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chei, poverty, men don finish make she carry on

very possible, it takes time n patience to do so all in God

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sweetnekys:
Same here ,i grow up in mixed of boys and dont feel relaxed when am in mist of girls since i dont know what to chart with them as we all know that when ever they are upto 3 ,4,5.6 girls , they have nothing to talk about than to gossip about their fellows ,so i dont learn much byy keeping them as friends. infact i dont even need them because i am more comfrotable having matured guys as my friends .

rit, dis same feeling is common 2 me, not just gossipin ooooooooo, its either my guy did dis my guy did dat, i did dis to dat, nothin interestin or educatin, haba, not just comfortable wit dat,

come, all dis talkin gestures na part of the attraction, lol

u feel u r in love wit ur in-law? gurl u r on ur way to doom, n i mean it, beta leave dat house entirely b4 it goes beyond dat.

All I see are they who are still looking for jobs, and I dont have time as my friend.

plz, plz, plz,

my 39yrs uncle is the MD in one of the new generation bankz n stil single searchin 4 a girl daz been once heartbreaked, so endeavour to reach out, Nonsense

u beta change dat requirement, to "ALL I WANT IS A MAN TO START THE JOURNEY WIT N MAKE IT TO D END" or else, u be left on ur own

depends on individual choice, odas like it while odas dont

My broda, u still have to love so u can heal d wound in ur heart. bo 4 now let her go, leave behind d past. keep focus, drive on n be ursef, d true love meant 4 u will come to ur doorstep lookin 4 u. remain d nice n carin guy u r 2 everyone around u.

u as

bilms:
The Key to Everlasting Friendship




Making friends is easy; maintaining friendship is not. In fact, making ourselves unpopular is a job so easily done. One slip of the tongue, one harsh word, one instance of anger and we might end up losing our best of friends. What’s more – friends may even turn into foes if this tendency is not checked.


The key to a lasting friendship is self-control. But then, this is not easy. It only comes through a strong relationship with the Almighty, and a firm commitment to the notion that self-control and self-restraint in this world will lead us to great reward in the Hereafter.


One of the toughest impediments in exercising self-control is an unfavourable response from a friend. One often gets put off by a cold response. It is not easy to put up with such behaviour. The best and perhaps the most successful way to tackle it is to keep doing good regardless of what one encounters in return. This requires great effort and profound patience. It also requires that a person should not expect anything in return for a favour he does. If it is returned, he should consider it a bonus, and if it is not, he should continue to do good as long as he can and adhere to the dictum:


Do all the good you can

By all the means you can

In all the ways you can

In all the places you can

At all the times you can

To all the people you can

As long as you can




wat do u think?

Good post n good ideas, but i dont believe, yes!! u keep doing good to a friend n in return u are paid wit evil?

patient? yes dats another key to keepin friendship, but how long can one die in silent agony just for d sake of keepin friendship, while d oda cares less of dat same friendship.

for all i believe its beta u do all d good things to an enemy dan to a friend dat values it less,

ElRazur:
Shocking! You don't say. A new trend is sweeping our society, wow breaking news, that would be first.

I hate to point the obvious, how about join and find out? You never know what you will find.
Are you getting paid to make silly threads?

How did you know this if you never used face book? Hear say?? I think you may need to join, think of it this way Jesus is on facebook, so is Muhammed and Obama [True story, I aint lying.]

For someone who is not down with facebook, you kinda know the "facebook lingo" than I do. Are you sure you aint on facebook?

Really!
Your blogs? What about them?
I am tempted to regard your thread as junk,

lmao, nothing more to say, u don dash d guy 1 kobo, lol

Nothing to b confused about, al u gat 2 do if u really love her as u wrote, is to plunge ahead n help her not, no backing out atal, find a means to make her literate.

Dats my only advice

Hello house, gud morning tnx to God 4 anoda weekend.

Please this is a serious issue, no insult here plz.

My problem is this: I don’t know if its normal or not, just wanna share this to the house n see how abnormal it is for a gurl nt to hv a female friend, wen I say female friend I mean best friends.

During my sec. school days I hardly have som1 to call a friend, someone to share my problems with, visit n do oda things female friends do together. Naturally I trust people to the last, my style of life is not questionable am d quite type, very reserve, passionate and very emotional, intelligent, humble and diligent, in times of tolerance am kwn for that, I give d last I have to anyone dat need it most around me even wen I know dat is the last thing I hv n may need it in the later day above all am very social n jovial am also d laughing type.

One thing I dislike most is ppl who take advantage of oda ppl’s weak point, n dis is d case wit me, once I trust n share problems wit som1 I have taken as a friend, d person all of a sudden starts behaving as thou she/they are my God dat without them I can go nowhere, once such attitude commence I back out of that friendship. Cos of all this i v learnt n v been on my own al dis while. However, I  hav male friends on these guys apart from my Creator, I take solace, they are my guidance n mentors, strength n d ones I lean on in times of personal problems. I prefer them to female friends but ppl see me as flirt even wen nothing is attached. these guys see me as little sister n I in turn take them as my brothers and respect.

House am not tryin to take ur precious time in reading this, but my question is: IS IT ABNORMAL FOR A GIRL NOT TO HAVE A FEMALE FRIEND

nonsense, double identity

rejected love, chineke, how u go reject so easily eleshin, plzzzzzzzzz am pleadin on her behalf give the lovesick gurl a trial, plz. chei lovingitis don dey kill prsn

Na him u dey talk in low tune?…………, no die in silent oooooooooooo, bare ur mind 2 him, oookkkkk afrrr…aid?………, oya just text me ur nunba n email make I establish d contact btwn both of u, I knw d guy, bt 4 ur sake I withld d name, do quick b4 d I change mind oooooooooooooo

aaaammmmmmmmmm waiiiiiitttttttnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn

coughin uncontrolably, hmm em, lemmi fink again, brb

u wan marry 15yrs old gurl?, cant really get ur story too long,


well no specific age difference, cos lack love n incompatibility is wat makes a marriage break.

if she (d 15yrs) old will love u, cos at dat age such gurl of her age may not have known d real meaning of true love, n if u try teachin her, she might stick to you, but later in an advanced age might fink ur not d one 4 her somethin like dat do happen,

Oha, kiakia, i dey wait to comment,

yeah, religion is d case here, is d guy a muslim, if he is, dat is d probs, u love him ok, but r u willin to bcom a muslim if atal his parents accept ur marriage/

if he is a christian as u are, n his parents ar still insistin on d guy seekin anoda lady in ur place, den i fink its not enuf reason to let go ur happiness 4 sake of ethnicity, religion n culture.

u r sure d guy stil standin 4 u, weda his ppl wishes he dos or not? den folo ur heart gurl n continue wit d marriage love matas not ethnicity.

ok who go start the thread,

justwise:
(considerin d culture n norms of Nigerian, especially d easteners hardly can a man e allowed to get married to a white lady. they believe their children shud bring in a lady of same ethnicity, same believe, culture and norms into their home
Where did u get that from? NOT every family does that, don't generalise something u dont know. pple have moved on now.

NOT EVERY FAMILY, pple v moved on, but not every ppl, am not generalsin d issue here, bu 80% out of 100% here in Nigeria do believe in dat.



Thank

Galaxy88:
Because i am christian and so is he. I don't really want to go into a sex before marriage debate but i will never think it's right and neither does he.

Thank God if u have not had sex, cos dat wud have worsen it all, so let d guy go his way stop seein him, tell him u need him no more.

sexybabes:
Plz guyz dis thread shud b closed nw coz im stil boyfrndless.

yea i fink dis shud b blocked so anoda one titled: For boyfrendlesses cud emerge, lol

PRETEndERS Do d WoRsT, non wNt 2 aNS dIs QuS, Na him make una divertam to joke abi, some guys here have more dan 4gs
make i name how una categorisam

1. Amaka 4 For serious rl8sp
2. Alaere for flirting/partyin
3. Utugbong 4 s****
4. Fatima 4, na una sabi wetin fatima dey do 4 una sef,

arrhhhhhhhhhh guys make una talk trueeoooooooooooooo,

considerin d culture n norms of Nigerian, especially d easteners hardly can a man e allowed to get married to a white lady. they believe their children shud bring in a lady of same ethnicity, same believe, culture and norms into their home.

to ur post: dis guy is d only son of his parents n his parents do not agree on his marriage to u, my dear if d parents 4 one reason or d other refuses d son bringin u to dere home, den i fink u leave him to his parent, let him find another woman as his parents so need of him.

as for me, i dont believe in marriage without the parent's consent, it doesnt go down well along the line.

so dear, let d guy do as it so pleases his parents.

Good luck

ThoniaSlim:
Good riddance to confused rubbish. . .guilty about what? he's confused and so you did the right thing by leaving him to deal with his confused brain and moving on with your life.

gbam, u spoke well, gurl ur aint guilty n shudnt feel so either

Am sorry, forgive me.

24? guy dat is just number, she cud b 30 n still behave lik a 16 yr old, yes, forgett her am just tellin u am a girl n know wat n how we ladies do behave to a man we think is weak n badly in love wit us. no man will go through d hell u went thru n still go bak to dat same gurl, neva not in dis present days,

wen its a situation where we are both courtin its okay to an extent 4 d fact that am not legally his wife, but in a case where we are already hus/wif, wit d kids or witout its not okey by me, nothin watsoever justifies dat action.

u wear d shoe n know where it hurts. sooooooooo, na u know d one wey u love pass as u cant make a lastin marriage by marryin som1 u dont lv, d ball is in ur court

17 wat? years abi wetin,, my friend go and read ur books u r too young to begin love affairs.

love at teenage age is possible but u got to get involved in so many incidents dat cos heart break.

but come wen did u started ur escapedes which u suddenly realised are infatuation, eeeeeeeeeeeeehhhhhhhhhhhhh see children of now adays,

immaturity in d highest order, na mumu gurl.

i dont have to behave in order to make my ex jealous. dats immaturity mehhhhnnn arrh, i no get time.