₦airaland Forum

Aare2050:
there is only one left hand mansion in lagos, n i'm d landlord*****
do u get it nw?

Caseless:
that means assurance. You know women want to be assured and not to be told 'NO' outrightly. I can do anything for my woman as long as it does not come with a commanding order.
I have soft spot for women.

Truckpusher:
See washing of the century.

Truckpusher:

lastpage:
You people should not turn this story into a "Feminazi-rubbish" ..... nor some Nigerian Vs. Oyinbo man rubbish.
It is neither of the two.

Its a simple case of over-reactive and insanely jealous guy who allowed his emotions to overrun his thinking and ended up killing a lady he loved while l think the lady could have handled the situation more delicately...... though we dont know the story form the guys angle yet.



Anything else is trying to give a Dog a bad name, not even "Bingo" .... so you can hang it.


Did we not read the story of the Nigerian Woman (Adeola) who stabbed her Nigerian husband to death, a few months ago, in the same America?


Let us just learn "the lessons" and move-on.


Lastpage!

Truckpusher:
Caseless , do not listen to her.

Caseless:


Vagen Maria

beamborla, I talk am. You de see am?

Truckpusher:
Wetin concern me?

Shey ya recommendations go put money for my pocket?

Caseless:
I think truck needs that more.
I'm a loving and caring man.... Lagunna can attest to this fact.

dearpreye:
As simple as that! And you folks hardly fail to return the favour!

I buried my ego that morning! You don't keep what's not useful. And I'm working hard to ensure it doesn't resurrect again. Arrogance causes pain; ego brings pain!

dearpreye:
As simple as that! And you folks hardly fail to return the favour!

I buried my ego that morning! You don't keep what's not useful. And I'm working hard to ensure it doesn't resurrect again. Arrogance causes pain; ego brings pain!

naijaboiy:
[color=#1980BC]How long will all these last?

Will your husband keep doing these things when he starts getting really busy at work? Or when you people start having kids old enough to take over the house chores.

It seems like most of you ladies are only looking at the early stages of marriage.

I don't see this helping with house chores issue continuing when you are a little older in the marriage.

But financial issues keep coming up.

The fact that one man has come on here to speak otherwise in favour of your point doesn't make other men who disagree to it devils or "wicked" (as you put it).

Let's be realistic here.[/color]

LadyBoss1:
Here dear Wasn't online earlier ... How r u

kinglekan:
Am heartbroken.

dearpreye:
Due to my background, I initially toed that path of assuming our wives to be housemaid. Infact, as far back as during my adolescent time, I've declared how dominating and arrogant I was going to be to my future woman. Of course, I kept to those words, and was gladly and foolishly destroying the happiness of the one person that means so much to me.

It all changed ONE MORNING when she so appreciated me for allowing her to stay back in bed while I thoroughly cleaned the entire house, and mopped every dirt. It worked wonders! Her gratitude shamed my stupidity and insensitivity. It meant she has been wishing I could get the signals and be a little helpful- just a little.

I was joyed by that gratitude I continued to be helpful to her till this day. And it has continued to work wonders. I had no choice than to question those wrong beliefs of mine, tested their validity in light of the current age, saw their folly, and gradually discarded them.

It's all give and take. I lose some part, and she does the same. To love is to change!

Jollyjoy:
and what is fvcking wrong helping her? Is she a working machine? What is even wrong with all these guys self.

dearpreye:
.
I had to change after that laziness kept creating unnecessary troubles between us. I had to!

I can't continue folding my hands, curl my legs and be watching the TV while she toils in the kitchen to make me dinner. It's unfair.

Sometimes, even when I'm not physically involved in the chores, I emotionally involved by taking a seat next to her in the kitchen. Women aren't fools; men just refused to understand them.

dearpreye:
I used to be pretty lazy at helping my woman. I've since changed that selfish and insensitive behaviour, and it's done wonders for me. She keeps returning the favour in kind.

Actually, we need to be empathic towards our women. The lifestyle of insensitivity our fathers lived may have worked back then; it won't NOW.

merikims:
not interested darling I do not take hands out and besides I am a young Mrs.

kinglekan:

Am fine dear, pweety busy day sha. Still in traffic. Missed ya too swts. Ehen u still showing up with ur bro?

darmys:
Contunu. ^patience voice^

Women are heading companies now and making changes in the world
sustainable development cannot be achieved if all hands are not on deck.
be it male or female.
That is why africa is still so behind in terms of development.
Half of the game changers at cooking for one man somewhere
who is selfish enough to turn her into a stay at home,

The other half have been labelled all sort of names for standing up for themselves.

kinglekan:
Waiting patiently.

merikims:
how and which place again?make beamborla no stab u for sleep ooo

darmys:
will he return the favour by washing, cleaning and taking care of the baby sometime to let her rest or build a career?

hensben:
ifa hear..#famzing things

Truckpusher:
Your being independent isn't about sharing equal financial responsibilities at home but to ensure that in the case of any unforseen circumstances and your hubby is no longer around ,you can conveniently take the heat .

I have seen big boys die and their kids begin to catch hell immediately because even while he was rich and building his businesses he had not really achieved financial stability .

You have no idea what will transpire if the breadwinner in the house exits too early either by natural cause or accident .I have seen good ladies turned widow almost playing the prostitute just to fend for her kids.

Reasonable men with enough substance put a lot of money in the hands of their wives just in case something goes wrong and his family starts kicking up dust.

Truckpusher:
Your being independent isn't about sharing equal financial responsibilities at home but to ensure that in the case of any unforseen circumstances and your hubby is no longer around ,you can conveniently take the heat .

I have seen big boys die and their kids begin to catch hell immediately because even while he was rich and building his businesses he had not really achieved financial stability .

You have no idea what will transpire if the breadwinner in the house exits too early either by natural cause or accident .I have seen good ladies turned widow almost playing the prostitute just to fend for her kids.

Reasonable men with enough substance put a lot of money in the hands of their wives just in case something goes wrong and his family starts kicking up dust.

Truckpusher:
Of course the pride started with you guys trying to emasculate men and turn them to puccies.

Whatever you guys are buying from the West isn't working and it would further plunge the society into chaos.

Of course we are well aware that we've go some iidiot that call themselves men.One iidiot actually traced his girlfriend to my hotel room . Wtf is wrong with this guy - I've seen a guy that caught his girlfriend pants down and he was the one crying asking the psycho why. he's a man too.
We are all men but our mental toughness is totally different .So, please kindly look for the puccies.

darmys:
Asin. this young men of nowadays especially.
they want "housewife" like their mums.
But complain women too like money when she wants you to foot bills.

You men must choose one. Pay for everything or share the chores and bills.