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1Sharon:
This Aunty is clearly a rookie

You simply need to buy a new ticket. No amount of emotionalism and begging will make airlines drop their standards. If you miss your flight, you miss it.

Successtube:
I never thought I’d find myself contemplating divorce just two years into my marriage. As a bachelor, I’d look at couples splitting up and wonder how they ended up there. Didn’t they date and get to know each other first? Didn’t they see the signs? And yet, here I am, standing on the brink of making the same decision. I dated my wife for a year and three months before we got married, and I thought I knew her. But I was wrong. She lied and pretended to be someone she wasn’t. Now, I’m starting to see who she truly is, and it’s tearing me apart.

Immediately after our wedding, I noticed changes in her that hadn’t been there before. One month in, we were not having sex like any newly married couple would. Every time I tried to be intimate, she’d have some excuse—a headache, feeling tired, or being stressed from work. I tried to be patient, thinking it was just a phase. But it didn’t end. When I finally asked her what was wrong, she bluntly told me she didn’t like sex. I was shocked. How could she not like sex? We had been intimate enough times while dating for me to believe otherwise.

“How can we have children if we don’t have sex?” I asked, trying to keep my frustration in check. Her response was indifferent, almost as if it didn’t matter. From then on, she’d sometimes only have sex with me during her ovulation period, like it was a chore to check off her list. It went on like this for over eight months, and I felt more and more disconnected. I felt unwanted, unloved. Every attempt to bridge the gap between us only seemed to widen it.

But the cracks didn’t just stop there. Through a relative of mine, I managed to get her a job that paid her 300,000 Naira monthly. She seemed happy, and I was glad I could help. Then, fate dealt me a blow—I lost my job. After months of searching, I managed to find another one, but it paid only 120,000 Naira a month. I couldn’t afford to stay home, so I took it, thinking it would just be temporary until I found something better.

My 120,000 Naira salary barely covers our expenses. I take care of the rent, food, bills, and still fuel my car to get to work. The one that hit me hardest was when our rent increased to 700,000 Naira around the same time my car’s engine gave out, needing another 500,000 Naira to repair. I felt the walls closing in on me. I was struggling, juggling all these financial burdens alone. I turned to my wife, thinking she’d step up and help. After all, she was earning more than double what I was. But all she could offer was 50,000 Naira.

I was speechless. She looked at me and said it was a man's duty to cater to his family, and she could only "assist." Her words felt like a slap. Here I was, drowning under the weight of our expenses, and she was holding back. I had to sell one of the lands I’d bought back in my bachelor days to cover the bills. I never thought I’d be in a position where I had to sell my hard-earned property just to survive while my wife, who I had helped get a better-paying job, stood by and watched.

The emptiness gnawed at me until I reached out to someone who had once filled a different kind of void in my life—my ex. We had broken up years ago because of distance when she moved to London for her studies. But we never really ended things on bad terms. There was always a "what if" lingering between us. Now, in my loneliness, that "what if" turned into late-night conversations, laughter, and the kind of warmth I hadn’t felt in a long time. I sneak out every now and then to be with her. I know it’s wrong. I know cheating is not the answer, but I felt like I was drowning, and she was the only one who could save me. With her, I felt alive again, seen, and heard. Things quickly escalated, and before I knew it, I was back in her arms. It felt like a betrayal of my marriage vows, but at the same time, it felt like the only way to reclaim a part of myself that had been lost.

I never imagined I’d be contemplating divorce, but here I am. I want to marry my ex. I want a fresh start, a chance to feel loved again. I don’t know if I can continue in a marriage where I feel more like a burden than a partner. Maybe it’s time to face the harsh truth: some people change, and some people never really were who they claimed to be. Maybe it’s time for me to choose my own happiness, to take a leap and start over.

Don't make the same mistake I made. Study your partner thoroughly before to married, don't rush!

authentic18:
Like Covid 19 they made wasn’t potent enough to do serious damage

Zulu11zulu:
Nigeria government should ban that man from entering Nigeria if you want the terrorists to end spacial famer and fulani terrorist

That is the sponsor of terrorists in Nigeria he is doing all he can to destroy out God giving green to feed us chemicals food.

Him and his family don't eat the Poison they feed Africa.

How can one man think he can feed the world.

By the way why coming when the president is his ministers are not in Nigeria what is his plan.

Creamypie:
E better divorce his wife today. Na demented and unusual people like i.g.b.t etc dey support Democrats. Kamala Harris may even be deported to her Latino country if her migration papers to u.s isn't genuine. No way for them

MichaelSokoto:
Bad talk 4rm him!

ThinkSmarter:
Perhaps, an avenue to divorce the old wife and replace her with younger wife.
Cuz, i doubt if Charlie Boy will bet to divorce his wife if his wife were to be Reginal Daniels. #lol

ChildOfDoom:
After taking doxy... for some days to relieve me of my former sexual infection, I have caught another one.

This one is more excruciating. Girls are currently twerking their waist to lure me at the brothel but I am not moved

I just got azith... (500mg) to try ease my distress. Constant urinating, milky substance at the edge of my dudu and wide opening at the tip that makes my urine disperse awkwardly when i discharge.

It's heavy and hot down there. No wonder the last girl I slept with complained that it was 'peppering' her when I dived in.

If only I can resist the temptation of raw sex when cured or double the condom next time to ensure tight kitten or ferocious lash doesn't burst it

prestige257:
Hello Nairaland lawyers please i need your advice.
My mother and elder sister sold our late father's house secretly without our consent around february this year but we just found out only recently.It's a 4 bedroom bungalow.The buyer has completed renovation.Have we lost out? They didn't share the money they are holding on to it.Is there anything that can be done at this point in time?

DeeScan:
is it the same std herpes or another kind of herpes ..




Because there's a blister on the lip doesn't mean it's herpes .. Herpes is characterized by open sores on the lip ..

Anything can cause a blister... Blisters don't have pus in them .. it's usually contains a clear transparent fluid not pus . .

kenny1911:
Google may be right. However, this is a usual experience to me since when i as young as 3years until my early 40s when it finally stopped. This usually occur as a sign of malaria or fever in my own case. Once i have these blisters on my lips and sometimes inside my mouth, then i am sure of having a malaria in few days. Therefore, the issue of viral infection is a no for me.

onome2013:
Run an HIV test, if it is negative run malaria test, so that you know the treatment to take.

AdeCityzen:
just leave him to his opinion

Sonnobax15:

The ministry is moving...

The office just got widened and the steady tax collection just got elongated

Oyinbo dey invent new stuffs wey go better their lives, but Africans own problem na to dey build churches and install pastors wey go help dem fight imaginary demons,and in the process also milk Dem dey

E no go ever better for the people wey gather swear for Africa as a whole

chatinent:
I am quite acrophobic... I had to act up like I wasn't new to it but after it took off, I felt badly nauseous that to locate lavatory come bi problem for me. See sweat. I asked one member of the cabin crew and she giggled and guided me while staying outside the door. See me they struggle to reduce the volumn of the throwup with red eyes. Haha. Omo I finished, to come open door knob come bi problem for local man again. Had to knock a bit and she opened it trying to stifle her explosive laugher.

Trust me, I bone, and staggered to my space. Omo, another wahala of looking for my seat come bi problem o. I maintained steeze continuously falling my hands.

I think another time was going into the business class when I was economy. I no fit talk this one o.😅😅😅


What about you jare?

helinues:
No, the loans they have been acquiring for decades, nothing per say to show about it.

Their major past presidents are Kikuyu's who are like Northern Nigeria, they love power and they have been in power but they can't just point out to what they achieved in Mount Kenya

Kobojunkie:
The protestors said that? They said they would recall them.

God1000:
you are from Kenya, good to know.

Your president should obeyed the court order, but this is Africa where the executive branch doesn't respect Court decisions

OriOko88:
Are u Kenyan?

Maxtipulation:
Police, Why dem con dress like army?

OriOko88:

The Western media rates Kenya more than Nigeria. The indices they re giving Kenya is staggering and way surpasses Nigeria. They've been following the Kenya protest so keenly.

I think Nigeria is more or less a fourth world country, even more backward han Kenya. Lord!!!

I can't believe Nairobi has more sky scrappers than Abuja. BBC said that

purplekayc:
It has not turned into a full. Blown revolution yet so they can afford to send

God1000:
And Kenya is boiling at home, I wish them all the best in their mission sha, I wonder why the neighboring Caribbean countries cannot help Haiti that they have to seek help from faraway east African country

Kobojunkie:
It is indeed time for people to take back their mandate abeg and begin to get back at these Politrick-tians. Once they are recalled, they should be immediately Prosecuted for every crime committee against the people too.

chidiakwari:
The people should stand their ground and not be deterred

God1000:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7EIQCM2W1Ic




https://www.kadn.com/news/world/obama-s-half-sister-teargassed-live-on-air-while-protesting-in-kenya/article_85960ec5-c9a7-53dc-b2b2-2b95e160a3b7.html

BigkokoRep:
https://www.vanguardngr.com/2024/06/nigerian-pilgrims-starving-in-saudi-arabia-gov-bago/

Omo na waaaa this kind of government in Nigeria and their people sef.

Firstly, you don't have money to go serve your god in Mecca, secondly, the government that sponsored you, also don't have enough money to even provide food sef!

This people don Carry Ebi pa won go Mecca ohhh. Kudos to Gov Bago for calling this out!

Namaster:
From his facial expression, the policeman knows comfort is NOT the only thing his wife is collecting from that guy.

clark0:
In Ruto, the West, specifically the US, has found a dependable ally in Africa.. it is no news he’s a puppet to the westerns and a sell out of his people..🥲