that if GEJ had defeated Buhari in 2015 we all would have been saying if Buhari/APC had won. Now we all agree that they have nothing to offer if the man that supposedly built Lagos. They just used propaganda and insecurity to attain power.

Successtube:
I never thought I’d find myself contemplating divorce just two years into my marriage. As a bachelor, I’d look at couples splitting up and wonder how they ended up there. Didn’t they date and get to know each other first? Didn’t they see the signs? And yet, here I am, standing on the brink of making the same decision. I dated my wife for a year and three months before we got married, and I thought I knew her. But I was wrong. She lied and pretended to be someone she wasn’t. Now, I’m starting to see who she truly is, and it’s tearing me apart.

Immediately after our wedding, I noticed changes in her that hadn’t been there before. One month in, we were not having sex like any newly married couple would. Every time I tried to be intimate, she’d have some excuse—a headache, feeling tired, or being stressed from work. I tried to be patient, thinking it was just a phase. But it didn’t end. When I finally asked her what was wrong, she bluntly told me she didn’t like sex. I was shocked. How could she not like sex? We had been intimate enough times while dating for me to believe otherwise.

“How can we have children if we don’t have sex?” I asked, trying to keep my frustration in check. Her response was indifferent, almost as if it didn’t matter. From then on, she’d sometimes only have sex with me during her ovulation period, like it was a chore to check off her list. It went on like this for over eight months, and I felt more and more disconnected. I felt unwanted, unloved. Every attempt to bridge the gap between us only seemed to widen it.

But the cracks didn’t just stop there. Through a relative of mine, I managed to get her a job that paid her 300,000 Naira monthly. She seemed happy, and I was glad I could help. Then, fate dealt me a blow—I lost my job. After months of searching, I managed to find another one, but it paid only 120,000 Naira a month. I couldn’t afford to stay home, so I took it, thinking it would just be temporary until I found something better.

My 120,000 Naira salary barely covers our expenses. I take care of the rent, food, bills, and still fuel my car to get to work. The one that hit me hardest was when our rent increased to 700,000 Naira around the same time my car’s engine gave out, needing another 500,000 Naira to repair. I felt the walls closing in on me. I was struggling, juggling all these financial burdens alone. I turned to my wife, thinking she’d step up and help. After all, she was earning more than double what I was. But all she could offer was 50,000 Naira.

I was speechless. She looked at me and said it was a man's duty to cater to his family, and she could only "assist." Her words felt like a slap. Here I was, drowning under the weight of our expenses, and she was holding back. I had to sell one of the lands I’d bought back in my bachelor days to cover the bills. I never thought I’d be in a position where I had to sell my hard-earned property just to survive while my wife, who I had helped get a better-paying job, stood by and watched.

The emptiness gnawed at me until I reached out to someone who had once filled a different kind of void in my life—my ex. We had broken up years ago because of distance when she moved to London for her studies. But we never really ended things on bad terms. There was always a "what if" lingering between us. Now, in my loneliness, that "what if" turned into late-night conversations, laughter, and the kind of warmth I hadn’t felt in a long time. I sneak out every now and then to be with her. I know it’s wrong. I know cheating is not the answer, but I felt like I was drowning, and she was the only one who could save me. With her, I felt alive again, seen, and heard. Things quickly escalated, and before I knew it, I was back in her arms. It felt like a betrayal of my marriage vows, but at the same time, it felt like the only way to reclaim a part of myself that had been lost.

I never imagined I’d be contemplating divorce, but here I am. I want to marry my ex. I want a fresh start, a chance to feel loved again. I don’t know if I can continue in a marriage where I feel more like a burden than a partner. Maybe it’s time to face the harsh truth: some people change, and some people never really were who they claimed to be. Maybe it’s time for me to choose my own happiness, to take a leap and start over.

Don't make the same mistake I made. Study your partner thoroughly before to married, don't rush!

Have you discussed this with family members? From your narration you moved from 2nd stage of divorce to 6th stage.
Your wife is not a nice person and I doubt if she ever loved you, though we didn't hear her own side of the story.
Don't let her catch you cheating even though I have reasons to suspect she is cheating on you already.
The good thing for you is that the union has not given birth yet so I advice you quickly and quietly sort yourself out because bad wife or bad marriage is the most expressway to men early grave.

Zonefree:
He gave the girl N5M and gave the Church N105M.

Moral of the story;
We don't value education in Nigeria.

The church cares for large people. If the church is to share the money to its needy members I bet they wouldn't get half a million each and it will still not go round.
I trust the church will utilise the money religiously to care for those in need just as they cared for Rema and his family in their time of need.
As for you, I advice you look out for good side of things than seeing negative in all situations.

TrendingNewz:
Wow when I saw this on their TikTok & Facebook page Biafra Duru. I was amazed because it’s currently going viral.
One thing I understand about this is the love of the name Biafra by the parents as to reasons the wrote which is sincerely nice.

The parents no try.

Noerection:
https://www.vanguardngr.com/2024/09/we-recovered-arms-ammunition-from-ipob-agents-in-a-ibom-police/

NPF has become the most useless organisation in Nigeria.
IPOB coming to "launch" an attack in Akwa Ibom with ONE AK47 rifle. And to think that IPOB members will abandon their vehicle and runway on sighting the police is laughable.
One thing the NP seems not to know is that it takes a lot of effort to tell lies. I advice they do more in their next lie as for this one their yansh is open.