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C: Tinubu

farous:
I am really disturbed about the level insecurity has reached in this country. There have been clamour that urgent steps be taken as Terrorists attack, banditry,Bono Haram, fulani herdsmen and Jihadists continue to be on the increase but the Federal government is insensitive about them and here we are today. The news we read/hear on daily basis on the activities of the above scares and causes sleepless nights to some of us -where is this country heading to?

What will you do assuming you wake up one day only to hear in National broadcast by Jihadists and ISWAP that they have taken over Aso Rock just like in Afghanistan?. It is getting worrisome

The handwriting is already clearly there. Many prominent Nigerian politicians saw it coming but chose not to speak out due to selfish and personal interest. There will no election as the take over is likely to happen before then.

Me: I don't have Visa to run out of the country. I can only find a way to my home town if it will be even possible when such happen.

No sensible and right thinking Nigeria can ever get himself involved in this Government or anything relating to APC and Tinubu campaign.

But wait oo, truly this can be a fake news. See the newspaper that report it. Anybody can write anything and out any name there without facial representation. Everything about Tinubu is fraud.

[quote author=swaggerjack post=114985272][/quote]Hahahaha. Abeg let everybody rush and cash out his own before this old corrupt druggie will be retired politically come 2023. Rush now!!

Hahahaha. Everybody want to cash out his/her own dollars and mansions before the old corrupt druggie is retired politically

...all these ones -court this and that you are doing Na shakara and must end in vain for you go up and down you MUST come back to my kpetus and nothing more - Says the woman.

This is no new in many marriages, some women went to an extent to ensure that no matter what happens, their husband must can never leave their kpetus for any other woman even if they fight with weapons, the man must surely come back and remain with the kpetus

Keep deceiving yourself and not people. The cry of a drowning urchins from one old corrupt druggie

I am not sure, meaning many will be disenfranchised

Is it good being married and have outside woman

Another mouth action(Mouth Action) in the National Assembly loading.........................

Oghene23:
No need to stop her from working. You can try this if you are not busy. You know all the afore-mentioned happened because she got a job, so you will have to adjust and try to help her.

Probably on Saturday or Sunday, plan with her on the clothes and shoes she wants to to where from Monday to Saturday. Let it be Washed and ironed or dry cleaned. That will relieve her a little bit from making decisions everyday.

Also, for the food, since she comes back by 10pm, make sure that her food is ready (you can call and ask her what she wants to eat) and when she comes back, tell her to take her bath and come to eat before she sleeps. You can also eat with her and discuss what happened in the office (you know most women love gist). Also, you can chip in that you miss her and would love to spend quality time with her, and If she can make a day out for both of you to that.

Then sometimes if it possible, mostly during the weekend
take your bathe with her. You can occasionally buy her gifts and take her out for lunch or dinner on weekends.

In summary try to do everything with her, plan her clothes, eat, gist, bathe, go out etc. If it possible, pick her from work.

I believe if she sees your sincerity and love, she will react to it positively.

Advice is okay but hope it's not turning the man to a housemaid

zangodangolo:
I have been a lover of Chubby massive big ass/boobs fat ladies until I finally swim into the ocean and find it very nuseauting rather than enjoyable.

Before now anytime I came across such ladies I will be lusting for them and having sexual feelings. I hardly control myself on sighting them.Behold the very day I finally swim into one of them, I find it difficult to locate the exact spot of the hole to insert my pipe.When I later locate it, once I insert it,it was indeed a big stress as I can't even penetrate, everywhere is filled up, no matter the position u adopted let alone the kind odour emanating from the hole pissed me off. I begin to regret what is then special about this set of people that normal average ladies is far much better than them. Please I am not trying to insult just that such experience upset me that now I can hardly see a chubby big ass fat ladies and be attracted to them anymore unlike before.

Please what makes some men to be attracted and sexually lust for them. Or is that because I have not tasted different types of them before I can conclude?

You are not alone. They are majorly like that. They may sound attractive for you to feel touch of the bigger thing, when feel disappointed when u enter the river. That's why most of them can attract men but are conscious of not allowing men to "chop" them because they know once u do it, u will abandon them. Same applies to marriage, men will taste them but when want to marry,they will go for the normal sized average ladies

MejiLoyon:
In other words sir, you're admitting you're a liar sir. Noted

None of my posts is lie,but the point I am making to you is,that somebody send a post atimes does not mean it is applicable to the sender. It can be a friend that it is happening, it can be an issue a person confided in you may be you are a marriage counselor or say in Men's fellowship, Seminar etc and you need to advise the person on what to do coupled with your own experience. That's why atimes in Nairaland somebody can send a post and say ,...a friend of mine, my neighbour, my class guys,office says etc....

So forget whether it is me that it is happening to or another person,simply give your professional advice (if you have)and that's all. It can save alot

MejiLoyon:
This one all your family problem I don know already. I know your sister in-law stays with you. I know your wife's job. I know you suspect your wife,I know your wife stays out late. I even know your sister peeps when you're nacking. Wetin remain na the color of your wife pant.

I'm waiting to read where you will drive her out. Or when she cheats. For one day you will slip. And real men will track her and nack sense into her. Continue being a baby by bringing every issue to the world

Kindly note that it's not every post you see that it is happening to the OP( one posting it) depending on what you do may be a counselor or seminar etc provided it is real and not fictious. Do don't get misinformed provided Nairaland is a faceless platform.

Straight to the point: Truly marrying a beautiful/sexy wife has its own challenges. My wife is to beautiful and sexy that we have se.x almost on daily basis or interval of two days and I don't like such. Bedides,she is too good in bed as well as love se.x. One may ask ,does it mean I(we) can't control myself (ourselves), definitely I try as much as I can but to no avail. Her facial look,sexy fair complexion body, let alone wearing mini skirt, boxers,or seeing her unclothedness will drive me to irresistible urge that no matter how I quench my manhood, it is out of control.

Several times I tried to stay away from her and hold myself but several time it failed. It's too much on me and that's not how it suppose to be and takes more of my focus.Se.x is not food. Even if we have misunderstanding atimes the way couple may have and I will use that opportunity and vow that I won't make love with her for some time, unfortunately even that same day I made such decision is same day we will make love. Atimes I will reason should we stay apart to reduce this kind urge.

Please I need advise on how I can reduce the rate of this frequent love making.

Well for me, it makes me feel like a real man and that I am doing the job well. Also it encourages and gives me more confidence,increases my motion to pump her harder while she moans louder.

A worried friend of mine complained bitterry to me that he is not happy that his weight keeps dropping since he got married 12 years ago till date as shown above nstead of going up or atleast even to maintain the former range and he is unhappy the way he looks so skinny that this is not his former self.

He mentioned that he do notice added weight when may be travelled for work purposes that may warrant him staying alone for some months.Though marital stress,lack of peace, quarrelsome with the partner,too much financial burden,lack of money, etc are not left out on his explanation.

Please for the married,we use to hear HAPPILY MARRIED,should a man suppose to be adding or losing weight when he is married or look healthier than when single.Please advice and share your opinion/experience.

One of the greatest mistake you are making is keeping a stubborn person to stay with you. It creates anger, anxiety and restless mind.Why not send her back today to where she come from to avoid " if I had known I would have .....".As you mistakenly catch her today,that means even in your absence she has been doing so and disobeying you,taking you for granted and risking your family.Do you know the kind risk this agent of devil is creating in your family?Most of these Househelp are possessed and being controlled by some evil spirits that will be manipulating them and can hardly obey you but rather so stubborn. Please send her packing now!

Due to some challenges, I and my wife are staying in one room self con and her 30 year old sister has been staying with us for some months now, my wife is older than her by three years.

Making love has been challenging since then even though the sister puts bed on the floor and sleep,most time when we assume she is asleep and engage in the act, i will later observe that she is not sleeping. Though she will maintain as if she is sleeping and this is constituting an uneasy environment.

In fact most time she knows when we are doing it. We are very uncomfortable over the act and she is not moving out from the house soonest. Though she is an adult that such may not sound strange to her, but indirectly seeing or hearing the sound on when i am performing duty on her elder sister makes us feel uncomfortable especially when we see one another in the morning after the act.

Please whats the right way to manage this situation. Advise please.

Need answers

I do hear from guyz whenever they see a fair complexion ladies/fine face ladies saying,oh the babe go sweet well well or is sweet, bla bla .The sweetness here means to fvck /in bed go sweet oo or is sweet. My question which baffles me most is:are all Pussy not the same and gives the same pleassure whether you are black lady or ugly in face? What has being fair in complexion or fine face /being beautiful has to do with the sweetness of what is in between(pussy) the leg of a lady? or is there anything like fine or ugly pussy that is sweeter or bitter?. Please i need to be enlightened.If you say a girl is not fine or black ,what does that has to do with the sweetness of her pussy(fvck)

Marriage wala!. I dont know what to advise on happy sex of unhappy marriage.

More than half percentage of people including those responding here in nairaland have sex without condom because of how sweet it is without condom,yet same more than half will still deny that they don't have sex without condom,hence op don't mind those telling u why do without condom because even them that are telling so do have sex without condom.chose any method of medication you think is ok for you

Calabar woman!,that's their nature and its common among them.They did not see anything bad in having sex with anybody they want to.They see it as normal thing you can give to ur body whenever it demands it.A calabar woman prefers ur good sex than ur money.U have to bear it for the sake of the children.If you go for divorce,the children will bear the effect,secondly if you act rude on her,she may ran away with your children to another man where you may not see them again till eternity.What I am telling you is fact as far as Calabar women are concerned.Be serious and prayer and take her to deliverance and always show her the bible verses on adultery.Also ensure you are sexually sound and always prove to her that what she is looking for outside that you have it.Tell her to be always free with u by telling u anytime she need sex and don't fail her in bed.

Pinkdiamondz:
Wow so she's GUILTY until proven Innocent

Exactly! That's the summary.

Yieldings:
You're making accusations that you're not substantiating.

Men who accuse their wives incessantly like this are usually the guilty ones.

Since you've been punishing your wife for two months by not sleeping with her because of your assumption that she's sleeping around, are you saying that you have not been sleeping with anyone else?

Important matter should not be treated with levity.If I am not faithful with her or sleeping arroud,I won't post this.Pls give the post their seriousness and importance it derserve.

A lot of suspcious thingst(that I will not start mentioning here)have happened over my wife that I don't want to sleep with her again until I found out and confirm that she did not slept with other men.For if she did, she will confess and Cleansing must be performed before I start sleeping with her again.That's the only condition.I stopped making love with her for like two months now because of my suspense that she sleeps arround.My question is how will I find out if she had slept with men?,I am considering taking her to shrine to prove herself innocent as she keep denying,Pls no insult as you should know that there is no smoke without fire.The point here is while she is denying she have not been sleeping with other men as I suspected for some time now,she MUST prove hundred percent innocent before I start making love with her,otherwise I may dissolve the union.What other ways do u think to confirm apart from shrine?

What else should i do and how else can i handle and come out of this situation.The heat is too much.I have tried in many ways:Out of job for long now,no other source of income,my partner has not been working since seven years we got married,even the time i am working,the salary is nothing to write home about and can hardly save,In all i have mouths i am feeding.I have look for jobs for long yet none has come since then.I did all i can,some friends and well wishers will keep telling you "e go better, e go better",my ears has been filled for long with such words,for one that is hungry and have mouths to feed,when will this end.What should i do.Even some of the friends that are in position to assist in any type of job are not helping.Many of them have deserted .No single savings anymore for the past decade one is working.God please help me out of this financial harsh situation.I never dream of finding this kind of situation that atimes when calculate ALL the money one have,it wont reach one thousand naira.I am fed up,i am depressed.It is never a good experience.What else should i do.

Zceesneh:
If u have any big booty lady, share bro there is love in sharing

Advise

MRNipples:
What you need is deliverance from the spirit of lust, then after you should pray and read your bible daily, then destroy and eradicate every thought and things that reminds you of lust.

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