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Crime / Re: "How I Was Raped By My Husband’s Benefactor" – Bauchi Housewife Narrates by Beey(f): 4:14pm On Jan 16 |
ObalendeCMS:Were you there ? Do you know them or how did you come up with this allegation? I don’t know till when some people will continue to discredit the experiences of women & stop treating women as children of a lesser god. |
Crime / Re: "How I Was Raped By My Husband’s Benefactor" – Bauchi Housewife Narrates by Beey(f): 4:12pm On Jan 16 |
ALCOHOLKILLS:You are evil personified! Good grief! A woman is violated and you are here writing this? Would you have said the same if the lady in question is a close relative of yours?Yet, here you are celebrating evil against a woman. This is so bad. I pray this generation will learn to think and filter words before talking or typing. |
Health / Re: Menstrual Cramps Disturbing Me Badly. Please What Can I Use For It? by Beey(f): 11:30pm On Jan 06 |
Jewessgratitud3:Solution to this is birth control. I am talking from experience. I used to have menstrual cramps so painful that I’d literally crawl on the ground. You most likely have endometriosis but it’s only known for sure after a laparoscopic surgery. If left untreated, it may cause problems for you in the future. Those problems include fertility issues or sometime the blood may shift & attach to other parts. If for instance it attaches to the lungs, every month when you have your period, the tissue on the lungs will also bleed causing the lungs to collapse every month. See a gynecologist. They may put you on the pill or depo shot to completely stop you from having a period. The dizziness is caused by iron deficiency from the heavy bleeding. Start taking iron tablets & iron rich diet. Make sure you see the doctor because anemia will cause you fatigue and other issues. The theory of pain disappearing after child birth is a far fetched story without scientific evidence. 4 Likes |
Travel / Re: She Was Denied USA Spousal Visa. What Can She Do? by Beey(f): 2:51am On Dec 25, 2023 |
NiceLegs:The goal now should be to focus on your Uncle’s recovery. After that, she needs to start putting together the evidence required by the Embassy. 1.Pictures taken together before the wedding, during your Uncle’s visits as proof that the relationship wasn’t fake and they knew each other before the wedding. 2. Copies of passport stamps as proof of his visits or copies for both of their passports if they met in a different country, travel itineraries, hotel reservations etc. 3. Emails / texts and call logs proving communication before marriage. 4. Financial support proof if she received any. This should be through receipts from Western Union or Bank. Joint bank statements if they have a joint account , 5. Just knowledge of small details about each other eg color, favorite s3z position, future plans, favorite dish and just things that spouses are expected to know about each other. |
Foreign Affairs / Re: GTA 6 Hacker Sentenced To Life In Hospital Prison Until He's "No Longer A Danger by Beey(f): 5:34am On Dec 24, 2023 |
AlexaDan:They have what’s referred to as high functioning autism. Believe it or not, Elon Musk is on the spectrum. |
Family / Re: Lebanese Kids Cry In Airport As Their Kenyan Nanny Leaves (Video) by Beey(f): 1:30am On Dec 04, 2023 |
MadamVanessa:Much as I don’t agree with his policies, Kenyans have been going to the middle east way before Ruto became president. 1 Like |
Celebrities / Re: Ghanaian Rapper, 2PM’s Body Made To Stand At His Funeral Ceremony (Photos) by Beey(f): 9:18pm On Dec 01, 2023 |
Emu4life:Don’t sweety me. I don’t think that’s a bad thing actually. The issue is when perverts like you flood our social media pages and be dishing out sh*tty opinions.Did I lie about that doomed place of yours? Take off the log on your eye before you take the spec off other people’s you pervert. |
Celebrities / Re: Ghanaian Rapper, 2PM’s Body Made To Stand At His Funeral Ceremony (Photos) by Beey(f): 5:57am On Dec 01, 2023 |
Emu4life:Nonsense! Kenya can never compare with your weirdness. Baby factories, rituals, kidnappings Tufiakwa!!! |
Celebrities / Re: Ghanaian Rapper, 2PM’s Body Made To Stand At His Funeral Ceremony (Photos) by Beey(f): 5:55am On Dec 01, 2023 |
osuofia2:Keep Kenya out of your mouth. Nigeria is the weirdest with baby factories and endless kidnappings. |
Crime / Re: Burglars Forced To Drink The Alcohol They Stole From A Store (Video, Photos) by Beey(f): 6:57am On Nov 30, 2023 |
Mhizzard:Nothing to do with poisoning. Excess alcohol will lead to high blood pressure and affect the heart rate as well as body temperature. That’s how people die. The alcohol itself is a poison if taken in excess. People also die from drinking too much water. It washes away the sodium which controls some of the activities of the heart, leading to cardiac arrest. Too much of anything is poisonous. 1 Like |
Crime / Re: Burglars Forced To Drink The Alcohol They Stole From A Store (Video, Photos) by Beey(f): 6:54am On Nov 30, 2023 |
rentAcock:They are actually killing them. This will quickly affect their heart rate, body temperature & can lead to fatal results. |
Celebrities / Re: Portable In London For His Tour After UK Embassy Denied His Wife Visa by Beey(f): 12:32am On Nov 26, 2023 |
nlparrot:Some women are trying hard. Even this one has a wife despite his rowdy character and different baby mommas. The power of money. |
Crime / Re: Soldiers Harass Man Wearing Camo Shorts, Force Him To Take It Off And Tear It by Beey(f): 7:03am On Nov 18, 2023 |
Rebuker:Bunch of dumb asses. Idiots!! Little power & African soldiers behave as if they own us. Is that their shade of camouflage because, different countries have different shades of camouflage? Here in the US the army don’t care. I’ve only seen this harassment in my country Kenya & now Nigeria.African soldiers and police have one character trait, brutality. 1 Like |
Family / Re: My Mom Refused To Do Omugwo And She’s Causing Havoc by Beey(f): 6:00am On Nov 08, 2023 |
OmugwoAunty:While many blame you, let me analyze this issue as I see it. Based on your explanation 1. Your mom failed to put her priorities right after getting into her new marriage. Assuming this man is a Nigerian, he should understand the importance of Omugwo. Your mother should have put her foot down & let him know that you as her daughter are also important to her & so she would visit you for a while, especially being your 1st child. She however, chose to please the man at your expense. She should have set up those boundaries concerning how she relates with her children & the new husband, but she failed to do so. 2. After planning to come with her sister, she had to assassinate her sister’s reputation, which I think is due to the embarrassment of being overtaken by the sister in visiting the grandchild. She couldn’t stand someone seeing your baby before her especially because it would be a source of shame because she’s yet to visit. So she had to come up with lies in order to try & save face. She sounds like a manipulator. Things must go her way. 3. You didn’t stand up for yourself as a woman in her own home. You needed to stop your mom & let her know to stop causing chaos or else you’ll no longer be interested in her visiting. I understand she went reporting your Aunt to her husband. At that point, you should have canceled her visit. Stop dragging your husband & extended family into every issue that comes up. It’s not every dirty detail you’ll share with your husband. No matter how bad, she’ll remain your mother. Your husband may never respect her again. Learning to say YES & NO will save you a lot of problems in this life. All you needed to tell your Aunt was that you run your own home & your mother has her own home. She can invite who she wants and you can invite who you want. 4. There’s something called loving people from a distance. Sometimes for respect to reign, we need to give our loved ones done space & we need to make decisions and stand by them. Your mother owes everybody involved an apology. Let her know you felt like she was trying to destroy the relationship you have with your Aunt & with her behavior of lying to your Aunt’s husband, left you no choice but to expose her lies. As for your siblings, they’ll come around. You can call them individually & let them decide if they want to stay in touch with you. Stand your ground & let your Aunt know she’s welcome to your home. Next time, cover your family’s weaknesses from your husband, unless it’s something he’s seen with his eyes or one that needs his input such as financial or word of advise. We all are learners in this journey called life. Nobody has the monopoly of wisdom. |
Literature / Re: 12 Novels Considered The “Greatest Books Ever Written” by Beey(f): 4:28am On Oct 28, 2023 |
Okolo3662:Was number 10 name misspelled or intentional? |
Sports / Re: MFM Women’s Basketball Club Wins 2023 Zenith Women’s Basketball League(pics) by Beey(f): 12:11am On Oct 23, 2023 |
drinkgarri:You thought. Taught is the past tense for teach. |
Family / Re: Help! My Wife Doesn’t Enjoy Sex by Beey(f): 5:20pm On Oct 22, 2023 |
Ayodeoba:There’s a condition known as vaginismus. What happens is that the muscles contract involuntarily, causing sex so be very painful. When something hurts, the memory registers in mind & so future attempts at sex will only worsen the condition due to anxiety. It can be treated with anti-anxiety medications, muscle relaxants and therapy. People talk out of ignorance saying a baby’s head can pass through and so a woman is not supposed to have pain. Other causes could be untreated infection like pelvic inflammatory disease. Another condition suffered by women is endometriosis in women of child bearing age. This condition can cause pain and is treated with hormonal birth control meds. Dryness could also be a factor and a lubricant will help with that.To cut a long story short, take your wife to a good hospital. Let her be checked by a board certified Gynecologist. Whatever advice is given here, it’s does not equal a diagnosis by a doctor. Good luck! 1 Like |
Family / Re: I'm Addicted To Prostitutes Please Help by Beey(f): 1:06am On Oct 20, 2023 |
xin5:You admitted that you don’t see anything wrong with your lifestyle. You are only trying to put on a facade because your mother has been on your case. Until you are ready to change, no words can make you change if you are not willing. However you must remember that there are principles that govern this life. Dawn & dusk are a sure thing, anything born must surely expect a day of death , last but not least, we have a time for sowing and reaping. It’s shocking that you aren’t worried about the health implications of your lifestyle, but in due time life will force you to sit and look back at the decisions you made.These days I don’t do motivation talk. At 47, I’ll advise that whatever you do, to do it to the best of your ability. Even prostitution, get them even from the internet. When it’s all said & done, what will matter is how you lived your life. |
Foreign Affairs / Re: Fake Kenyan Lawyer Who Won 26 Cases, Arrested!! by Beey(f): 3:25pm On Oct 15, 2023 |
[quote author=abobote post=126417858]He should go and study law then, at least for the certificate. He is a genius [/quote |
Foreign Affairs / Re: Fake Kenyan Lawyer Who Won 26 Cases, Arrested!! by Beey(f): 3:23pm On Oct 15, 2023 |
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Foreign Affairs / Re: Israel To Strike Gaza ‘From Air, Sea & Land’ by Beey(f): 3:14pm On Oct 15, 2023 |
Cute9gerian:Migrated from Germany? Makes sense because Hitler succeeded in killing Jews. Whether they are the real or fake, as long as they occupy the current land of Israel,watch them wipe out their enemies. 1 Like |
Foreign Affairs / Re: Israel To Strike Gaza ‘From Air, Sea & Land’ by Beey(f): 2:55pm On Oct 15, 2023 |
Cute9gerian:Ohh Israelis were murdered in broad daylight. Children were killed as parents watched & other citizens taken to Gaza as hostages. That to you doesn’t seem enough reason to respond the way they did? Even the Muslims know that Israelis are God’s chosen and no one can change that.We already know your kind. You were cheering last Saturday because you thought you had the victory. Too bad Hamas stepped on a live wire. When Israelis are done with your brothers, the imprints will be left for all of you to see for many decades to come. When you people go anywhere, the world cannot know peace. 4 Likes |
Career / Re: House, I Am Confused by Beey(f): 5:10am On Oct 13, 2023 |
Saviourplease:I don’t know about Nigeria, but where am from, some wealthy people rent out their guest houses or what they call servants and quarters( don’t like that word). You can check online, hire a realtor or ask the watchmen in that area you are looking to rent. As for pressure to marry, do it when ready, though you sound financially stable. |
Health / Re: Anesther Egede Dies After Doctors Left Cotton Wool In Her Belly During Surgery by Beey(f): 4:49am On Oct 04, 2023 |
MrAgbako:Actually, there’s a surgical technician who accompanies the doctors to the theatre. Their job is to count the number of instruments going into the operating room & again count after surgery to confirm that all instruments that went in, are accounted for while going out. They also hand the surgical instruments to the doctors during surgery. These are the people responsible, because some surgeries can take hours and the doctors are exhausted. That’s not to mean that the doctors should be negligent. It’s just that justice is hard to get in Africa if you don’t have a lot of money. 3 Likes |
Romance / Re: I Had Sex With My Childhood Crush, Now I Am Confused & Filled With Guilt by Beey(f): 4:15pm On Oct 03, 2023 |
StylesX:I see a couple of issues in this. The two of you remained friends for over 10 years. Suddenly she comes to visit you in your apartment and you go ahead to share a bed. 1. Have you asked yourself why for 10 years you weren’t her type but suddenly she is now all over you? Any woman who respects herself and is in a relationship will not go sleeping in another man’s house and undressing in his presence. So that leads to my second point. 2. Seems there’s an agenda. You’ve not seen each other for two years, but she suddenly came visiting, wearing your t-shirts, sleeping in your bed & you didn’t see anything wrong? She kept seducing you for a reason. Out of the blues someone shows up claiming love for person she has rejected for the last 10 years. Seduces the person and then leaves soon after getting intimate. What changed? They say when the deal is too good, think twice. 3.She cheated on her boyfriend. If she is decent, she’d have ended things properly with him & then give you hints, to see if a relationship can work. I don’t trust her sudden change of heart. Did you get tested medically after the incident? What if she was trying to trap you with pregnancy? 4.If you do her bidding, she’ll be controlling you like a puppet. You’ll seem desperate like she’s all you’ve been waiting for all these years and you didn’t move on. Your current GF is a decent person. The grass always looks greener on the other side . 5. I’d suggest you change your number and cut contact with the lady. Change apartments if possible. Confess to your GF and ask for forgiveness. This is because this your friend who’s suddenly interested, could use that secret to blackmail you into dating her. Besides, there are people anointed by the devil as agents of confusion and delay. Be very careful. Next time, don’t bring women who are not relatives under your roof in the absence of your GF . 9 Likes |
Education / Re: UK Female Student Kicks Out Male Nigerian Flatmate For Asking If She's A Virgin by Beey(f): 4:56pm On Oct 01, 2023 |
Thundafireseun:Pervert Alert 🔔 🚨 ‼️ |
Religion / Re: Why Do Jehovah's Witnesses "Hate" Christian Songs But Sing Secular Songs? by Beey(f): 4:42pm On Oct 01, 2023 |
MaxInDHouse:Ohhhhh okkkkkkkk. Interesting. 1 Like 1 Share |
Politics / Re: US Judge, Nancy Maldonado, Orders CSU To Release Tinubu's Records On Monday by Beey(f): 4:41pm On Oct 01, 2023 |
Jeffrey22:People don’t talk when eating 😂🤣. Someone should call out that loud mouth on twitter. |
Religion / Re: Why Do Jehovah's Witnesses "Hate" Christian Songs But Sing Secular Songs? by Beey(f): 4:31pm On Oct 01, 2023 |
MaxInDHouse:While answering his question, would you be kind enough to answer mine please? I understand that the witnesses don’t embrace the Trinity doctrine. My question would be , do the relate well with the followers of Judaism(Jews)? Because the Jews do not believe in Jesus either and are waiting for the coming of the Messiah? Just curious. |
Foreign Affairs / Re: Donald Trump Signs On A Woman's Chest During Campaign Visit In Iowa (Pics) by Beey(f): 11:23am On Sep 22, 2023 |
ONEjoblessGUY:I hope you notice that’s an actor & not the real Donald. |
Celebrities / Re: Mohbad Buried With Neck & Head Bent Inside A Small Coffin by Beey(f): 12:13am On Sep 15, 2023 |
Was he taken to the morgue? How come they didn’t close his mouth? Not a good presentation of his body for viewing. 2 Likes |
Religion / Re: The Abuse Of Speaking In Tongues In The Christian Fold by Beey(f): 2:30pm On Sep 10, 2023 |
Justbeingreal:Call me whatever you like. I did not write the Bible.😂😂. I think you are the biggest hypocrite for trying to have people think only your way is right. |
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