Seun: According to chief Femi Fani-Kayode, the reason why Atiku supports Emefiele's cashless policy and is against the extension of the deadline for old naira notes is because PDP has an app that they can use to send money cashlessly to his supporters during the election.
During his interview with Seun Okinbaloye of Channels TV, Fani-Kayode said, "they know about the special app that they have. They know about the number of people on that app that they've already collated so they can be sending credit to them on behalf, so that when they don't have cash it'll say "Atiku is sending you 10,000 naira" throughout the election period. They have a plan for this. They know what they want to do."
He said, "So people should suffer? Simply because you have an app? And in that app you're going to be sending people money? And say 'hey have credit, you can cash the money later?' Their plan, and they are working with CBN, is to ensure that no money comes out at all in this country up until the end of February. That's their plan."
Do you believe him? Do you know the name of the app and the number of people on the app? Should we all join in order to get paid💰?
Oga Seun. How far? Quick question, why do you allow pornographic content in your site? Or does it fetch you more money? I don’t have to open some of the topics listed in the romance section to know the content is dirty. Moral bankruptcy everywhere. Smh. Or are you going to ban me again? I cursed out an idiot who came for me & I ended up getting a ban. Some of your MODS are as useless as they come. We enjoy the site though. You just have to nip the weeds in the bud.
I am Kenyan and can promise we are not usually this stupid. I don’t know what they are on or who their supplier is. Nigerians, we Kenyans gladly donate them to you. Though in all the stories I’ve heard of appearances, it’s always Mary, never Jesus. I don’t know who’s more important in the Catholic Church between Jesus & Mary. Someone will just see a reflection of the sun & start acting crazy. SMH
jonili: I've seen numerous topics in the past about toxic workplaces but I never thought I was going to find myself in one of them. Share your experience and how you were able cope till you left.
I'll go first.
My current employers are indians, I've heard stories about them and how toxic they are, but I am not the type to generalize, I always believe most of those people who complains were just unlucky to meet mean indian bosses but my perception about them is changing, between Dec 2022 and Jan 2023, more than 8 people have resigned, some left without resigning just to have peace. Salaries are paid towards the end of another month, no confirmation for staffs, no appraisals, no promotion or salary increase, no good process, people are always assigned tasks that aren't their responsibilities, bosses always nagging, with narcissistic tendencies.
They lack good leadership skills, their only method of communication is to yell at you, they would try to intimidate you, blame you for their mistakes, they also believe they can always get away with anything. I feel the only I feel the only way to manage the situation is to get away from the toxic environment. Now I feel like resigning just to clear my head but I can't quite just to sit at home and they are very much aware of the high unemployment rate in Nigeria, that gives them even more confidence to mistreat Nigerians.
Share your experience on how you were able to cope before getting another opportunity.
I am of the opinion that anything that continuously takes my peace of mind is too expensive. There are bosses people hate on for being strict and needing the job done by the book. In that case, I’ll know to make improvement where necessary. However, there’s a category of sadistic people who wanna act like your life is dependent on them. In that case, I’ll gladly shut the door and burn bridges. I have refused to be treated like a child of a lesser god.
So sorry for the mental breakdown, hope she gets help. I don’t know why people are quick to play psychiatrist. Who diagnosed her with depression? SMH.
Kenneth4u205: No mother will hang her own child . This might be murder and not suicide as claimed
Actually they do. After much suffering, the thought of leaving that child behind to continue suffering breaks them. That causes them to kill even the kids.
Seun: The case of hard times and difficult situations in marriage is not a question of 'if', but a question of 'when' because marriages are not immune to such, but it is the will of God that our unions overcome marital storms and shakings when they come.
The marital journey has different seasons, one of which could be a tough season indeed. This shouldn't lead to doubts about our marital choices, rather, we should be open to learn how to go through such season, amicably and successfully.
The rain, the floods and the winds will doubtless come but the united force of marriage rooted in shared understanding from couples is potent enough to surmount them all.
Join Mr. & Mrs. Osewa in a ZOOM Marriage Meeting as they share on what to do WHEN THE GOING GETS ;TOUGH.
Seun, why are you sleeping on the job lately? Why are you allowing your MODS to post some irrelevant stuff on front page? A young boy telling us of his sexcapades is now breaking news? Call your people to order. We don’t need this BS. We love your platform & that’s why we have high expectations because, you’ve delivered in the past. Let some immature nonsensical topics be far from your website.Greetings from Kenya!
Hi there, saw you tried messaging me but, I’ve lost that account. Lost the password & have since changed the phone number registered. Working to recover it.
Zeal0000007: For a serious relationship leading to marriage , do you encourage going through your partner's phone for trust to be built ?.
I discovered my partner has been flirting with other guys online, thanks to the fact that I always go through her phone when she's asleep. I have done alot for this gal, just disappointed while gals wouldn't be faithful in their relationships.
This is someone I wanted to wife next year, and I love her so much despite her flaws .
I swallow alot of her flaws, like whenever we have issues she will abuse me from head to toe, on occasions like that I will ask her out of my life and my house but she'll be so bent in staying that nothing can separate us after how many years according to her "over her dead body" she wants to eat her cake and have it back.
I'm really stalk, after abusing me up and down at night I find it very difficult resist her body, I will still try to have sex with her especially when I see her nudes, I be flesh and blood.
I can't continue like this 2023, Guys please don't cohabit with a gal you haven't married. Now I have issues of driving her way or I relocate to somewhere far just to have peace of mind. I can't continue like this next year, God forbid.
If she was coming and going ending this toxic relationship would have been effective. This is someone I have paid two sessions school fees for, care for her like she was my wife in my own little way, as we speak I have written her final year project for her chapter one to five, its just left for her to type it and present it.
I don tire for this relationship I really need a way out, I want to leave her cos its no longer healthy for me, though I really love her. She lacks respect for me , she still flirts online, she's very abusive . I have told her if you feel you have seen someone better than me, kindly move on or you feel we have stayed long enough and you can't wait anymore kindly move on, I won't hold anything against u. But you can't be staying in my house and be seeing someone else, frustrating me all round.
Sometimes when we want to have sex , neighbours must hear us because of fight over sex, but she has her good side, she wasn't like this when we started. I'm really tire, God help me next year, cos I can't continue like this.
Its funny how you say that you don’t know what to do. If she’s controlling you before marriage, then marriage will be a jail sentence for you. She sounds like one who could easily kill & act like nothing happened. If you can’t get her out even using the police or obtaining a restraining order from the court, I don’t know what to say. How long have you cohabited for? I don’t know the Nigerian laws on cohabitation, but in my country after living together for 3 years, one is considered a spouse. If you can’t do that, just take time off work, then just disappear to a new location and change your phone number. But you must figure out how to deal with her if you’ll be returning to your place of work.
God is not the author of confusion. Stop lying because He was not in your selfish thoughts. You chased what your heart wanted. It wasn’t God. People trying to sound so spiritual.
If you're not careful you will end up with the devil in the hottest part of Hell. No true Christian is expected to celebrate Xmas Xmas is ungodly and is a fast lane to Hell for unrepentant people like you. I was once like you till I became born again. Read John 3:16 and cure your ignorance. May the holy spirit deliver your lost soul
Fear monger. Did God give you the list of those who are going to hell or what’s your source of information? A sinner judging another singer yet, they are all saved by grace? Stop trying to wear God’s shoes. They are too big for you. Stick with your beliefs while I stick to mine, then let God be the judge. I have no time for nonsense.It’s actually you that’s ignorant.
GOTVee: Even though I'm a born again Christian, any Christian that participates in the celebration of Xmas will end up in Hell. The bible commands we Christians to celebrate the death of our lord Jesus (Luke 22:19b; 1 Corinthians 11:23-26) and not his birth. Any Christian celebrating what is contrary to the bible commandment will end up in eternal pain. Do not celebrate Xmas to avoid regrettable consequences. Jesus was mentioned in the Holy Quran but you'll never find any of our Muslim brothers and sister celebrating his birth
Heaven’s gatekeeper has spoken. This one has the list of those going to hell & heaven. So out of all the sins in the world, celebrating the birth of Jesus is the greatest sin? Spare us the BS. We are Christians and not Muslims. We also don’t celebrate the birth of Mohammed & so we’d careless if they don’t celebrate the birth of Jesus. My grandma was born in a time where the importance of dates wasn’t known. We picked a day during the year to celebrate her. That we don’t know her exact date of birth, doesn’t mean we can’t celebrate her. She’s a real person like the rest. So when we Christians celebrate Christmas, we are not saying it’s the day Jesus was born. We just celebrate the fact that God sent His son. The date is irrelevant, it’s the reason for celebration that’s important. So please stop scaring people with your fake man made teachings. Instead of worrying about who will go to hell, workout your own salvation!
Mino1000: Hi everyone, so I met this beautiful babe June this year and we started dating three months later. We genuinely loved each other and we had a relationship that people envied.
We trusted each other so much that I had access to her google account and all her personal info on my laptop, while she also had mine on her phone to cut the long story short, I have a problem of always getting worried whenever she is not home and I can't reach her for example if she leaves in a bolt and the journey is 30minutes but she is not reachable one hour later I start to worry and call people I feel are at home and even the bolt rider.
On this particular day, she had a meeting with her colleagues which just came into the country, she shared her live location but it was last updated an hour ago, she was not picking her calls and it was 11:45pm mind you she was in Ikeja and lives at lekki so she was still going to Lekki that night in this dangerous December month in Lagos. I called and called but she did not pick then I got so worried and went to her google contacts to get her boss number and called him. He told her I called and that is how trouble started.
She explained that nobody has his number and she is the middle man between him and clients so his number getting into my hands without her permission means his company info is not safe. She said I have destroyed all what she labored to build over the years and blocked me everywhere (phone, whatsapp, snapchat) and left me with only instagram access. I have been begging her since last night when this happened, but she only unblocked me to tell me not to call her again and blocked me back.
I have been trying to explain to her that relationship and marriage is full of challenges so she should not let this one destroy what we had but she has been ignoring me. If I call with a different number she hangs up immediately she hears my voice.
We were already talking about marriage and in fact, I had already started making arrangements for a proposal next year.
I swear I really love this lady with everything that I have and I know for a fact that she loved me too but right now I am confused I am wondering how she was so much in love with me yesterday morning but doesn’t even want to hear my voice today. She went as far as threatening to get me arrested if I come close to her house. I am really confused and need mature advice on what to do to save this relationship because right now I can’t focus on anything. Plus I trust her so I wasn’t calling because I thought she was doing something silly.
I know you are in love but truth of the matter is that you come off as clingy. You said that if this girl’s ride is about 30 minute’s commute, within 1 hour you’ll start calling people to find her whereabouts. There’s a rule you need to learn. If you call a person the 1st time they don’t pick, then 2nd time after about 15-20minutes, don’t call again. The person can see the missed calls & they’ll call back when they are able to. They might be in a meeting, bus, etc. Constantly calling someone is not only annoying, but makes it seem like you have no work to do. You met this lady while she’s already an adult. Her parents don’t check on her every minute. She’s a grown woman, capable of taking care of herself & if she’s in trouble, am sure she’d communicate. Calling her boss was overstepping your boundaries. It makes you come off as a controlling person. Now that she’s blocked you & only left you with Instagram access, you can message her & let her know you are sorry for the wrong you did. Leave it at that and don’t push anything beyond that. If she comes back, well & good. If she doesn’t, learn your lessons. If you get anxious when your love is out, find something to keep your mind occupied. Better still, setup times when you’ll be communicating to avoid your calls becoming a nuisance.
Greattestman: This issue has been eating me up for so long and i don't know what to do. My mother began pressurizing me to rent my own house and leave her alone.
It was unprecedented and i don't expect that from her. I'm barely 20 and I teach in a private school. I also do home lessons so my monthly income ranges from 25k to 30k or thereabout.
This money will not be enough for me to rent a house, buy my food and take care of myself. I have tried to explain but she refused to understand with me. She told her friends to advice me to leave; that I'm matured enough to live alone.
I'm pressed and I need your advice.
What subjects do you teach? Any languages? I am asking because you can diversify your source of income by teaching online. If you you teach a language, you can target foreigners and charge about $25 an hour for adults and $15 for children. Let me tell you something, if your mother keeps insisting you move out, go ahead and do it to maintain respect. Family members can disrespect one when it seems like they don’t have much going on for them. I promise you’ll be fine. I started living on my own at 22. You’ll do okay. Put the fear behind you & fix your mind on side hustles that could give you extra cash.
Chinelo154: Good afternoon to everyone my mum is really suffering in her marriage and I really need your advice , I am the first child in a family of 5 children I was born in 1998, my mum is a midwife in a local hospital and my dad is not working for like 10 years. My mum is the breadwinner of the house with her little salary , and I am also working my salary is 12k , out of my younger ones only one is in school the last born 14 years the burden is too much on my mum she cannot afford to train all of us to the university , we thank God we are ssce holders one of my brother is a bricklayer we are stuggling to survive sometime i cried alot when i see my mum stressing herself to put the house in order but my dad doesn't appreciate all her effort . The issue of ground is last wk Friday i returned from work only to find my uncle , his wife and their 5 children in the house , they came from the village i was shocked because we were not aware of their coming , I greeted them and went straight to my mum room, she was in a very bad mood , I asked her if she was fine she didn't say any single words to me, she was badly affected with the coming of my uncle and his family, I felt her pain because she is struggling to keep the family up and in the order side my dad is bending it how asked myself how are we going to survive in a 2 bedroom house with 14 0f us plus feeding and everythng will be in my mum head , my dad has instructed me and my 2 sisters to leave our room for my uncle and his 2 daughters , while we moved to their bedroom and my 2 brothers and my uncle 3 children will sleep in the parlour. How can a big woman like me to be sleeping in my parents room, I did not complain we went to the room we packed our belonging and moved it to my parents room. That night I didn't catch sleep seeing my mum loosing sleep she didn't say anything but she was awake all night , she was trouble a lot was going through her mind , in the morning I heard my uncle wife and mum having a discussion she told her , if she knew the condition we were living was this bad she wouldn't have come , she said my dad has told them to come because things are fine with us and she was disappointed with what she saw , so my mum asked her so my husband was the one that convinced you to moved in the city she said yes , my mum shook her head she didn't say anything else and I become very angry I confronted my dad asking him why did he do this to my mum when he knows the condition is not good, why did he tells his brother to come not just him alone but with his family, he started shouting at me I am not a wife material if I bring this my character of not liking my inlaw to my husband house he will send me packing and he will not allow me back to his house , I have told him he is very wicked he want mum to die so he can bring him another woman , he stood out he went inside the house he started shouting at my mum how dare she ask me to confront him and what's wrong with him bringing his brother to his house, my mum did not send me she is a quiet type and I am not i co fronted him by my own will , he said my mum is wicked woman he was shouting in the presence of my uncle and my uncle has started insulted me too , telling me the house belong to his brother if I am not happy seeing them in the house I should go and rent my own house because he is not leaving anytime soon , if I had somewhere else to go I would have left the same day but I had nowhere to go, I went inside my room crying and later on my aunty was telling me to not mind my uncle , she don't blame me for standing up for my mum because as a woman she is she will not tolerate it she told me she don't know if my dad and her brother are curse they are just lazy and they have left all the responsibility to the wives , she said she can't tell me everything she is also passing through the same thing with my mum , I thanked her for her understanding and for not supporting her husband and my dad. It is been few days now I don't greet nor talk to my dad and uncle , I go to work as usual and when I come home I sleep in the parlour with the boys me on the sofa them on the floor , I am not happy with my dad and I don't think I will ever be happy with him again , did I overreacted for confronting or I did the right thing I am just asking for your advise so i will know the right thing to do after please do not insult me I am wearing the shoe I know where it pinch
Your dad & uncle are as crazy as they come. Two couch potatoes who will not work but just be leeching off women. Your dad has nerve. How dare he? Your mom’s health is bad & she continues to burst her back for grown men who don’t want to raise a finger to work, she’ll die and live her children suffering while her lazy husband will marry another woman. My advise to you is to have your mom pick up an emergency leave at work. Help pack her clothes so that it won’t appear suspicious. She should leave as if she’s going to work and you can meet up with her to give her the clothes. She should then take a vehicle to a different location, probably to her parents home. Let your mom know to put herself first because even if she dies today, you kids together with your father will continue to live & somehow you’ll survive. It’s outright comical how’s he’s giving orders of what should not be cooked and yet doesn’t want to work except sit & be fed by a woman when he has no disability.Enough of this nonsense! I know a lady whose husband brought his sister home. Their 4 kids were still young then though all grown now. He & his sister would sit home watching TV claiming they are on holiday. One day she gave them black tea with no sugar for breakfast. During lunch, she said there’s no food to cook since the two adults have decided to go on holiday & she can’t kill herself. That’s how reality kicked in and they went back to work because she refused to feed them.
Emyzoloye5: A 16 year old boy? Most of his supposed victims actually enjoyed the sex!
Ladies that are always Hot, abegi!
Stupid! You must be a rapist to come up with such a twisted opinion about women. No two way about it! You are a dangerous person. Your comment leaks of arrogance.
captaininiobong: Hy guys, I don't know if you have been in this, my woman that agreed to be the mother of my kids as stated by her recently stopped talking to me, picking my calls because she needed a 3million naira marriage.
I told her please why not we do moderate and use the remaining for investment. She said no. The three million is even small.
When I asked her what will we use the 3million to do, she said to buy furniture for the home. Uptill now she doesn't pick my calls, reply my chat if not that no be God showed her to me I would have deleted her number off my phone but am still keeping it for a reason I don't even know.
We have been together for long, not until a friend of mine got married and I told her they did thier marriage not less than 300k, then she said it's a big lie.
Am curious to know how God showed you that she’ll be your wife. Interesting line.
My name is Preston and I am 36yrs this year. I really need help. For the past 35yrs of my life I have never bleeped a girl or woman. The only thing I've done in the past was just to kiss, kiss and kiss. Another thing I do is to help myself through wanking.
Recently, I've got a girlfriend (actually my first). She loves me obviously from her actions. Because I feared I may not be able to satisfy her, I went to buy a drug from a drugstore. The Man told me to take it atleast 10-15mins before the actual sex. I did as instructed but it didn't work as just few thrust, and my yogurts were out. Another day she came when I least expected her. I attempted to do it with her this time. I allowed myself lie while she mounted my rod. Again, just few thrusts, and I was done. This is becoming quite embarrassing.
What can I do to solve this problem?
You’ll get so many advisers here telling you to eat A & don’t do B etc. Non of them have done any medical test or scan to know if you have some ongoing medical issues. I’d advise you see a board certified urologist. This is the male version of a gynecologist. Gynecologists deal with women, urologists deal with men. Goodluck.
Francesca Amony, a former National Secretary for the DP Women’s League handed herself in, to the Police, after she reportedly stabbed her husband, Dr. Joseph Etuk, to death.
Amony, 34, who also served as the Councillor reportedly developed a domestic misunderstanding with her husband on Friday night which led to a fight. She reportedly picked a knife and stabbed him.
Too many deaths lately caused by domestic violence. Ladies & gentlemen, if you get tired of your spouse, please his/ her parents are not tired of them. Kindly return them to their families whole and tell them you can’t do the marriage thing again. The person you plan on killing is valued by many. He/she is a son or daughter, a sibling, aunt/uncle, grandchild, a valued customer in a business, a loved colleague, a friend, a member of church/ mosque or elsewhere etc. You see this person wears many hats & so if you are tired of their hat as your spouse, all these other people are not tired. Kindly take them back to their families in one piece as you got them.
This case is one that could easily cause me to commit murder and then self report to the police. That’s a walking demon camouflaged as human being . How can one do this to their own child? It hits a different nerve in me, when I see people mistreating children, the elderly and disabled. Not that other groups should be violated, but these 3 categories need special care. I pray that this baby’s destiny will be great.
Poshvector12345: Ladies and gentlemen welcome to my first inquiry.
Like most people who write about this sort of thing on nairaland I am introvert. But I don't think it is the reason for my lack of 'proper' grooming and fashion sense.
I say proper because I love the way I am and if it was possible I would stay like this. But in this life, your society will influence you whether you like it or not. 6 months from now I will be 21 and I will no longer be forgiven for my lack of proper male grooming and fashion.
What do I mean? For one, I hate cutting my hair and the small beard I have , talkless of combing it. Picture Woke Soyinka hair and beard, segalink's hair but uncombed, and shellock Holmes' attitude to vanity. Even Nair cutting is laborious.
I have never enter market to buy clothes alone before, all my clothe are bought by mum or my sisters. I follow my dad to buy sew clothe and to buy cover shoes. I don't have and fashion taste or identity.
I am in my fourth year of medical school, ward round and call demand I dress smart and dignified for the comfort of the patient, we are now supposed to wear corporate all days of the week and cheap ties will not do.
Whether I like or not, the way I dress, groom and look in school, church and the hospital is the way I will be addressed.
Poshvector12345: Ladies and gentlemen welcome to my first inquiry.
Like most people who write about this sort of thing on nairaland I am introvert. But I don't think it is the reason for my lack of 'proper' grooming and fashion sense.
I say proper because I love the way I am and if it was possible I would stay like this. But in this life, your society will influence you whether you like it or not. 6 months from now I will be 21 and I will no longer be forgiven for my lack of proper male grooming and fashion.
What do I mean? For one, I hate cutting my hair and the small beard I have , talkless of combing it. Picture Woke Soyinka hair and beard, segalink's hair but uncombed, and shellock Holmes' attitude to vanity. Even Nair cutting is laborious.
I have never enter market to buy clothes alone before, all my clothe are bought by mum or my sisters. I follow my dad to buy sew clothe and to buy cover shoes. I don't have and fashion taste or identity.
I am in my fourth year of medical school, ward round and call demand I dress smart and dignified for the comfort of the patient, we are now supposed to wear corporate all days of the week and cheap ties will not do.
Whether I like or not, the way I dress, groom and look in school, church and the hospital is the way I will be addressed.
Politics / Re: Atiku Has An App For Cashless Vote Buying - Femi Fani-Kayode by Beey(f): 6:30am On Feb 03, 2023 
Though in all the stories I’ve heard of appearances, it’s always Mary, never Jesus. I don’t know who’s more important in the Catholic Church between Jesus & Mary. Someone will just see a reflection of the sun & start acting crazy. SMH
? Most of his supposed victims actually enjoyed the sex!