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Crime / Re: "How I Was Raped By My Husband’s Benefactor" – Bauchi Housewife Narrates by Beey(f): 4:14pm On Jan 16
ObalendeCMS:
Simple man & his sharp wife trying to frame Mr. Muazu.

Simple man didn't know his sharp wife & Mr. Muazu were forking before.
Were you there ? Do you know them or how did you come up with this allegation? I don’t know till when some people will continue to discredit the experiences of women & stop treating women as children of a lesser god.
Crime / Re: "How I Was Raped By My Husband’s Benefactor" – Bauchi Housewife Narrates by Beey(f): 4:12pm On Jan 16
ALCOHOLKILLS:
woman but you enjoyed it, don't lie sad angry
You are evil personified! Good grief! A woman is violated and you are here writing this? Would you have said the same if the lady in question is a close relative of yours?Yet, here you are celebrating evil against a woman. This is so bad. I pray this generation will learn to think and filter words before talking or typing.
Health / Re: Menstrual Cramps Disturbing Me Badly. Please What Can I Use For It? by Beey(f): 11:30pm On Jan 06
Jewessgratitud3:
I suffer severe menstrual cramps and it's really taking a tow on me. Like I no longer look forward to having my menses because of the pain and discomfort that comes with it.

The only thing that stops the cramps is felvin but it makes the flow three times heavier than normal to the point that I'll start feeling dizzy. The last one scared me cos after taking felvin, on the second day I was changing diaper every 5 mins. (Yes I use diaper cos pad no longer holds my flow. ) At a point I stood up and it's as if the whole blood in my system gushed out and I nearly passed out. So I said I wasn't going to use felvin again.

Now, I didn't use felvin this time and the flow is normal but I've been crying from pain since yesterday. It's like labor pain and im tempted to take felvin but when I remember what happened the last time, I'll ditch the idea.

Please what can I use to stop the pain that will not increase the flow? Please help with remedies that work.
Solution to this is birth control. I am talking from experience. I used to have menstrual cramps so painful that I’d literally crawl on the ground. You most likely have endometriosis but it’s only known for sure after a laparoscopic surgery. If left untreated, it may cause problems for you in the future. Those problems include fertility issues or sometime the blood may shift & attach to other parts. If for instance it attaches to the lungs, every month when you have your period, the tissue on the lungs will also bleed causing the lungs to collapse every month. See a gynecologist. They may put you on the pill or depo shot to completely stop you from having a period. The dizziness is caused by iron deficiency from the heavy bleeding. Start taking iron tablets & iron rich diet. Make sure you see the doctor because anemia will cause you fatigue and other issues. The theory of pain disappearing after child birth is a far fetched story without scientific evidence.

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Travel / Re: She Was Denied USA Spousal Visa. What Can She Do? by Beey(f): 2:51am On Dec 25, 2023
NiceLegs:
Hello everyone.

Please I need you inputs on this.

My Uncle who is a Citizen in USA filed to bring his wife in Nigeria whom he married in 2020 to the United States in that same year 2020.

Luckily after a very long wait time, the USA Embassy in Nigeria called the wife for interview after 2 years in the year 2022.

She went for the interview and was not given the Spousal visa or Green card or whatever they call it undecided

They told her to get more evidence of their marriage as the Visa Officers were not convinced they were married.

They fixed her to come after 2 months from the first interview date.

Before the second interview date, my Uncle in USA fell terribly sick were he could not speak atall.

They could not communicate with themselves at this stage.

She went for the second interview after the two months and was not given visa again.

My Uncle's case got worse that he was even brought back to Nigeria in January 2023.

Now my question is this, in such case, can the wife still get the USA Spousal Visa on her own at this stage?

What can she do to still get the Spousal Visa from here?

My Uncle is still in Nigeria as we speak.

Experienced USA migration experts, what can she do?
The goal now should be to focus on your Uncle’s recovery. After that, she needs to start putting together the evidence required by the Embassy.
1.Pictures taken together before the wedding, during your Uncle’s visits as proof that the relationship wasn’t fake and they knew each other before the wedding.
2. Copies of passport stamps as proof of his visits or copies for both of their passports if they met in a different country, travel itineraries, hotel reservations etc.
3. Emails / texts and call logs proving communication before marriage.
4. Financial support proof if she received any. This should be through receipts from Western Union or Bank. Joint bank statements if they have a joint account ,
5. Just knowledge of small details about each other eg color, favorite s3z position, future plans, favorite dish and just things that spouses are expected to know about each other.
Foreign Affairs / Re: GTA 6 Hacker Sentenced To Life In Hospital Prison Until He's "No Longer A Danger by Beey(f): 5:34am On Dec 24, 2023
AlexaDan:
How can he be Autistic and still be a hacker.

That sounds like a conundrum
They have what’s referred to as high functioning autism. Believe it or not, Elon Musk is on the spectrum.
Family / Re: Lebanese Kids Cry In Airport As Their Kenyan Nanny Leaves (Video) by Beey(f): 1:30am On Dec 04, 2023
MadamVanessa:
shocked


This is what William Ruto is reducing Kenyans to In the middle east; sabotaging Kenyan economy completely because of his clueless policies hence Kenyans are running to middle east to work as nanny for survival. This idiot Still have the guts to hail the fóolish policy of Tinubu regarding subsidy removal.
Much as I don’t agree with his policies, Kenyans have been going to the middle east way before Ruto became president.

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Celebrities / Re: Ghanaian Rapper, 2PM’s Body Made To Stand At His Funeral Ceremony (Photos) by Beey(f): 9:18pm On Dec 01, 2023
Emu4life:

Sweety, why u having an orgasm cuz of my humble Opinion? cheesy
Don’t sweety me. I don’t think that’s a bad thing actually. The issue is when perverts like you flood our social media pages and be dishing out sh*tty opinions.Did I lie about that doomed place of yours? Take off the log on your eye before you take the spec off other people’s you pervert.
Celebrities / Re: Ghanaian Rapper, 2PM’s Body Made To Stand At His Funeral Ceremony (Photos) by Beey(f): 5:57am On Dec 01, 2023
Emu4life:
Ghana, South Africa, Zimbabwe, Kenya and Uganda.......
Weirdo Countries of Africa
Nonsense! Kenya can never compare with your weirdness. Baby factories, rituals, kidnappings Tufiakwa!!!
Celebrities / Re: Ghanaian Rapper, 2PM’s Body Made To Stand At His Funeral Ceremony (Photos) by Beey(f): 5:55am On Dec 01, 2023
osuofia2:
Ghana, Zimbabwe,Kenya, Uganda. Weirdos.
Keep Kenya out of your mouth. Nigeria is the weirdest with baby factories and endless kidnappings.
Crime / Re: Burglars Forced To Drink The Alcohol They Stole From A Store (Video, Photos) by Beey(f): 6:57am On Nov 30, 2023
Mhizzard:

that is,if they poisoned the wine before it was gave to them.
Nothing to do with poisoning. Excess alcohol will lead to high blood pressure and affect the heart rate as well as body temperature. That’s how people die. The alcohol itself is a poison if taken in excess. People also die from drinking too much water. It washes away the sodium which controls some of the activities of the heart, leading to cardiac arrest. Too much of anything is poisonous.

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Crime / Re: Burglars Forced To Drink The Alcohol They Stole From A Store (Video, Photos) by Beey(f): 6:54am On Nov 30, 2023
rentAcock:
Now that's a punishment I can support. Seriously killing someone over cheap alcohol makes no sense. Kudos to them.
They are actually killing them. This will quickly affect their heart rate, body temperature & can lead to fatal results.
Celebrities / Re: Portable In London For His Tour After UK Embassy Denied His Wife Visa by Beey(f): 12:32am On Nov 26, 2023
nlparrot:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ovg1ZDLm0ns?si=m6SuWP2kZFmvhHzF

Controversial street artiste, Portable has finally landed UK after first taken to social media to lament of his wife denied visa to the UK.

The singer is set to perform in London on the 26th of November and decided that his wife should accompany him of which her visa application was rejected.

However, after so much consideration, the artist Portable have finally landed UK without his wife, and in the video he could be seen with Billique saying his wife will come and meet him in UK.
Some women are trying hard. Even this one has a wife despite his rowdy character and different baby mommas. The power of money.
Crime / Re: Soldiers Harass Man Wearing Camo Shorts, Force Him To Take It Off And Tear It by Beey(f): 7:03am On Nov 18, 2023
Rebuker:
Nigerian soldiers caught a young guy wearing a short camo, asked him to pull the shorts and tear them.

In a video currently circulating on the internet, some Nigerian soldiers were seen harassing a young man for wearing camo shorts.

The soldiers asked the young guy to empty the pockets, which he did. Subsequently, he was asked to pull down the shorts and tear them.

One of the soldiers was heard asking his colleague to bring scissors from the car. Another soldier instructed him to tear the shorts after the young guy had pulled them down. The young man was filmed making efforts to tear the shorts with his hands.

However, this has sparked mixed reactions as many blame the Nigerian soldiers for such an act.




https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_D-6HgDNuqo
Bunch of dumb asses. Idiots!! Little power & African soldiers behave as if they own us. Is that their shade of camouflage because, different countries have different shades of camouflage? Here in the US the army don’t care. I’ve only seen this harassment in my country Kenya & now Nigeria.African soldiers and police have one character trait, brutality.

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Family / Re: My Mom Refused To Do Omugwo And She’s Causing Havoc by Beey(f): 6:00am On Nov 08, 2023
OmugwoAunty:
Nairaland, please what should I do?

I gave birth 9 months ago and for some reason, my mom never expressed interest in visiting me and my child. She is a new wife now and I heard from some family members that when she wanted to come, her new husband said ‘your daughter has other people around, why are you worrying yourself’.

I did not take it personally at all. My mother has never been a dependable person. Me and my mom still talk everyday and my child is always on her status. This is her ONLY grandchild.

My mom’s elder sister’s (my aunty) youngest child is moving to my area. My aunty said that she’ll visit me during the move, and come and hold baby. She reached out to my mom and even told my mom that if they plan it, they can visit me together. My mom and my aunty are VERY close. I even consider my aunty my second mom in a way.

Suddenly, my mom starts calling me, saying she wants to plan her visit. I say okay. But with work and everything, my aunty will get here before her. She started telling me not to let my aunty into my house, saying that my aunty is a husband snatcher etc. she said my aunty will destroy my home. I tell her I don’t care about that. She started calling their mutual friends and telling them to tell me that my aunty is a husband snatcher. I did not fall for that.

Frustrated, she called my aunty and said that the truth is that my husband is uncomfortable. She said that MY husband is not from our town and that my husband’s people don’t like visitors. She said that I did not tell her about this out of respect.

My aunty called me and was apologizing, saying that she did not know. I responded and said that this is a lie. I even put my husband on the phone. Here’s my mistake - I sent her a screenshot showing my mom saying that she’s a husband snatcher and that’s why I should not let her into my home.

My aunty and I now agreed that we should let peace reign and that she won’t visit. She said she will still like to see me and we can meet somewhere. MATTER SUPPOSE TO END.

My mom decided to bring my aunty husband into this. She told my auntys husband that his wife is not respecting my husband’s wishes. My auntys husband now sent her my screenshot saying that he knows the real reason and that your child doesn’t even support you.

The screenshot has shattered my mom. She feels betrayed. My siblings who live with my mother are calling me a betrayer. I want to salvage the relationship between my siblings and I, not so much my mother. I have not spoken to any of them since the screenshot.

What do I do? How do I approach this.

While many blame you, let me analyze this issue as I see it. Based on your explanation
1. Your mom failed to put her priorities right after getting into her new marriage. Assuming this man is a Nigerian, he should understand the importance of Omugwo. Your mother should have put her foot down & let him know that you as her daughter are also important to her & so she would visit you for a while, especially being your 1st child. She however, chose to please the man at your expense. She should have set up those boundaries concerning how she relates with her children & the new husband, but she failed to do so.
2. After planning to come with her sister, she had to assassinate her sister’s reputation, which I think is due to the embarrassment of being overtaken by the sister in visiting the grandchild. She couldn’t stand someone seeing your baby before her especially because it would be a source of shame because she’s yet to visit. So she had to come up with lies in order to try & save face. She sounds like a manipulator. Things must go her way.
3. You didn’t stand up for yourself as a woman in her own home. You needed to stop your mom & let her know to stop causing chaos or else you’ll no longer be interested in her visiting. I understand she went reporting your Aunt to her husband. At that point, you should have canceled her visit. Stop dragging your husband & extended family into every issue that comes up. It’s not every dirty detail you’ll share with your husband. No matter how bad, she’ll remain your mother. Your husband may never respect her again. Learning to say YES & NO will save you a lot of problems in this life. All you needed to tell your Aunt was that you run your own home & your mother has her own home. She can invite who she wants and you can invite who you want.
4. There’s something called loving people from a distance. Sometimes for respect to reign, we need to give our loved ones done space & we need to make decisions and stand by them. Your mother owes everybody involved an apology. Let her know you felt like she was trying to destroy the relationship you have with your Aunt & with her behavior of lying to your Aunt’s husband, left you no choice but to expose her lies. As for your siblings, they’ll come around. You can call them individually & let them decide if they want to stay in touch with you. Stand your ground & let your Aunt know she’s welcome to your home. Next time, cover your family’s weaknesses from your husband, unless it’s something he’s seen with his eyes or one that needs his input such as financial or word of advise. We all are learners in this journey called life. Nobody has the monopoly of wisdom.
Literature / Re: 12 Novels Considered The “Greatest Books Ever Written” by Beey(f): 4:28am On Oct 28, 2023
Okolo3662:
1. Anna Karenina by Leo Tolstoy
2. To Kill A Mockingbird By Harper Lee. Hardcover book first published July 11, 1960. Novel won 1961 Pulitzer Prize. Later made into an Academy Award winning film.
3. The Great Gatsby by F. Scott Fitzgerald.
4. One Hundred Years of Solitude Garcia Marquez, 1982.
5. A Passage to India by E.M. Forster.
6. Things Fall Apart by Chinualumogu Achebe.
7. Invisible Man by Ralph Ellison.
8. Don Quixote by Miguel de Cervantes Saavedra.
9. Beloved by Toni Morrison
10. Mrs Dalloway by Vagina Wolf.
11. Jane Eyre by Charlotte Bronte.
12. The purple color by Alice Walker.
Was number 10 name misspelled or intentional?
Sports / Re: MFM Women’s Basketball Club Wins 2023 Zenith Women’s Basketball League(pics) by Beey(f): 12:11am On Oct 23, 2023
drinkgarri:
I taught they will be wearing skirt
You thought. Taught is the past tense for teach.
Family / Re: Help! My Wife Doesn’t Enjoy Sex by Beey(f): 5:20pm On Oct 22, 2023
Ayodeoba:
Hello Nairaland, pls I seek for your opinions about this isssue affecting our marriage life.
We re young couple, we just got married.
My wife had always been shouting of pain whenever we re having sex, I believe sex is meant to be enjoyed btw two party.
Any one with remedies or medication to use. Kindly help
There’s a condition known as vaginismus. What happens is that the muscles contract involuntarily, causing sex so be very painful. When something hurts, the memory registers in mind & so future attempts at sex will only worsen the condition due to anxiety. It can be treated with anti-anxiety medications, muscle relaxants and therapy. People talk out of ignorance saying a baby’s head can pass through and so a woman is not supposed to have pain. Other causes could be untreated infection like pelvic inflammatory disease. Another condition suffered by women is endometriosis in women of child bearing age. This condition can cause pain and is treated with hormonal birth control meds. Dryness could also be a factor and a lubricant will help with that.To cut a long story short, take your wife to a good hospital. Let her be checked by a board certified Gynecologist. Whatever advice is given here, it’s does not equal a diagnosis by a doctor. Good luck!

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Family / Re: I'm Addicted To Prostitutes Please Help by Beey(f): 1:06am On Oct 20, 2023
xin5:
As a 47yr old I still patronise prostitutes which I don't see a problem with. I have No kid, no serious relationship. The problem is my mother complaining here and there for me to get married if I don't see my age.
My mother has complained to the extend she's embarrassed on my behalf even when I am well established.
I know I can't help myself, it's just an addiction I can't stop.
I find it so hard to chyke a girl, talk more calling every now and then.. having meaniless discussions and drama all the time.. pestering for sex something I can achieve with just a phone chat with my connect and they will send pictures of multiple variables I can pick from..30k shortime.

The longest relationship have ever had was in 2008 I think 7months.
Ever since I was young I focused on pay as you go and this has been eating my finances on a steady which I normally don't see as anything because I am doing quite well for myself.
But the pressure to have kids it's getting on me so bad that I wish I can just get a prostitute and impregnate her so that my mother can rest.
You admitted that you don’t see anything wrong with your lifestyle. You are only trying to put on a facade because your mother has been on your case. Until you are ready to change, no words can make you change if you are not willing. However you must remember that there are principles that govern this life. Dawn & dusk are a sure thing, anything born must surely expect a day of death , last but not least, we have a time for sowing and reaping. It’s shocking that you aren’t worried about the health implications of your lifestyle, but in due time life will force you to sit and look back at the decisions you made.These days I don’t do motivation talk. At 47, I’ll advise that whatever you do, to do it to the best of your ability. Even prostitution, get them even from the internet. When it’s all said & done, what will matter is how you lived your life.
Foreign Affairs / Re: Fake Kenyan Lawyer Who Won 26 Cases, Arrested!! by Beey(f): 3:25pm On Oct 15, 2023
[quote author=abobote post=126417858]He should go and study law then, at least for the certificate. He is a genius [/quote
Foreign Affairs / Re: Fake Kenyan Lawyer Who Won 26 Cases, Arrested!! by Beey(f): 3:23pm On Oct 15, 2023
Chibuzoripob:
sad send him to school
Foreign Affairs / Re: Israel To Strike Gaza ‘From Air, Sea & Land’ by Beey(f): 3:14pm On Oct 15, 2023
Cute9gerian:



First and foremost I am not a Muslim if that’s what you think. Secondly this are not gods chosen people by any means whatsoever. They are only invaders who migrated from Germany during world war 2 and settled in Palestine year 1948 and named their so called city israel after systematically killing the original inhabitants
Migrated from Germany? Makes sense because Hitler succeeded in killing Jews. Whether they are the real or fake, as long as they occupy the current land of Israel,watch them wipe out their enemies.

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Foreign Affairs / Re: Israel To Strike Gaza ‘From Air, Sea & Land’ by Beey(f): 2:55pm On Oct 15, 2023
Cute9gerian:
This is all they know blood shed. Invaders parading themselves as Gods chosen people Israel. If only Adolf hitler had finished them off
Ohh Israelis were murdered in broad daylight. Children were killed as parents watched & other citizens taken to Gaza as hostages. That to you doesn’t seem enough reason to respond the way they did? Even the Muslims know that Israelis are God’s chosen and no one can change that.We already know your kind. You were cheering last Saturday because you thought you had the victory. Too bad Hamas stepped on a live wire. When Israelis are done with your brothers, the imprints will be left for all of you to see for many decades to come. When you people go anywhere, the world cannot know peace.

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Career / Re: House, I Am Confused by Beey(f): 5:10am On Oct 13, 2023
Saviourplease:
Good evening house.

I am in a dilemma and I need advice on what to do.

A bit of background about myself: I am a 29 years only child from a very poor background. I work for an IT firm which i joined in 2019 as a graduate trainee.

My total income is around 490k (400k from main job, 90k from a writing side gig).

My challenge:
Recently, My host have told me to look for my accommodation and I have been searching for houses. Unfortunately, the places closer to my places of work is expensive.

I work in VI and the cheapest mini flat I have seen in close vicinity is 1.2M at Ajah.

I also have have a building project I am undertaking in the village that is at roofing stage and my parents have been pressuring me to settle down as the only child.

My dilemma is this, If i go for the house at Ajah, it will eat a bulk of my savings, thereby making it impossible for me to complete the building project or even start the process of settling down.

If I go for a cheaper but farer location, I will be spending more time in traffic.

Please, how do I manage this?







I don’t know about Nigeria, but where am from, some wealthy people rent out their guest houses or what they call servants and quarters( don’t like that word). You can check online, hire a realtor or ask the watchmen in that area you are looking to rent. As for pressure to marry, do it when ready, though you sound financially stable.
Health / Re: Anesther Egede Dies After Doctors Left Cotton Wool In Her Belly During Surgery by Beey(f): 4:49am On Oct 04, 2023
MrAgbako:
The other time I read of a doctor that forgot there surgical scissors in a patient body. The reopen the patient again after he complained of pain.
E be say some doctors sef don dey smoke Colorado 😂
Actually, there’s a surgical technician who accompanies the doctors to the theatre. Their job is to count the number of instruments going into the operating room & again count after surgery to confirm that all instruments that went in, are accounted for while going out. They also hand the surgical instruments to the doctors during surgery. These are the people responsible, because some surgeries can take hours and the doctors are exhausted. That’s not to mean that the doctors should be negligent. It’s just that justice is hard to get in Africa if you don’t have a lot of money.

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Romance / Re: I Had Sex With My Childhood Crush, Now I Am Confused & Filled With Guilt by Beey(f): 4:15pm On Oct 03, 2023
StylesX:
She was the first girl I ever had amorous feelings for, I was in secondary school then, I asked her out with all the courage my being could muster, and she turned me down, we stayed friends for over 10years, I would try to move on, and it would work for a while and all the feelings will come back all over again especially when I see her, I don't see her often as she lives in another state.

We both did well for ourselves, I concentrated on making myself a better guy, worked hard to make something of myself, she did the same, and over the years we were just friends and I went ahead and dated only 4 girls, I don't womanize, I realized I always looked for her in every girl I dated, and I mostly dated girls that looked like her, I have been lucky with love in the sense that all the girls I dated loved me, I'm currently in a relationship with a decent girl too.

So fast forward to last week, she came visiting all of a sudden, haven't seen her for over two years and here she is, we connected and spent time like best friends, shared and talked about our lives and joked about how she put me in friend zone in the past, throughout her stay she stayed in my apartment, we slept in same bed and everything yet nothing happened, she kept talking about how I am a good guy that most guys will sleep with a girl that come under their roof, sometimes she would change her clothes in my presence and I won't make any move, she said being a good guy was what she hated about me back then, that she thought I was weak, and now that she's matured she sees that quality differently now, I didn't read meaning to any of this as I have zeroed out the thought of anything happening between us for years until she started doing strange things, like kissing me without warning, cuddling at night and pressing me to her Bossom etc,

One night she did that and I got aroused, I lost control and we got intimate, it was intense, but before we could have actual sex I came to my senses and made her stop, it was super awkward, we didn't talk about it because she has a partner and I do too, I thought we'd just pretend nothing happened and move on so we wouldn't sabotage our relationships, then the next day we were alone at home in my living room, she wore my Tshirt with undies and we were binge watching movies, suddenly she started kissing and touching me, and I lost it again and this time we had passionate sex, she left the next day, and ever since then I've been confused and guilt ridden, she told me it was a mistake she rejected me in the past that we can still start something if I want, that she is ready to be with me, but I wasn't buying it, I am confused because a part of me feel something fishy is up, and the other part wanted her but I don't know how to tell my girlfriend nor do I want to hurt my girlfriend, I don't love her like I loved this old time crush of mine, but she is a loyal girlfriend and I can't look her in the eyes since the sex thing happened, and every nerve in my body is telling me to confess and ask for forgiveness or keep quiet and move on with my life, what do I do?
I see a couple of issues in this. The two of you remained friends for over 10 years. Suddenly she comes to visit you in your apartment and you go ahead to share a bed. 1. Have you asked yourself why for 10 years you weren’t her type but suddenly she is now all over you?
Any woman who respects herself and is in a relationship will not go sleeping in another man’s house and undressing in his presence. So that leads to my second point.
2. Seems there’s an agenda. You’ve not seen each other for two years, but she suddenly came visiting, wearing your t-shirts, sleeping in your bed & you didn’t see anything wrong? She kept seducing you for a reason. Out of the blues someone shows up claiming love for person she has rejected for the last 10 years. Seduces the person and then leaves soon after getting intimate. What changed? They say when the deal is too good, think twice.
3.She cheated on her boyfriend. If she is decent, she’d have ended things properly with him & then give you hints, to see if a relationship can work. I don’t trust her sudden change of heart. Did you get tested medically after the incident? What if she was trying to trap you with pregnancy?
4.If you do her bidding, she’ll be controlling you like a puppet. You’ll seem desperate like she’s all you’ve been waiting for all these years and you didn’t move on. Your current GF is a decent person. The grass always looks greener on the other side .
5. I’d suggest you change your number and cut contact with the lady. Change apartments if possible. Confess to your GF and ask for forgiveness. This is because this your friend who’s suddenly interested, could use that secret to blackmail you into dating her. Besides, there are people anointed by the devil as agents of confusion and delay. Be very careful. Next time, don’t bring women who are not relatives under your roof in the absence of your GF .

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Education / Re: UK Female Student Kicks Out Male Nigerian Flatmate For Asking If She's A Virgin by Beey(f): 4:56pm On Oct 01, 2023
Thundafireseun:
Very simple question

Yes I’m a virgin…. No I’m not a virgin

You didn’t tell us how you were trying to make him feel comfortable… buh you rushed to social media to tell us the part where he asked about your sexuality

Fear daughter’s of EVE …. They are always playing the victim card

Modified… reminds me of the song 🎵 No woman No cry
Pervert Alert 🔔 🚨 ‼️
Religion / Re: Why Do Jehovah's Witnesses "Hate" Christian Songs But Sing Secular Songs? by Beey(f): 4:42pm On Oct 01, 2023
MaxInDHouse:

Judaists are doomed!
So JWs don't have anything to do with them in fact Judaists aren't even practicing the religion Moses handed over to the Israelites.
Judaism is a mixture of Babylonian mythology and Greek philosophy attached to what Moses wrote that's why Judaists in the first century found it really difficult to relate with Jesus of Nazareth! smiley
Ohhhhh okkkkkkkk. Interesting.

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Politics / Re: US Judge, Nancy Maldonado, Orders CSU To Release Tinubu's Records On Monday by Beey(f): 4:41pm On Oct 01, 2023
Jeffrey22:
Why FFK never blast USA or the Court since this case started as he always do


I no see something like USA should stop meddling or something like we don't need USA
People don’t talk when eating 😂🤣. Someone should call out that loud mouth on twitter.
Religion / Re: Why Do Jehovah's Witnesses "Hate" Christian Songs But Sing Secular Songs? by Beey(f): 4:31pm On Oct 01, 2023
MaxInDHouse:

I am Maximus one of JEHOVAH'S WITNESSES would you like to chat with me on the topic of discussion? smiley
While answering his question, would you be kind enough to answer mine please? I understand that the witnesses don’t embrace the Trinity doctrine. My question would be , do the relate well with the followers of Judaism(Jews)? Because the Jews do not believe in Jesus either and are waiting for the coming of the Messiah? Just curious.
Foreign Affairs / Re: Donald Trump Signs On A Woman's Chest During Campaign Visit In Iowa (Pics) by Beey(f): 11:23am On Sep 22, 2023
ONEjoblessGUY:
Heyyyy.......
Lol dat girl...... wey he touch by the pussy don orgasm finish....... look her eyes
I hope you notice that’s an actor & not the real Donald.
Celebrities / Re: Mohbad Buried With Neck & Head Bent Inside A Small Coffin by Beey(f): 12:13am On Sep 15, 2023
Was he taken to the morgue? How come they didn’t close his mouth? Not a good presentation of his body for viewing.

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Religion / Re: The Abuse Of Speaking In Tongues In The Christian Fold by Beey(f): 2:30pm On Sep 10, 2023
Justbeingreal:
Like I said up there one day we all are gonna get tired of deceiving ourselves.

Hypocrites..
Call me whatever you like. I did not write the Bible.😂😂. I think you are the biggest hypocrite for trying to have people think only your way is right.

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