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Romance / Re: Nigeria Freedom Gay Club? They Must Be Arrested by Beamborla(f): 9:50pm On Jan 05, 2017 |
But why are people so concerned about what the other person is doing, want to do, have chosen to do to his ass hole or what a lady wants to insert in her vagina What's the government wahala in it self? Mtcheeeew... So long they don't trample on another person's right, the law should stay out of it and face real problems. Gays and lesbians are the least of our worries. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Romance / Re: Men And Our Hair by Beamborla(f): 9:35pm On Jan 05, 2017 |
richommie:It's a shame we can't edit our profile. Woulda dropped it there |
Romance / Re: Men And Our Hair by Beamborla(f): 8:03am On Jan 05, 2017 |
Chopped off my hair on Monday Fresh air...very sweet 1 Like |
Education / Re: Majority Of Nigerian Female Undergraduates Are Intellectually Re-tarded by Beamborla(f): 10:22am On Jan 04, 2017 |
ashewoboy: I appreciate your vote of confidence. Welcome back |
Education / Re: Majority Of Nigerian Female Undergraduates Are Intellectually Re-tarded by Beamborla(f): 7:27am On Jan 04, 2017 |
dingbang:That's the best I can do. It would be futile to engage in an argument... Moreover, he's somewhat right, he is just gender biased. Both sexes have refused to get themselves informed. |
Education / Re: Majority Of Nigerian Female Undergraduates Are Intellectually Re-tarded by Beamborla(f): 7:15am On Jan 04, 2017 |
Okay. |
Romance / Re: Ladies Why? by Beamborla(f): 10:08pm On Jan 03, 2017 |
thesuave10:It's not. |
Romance / Re: Ladies Why? by Beamborla(f): 10:01pm On Jan 03, 2017 |
thesuave10:Shebi it haff quickly turned to question and answer session...ko si wahala Attraction to me is the interest or pull your have towards and an object or individual |
Romance / Re: Ladies Why? by Beamborla(f): 9:57pm On Jan 03, 2017 |
dingbang:If you are a smooth talker and good at studying people before approaching them, you are good to go. |
Romance / Re: Ladies Why? by Beamborla(f): 9:49pm On Jan 03, 2017 |
thesuave10:I don't get it thesuave10: I'm not the lady in question, bro. One thing is clear, you are in your 'happy hour' tonight. |
Romance / Re: Ladies Why? by Beamborla(f): 9:45pm On Jan 03, 2017 |
thesuave10:If there was a way I could employ euphemism, I'm not sure I would. When the truth is garnished, it sometimes loses its flavour. Well, she not being attracted to him does not mean he is not attractive to someone else. 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Ladies Why? by Beamborla(f): 9:35pm On Jan 03, 2017 |
dingbang:This is far from finishing, it's the bitter truth. I personally have a line i just give out(i don't pick calls on this line except for numbers I've saved on the line) so I don't appear 'rude' and to avoid conversations like why don't you want to give me your number... I'm always tempted to say 'I owe you no explanation' Guys need to understand that one can't give attention to every Tom Dick and Harry we come across. There are even days you just want to go unnoticed and not in the mood to entertain any pleasantry. And yes, no one should hit me with the 'it's does not necessarily mean he wants to ask you out or 'you don't know who is who' song. It's not everyone you let in and sometimes, your spirit and everything in you can just disagree completely with the other person. 1 Like 1 Share |
Romance / Re: Ladies Why? by Beamborla(f): 9:08pm On Jan 03, 2017 |
She's obviously not attracted to you and does not see the possibility of a future attraction. 1 Like |
Romance / Re: 10 Ignorant Mindset Of Some Ladies Towards Marriage. by Beamborla(f): 5:48pm On Jan 03, 2017 |
Toks2008: You only keep scratching the surface and going off... Perhaps, you don't understand me. Have a nice evening |
Romance / Re: 10 Ignorant Mindset Of Some Ladies Towards Marriage. by Beamborla(f): 4:42pm On Jan 03, 2017 |
Toks2008:Moral decadence and imperfection especially in the context I used it are two different things. You didn't answer my question. You maintained there is nothing like loving someone for real, in your opinion, it's about identifying the reasons for loving the person and hope it's maintained. The possibility that life can happen and some of the reasons for loving the person disappears can not be overulled. Another is that it's possible to come across another person with the 'reasons' and even more. How do you deal with such situation if the love is not for real. 2 Likes |
Romance / Re: 10 Ignorant Mindset Of Some Ladies Towards Marriage. by Beamborla(f): 4:06pm On Jan 03, 2017 |
Toks2008:If you ask me, going after a lady because you find her sexually appealing is not even love in the first place. That's lust. When people talk about being loved for real, they are referring to the ability of the person to see all their imperfections and accept it. They are referring to the ability of the person to see beyond their physical appearance and be aware of other treasures embedded in them. Truth is, you'd always come across people who posses that which you find attractive in your partner and even more. You'd meet people better than your partner, people who meet your standards, who have qualites you never knew you'd find attractive. If it's all about your submission, what should one do when that happens? 12 Likes |
Romance / Re: 10 Ignorant Mindset Of Some Ladies Towards Marriage. by Beamborla(f): 3:38pm On Jan 03, 2017 |
This issue has been discussed in different forms/ways/format... It's fast becoming a cliché, and is already beginning to lose its value. However, that of 'a man loving me for real', I don't get how that is out of place. Can you, please, explain further. Why is the pressure to compromise always on ladies? 2 Likes |
Celebrities / Re: Toyin Lawani's Son, Tenor, Poses With Naija Policemen In Birthday Photos by Beamborla(f): 3:04pm On Jan 03, 2017 |
Sweet boy |
Food / Re: “if You Eat Fufu Or Eba With Your Hands, You Have No Home Training” – Lady by Beamborla(f): 3:01pm On Jan 03, 2017 |
She's right... |
Romance / Re: All Ladies Must Answer This???????? by Beamborla(f): 6:57pm On Dec 28, 2016 |
Stop sniffing ass holes... It's called ass hole for a reason. Abi you want it to be smelling jellof rice ni 1 Like |
Romance / Re: . by Beamborla(f): 10:02am On Dec 27, 2016 |
She should break up with him for her own good. it's normal for people to get attached to those who treat then well and listen to them. You both can't be sure just yet that what you have for each other is indeed love. After her break up, you two should give it time. Allow her heal, spend time away from each other so you can sort out your feelings. If the fire is still there, go for it. Things will never be the same between you and your friend. 1 Like 1 Share |
Romance / Re: Naija Girls Sucks When It Comes To Chat by Beamborla(f): 10:02pm On Dec 26, 2016 |
Lemme come and be going. 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Financially Dependent Ladies Who Talk About Marriage Lack Vision by Beamborla(f): 3:30pm On Dec 24, 2016 |
fabrista:I'm not understanding.... A degree in mass communication is not a degree 2 Likes |
Romance / Re: Sex: This Girl Wants Her Married Pastor Badly. See What She Did by Beamborla(f): 6:24pm On Dec 22, 2016 |
Truckpusher: Very fine. Compliments of the season |
Romance / Re: Sex: This Girl Wants Her Married Pastor Badly. See What She Did by Beamborla(f): 5:02pm On Dec 21, 2016 |
Truckpusher:Welcome back |
Romance / Re: Talk Here If You Are Married or In A Romantic Relationship by Beamborla(f): 1:35pm On Dec 20, 2016 |
Jayson1:If she's aware of how he feels, then no use wondering. She's either strong enough or stupid enough. |
Romance / Re: Talk Here If You Are Married or In A Romantic Relationship by Beamborla(f): 1:06pm On Dec 20, 2016 |
Jayson1:Then how does he live? In constant paranoia? That's unhealthy. |
Romance / Re: Talk Here If You Are Married or In A Romantic Relationship by Beamborla(f): 1:04pm On Dec 20, 2016 |
TheCOB:I don't know how to reply this. But I just answered your question. |
Romance / Re: Talk Here If You Are Married or In A Romantic Relationship by Beamborla(f): 12:59pm On Dec 20, 2016 |
TheCOB: Communication is not effective when the sender and the receiver do not have a shared meaning. There are lots of things involved in communication from tone of voice to body language to body posture to eye contact down to choice of words. Even the environment and mood have roles to play. All of these can either enhance or distort the decoding of a message by the receiver. You have not communicated effectively if the receiver is unable to decode the message you are sending better than you meant it or just as you meant it. I'm trying to explain this without going into mass communication jargons. Simply put, if the receiver is not on the same page with you the sender, then effective communication is yet to talk place |
Romance / Re: Talk Here If You Are Married or In A Romantic Relationship by Beamborla(f): 12:44pm On Dec 20, 2016 |
TheCOB:Communication is not all about talking about random activities, ma'am. There are people who talk less but still communicate effectively with their partners. Communication in relationships is more about putting everything about the relationship into words and backing it by actions where necessary to eliminate wrong assumptions/conclusions. If they had been having effective communication, she would have understood his type of person instead of assuming. |
Romance / Re: Talk Here If You Are Married or In A Romantic Relationship by Beamborla(f): 12:35pm On Dec 20, 2016 |
Jayson1: Very sweet of you to have mentioned me but I'm afraid I'm not much of an authority when it comes to romance. Nevertheless, I'd tie everything down to communication... Not just communication, but effective and honest communication. In addition, you have no business dating someone you can't or do not trust. |
Nairaland / General / Re: Happy December 2016! Blow Someone A Happy New Month Wish! by Beamborla(f): 9:53am On Dec 20, 2016 |
emusmithy:It's indeed the Lord's doing. Oluwa Seun. |
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