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Missis:
Assuming you are married to a man who works as self employed selling some wholesale items that fetch him 70k every month and you have three kids with him.

Meanwhile you the wife work in a private institution earning 60k as well as selling things online that fetch very little like 10k to 15k everymonth.

So you have adviced him to get something else doing to augment your joint income because the money both of you make is barely enough for both of you and three children. You suggest you both need to add more sources of income to your present jobs to move ahead in life and advance, send your children to better schools, maybe build a house, to just upgrade yourselves generally.

So after suggesting different jobs for him he refused to do anything else except his wholesale business because he believes one day he will suddenly make it big from selling his market.

You give up and start your own third business which is part time catering and start making some considerable amount of money from it so you buy new clothes, shoes, nice snacks for your kids from time to time.

Your husband sees all this and tells you to also buy gifts for him from your 'plenty' money. Tells you to not buy new things for only your kids but you should buy also add his own.

How will you react please?

This isn't a made up story please. It's very true, I just want to know if the way I responded was reasonable or if I was wrong.

PlayerMeji:
Hmmm... I am feeling very speechless.

I believe the more SOAPY preaching that are reeled out in places of worship, the lower the rate of incidents of rape would reduce.
#EMBRACESOAPY... It's sex with someone you love.

saajus:
Let's be tolerant.

sampete:
Can you believe these police guys ate up all the meat in the stew and soup they carted away?

They ate up police evidence. I wonder what they would have presented as evidence if the matter had gone to court

CAPSLOCKED:
VULCANISER.
THOSE VERY TATTERED-LOOKING ONES USED TO BE MY ROLE MODELS AT ONE POINT.

IamWonderful:
They are better than those will use half of the state allocation to buy Brazilian wool, Peruvian hair and expensive ornaments.

Tamp2017:
Is this real or u are joking again .....because this mattress sef get as e be

maryini:
Hi Everyone,

Used 6 by 6 mattress for sale. You’ll have to arrange for pickup.

Price: 5k
Pick up area: Ikate, Lekki

Reason for Sale: Owner changes of mattress every 4yrs

Lazyyouth4u:
The cars have to be converted to use both petrol and gas. The conversion is not cheap (costs between 500 dollars and 1,000 dollars per car or so) but the government says it will do it for free. Quite funny.

Broobembem:
I know. But she apologized.

Broobembem:
Laycon 912k IG followers.

Something is not right here

Dannyxy:
Some icons and shalaye sha... Person wey dem don evict him fave na Im Una dey drag matter with...


Let this show end, na im Una go see something, other housemates go vex ehn, especially the first two days after laycon leaves that house...

hotspec:
number one is d comoro dragons

englois:
I don't think it has any meaning. If you schooled in OAU, Ile-Ife, you will experience it wella. The school has a high bat population and they can poop on your head, clothes. Kinda yellowish poop

GhostderGeist:

shogsman:
Their thread has over 7000 pages,all I can say is that the youths of this country don't have any right to complain about the situation of things

EyezofGod120:
Damn niggaarr!! We too dey joke for this country,, DAT muscle wey we dey use on bbn if we put.am for bullhari matter he for don resign tey tey

handelex:
Who's currently watching? Heard Ozo is doing well so far with baby steps.... stayed awake late gisting with the guys, slept not facing Nengi, washing alone in the laundry this morning..... Lord pls continue the work.
#OzoWillDoBetter.

Auladimeji:
Many people will blame them but it's their lives and we felt happy when we left secondary, we felt like a big/girl in town,we're now senior ,it's just that they don't know what's ahead of them

CaSttLe:
SIRG120 you write long beautiful epistles.


Are u an academic/Pastor/Journalist etc?


Which one?

U are good!


One bottle of GORDON for u

Chibabe005:
can we talk about how blessed vee is?

ever since she stood for what's right, countless blessings keeps coming her way.

the one who called her, an enemy is watching her from her rehab home .

vee is cashing out,almost every week.. expense paid trips everywhere, while the so-called pure and gentle one is doing begging for alms with her picture on it on a public site.

Chile.. God's great.

Zzor:
Nigerian men are gradually turning wizards,for God sake,what is wrong with how Ozo behaves around his love interest Nengi?the hardship in this country has really affect how our men reason,they now see women as their enemy.Every woman out there deserves and need a man like Ozo in her life,call him names all you like but he's far better than the whole of redpillers combined.

skyblueking:
Church-owned hospital which the church members can't even afford the bill..
Isoryt