₦airaland Forum

ojuu4u:
Even the father who used his son for ritual money, still want such child to be successful than him.

Father who use money that he supposed to use to train his son to school to drink alcohol, play bet or even use it to train his concubine' children wants such child to be successful than him.

Mother who donated his son in their meeting in Kingdom of darkness, also love the son that his wife.

😅😅😅😅

You want to share the money into 50/50 so the estrange wife will go and eat her share with the current man in her life ? Open a bank account and leave the money for the kids. No man leaves a good woman.

Many complaints about this Amac officials, the world is revolving, why is it only Nigeria that is stagnant, how can the FCT, not have better approach to deal with offenders, resulting to touts, this can’t be their only option. The civil defense had to do what needs to be done, to get the foreigner to safety

IAM4BAT4plus4:
Stupid me tried so hard to make my wife independent! The rest is history now after I lost my job.


Now people are pleading on her behalf for me to forgive her for the sake of our children. But me I don lock up already 🤔

When someone betrays you, there have constructively look at the consequences, if you give them the chance again, be 100% certain they’ll do it again.

Taking a girl I met online out yesterday, on reaching, noticing she wasn’t fancying me, i foolishly proceed to place orders, forcing communications, trying to pleased her, until she couldn’t ave it anymore, she left me there in my car. Don’t be like me, leave immediately as soon as you notice the feeling isn’t mutual.

Onlinetutor7:
If they are doing a good job in securing the pipelines which I believe they are doing, then allow them do their thing.

A country with mass unemployment, some certain individuals are earning 4b monthly because they decide to carry guns, and you’re asking us to let them do their work. Are you saying the average youths surviving we don’t ave the hands to carry guns too? What should our youth be aspiring for ? If criminals can be paid such amount monthly?

A minister appointed by the chief commander, in a democracy system of Govt, a solider is challenging him, and you all feel this will go well, with him and the person issuing the orders.

Let’s watch how this end, he’s disrespectful, challenging the 3rd most powerful person in Nigeria. Let’s see how this end.

Another deadly attack, look innocent young man loosing their life for country with no potential, let’s watch how the government and NA, does nothing about it. It sadden

With the comment am seeing, am glad they’re still sane men in Nigeria, who by all means most preserved our culture and also preserve the behavior of the unborn the children. I can not commit to any woman, I didn’t met with virtue.

I will definitely take a spin.

sanyaolurilwan:
Do not take that risk, it's very costly. I'll advise you fill a new form and adjust your travel dates to a new dates after the appointment dates, then fix another appointment.

quote author=bayfed post=132547779]Good evening, you all are doing a good work.

I filed my tourist application, my travel date is 25th Nov, 24. and returning date is 30th Nov 24.

Going to TLS for appointment, the available appointment date are only on Dec, proceeding to book appointment date, would this affect approval, considering departure date ?

Thank you 🙏

Good evening, you all are doing a good work.

I filed my tourist application, my travel date is 25th Nov, 24. and returning date is 30th Nov 24.

Going to TLS for appointment, the available appointment date are only on Dec, proceeding to book appointment date, would this affect approval, considering departure date ?

So nairaland is still depending on a host ? Why ? When you can own a server and take all abuse, and nobody does anything.

The mistake we successfully men do, we think we can pick a girl and give her everything and she’ll becomes ours and only answerable to us. Forgetting that, any man or woman can stay adversity, but it takes a great man / woman to stand prosperity. You don’t know anyone who’s poor.

That’s why it’s imperative, you try and merit anything you have. The process he came in from, he shall dully go out same way.

I Over come been drag down by a bitch, I accidentally got involved with., which was a going down.

Getting out of relationship, and understanding who women really are, is my biggest achievement this year.

You deserve to be free and happy, no more watching of GPS, no more asking to stop talking to this one and that one. No more nagging, my business stays with me, and whatever I do stays with me, no more noise flying out my apartment again. Finally peace exist, that quietness I crave exist. I gradually see improvement in all sectors of my life. Personal health, peace, finance, most important my body building.

Now open to so many options, but I only want what’s worth giving that strength again. Have learnt, and it’ll forever stays with me.

Most important reasons, why I stop been scared of anything about life. I have been thinking about this, all my life, why was I born, why I’ve go through all am going through to be successful, and yet nothing is guaranteed.

As long as no one is dying, am doing all I can, to enjoy this numbers life am given.

🤣🤣 Your new guy is asking you take a break, and he'll give you salary in full.

You've drain the poor boy dry, you are going for another one.

By the time, you meet your husband, your milage is 1000+. And then you'll start blaming men, for deceiving you, immediately, they taste you.

The one that's wants to pay your salary in full, how long do you think, he will continue to pay it.

What happen to been loyal, and sticking to the poor boy until he gets to his fit again, and you become the queen again?

A little turbulence you want to run. Even with the high blood pressure you're giving the guy, with your high interest of been friends with other guys.

Men and women no dey be friend, you are an olosho the sooner you realise this, the better it Is for you.

Leave the boy, now its early and focus on men that will pay your salary in full, we are many, let's help saturate the mileage.

Women are not good people, only do what you afford to loose, I will pay 2 bed flat of 1m for lady, knowing fully well, you’ll pack, when it’s expire, and you’ll never forget me. But giving you that money, or buy something that will pain me, it’s no go area.

I always rent an empty house, and you disloyal, am done. Next rent you’re packing.

Do what you can loose.

Women are not good people, read proverbs, wisdom is profitable to direct.

This boy will not learn from the past Billionaire at 30 we’ve known. 3000 employees indeed. Na so dem Dey start.

I don’t want to migrate, am not interested, I don’t want to read, I didn’t even read, this type of post should’ve make front page.

extremelygolden:
@Op. See what you're going to do. Pretend you've accepted her back. Plan to move out of that environment as soon as possible. When you finally find another accommodation far from where you're presently living, tell her the scholarship you applied for in the UK some time ago, and have totally forgotten about just arrived now. That they sent you a mail that you've been offered the scholarship.

Get an alternative phone number that only family and close friends can always reach you. Make an arrangement and pack out one of the days you know she won't be visiting you. And don't forget to block her line and on all social media, including that of her relatives too.

You need peace of mind, especially at a time like this. Don't allow her to keep messing with your emotions.

I hate infidelity and pretense.

Thank you 🙏

extremelygolden:
@Op. See what you're going to do. Pretend you've accepted her back. Plan to move out of that environment as soon as possible. When you finally find another accommodation far from where you're presently living, tell her the scholarship you applied for in the UK some time ago, and have totally forgotten about just arrived now. That they sent you a mail that you've been offered the scholarship.

Get an alternative phone number that only family and close friends can always reach you. Make an arrangement and pack out one of the days you know she won't be visiting you. And don't forget to block her line and on all social media, including that of her relatives too.

You need peace of mind, especially at a time like this. Don't allow her to keep messing with your emotions.

I hate infidelity and pretense.

Thank you 🙏

Brandiebird:
1. Tell her it’s over and follow through with your decision.
2. Every time she calls you or turns up at your place record her so you have evidence of her madness.
3. Tell your family and friends about her suicide threats so that you are not framed if worst comes to worst.
4. She will not kill her self because all this noise is to emotionally blackmail you.
5. Record every interaction with her because when she can’t use suicide to control you, she will set you up! She might accuse you of rape or anything else she can make up.
6. You’re dealing with a narcissist so you need to come prepared.

If all else fails: RUN! Move location and change your number.

Thank you 🙏 e don be like this

Bluezy13:
Na your type dey wear suit, dress cooperate drive car, but once you open mouth, person go know say you be mumu.

Baba e never reach like that, you understand how fight goes and shout out for directions when you’re outside the ring. But come inside the ring, you will understand, at the end we are all human. It’s blood that run out veins

I had a wonderful relationship, 1 year to the relationship, I caught my partner still talking to her Ex on chats, I was angry, she cried bitterly, that it won’t occur again, fast forward to months ago, after two years plus of been in the relationship.

she only comes to my house on weekends, I began noticing some changes, how she won’t place her phone on the table even when we were eating. I decided i investigate her, i discovered she recently got in a relationship with another boy in her school, i graduated this year, she’s in 200 level, am 26, while she’s 22. I read on her chat, telling the boy she’s has no man in her life.

She pleaded day and night, that it wasn’t something serious, in my mind I was done, I parked her things, she lobbied me for weeks, and pleaded, like she’s was going to die, if I don’t take her back, I decide I gave her the second chance, I was depressed, as result of denial I saw on her phone.

I had excessive alcohol which is bad for my ulcer, which leads to severe pains in my stomach for weeks. I visited the hospital, she accompanied me, the entire treatment took about 3 weeks. while on treatment, her birthday came, I took her out, and bought her cake, we had a wonderful time just us. 2 days later, I had previously asked her to delete the boy’s number, and stop communicating with the boy, Madam refused to listen, instead change the boys name, to another name, and was communicating with the boy, i caught her again communicating with that same boy, some of the chats I saw, was them talking about my cake, I don’t know if she took the cake to the boy in school or not. But she had deleted many other chats as usual. She pleaded again, and cried, and I allowed it slide.


Fast forward to 1 month later, I made some research and have some logic that she had an affair with her ex, 3 months ago, when she went to her fathers place to spend the holiday, her ex lives close by, i put some empirical facts, and push her to say the truth, and she confessed.

Now at this point, am leaving, I can’t stand this any more. She cried, pleaded and roll on the floor as usual, but am leaving, so she turn it to suicide, all she plead with now is her dying, all she is saying is her killing herself. I live in a renter apartment, it’s hard to control who comes in, last time she walked in, she picked a knife from my kitchen, and told me she’s going to end this all right here. That I will take her body to her family. I was dragging the knife with her for hours. I had to accept to forgive her, before she could let go of the knife. I called her sister, I told her everything, I told her sister, she needs her attention. But the woman seems to be quiet, it’s her husband that has been begging me to allow this woman come back to my life.

It almost seems like there’s no way out of this,
as the house she’s living, I rented the house for her, and no family member knows there. And she’s there speaking about killing herself everyday. Making suicidal status. And crying for me, I’m strong, but this is getting out of hand, I won’t come here to ask what to do, if it wasn’t. If I decide to block her now, there’s 100% possibility she’ll rush to my house now.
It’s her dying that’s my problem, the only knows me in the compound she’s living.

More encouragement than what I expected, thank you for the hopes. But with what I had past through in hands of the two woman I have ever dated, it’s God that save my life, because in my tradition you don’t cheat on a man. My problem is this gender will use my life to gamble, the two I have dated, have had sex outside, despite my warning, despite seeing me almost dieing, they won’t say it. It’s always been revelation. I don’t know how I need to get a woman to understand and obey this.

That’s how my girl I was planning to tit the knot this year, went to her father house durning holiday, her ex lives close by, they had sex, I felt it as a traditionalist that same day. But I did not pay attention to my instincts. Madam came back, whenever she serve me food, I’ll be complaining of her cooking skills, I sexually turn off for her. That’s when my mind tells me something is wrong, I investigate her matter like my life’s on it, I found out she has been following a boy up, she pleaded, we move on, but my mind never settle, I wasn’t rejecting food, if this woman hasn’t open her legs to another man, I place all odds and deep thoughts. I finalized within me she has slept with her ex . I question her directly and threaten her, we are both going to die because of my tradition, I pierce her emotional madam told me the truth. Now I am in my house alone chilling thanking God for saving me. Now she’s the one running 😂😂 in this life have sense

He’s a wise man, that I have adopt most of his teaching today and some of his leads. But he defrauded me of 1.5m in the land he help me acquired .
He is a pain in the ass. He deserves nothing from me. Only the last respect I will pay on that faithful day.

Happy Father’s Day, to those fathers who stood, and give it all to their children, the home, and do their very best. To see the best in their children.
God bless them all 🙏

Anyone thinking he’s going through anything, am going through worst, caught her flirting, decide to move on, but Aunty is is crying her life out, showing suicidal threats. Am her mother, am her father. If I successfully leave this one alive, anything that’s comes with this emotional attachment again, will not be successful.