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cococandy:
But you have nothing to say about a man who’s intentionally excluding his wife from jointly owned family property. All you people love is to cheat and oppress your women. Anyone who gives them advice on how to avoid being mistreated like this becomes the enemy

Once a man gets married everything he has whether gotten before the marriage or while married belongs to his wife too. But I can understand the lady's fear the level of entitlement of Nigerians these days especially family members is out of this world.

Seunpapa65:
In our culture it's believed that woman wey the play away match and use the same hands to Cook for the man can lead to death of the man

This is a common practice in most eastern Nigeria villages I often wondered why gog are shit and goat teeth rotten?

The funny thing is that Dave Umahi himself requested that the mic be handed to the white woman (if you watched the program live) only for this mild drama to happen. In truth I think her question wasn't necessary at that particular time

He is a cast member of Merlin series

Useless "kontry" a business dispute that ought to be treated with utmost priority and expedited upon dragged for this long now that Psquare brand is dead who will pay? Don't forget the damage the complainant would have suffered. the audience who pay for that show hoping to watch psquare perform live would believe they were conned and might not be willing to attend any of his shows again.

I pity guys who don't know WHEN to end the game such guys end up marrying the bad girls.

edogu:
A Nigerian woman, Tanko Lami, has expressed shock after receiving a slip containing breakdown of fees for pre-kindergarten pupils.

“Development Levy 300k as in how? You will give my child teeth and brain cells because I don't understand. 55k books for a pre-Kindergarten. This pikin no even reach the kindergarten finish sef, and books of 55k at that stage,” she wrote in a Facebook post on Friday, April 19.

Me the mama, how many books I don read all my life? And that uniform. When my child is not a model… the same uniform that he will pour food on top? Abi ? Nna eeh”

Why complain? If you can afford it go ahead and pay if not there are other good schools with less fees.

These are the fun of having kids around in fact the more the merrier. You might not know it at the time but let them leave home for two days and you'll start missing them the house will become boring.

nlfpmod:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Z0vuHob-G2o?si=xYi1W6kG1Zi6fBbB



Voice of the Farmers

Getting honest, loyal, committed and passionate employees in 9ja one of the greatest challenges facing biz owners.

ObiPandora:
https://punchng.com/video-heroes-return-villagers-welcome-nigerian-soldiers-back-from-successful-operation/

BKO food is served. soon to be topic of discussion on JH.

Trevor125:
Please is abortion a very terrible sin??
Someone daughter is pregnant, but I'm not sure if the pregnancy is mine....🤔🤔🤔🤔😕i have been having sleepless nights.. 😭😭💔

I don't want to be a father yet😭😭😭😭, the country is very tough nd frustrating..can 2 months pregnancy be terminated??

She's older than me, I don't wanna start this journey; I'm too young for this..
I wanted to chop nd clean mouth but it has hooked me.. Bleep up.😭😭😭😭

How on earth do you think you can chop older Nigeria girl and clean mouth?

Light78:
Rat snake.

They like killing chicks at night.

Omo no bi rat snake(non venomous) bi dis ooh. Dis na cobra (venomous).

socialmediaman:
Source: https://www.instagram.com/reel/C3kYCi-o4E7/?igsh=aG1idTdhY2pxcmd6

Thank God for you. Hope you didn't bring or planning to bring any 9ja woman with you whether wife or girlfriend except she is your sister, daughter or mother

press9jatv:
https://www.cknnigeria.com/2024/03/i-didnt-graduate-as-virgin-madonna.html

I think the question should be whether she was admitted into the university as a virgin?

superCleanworks:
smart answer. one shot of Jameson for you.

Hahahaha! Thanks my chairman.

superCleanworks:
So everyone must be born in the same era?

small thing una don shout INDOMIE, so wetin make pikin wey dem born today do?

Him go learn in silence no b must say him go comment.

IamAtAnger:
Ur reasoning dey limited .... I no sabi am no mean say I no dey hear the name way back wey video cassette and disc dey in vogue... u wey dey cap u fit swear sey u no am be4 even in pictures.. me wey don dey watch home video since "living in bondage" "Nneka" the pretty serpent" era na him u dey call indomie

Sorry I didn't know you are an elder. No vex

IamAtAnger:
I no sabi am o.. RIP

Another indomie generation spotted

Negroid001:
Can't recollect him

Confirmed indomie generation.

blamingthedevil:
Journalist KC

Hahaha! Hahaha!! And which other nominees from SE will they get who truly didn't support PO in the 2023 general election either openly or discretely or at least sympathetic to his course. If the only reason for withdrawing this lady nomination was her support for PO then they should go to SW for another nominee as usual.

DorianD:
There's this pretty lady I have been crushing on. We are both students of a Nursing college, although she's my junior (first year). Shes got the Mercedes Bends, a likeable personality, and seemed like someone I would really want something serious with for the long haul.

Just about the day I planned on getting her number to let her know my intentions, to my greatest shock she asked for mine, and questioned why I wasn't in school the previous day. This thicked all the boxes for me and felt like "the green light" was on, for a lady who wasn't in my cohort to notice my absence from school. Note that we have been acquaintances before this time, because I do engage her class in after school tutorial sessions.

To my greatest shock, she told me she's in a serious relationship, which got me confused. I have a feeling she's trying to play the "I am not unemployed card". I could press on, but dont want to be seen as a creep or stalker, so then I told her if we could just be friends as I already exposed my vulnerabilities, which she agreed.

Well it's not in my thing to be friend zoned so i discontinued my chats with her, but each time she notices my silence was becoming long, she would initiate a conversation on WhatsApp. I really can't wrap my head around this.

Do I just cut her off as fish plenty for water, or keep up with her games?

Are you sure you genuinely love this girl? And if you truly know what you want? From what you said I think she loves you and she wants to see how serious you are. Remember being in a relationship is not the same as being married.

fergie001:
A former Special Adviser on Digital Media to ex-President Muhammadu Buhari has urged aides of President Bola Tinubu to amplify the numerous achievemnts of previous Governments rather than elaborate on their failures.



Bashir Ahmad

The same way you amplified Jonathan's faults you thought you would never leave office abi? Don't worry the next govt will amplify Tinubu's current faults but for allow them up the can of worms in Buhari's govt

alsudan:
Congrats Rt. Hon Chief Barrister CRA.

When you ran a marathon to show how fit you were for the job, they said the job doesn't require fitness but brain.

See where Mr. Brain aka builder of Lagos has taken the country to in just 9 months, that citizens now risk their lives to loot food from moving trucks.

APC party delegates denied Nigerians that opportunity

ify2016:
Introducing ourselves is something we do in our everyday life in Gatherings, Meetings, or in Classroom. We usually introduce ourselves by saying: “My name is Tochukwu”, “I am Tochukwu”, “Hello everyone, I’m Tochukwu”, “Hey guys, I am Tochukwu” or “My name’s Tochukwu”.

The duality of English language has however resulted into controversy in the appropriate manner we should introduce ourselves. While some are of the opinion that the appropriate and grammatically correct manner of introducing yourself is saying “My name is Tochukwu Anayo”, some others suggest that the appropriate way of introducing yourself is saying “My names are Tochukwu Anayo-Enechukwu” in order to show plurality of your name.

These conflicting opinion is the reason for writing this article which examines whether ‘My name is’ or ‘My names are’ is the correct form of introducing yourself.

cause to reveal his dual identity, the rare plurality will apply and the writer may introduce himself by saying: My names are Anayo Tochukwu and Charles Lee (pseudonym name).

The similarity with the two aforementioned exceptions is its resemblance of plurality and the use of the conjunction ‘and’ which we cannot normally use while introducing ourselves. Thus, these exceptions come in handy in very special circumstance and can never fall under the conventional form of introducing your name. Hence, saying “My names are” is wrong, while saying “My name is” is the correct way of introducing your name.

Edeh Samuel Chukwuemeka, ACMC, is a lawyer and a certified mediator/conciliator in Nigeria. He is also a developer with knowledge in various programming languages. Samuel is determined to leverage his skills in technology, SEO, and legal practice to revolutionize the legal profession worldwide by creating web and mobile applications that simplify legal research. Sam is also passionate about educating and providing valuable information to people.


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It is a compound noun even if you have a million name it doesn't matter the correct way is my name is. There was this deputy director in Bayelsa state civil service that came to represent the commissioner during my NYSC orientation camp back in the day. He introduced himself by saying my names are, and that was the end of his speech he was booed heavily the NYSC officials couldn't stop the corps members that was how he left in shame.

Great100000:
(1) Okra soup (aka ila alasepo)

Okra soup is simply a stewed okra soup recipe. It is a very popular delicacy among the Yoruba ethnic group of western Nigeria. It is also known as Ila Alasepo by the Yorubas. This Nigerian Okra soup recipe can be replicated with or without Palm oil. It is also by far the cheapest soup one could prepare in the country.

N200 – Okro
N150 – Grounded Pepper
N200 – Palm Oil
N300 – Ponmo
You will even be left with a change of N200

Where will you get ponmo 300?
No magi, no salt, no ogiri etc in your list. My dear 1000k soup is no longer possible in 9ja stop misleading or giving people false hope.

Darlingme:
There's a lady cleaner in my office, who recently lost his eldest brother. They live in the same city, where she has no meaningful job, no accomodations, but his big brother is a multi millionaire. Who can fix her up in a jiffy, but according to the story, he wouldn't because they're step siblings and past record from her mom towards his mom, wouldn't let him help any of his step siblings.
My questions are:
Why is there too much hatred among step siblings?
Isn't your father the root cause of your hurt?
Why do you easily forgive your father, but can't do the same to his children?
Why do we inherit enemies from our parents and don't want to let go?
Why do men still choose to have children from different women knowing that their children might not love each other and might even give him much trauma in old age due to bitterness and hatred for each other?
Is it same in other part of the world?
What is your general opinion on a polygamous family?

You are right in all the points you raised. Only those of us who are from southern polygamous families will understand. Just as you said it's not wise for a man from southern Nigeria to have children from multiple women. I keep emphasising southern Nigeria because in the north even though these problems are there it is not pronounced because their culture is preserved and their religion accepts it.

salvationproject:
I am a fresh graduate, left NYSC few months back and recently landed a graduate trainee job at one of our commercial banks here in Nigeria. But I have been afraid recently. This is because I will be under sales/marketing. And I have been hearing of all these 50m, 90m, etc. deposit targets.
Training school will be commencing soon and a part of me is telling me not to report.
Please, who have experience how these things work? Advise me please.

Do you have another job somewhere? You need the experience to boost your CV you can be searching for better prospects while you are in the field doing the marketing job. The saying that one doesn't value what he has until he loses it, is very real.

Jewessgratitud3:
The last time I bought it, it was 250 so I stopped because it wasn't making any good financial sense to me. I then decided to make mine at home but ended up wasting it cos after having one large size, I was fed up. I kept the remaining five but couldn't resist the temptation of the eggs. That was how I removed and ate all the eggs leaving the dough which I later threw away because I was tired. It was very delicious and milky o but I don't know why anything I prepare myself dey quick tire me.

See how much it cost me to make five Large egg rolls.

Half derica Flour -. 400
Sachet powder milk 100
One milk cup of sugar. 300. ( Didn't use all)
Powder Nut meg. 100
Veg oil. Half bottle 600
5 small sized eggs. 650
I had baking powder at home.

Making it a total of 2150 naira that I spent but could only eat one dough because I made them very large; not intentional though because the balls were small when I rolled them only for it to get to the fire and start rising beyond control .

The thing pained me because it was too sweet but my mouth no gree accept am again. For now if I see egg rolls on the road I get full immediately. So that craving is gone for good .

See how selfishness make some people lose business opportunities. You could have given the remaining ones to your neighbours for free and if they like it you can sell subsequent ones to them.

Mikuni:
When I look at the married men around me, I no longer see the need of having a wife.

I discovered something shocking, a few months ago:

Most men die before their wives, and most likely before their children finish university education. Look at your dad's friends, how many of them are still alive to enjoy the fruits of their parental labour?

Before marriage, you go through a lot of stress in choosing the right woman (God help you, if she's not greedy and demanding) you spend a fortune on marriage, only to be 'eating' one type of food till you die. If you're not careful, you go beg for sex tire. You think I'm lying? Ask my neighbor who begs to put the tip of his toothpick inside his wife for just a minute.

Now, you're married, you must provide for the rent, bills, school fees, in-law expenses etc
You must not forget to keep extra savings for health issues for cases like complications in child delivery, antenatal care, naming ceremony, baby materials, clothings etc

If you're unlucky to find yourself in financial difficulty after marriage, pray your wife is the understanding type, else you'd deal with a nagging woman, the type King Solomon told us to avoid staying in the same house with, and rather hide on your rooftop.

If your woman is easily driven to anger, and not rational in thinking, you're in serious trouble. You may end up being stabbed or poisoned. A lot of men have died this way.

So dear men, why waste your time and money? Be smart!

I leave you with this Bible passage: "Wealth and riches are inherited from parents, but a good wife comes only from the Lord."

As a warrior: Do you runaway from war because people get killed in war? parents knew That there is infant mortality yet they gave birth. My dear there are so many happy marriages in fact some spouse have died shortly after losing their partner because they couldn't live without each other.

For a lady it's a bit ok but for a guy it's not good hope you don't find yourself in an emergency situation one day. Your neighbours are your first respondents before your relatives.

Discountsempai:
I doubt they may call him up.

Wrexham is a League 2 club. Yes, the owners have high ambitons, but since we have two or three goalies who play first league football in the countries where they are based, looking at someone from League 2 is a big ask.

Did you note his age? Or you only think of super eagles?

In my father's voice,even if I don't have money at least let there be enough food at home.[/b]

That is what I learnt from my dad.[/quote]That's nice, thumbs up for for daddy