Politics › Re: Nigerian Air Force C-130H Aeromedical Evacuation (Pictures) by BEEFIE: 9:09pm On Apr 29, 2020 |
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Politics › Re: Stop Borrowing Money From Other Countries – Harrysong Advises Buhari by BEEFIE: 11:39am On Apr 29, 2020 |
what does harrysong knows about economics... |
Food › Re: The Big Fish We Caught During Our Lockdown Expedition. by BEEFIE: 11:23am On Apr 29, 2020 |
Thelucifer666: Ibos are very talented. Unlike some skull miners why is half of the talented Ibos running to the skull miners region. for their daily bread. |
Health › Re: 45-Year-Old Man Commit Suicide In Imo By Hanging (Graphic Photos) by BEEFIE: 11:10am On Apr 29, 2020 |
PericomaNwankwo: It's real, I live close he didn't do it himself. he was killed. probably by a psychopath that want something from him |
Health › Re: 45-Year-Old Man Commit Suicide In Imo By Hanging (Graphic Photos) by BEEFIE: 11:04am On Apr 29, 2020 |
it doesn't look real. with his two hands not cuffed together. he will struggle with the rope to grasp fresh air. the narrative is wrong
even the ladder shows he was dragged up there. |
Romance › Re: Is It Too Late To Marry At 34 For A Man? What Age Is Best For Marriage? by BEEFIE: 6:56am On Apr 29, 2020 |
tompat86: The most difficult age for any man born in Nigeria
should be
between 24 and 29 years, the pressure to be something,
to be someone is so immense. When you look around
you everyone seems to be doing something for
themselves, people seem to be living a life you only
dream of. You have applied for jobs and the results have
been more disappointing than Yakubu Aiyegbeni goal miss at the world cup.
Sadly this is the age when most guys lose it, the age
when if not careful one is consumed by alcohol or drugs,
because the disappointments become too much and you
find alternative ways to face reality. Worse is when a few
people you studied with have been lucky enough to land
jobs, soon your circle of friends gets thinner – mostly
they don’t even cut you out but you will be real with
yourself and cut yourself off. I mean what will you do
when you are in a WhatsApp group of friends and they
are discussing about last week’s trip in Dubai and
planning another trip South Africa while you are not sure
of what your next meal would be?
Most times you follow the conversation silently, all
alone like a cross on the grave. Soon you realize this is
no longer your kind of crowd because the more you keep
around the more the pressure to be something, takes a
toll on you. You know when stories about house parties
come up and you act deaf because you don’t know
where an extra 5 guys would fit in your house. Have you
ever sat in a group of people discussing the new iPhone
on the market or how British Airways offers poo services
and you can feel your heart whisper to you “boss this is
chest pain hour, can we just go and find a group that
talks about GMAT, SHLn Dragnet, jobberman or job
vacancies sites“.
But you sit there as these people are lost in their
lifestyle conversations, you are like a secretary taking
minutes in meeting. You are totally forgotten like one of
a woman’s breasts during pre-intimacy. Once in a while
one of the friends will turn and ask if you need another
drink and you wonder if you should just say No and
head home, but head home to do what? So you
grudgingly drop in the comment “I will have just one
last one“ Lie.
But after a few years of job hunting, you are now ready
to take anything even if is to smell a rich man’s farts as
long as it pays , so you end up as an office messenger
in one blue chip company in town. To imagine that 4-5
years of studying and getting a degree is now reduced
to picking and dropping off letters and if you are not
doing that, you are being sent for cheap lunch by the
employees when they are broke and they can’t order
with fast food. This is when conversations about where
people schooled start, you go silent for it’s no longer of
any use to say you also reached University, it doesn’t
matter – you have resorted to surviving.
Once in while you will bump into your now well to do
classmates, they would offer you lunch, but not even
eating the meals at Eko Hotel or Sheraton will make you
feel better about yourself, because in your mind you
wish instead they would give you the 30k and you sort
your meals for the next 5 weeks. As it is the norm you
will have photos taken, and uploaded on Facebook, but
always it’s your face that would look the odd one out –
not even the best filters can hide a face which has
suffered the city's dust and sun but survives on boiled
beans.
The worst mistake you can do during this period is to
try and date – there is nothing that a person going
through such times can offer in terms of love. How are
you going to do evening romantic walks when you are
tired from walking delivering letters in offices around
town? What are you going to tell your lady when she
says she wants to go for relaxation at the bar, pool or
love garden sites that are in town? That your financial
religion doesn’t allow it or what? This is the age when
you sit back and watch as the ladies you would want to
date are dating or getting married to guys 10 years older
than you. And you can’t blame them – it’s only that your
life seems to be progressing slower than their goals in
life. Most of the ladies you meet during this period, if
you are lucky will be patient with you till you hit 28, and
if by then your life is still in disarray like Arsenal fc's performance in the EPL then my friend be
prepared for a walk out.
But then this is the age when you learn a lot of about
life, if you can hack through this stage of life the only
hard moment in your life would be when you lose your
parents - that’s if you are still lucky enough to have
them. This stage teaches you a lot about perseverance,
about appreciating the small wins you have each day, it
teaches you something about friendship, love, career
growth and personal responsibility. This is always your
rise or fall moment depending on the choices you make.
How you live your life in the 30’s is determined by how
you handled your life in this phase.
Do not Give up. Do not Be Depressed. remain focused and create a Strategy. Be consistent, you must Surely Win. wow such a wonderful read |
Health › Re: Enugu Announces New Confirmed Case Of COVID-19, Reveals Next Line Of Action by BEEFIE: 6:11am On Apr 29, 2020 |
solmus:

They build Isolation centers without Testing Facilities and only send samples to far off Ebonyi... who is fooling who
Just Imagine the whole of South-east has only one Molecular Laboratory but by Dave Umahi, yet we wonder why we have only tested paltry 10,000
. Enugu is not far from ebonyi... and the whole of South East is not up to Oyo state |
Politics › Re: P&ID Judgement: FG Requests Jonathan, Diezani’s Bank Statements by BEEFIE: 5:28am On Apr 29, 2020 |
Nigerian s are not smart |
Politics › Re: P&ID Judgement: FG Requests Jonathan, Diezani’s Bank Statements by BEEFIE: 5:26am On Apr 29, 2020 |
Fheelzz: Nothing to say all politician are looters, but you see bubu lemme not say rubbish to my fellow bro
contact for ur graphix design did you read that...this is not about looters this is about a country that want to swindle our country |
Romance › Re: Would You Rather Masturbate Or fvckk A Prostitute? by BEEFIE: 12:25pm On Apr 28, 2020 |
EVILFOREST: USELESS TOPICS everywhere.
It's time to quit this FORUM.
PLEASE can someone suggest a FORUM where one can find people like EXPLORER...?
KIDS are now coming home with useless result sheets yours.com |
Romance › Re: How Do I Kill Destroy Annihilate Completely All Sexual Desires In Me. by BEEFIE: 12:22pm On Apr 28, 2020 |
let Doctor inject you with estrogen hormones. |
Celebrities › Re: Adunni Ade Goes Back To Islam, Leaves Christianity. Feels Fulfilled & Happier by BEEFIE: 10:32am On Apr 28, 2020 |
LaJoe2: that maybe true, but my point is, Islam came many years after Christ came, died and was resurrected. Years after Christianity was in full blown practice. Infact the Old Testament came even many more years before, now based on these facts, which book will you recommend I have or should have more regard for or trust more in terms of providing me with Truth, the Bible or the Quran what is your definition of truth |
Celebrities › Re: Adunni Ade Goes Back To Islam, Leaves Christianity. Feels Fulfilled & Happier by BEEFIE: 10:04am On Apr 28, 2020 |
LaJoe2: My apologies, I'm not here to incite a religious war. But for us to reason, how can you follow a religion that only came 600yrs after Christ I.e, Christianity was is in full blown practice before Islam came along. A religion that gives reference to Christ or rather 'the people of the book': the Bible (the Torah and the New Testament) if your in search for the truth (there is no where in the Bible that give reference to Prophet Mohammed). A religion that is not certain of what will happen after death, gives no clue as opposed to the greater book that came before. Pls I hope I didn't disrespect any ones religion, just food for thought. the earth has been existing millions of years before Christ. Abraham had existed 4000 years before Jesus. David had existed hundreds of year before Christ. all prophet are brothers they come from the same bloodline |
Celebrities › Re: Adunni Ade Goes Back To Islam, Leaves Christianity. Feels Fulfilled & Happier by BEEFIE: 10:00am On Apr 28, 2020 |
tete7000: The problem is she couldn't find the rest the first time, and she doesnt sound like her coming back will be any better. She is already showing signs of rebellion. How do you intend to handle that? opposition simply because of the people around turning against what she used to be |
Celebrities › Re: Adunni Ade Goes Back To Islam, Leaves Christianity. Feels Fulfilled & Happier by BEEFIE: 9:39am On Apr 28, 2020 |
tete7000: She sounds so confused than convinced. She has been to many churches, only her, wetin dey pursue her up and down? Now she converted back to Islam and still not willing to abide by dressing code. "I wear what I like, modest or not... Who are you to judge me?" Hear her talk. Her soul is still restless, looking for somewhere to pearch. Jesus could have helped her but she failed to find him. "Our soul shall find no rest, until they rest in Thee O Lord" - St. Augustine of Hippopo. verily, in the remembrance of Allah do the heart find rest |
Family › Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by BEEFIE: 5:28am On Apr 28, 2020 |
Julietsim: My husband and I have been married for almost 2 years now. He is a very good man . He is not a cheating type. The only thing is he likes sex so much that he always wants to have it everyday. I am tired. This lockdown has even increase the issue.
Please how can one cope? Is there any married lady that has experienced this. How did you handle it? lockdown doesn't means lockout |
Romance › Re: Can A Girl With High Body Count Be Faithful In Marriage? by BEEFIE: 11:32pm On Apr 27, 2020 |
flyingdutchman: Well, if you as a man had a high body count, you have no moral grounds to judge your spouse. IDIAAATS! I did a census. mine is 23 |
Sports › Re: What Is The Best Bet Strategie? by BEEFIE: 9:07pm On Apr 27, 2020 |
the only strategy is the one you choose... carefully observe football events you might find a trend. |
Romance › Re: 25 Abraham Lincoln Quotes That Changed My Life From ZERO To HERO by BEEFIE: 11:58pm On Apr 26, 2020 |
if it truly changed your life. can we see your account balance |
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Romance › Re: Why Do I Keep Meeting Girls From Troubled Families? by BEEFIE: 11:10pm On Apr 26, 2020 |
don89: My own case ,the girls I meet always turn out to have a child as in baby mamas without husband s, about six of them .. you have been appointed to be their baby daddy |
Family › Re: Guys, Don't Get Married If You Work In A Private Establishment by BEEFIE: 10:14am On Apr 26, 2020 |
Gerrard59: I doubt OP would have created this thread if her brother worked with Seplat or Sahara Group or Schneider . In sane places, people aspire to work in the private sector as that is where wealth is generated, ideas are borne to life and innovation happens. But in multidimensional poverty ridden areas, the vast majority desire a working environment where indolence is praised, corruption is lauded and nonchalance is seen as a thing of pride. OP: Know it today that all over the world, the vast vast majority of employees are employed by private firms and not the government unless you imply that no male in Nigeria should get married. BTW, where does this country have the money to pay everyone should we all work with the government?
When I say the vast majority of Nigerians need to be taught elementary economics properly, this thread justifies my desire. most people don't want to try anything with their life, they just want to be drawing salary and enjoy. |
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Politics › Re: Justice Needed Please!!! In A Case Of Rape by BEEFIE: 5:46pm On Apr 25, 2020 |
you pinned another man's child on your husband... enjoy your pain |
Romance › Re: I Am In Love With A Woman With 3 Kids by BEEFIE: 11:14pm On Apr 24, 2020 |
GOFRONT: Mummy Dorathy has 4 matured children......End of every month, I usually pick her over to my apartment to Lash her...
Infact I wan begin Lash that Dorothy too as their Mama puna don begin taya me...... ninu awe |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Iran Launches First Military Satellite Into Orbit After Months Of Failure by BEEFIE: 6:56pm On Apr 24, 2020 |
Righteousness89: Iran Leaders seem to be more interested in Power tussle than on its Citizenry!
This has little or no effects on the Country have you been to Iran their citizens are enjoying whatever is in the West even more except for the sanction |
Islam › Re: Kano Residents Storm Market For Ramadan Shopping (Video) by BEEFIE: 6:12pm On Apr 24, 2020 |
Hndrrxxx: You sound delusional you are free to express yourself. but the next few days will jugde |
Education › Re: ASUU Salaries: Use Of BVN Will Expose Lecturers With Multiple Jobs – FG by BEEFIE: 6:03pm On Apr 24, 2020 |
omonnakoda: We make one mistake in Nigeria . We assume government is not subject to law or if government does or says something it has become law.
The issue here is between employer and employee. It makes no difference that the employer is goverment. The relationship is governed by THE SAME LAWS that govern all such relationships whether the employer is goverment or MTN unless specific legislation exists to state otherwise are you saying your employer can't do a background check on you or require a KYC on you |
Celebrities › Re: Yomi Obileye Is Dead by BEEFIE: 5:48pm On Apr 24, 2020 |
Menance: I don't even know him and have no business with coneheads.. but Rip and rest well. |
Travel › Re: Truck Carrying People From North To Delta Disguised As Foodstuff Intercepted by BEEFIE: 10:21am On Apr 24, 2020 |
Delta people always believed they can always find a way around anything. that warri no dey carry last. it is pure ignorance |
Islam › Re: Kano Residents Storm Market For Ramadan Shopping (Video) by BEEFIE: 10:07am On Apr 24, 2020 |
Ibiscon: when the Kano testing center will come back on board, it will not be funny at all. Kano and Kwara will be the new hotbed. Wetin b kwara own. the govnor of the two state are doing cover up and they are soundly ignorant |
Health › Re: NCDC: We’re Running Against Time With Insufficient Laboratories, Ventilators by BEEFIE: 5:17am On Apr 24, 2020 |
but you guys said you were absolutely ready. e be like say curse dey follow una |