BlissMoney: Dear friends We are all human. If it happen to me. i will be very sad but not curse the Pastor or blackmail him. But take the matter to God in Prayer and fasting because is the work of Devil. We can't fight the issue with flesh and body. it is a spiritual matter. It happen to me in a revise other when Pastor Wife decide to give me face even inviting me to they house when nobody is around, giving me suspicious gift. Before i realized and fight the useless devil out of her. My friend take it to God.
yinka4love: HEY Guys, the money he gives me is damn too small and i know he knows but hes claiming not to. This 15k i collect monthly is meant for anythin food for 3 of us,toiletries pampers,washing n bathing soap,dettol,toothpaste e t c. And he complains about the size of meat i give him(i even give him 2 pcs) which he wants to b xtra big. These r the things painin me because i spend up to another xtra 15k n i work n a one man biz company ,d pay is not much. He works n a bank.
well well well
sounds like you married baba ijebu . What's with naija men and getting the largest share of meat?
FL Gators: LOL. . . . and if you lose, I want you to change your sig [b]and [/b]location to "FL Gators is my mama" for 3 months. Does that sound right?
SEFAGO: well, i decided to stay for many reasons, one, I did not feel like going to university, two) I applied to only british universities previously and my options were either imperial or kings but did not want to go to either because i hate the UK with a passion.
Why the questions?
just wondering why you chose to stay in naija for a year. chasing village girls?
Outstrip: All of you saying the woman should go half on the household forget that she is married to the typical Nigerian man. If she says here that the man does housework and changes diapers and every once in a while goes to the market then I can say that it is fair. If the man wants to do Oga then he must do what comes with doing Oga. Heavy is the head that wears the crown. You can't eat your cake and have it. I personally will not put one penny towards anything if the man does not help me maintain the home. He will pay for the everything including a maid if I decide I need one. It does not matter how much she makes. Now this is just my two cent. My home is different. I don't care what he pays for in the home he has to help out too. Luckily for the most part I do not have to do any of that. It is not unusual for my husband to come home from work and actually cook dinner.
see shakara of the century. Your grandma with her 20 kids didn't need any housemaid
Listen man, I'm not dissin you or anything. I do admire young men like you who are willing to take up responsibilities and work hard to make ends meet; I hear they make the nest hubbys (even dou I have my doubts).
we all know you have your doubts about the average hardworking man uju.
Rather than working with your man to create a stable home you want a ready made (abi na aba made) product .
Keep on waiting for the perfect bobo that would pay your bills and give you weekly allowance to get your hair and nails then. You have watching way too much Cinderella or is it tales by moonlight.
No, it's not. But at least the man should acknowledge she's making input and not claim the amount he's bringing is enough!!
have you ever thought he assumed what he is bringing to a two income household is enough? does the man get appreciated for the bills he pays?
vanitty: ^ isn't that what she wrote she does? supplement with her own money? Equality or not is not the issue here, the issue is that the husband thinks the 15 000 is enough, he thinks all the mouth-watering food he eats is as the result of his 15 000 and oh not forgettin the baby as well
if she can supplement the allowance, what's the big deal?
marriage is a partnership and that's the sacrifices you have to make.
the issue is that the husband thinks the 15 000 is enough
or maybe that's what he can afford for now. the point of a two income household is both sides contributing.
you ladies need to get this man is the provider thought out of your freaking head. Two income household, two contributors !!!!!
it's funny how the miss independents of the NL are screaming the money is not enough. Isn't she working, why can't she continue to supplement the man's allowance?
goes to show how much Nigerian women really want equality.