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yomi007k:
Don't they?

Majority not all.

vizkiz:
Men are like what?
Don't generalize

are u trying to say you are an exception?

KashyBaby:
The best thing is u ignore him...how he stalk u? Does he knows ur schedules?does he knows all ur social media sites? In this case block him..and do not answer any calls from him, eventually he will get tired doing it..

I was trying to be polite before.

yomi007k:
CHOP HIS MONEY TILL HE GETS SENSE

And this coming from a guy?

later you guys will say ladies like money.

Hello Nairalanders,

Am kind of new here and I decided to share this to learn from all, be it just sharing your own view or experience if you have had any or just advising base on what you know too.

Three years ago I met a guy, handsome, working class, well educated. He was 27 years then and I was 19 years and not yet in higher institution, he told me he loves me and he wanted a relationship with me of which after some time too I started developing interest in him too and so the relationship kicked off after few months.

He was my kind of guy tall, dark and handsome, Godfearing, intelligent and also from my state. We were happy together until I started feeling insecure because he never introduced me to neither of his parent nor friends nor any relative at all, while I was busy flaunting the relationship and he won't agree to come visit me at my place too, i kept telling my siblings my bf is not in town, he said because his last relationship he did that and the outcome wasn't good because the girl later broke up with him and he was heartbroken so was being careful.

I tried believing at first but with time I couldn't trust myself to feel he is not hiding some things from me, so i confronted him and told him at least ur best friend and am okay with it and I asked him questions like is it cos am not yet in school? besides as at that time have written jamb and was waiting for the admission list to be out.

He told me he loved beyond all that but still no one can hear about our relationship...at that moment I knew something was wrong and my insecurity wont let me trust him again so I decided to end the relationship there.

It was painful to me at the time but I tell you it was one of the best decisions I made...and to my surprise he didn't come begging back like I read in romance books and that hurts the more but that made me forget about him faster than I wanted and I moved on.

Fastforward to 2 years later this same guy started stalking me everywhere telling me how he loves me so much and that he is serious that he wants me to marry him, promising heaven and earth.

At this time have moved on and I was already in school, well I told him I was no longer interested and I dont love him again, he left me for some time and then started stalking me back this year again.

So when I was home for holiday I decided to see him and then he told me how he is now engaged to a lady he just met this year too and they have done their introduction but he doesn't love her and he still loves me and if I say yes to him he will call of the wedding and marry me.

It was strange to see that same guy that was always bossy around me begging me but I just told him I wont be the cause of another woman's sorrow by him breaking up with his fiancee.

Now he is ready to introduce me to even his ancestors, and treat me like a lady but unfortunately I stopped loving him long time ago.

Now he stalks me everywhere and am fed up already.

so ladies have you been in this kind of situation before and guys too? what's your best advice on this?

Meaningful contribution pls.

God bless me with hubby like this,

I sense jealousy

I like the name combination

but one seems to be more experienced.

post here.

beautiful

This guy needs to take a chill pill na.

This should be widely encouraged in Nigeria, too many couples looking for kids.

Happy Birthday to this strong woman who never allowed the controversies around her overshadow the woman in her.

735i:
Who dey celebrate am?

okay maybe for trying to be a celebrity then .

BOWOTO:
And you have a light skinned baby on your PP...

it isn't about the baby's colour of skin but her innocent look and cuteness caught me.

Besides I like babies with full hair.

Afrok:
Happy Birthday to her..... but sometimes I wonder if all these celebs dey Mark their birthdays more than once a year.

Don't be surprised if she tell us how old she is, only to find out she's a year younger than last year

lol.

cute.

she should bear her cross. ..

thats what u get for trying to be a celebrity.

congrat to the beautiful lady

she doesn't know her worth.

lmao
yahoo guys and bling blings.

Good to have money.

I hope he use this second chance he was given well.

akoshanti:
or they probably just had a quickie in the car or toilet

experience

she looks odd in this pixs.

skales be forming boss
one hit wonder guy

she looks good.

wow, this nice.
DRACULA.

wow, this nice.

All these beauty queens most times end up with these billonaires...more like the pageant is organised for them to pick a wife.

omotola