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Greetings to you in Jesus name�

I have a marital issue and I need help.

Should I still continue with the relationship?

I’ve been in relationship with her for about a year and some months. We’ve promised to get married with time; preparing for introduction. We lived in the same community, but I was latter transferred to a distance State.

I then sent her money to get a new phone for herself which she did. All of a sudden she called me to report that the phone was stolen in her room�.

Two days later, she called me again to tell me that the person who took the phone called her to confess; saying he took the phone without her knowledge to get her a bigger one.�

I had to ask, “who is that guy?” A friend she replied. She visited my parents, while coming back, she met with him in a bus for the first time, they exchanged phone contacts.

One day.....


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Same I suffer from their hands Tuesday after October 1st public holiday. In fact when the LASTMA at ojota stopped me I thought it was maybe the car behind me as i was just avoiding the waterlogged pothole and just climbed the pavement with one tyre from the interception joining the Express from the service lane. Same day the governor was appealing to Lagosians should bare with them because of the continuous rain. I was made to cought out N20k for no offence and my whole day was spent in their Oshodi office. I knew how frustrating it is. But am still not in support of this ill treated metted to him. He is a human being and not animal.
#isaynotojugglejustic#
#onelovetoeveryone#

Dreal1247:
The truth be told, this people are wickedness personified. A friend's newly cleared Iveco truck got bad on the highway. This people said they wanted to assist them by towing the truck to a safer place. Guess what? They took the truck to their office only for unbudgeted #70,000.00 to be coughed out before he could recover the vehicle. People are getting frustrated of the oppression suffered in the hands of LASTMAN. And if something is not urgently done to minimize the oppression, more of this violent attacks will certainly be expected from the poor masses.

Good morning ma.

Please I need your advise.

He said he wants us to be in a serious relationship and he has been pestering me on it for two years now, I kept rejecting him because I don’t like him coupled with eavesdropping that he is a womanizer…..

I just want to know if it’s okay for a guy to ask a number of ladies out at the same place just because he is not in a relationship yet? I just feel he should know what he wants rather than hearing that he also did ask other ladies out as well.

One may tend to say at least he is not in a relationship yet, I haven’t said yes to him and heard about all this, he wouldn’t be in a relationship with me and ....


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Hmmmmn

Hello ma,

I need help. I do not know who to confide in. This is very serious and I am so confused and filled with all kinds of emotion. I am married but I am in love with someone else and this is driving me crazy.

Chike and KC (not real names please) and I met during NYSC in Nassarawa state five years ago. Of course being from the East and posted to the North bonded us together. We were also members of the Corpers Christian fellowship.

These guys and I got a place to stay.We all lived in the same compound doing our service together. Being close,I kinda was like their sister and cooked and took care of the guys. They were like my brothers. We were a family.

I realized I was falling in love with Chike after a while. Both guys were single even though ladies were throwing themselves at them. The girls even tried to be nice to me thinking I would make it easier for the guys to accept them.

Chike was the free spirited one. Always playing with everyone. KC was more serious and focused. I told KC I was in love with Chike. He encouraged me to let him know about my feelings which I tried but Chike did not seem interested in me. He saw me more of like......

https://livelystones.com.ng/married-the-wrong-man-now-my-life-has-changedplease-advise/

After all she not wayward. You can influence her by always giving to her.




Married The Wrong Man-Now My Life Has Changed:Please Advise!
https://livelystones.com.ng/married-the-wrong-man-now-my-life-has-changedplease-advise/

Just move on dear. Check similar story hear and follow the advise.

Madly In Love With My Ex: Why Does This Feel Dangerous?

https://livelystones.com.ng/why-good-girls-love-bad-boysi-am-stuck-in-love-please-advise/

Why Good Girls Love Bad Boys:I Am Stuck In Love – Please Advise!


https://livelystones.com.ng/why-good-girls-love-bad-boysi-am-stuck-in-love-please-advise/

Well you are speaking for your self.

Hmmmmm

Good evening ma,

I remain anonymous. I need help cos I think I am running mad. I cannot continue this way. I have just ran away from my marriage of 5 years.This is too much for anyone to bear. I was in another city when I was dating my husband. I did not know he had some bad habits of which I only found out when we finally got married.

My husband is chronic liar,big male prostitute and big disappointment to me. In fact,I curse the day I agreed to marry him. We dated on and off for 5 years. First,we were both in Abeokuta where we met in 2002.

The relationship did not continue when he got a job in Lagos. But 6 months later,he called me and said we should continue. So I used to come to Lagos to see him on weekends. Sometimes he would come to see me in Abeokuato too.

After our traditional wedding,I moved to Lagos. I started seeing his real person. He was .....


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Hello LS,

I need an advice because I feel stuck and I am tired of fighting.
I met Yaya (not real name) in my new place of work. He liked me and started flirting with me, eventually, we had s*x (which I wasn’t proud of because I know premarital s*x is wrong and not an ideal lifestyle for a true Christian and has been abstaining from it) and decided not to indulge in again.
As time went on, he told me he loves me but can’t date me right now because his life is in a mess(so many personal and family issues) which he didn’t divulge to me at the moment.

Yaya and I remained friends at work, went for lunch breaks together and always seen together( we are jokingly called couples)In the space of one month of being close to him, we eventually started dating and I found out a lot of things about him.
I learnt he lies a lot, and that he lied about......


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Serious Joker! I agree wit u dear

cococandy:
Pregnant for you? Lol lol lol

Some of these empty brain dudes sef. Once your egos are massaged, any woman can get away with anything in your lives.

Your ego is erect now as per someone who can father a child right? Joker.

Hmnnn

Editor’s Note:

This is final part of the story of Tony & Sara. Click here and here if you missed the first two parts. We are happy Tony and Sara are in good place. You may drop your comments or well wishes for both of them in the comments area. Thank you.

Jzhane

Good day ma,

Thank you for taking your time to advise us yesterday. I like the way you answered my email. I thank also those who gave us genuine advice like Uche and Dr Uche. I know that Sara is my God given wife. Thank you for guiding us in this matter.

I must say that yesterday was full of mixed feelings for me. I struggled with the responses I saw here. I was disturbed that some people thought I was a gold digger. Others said I was not ready for marriage so I should stop disturbing Sara.

Well ma,like you said, I sieve the responses I saw and decided what works for me. I have decided to renew my house rent. Actually Sara and I discussed about this.She understands better where I was coming from.

We are both ready for marriage. This is just a trick from the devil to distract us. Those who feel our marriage is based on lies and deceit will see us prosper in this marriage. I only wanted to please my parents whom I know do not mean harm for us. I know my parents better than anyone so no one can tell e anything about them.

It just that now I understand that sometimes to prove how much you love someone,you.....

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Thanks guyz

Editor’s note:

We received the story below in response to a story that we ran a few days ago. Please click here to read the story if you missed it. Also,share your thoughts and advise after the reading the response below.

Jzhane


Hi,

From what I understand,my girlfriend got advice from this place to breakup with me because I said we should move in with my parents when we get married next month. Well, she broke up with me yesterday. Just like that…..a relationship that has been on for several years is broken just like that.

I was shocked when she told me she was breaking up with me since I have refused to heed to her suggestion of taking money from her to rent apartment when we have a free place in my parents place .

What I want to say is, people who advised her,did they bother to ask for my own side of the story? How can you advise someone to leave a relationship that is going to be legalized the very next month just because of accommodation issue?

It was during our quarrel yesterday that she mentioned that she wrote to a group that advise on relationship that she decided she can not go on with our wedding. I feel very hurt. I feel angry cos she was not advised well.

I told her to let me share my own side of the matter. And if after I tell my own side,people still advise her to breakup,then I am fine. So this is my own:

When I met Sara (not real name), I told her I was the first born of my family. I told her that my dad lost his job due to stroke. My mother is the bread winner ,she is a petty trader. That I struggled to finish school and now that I have finished school,I want to......

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I need advise.

I have been married for six years to my girlfriend of 4(that is 10 years being together).We had dreams and aspirations when we got married but things have turned out different for us. We have not been able to have a baby. We have tried everything but it has not worked so far.

This situation has put a strain on my marriage. I find myself working late most times,drowning myself in work so as not to think about the situation or face my wife who have become so gloomy because of this.

This led me to my mistake. I slept with a co-worker. Working late one day,both of us left the office around 10.25pm. I tried to drop her close to where she would get a Taxi but on getting there,no Taxi or any means of transportation.

I had to take her home eventually. She kissed me when we got to her place and for some reason,my lust took over and I slept with her. She is a single woman living by herself. I thought this was a mistake but I find myself continually having an affair with this colleague of mine.

The more I spent time with her,the more I wanted to be with her. She seemed to get me. I tell her anything. She is a very good adviser and listener. Makes me feel wanted and respected. I know this wrong and I pray to God to give me strength to stop this.

This lady am seeing is....

https://livelystones.com.ng/i-love-with-my-wife-but-another-woman-has-brought-me-joy754-2/

Marriage requires patience.

Good Morning,

I have a confession to make and I need your help. I am in a relationship that is leading to marriage. Its been two years. To be honest, I kind of entered this relationship cos I wanted to revenge on ex. I was with my ex for a year but he cheated on me and out of anger,I broke up with him and moved on to the next available guy.

Since then,my ex has begged me,tried everything to woo me but I stubbornly refused. However,in my heart,I knew I was still madly in love with him. My current boyfriend is the nicest. He treats me so goo but if I am honest,he is not half as interesting as my ex.

After a year of begging,my ex.....

https://livelystones.com.ng/madly-in-love-with-my-ex-why-does-this-feel-dangerous/

I need advise. I have been married for six years to my girlfriend of 4(that is 10 years being together).We had dreams and aspirations when we got married but things have turned out different for us. We have not been able to have a baby. We have tried everything but it has not worked so far.

This situation has put a strain on my marriage. I find myself working late most times,drowning myself in work so as not to think about the situation or face my wife who have become so gloomy because of this.

This led me to my mistake. I slept with a co-worker. Working late one day,both of us left the office around 10.25pm. I tried to drop her close to where she would get a Taxi but on getting there,no Taxi or any means of transportation.

I had to take her home eventually. She kissed me when we got to her place and for some reason,my lust took over and I slept with her. She is a single woman living by herself. I thought this was a mistake but I find myself continually having an affair with this colleague of mine.

The more I spent time with her,the more I wanted to be with her. She seemed to get me. I tell her anything. She is a very good adviser and listener. Makes me feel wanted and respected. I know this wrong and I pray to God to give me strength to stop this.

This lady am seeing is....

https://livelystones.com.ng/i-love-with-my-wife-but-another-woman-has-brought-me-joy754-2/

is itrade up?

Mcy56:
Seems iTrade is disconnected.......

bmdmix:
advice for made up story?

you can say whatever you like.
Ours is for people to read and learn, while other summon courage to open up to us.

The Editor, doesn't have to write the story so you know the exact op. Most of those who sent their stories and asked us to post without us editing got found out. And they didn't like it.
We have to protect sender of these stories. We care about the identity of our clients.
Jzhane enjoys what she is doing my friend.
Thank you

I watched a video last week of five guys raping a gal and they were recording it. Even if they arrested all of them, did been done.
I always advocate young gal dont go to guyz house especially young teenagers.

A large majority of guyz has that animalistic instinct in them to rape a gal they know they cant have.

I once had a gal friend after several warnings never to find herself in a compromising area with the neighbour because I smell he had that tendency(to rape) and really like her.
One day, he lied and she went to his house unknowing no one was around and he rape her. Guest what he said to her. I know you enjoyed it.
That was the straw that destroyed or ended that relationship.

Now back to the story. I dont know how you're going to explain to your husband to be that he raped you in his hotel room knowing you're getting married this December.
My prayer is God help you touch his heart if you finally do.
Cheers!