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48noble:
I'm sorry u think I'm hyping, u shouldn't ve thought I could hit a lady like that..why nah?

cos I dnt know you..

jomoh:
See. Means he had something for you but the school and the age thing prevented him from showing it.

Had it been that you were in school even if you were younger than you were, he would be proud to show you off. You know school has a way of bringing out maturity in people and it makes it difficult for people to guess your age but when you're not in school, people tend to put you in an age bracket that is right most of the times.

He still have feelings for you but please don't fall for it cos it only an infatuation not love.

thanks for the advice.

linearity:
Despite your current refusal, it appear you still like him and would not mind getting him back...the only thing I sense is the fact that, you do not want to "be the cause of another woman's sorrow"...well, a broken engagement is better than a battered woman, a loveless marriage or a divorce.

If you still feel for him and he have truly turn a new leave, do not let that be the hindrance, he might just be the one for you. The golden rule, I go by is, no one snatches a a boyfriend, girlfriend or spouse from another, people change their minds, make new choices, etc so long it is not done maliciously, it is better than living the rest of your live in misery with someone you do not love or battering them...think about the children the divorce and that relationship will entrust to us society to deal with...so, causing another woman sorrow is the lesser of the evils, if you think about the whole picture.

Also, you might be doing that lady a big favor by saving her from a loveless marriage to come....put yourself in that lady's shoe, getting married to someone that do not love you but loves another...you will at least want to know that, and I believe you will not want to go into that marriage, knowing that the person you want to spend the rest of your life with does not love you...and you will wish someone can tell you that or if there is a crystal ball that can tell you if the guy love you or not and if you find out, even if it will cause a temporary discomfort, you will want to at least but that engagement on hold. So, in the bigger scheme of things, considering the whole picture, you might be doing that lady, yourself and this guy a big favor once you stop looking at the temporary pains that lady will pass through as a factor in your decisions.

hmmmn, if he doesn't love her he should break up with her at his own will not cause I influenced it.

he knows what is best for him, so if he decides to continue with the marriage and later regrets am not to blame.

repogirl:
Too little too late..... I admire your strength girl, he missed his chance. Focus on yourself, let him keep stalking there and be wasting his time.

thanks jare.

Enahi:
@op RUN I know how it feels to be stalked and its so annoying and frustrating.

You know what do the blocking thing, block him on Facebook, on what'sapp and everywhere.

Also delete his number and stop picking his calls. He will get the message when you ignore his calls.

Remember dont reply his text messages too.

thanks dear.

Eberex:
Truth is the guy doesn't know what he wanted back then, and still doesn't know what he want. He is a confused being who needs to be flogged six stroke of the cane.

The first time he dated you, he was probably thinking of how to use you, and that was the reason why he didnt introduce you to his folks talk less of his friends.

And now that you are in school and now a big girl, pretty and lovely looking, he will be like "wow" what was i thinking to have left this girl?

Please ignore him or report him to your friends who know how to beat stalkers

lmao...

Love Machine:
But you said he was Godfearing?Anyway,stop forming as if you don't like the way he stalks you.Ladies love it so much.It boost their egos

lol. ..

not all the time.

48noble:
I'm too handsome to notice broke ,ugly, & lying ladies ,talk more of degrading myself by hitting a girl.

much hype. ..

jomoh:
The fact is that he loved you. He had always loved you but he was too embarrassed with the age gap and the fact that you were not in school that he could not bare to introduce you to his friends or family.

Now that you've matured he is now proud to show you off but unfortunately it is too late for him cos he's already engaged.

The fact that he told you the truth about his engagement shows he's will to do some stupid things but doesn't mean he has the balls to call off the engagement.

that's the thing. ..

why should he be shy of me, it wasn't like I wasn't going to go to school and for the age gap is immediate ex gf was just a year older than me.

AdeniyiA:
people, the OP is trying not to forget such a guy...
ladies want 'loaded guys


thank you...

okay... they have heard you.

fleksy:
Father, i Plead sense into this teenagers life. let her receive sense and open her eyes to see the evil stalking her relationship.

what relationship oga?

God blese him more abundantly with that sense.

alienvirus:
And you took your time to see him during the holiday. Are you engaged or married now?

none of the above.

noblegrex:
leave him and come to me baby..cos from the look of things,its like you're not in any relationship,that's why he's so free to come around you and you thinking otherwise.my girlllllll!!! The end product is break up if u make up again.the answer is,he's double dating,even when he had you so he was confused but now,in the reality but I'm not sure.may be it's the way you're giving it to him,he couldn't bare to loose that guess the memory is still fresh.that's the fact.hold on till you have another cos I smell some emotional attachement of u to him. Conclusion;come to me and I will give you peace of mind.

are u jesus wannnabe?

Tamakay:
And u even warned meaning contributions ooo. Don't mind him

some people can never hear word na...

EgunMogaji:
Are you two infants?

Just tell him to stop and you move on already.

Abi no be the same 9ja wey girls dey roam around like zombies in Walking Dead?

you read the age part na.

inme:
Bad belle every where.
Skales is balling ho

na so na...let him enjoy this time of fame he has.it comes once in blue moon.

48noble:
That's what she got from making a Maga of a hrtless and quiet beast of a guy.

wicked world?

hope you are not the guy tho ?

pinceprinz:
He b like say d niggah never torment ur life finish...

Anyway, kontinu enjoyin d stalkin till hin finally geh chance to fakcin rape U

Lol...
God forbid.

[quote author=48noble post=39644241][/quote]what kind of scary pixs is this o?
pls remove it asap.

pinceprinz:
If na sex hin want , just give him and leh him paro lo!

bad advice.

thanks.

PuciPrince:
Bad advice. Dont mind her ooo

how is it bad?

misspicy:
aunty run for your life..the guy just want sex closure then he will marry his fiancee

thanks a lot.

donholy28:
He doesn't love u at all...its just that he "probably" didn't tick attendance so he's back to tick it then smile and run!!!""mission accomplished!!…dont be fooled

Thanks for the advice.

delectablegyal:
Enjoy ur stay on nairaland.

Thanks.

IamLEGEND1:
that nígga ain't loyal just sleep with him....he'll let u be.

Bad advice.

delectablegyal:
I don't know why people some people like to push me to the wall. I'm a gentle person, I forgive u.

lmao

u started it... why do u think you will get away with making sarcastic comments on people's post if not that you want to get pushed too.

folksync:
You seem fond of making double posts.

seems you've been stalking me right?
it's my phone ish.

vizkiz:
yeah... I am freagging different.

what is freagging about it?

delectablegyal:
Ohkies. E be like say u just join nairaland and the thing dey shark u like fish for water. Keep on typing gibberish on every thread, u will soon get over it.


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you were don old who u help?

abi wetin u don achieve?

and incase u mention me back claiming to be a pro here already pls remember to laminate the award and show it to ur grandkids.

prettythicksme:
Lol,my dear u berra ignore him asap!!He's is after ur pusssy nothing else!!

alright thanks.

Jollyjoy:
share d love,dnt be selfish

Nah, nah

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