SycophanticGoat:


I can't believe she blocked you (just like that) cuz she's not the pompous type. You go done trouble her so tey she no fit deal again.. Smh 4 you sha..

I know I can always count on you to have my back... Kaboninc, ayam not understanding, what I do?

kinglekan:


hahahhah.. I'm so sorry, funny how time flies oo. Can't believe its been over a year already.

Happy New Month tho.

Yes o! It's a year, two months now.
Thanks, hun.

I wish you the best if December

cummando:
for those posting atop this I pity with all my strength. Some things are not meant for ladies to do.
e.g

how would u feel seeing a lady with two husbands.

The same way I would feel when I see a man with two wives

or a lady in beer parlor kpeffing alone.

And what's the big deal in it?

or a lady wearing agbada

You need to go out more

....I can go on.
some things are meant to be for men exclusively.
As for that girl with that useless comment I pity.
I know what happens to girls who ask for sex and trust me 99% doesn't end well...

She didn't beg, she answered his question. Nothing is exclusive to men.

Men! Some just can't be loyal and reasonable...even while confined to a wheelchair.

The mistake you made was expecting him to be good because he's confined to a wheelchair. You also made the mistake of expecting his family to treat you like a god cos you agreed to marry their physically challenged son. Are you sure you don't rub it in his face when the opportunity presents itself?

My inexperienced advice; Communication is key.
You two really need to talk it out because his family would only treat you the way he presents you to them. And you on your part should try not to rub it in his face that he can't walk and all those emotional stuffs...blah blah blah.

You guys should talk.
If he refuses to change, give him the you-don't-exist-treatment small

kinglekan:


Hahahaha..

Good thing you have started keeping your natural hair, while you leave low cut alone as just an idea in your head.
Idleness? Are you done with youth service already?

Lolz... Can I serve for more than a year? Abi I want become professional corps member ni?

Passed out since Oct.

B2Spirits:



I won't be tempted to trade words with you. The respect you enjoy from me at present is your mastery of Queen's English.


Is it everyday you witness the eclipse of the moon? When I say something is surprising, you shudder think of the character of a friend in question.

Not calling for an e-duel as well.
I guess I took it too personal...my apologies if you feel offended

But you self check am...
You should still mind your business, though

B2Spirits:


Ask Ifa

Thank you for not disappointing me. I sure wasn't looking forward to a reasonable reply from you. What baffles me, though, is how you managed to have a friend who is matured enough to think of settling down with your level of maturity.

Your friend should stay away from you, if he does exist; you'd likely encourage him to cheat on his wife since you don't consider her worthy enough.

This is called MIND YOUR BUSINESS

I guess your friend has overgrown his immaturity while you're still wallowing in yours.

Get a life.

'The girl is not that bad, but to say the truth, she is ugly' does this make any sense to you?

emusmithy:


Lemmie try to explain the points as was in my mind ...

3: She knows him and knows he likes her; they've been out a couple of times. Probably seem each other. She just wouldn't accept xoz of the guy's weaknesses (If you so hate that part of him, drive him, push him away...run away... Dont still hang around for money and sex.) She loves everyyother thing except that weakness. Is that what you call 'not my spec?' Don't you also have weaknesses? Marriage is made up of two weak people coming together to build a strong bond/family. Lets accept the fact. Some ladies have weaknesses they've been hiding too; eg, one boob is bigger than the other. Maturity overlooks all those physically stuff and really go for what actually matters. WHAT IS KUKU MY BUSINESS? AM I THE ONE BACHELORETTING FOR HER? LET HER WAIT FOR HER PERFECT MAN!

4. You're not getting any younger AND the reply, marriage isn't a must for everyone. I didn't say it was. I'm only speaking the minds of most of their mums. Besides, their minds too even if they hate to hear someone else say it.

5. Him being not a persistent pursuer; For example You, Abimbola. I know you offline. If after years we've known a bit of ourselves. I miss you, you rreciprocate. We're both not in relationships. I'm not a persistent pursuer...I ask you out on a serious note. You start playing me 10-10. Hmm, I feel somehow and heed to Jessica's call who's been asking me out. I marry her. You start saying, I broke your heart. I'll say, You were simply forming but to me, it's Overforming coz I'm not that pushy in women matters.

Bla bla bla...work calls. Ttyl. You dey make me talk o

point 3 is still not forming...i agree with 5. Point 4, nope!

Have a great day

emusmithy:


About the cheap part, I never said so.


My point: Over-Forming? It's not necessary. If you read the thread very well you'll notice I was referring to a guy and a girl who are acquainted with each other.

Forming is different from Over-forming.
Carrying yourself with dignity IS NOT over forming.

Over forming is doing all possible to make a guy think you've got something even when you don't have such.

Dear, to me the thread is far from referring to people who are already acquainted. It's only point number 1&2 that is 100% inline with those who are already acquainted.

One minute, Nigerian girls are cheap, the next minute, they too form.

OP, while some of your points are valid, some are not.

Using age to threaten a lady into marriage is bad. It's responsible for the desperation of most ladies when it comes to marriage and why some end up with a beast. If she's not married at 40, it's wrong to assume that it's because she was forming away during her prime.

I don't support insulting a guy because he's physically flawed. But then, for any love relationship to boom, there must be physical attraction. And the fact that I'm not pretty or flawed as well does not mean I have to settle for what I'm not attracted to. We all have our spec.

I'm however of the school of thought that if you like him, don't waste the valuable time you could use in building the relationship on playing hard to get. The way you present yourself in the relationship is enough for him to respect or disrespect you.

Lastly, marriage is not a do or die affair. There are people whom if left alone, are comfortable being alone but our society pushed them into matrimonies that turn out well for some and other, not so good.

kinglekan:


Hahaha..Story of my life @ teen.

Abeg do something with the hair rather than cutting it. I am sure there are natural ways to take care of the hair without having to spend so much time and money in the salon, if that's the major reason why you are considering cutting it.

Lol... I still have my hair yet I have to listen/watch people take take me for a teen.

Ehn... Although, I find going on low cut really tempting at the moment, I'm considering keeping natural hair Infact, I've started.

Conclusion: I'm being seriously disturbed by idleness. Shame!

kinglekan:


Yeah fringe .. But I think it has another name too tho?

Low cut? Are you for real? So you want to take off your hair of how many years

6yrs.

The only thing stopping me is the fact that they could start taking me for a teen considering my stature. But I want to do something with my hair.

kinglekan:


You dont know about the hairstyle? Really??

I know it has a bob or bulb in the name, cant just remember. Anyways good to know you're doing just fine

I guess you are referring to fringe. It's been a while I rocked that.

Seriously thinking of going on low cut

kinglekan:


Mowa ooo! Mio de kuku da e nu ooo. We just drifted apart and its not like anything happened sef.

But I know you understand that these things happen. Keeping in touch has never really been my strong side. Hope you are good tho?
Are you still rocking that your fave hairstyle? Your signature hairstyle? lol

Ko si wahala!
I'm doing great. I however, don't know about the hairstyle

kinglekan:


Motigbo dear! Mo kan ba sere ni o, mio mope o dun to yen. Moti kuku fisile, ko ma gbe bukata e lo.

Mio raye emotional higi haga!

Showapa sha? Iyaf to jo mewa

Ere e wa expensive.

Yes o! Mo way pa jare. Iwo na nko?
O to ojo meta. Sebi iwo lo da mi nu

kinglekan:


Abimbola mi owon! .. Is not what you're thinking o. You know I would never hurt a fly. These days I seem to be courting too much trouble anytime I come online.

gba dura funmi dear

You are courting too much trouble indeed.

Fi omo olomo sile. One minute, ohun so oro didun fun and the next minute, o fin pa.

O tin wa emotional.

kinglekan:


Bla Bla bla Bla...

Someone is obviously in her period!

Lekan!

mazidan:


No mind the inferior he-goat.
See fulani and yoruba beauties op go rethink your mumu thought see the queen even without hair.
Op get it straight NIGERIAN WOMEN ROCKS BLACK IS PRETTIER THAN WHITE NO COMPARISON NEEDED

I don't subscribe to the black is prettier than white thing. What we need to do is stop using skin color to define beauty.

Let it be judged on how well kept your skin looks be it black or white if skin is going to be involved at all.

Every shade is beautiful.

emusmithy:


Think say, you don start work na?

I wish. I'm still unemployed

AxeurdaddyIX:


Lol. Didn't expect you to come out with something meaningful. You're just a Bimbo with an IQ in the negative

Warris this now

Try use small letter 'b' next time

emusmithy:


Worker things

For where?

I dey find work, abeg

emusmithy:


Not really. Still scratching the surface. I'm kinda less this period. You always here na

Okies!

Yeap. I come online but not often

emusmithy:

Yh mng.

Are you back to NL?

emusmithy:


Really? Sure?

Yeah! Good morning

emusmithy:

It's for the best, sweet

Promising...

And it was written by Smith...chai!

Lemme waka pass.

davidif:


Its the story that I am reacting to.

Fear catch me

You get what you attract to yourself.

kaboninc:


It is people like you who should be locked out of this world.. .for good. People like you think in a very s.lly way and bring your stupidity causing unnecessary tension everywhere.

Why can't you just do a little research? What would it cost you? And it will be a shame if you were one of those selected because it is glaring that you lack what it takes to become an entrepreneur.

Sadly, she is.

Don't even know what to write.

davidif:

Warris it?