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Dear Ma,

I need your help. I am engaged to be married this December. I love my fiance. We have always told each other to tell the truth about anything in our lives but I have a secret that I am struggling to tell him.

Things got out of hand when I went for my girlfriend’s birthday party 3 weeks ago in Port Harcourt. Several of our classmates from UNIPORT were in attendance. It was fun,we partied long and hard. Alcohol was everywhere.

I am not a heavy drinker but Jide,who was my boyfriend in the University was tipsy by the time we were leaving the party. We got back to our hotel rooms around 3am. Those of us from outside PH,my friend lodged us in a hotel.

Jide called me around 4am to ask me if I had paracemol. He was feeling headache from too much drinking. I found some paractamol in my bag and took it to Jide. On getting to his room, he invited me to come in. I could and should have said no but I went into his room.

I watched him take the paracemol . I got up to leave but.....


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Why you goo catch am?

donbachi:
If I catch u,u go....if u catch me,u go.

Lol!

donbachi:
All dis rush to marry...for u to fvck.not like u really wan marry....marry nau,Wetin concern us.

Hello ma,

I need advise on this matter. Two days ago, my husband and I got into an argument caused by his younger brother. So,his younger brother came visiting.He is a trader and is always travelling.

When he came,he reported his wife to my husband,saying that he found out that this wife has gotten a vibrator when he travelled. He was shocked and got angry with his wife for getting a vibrator.

She was trying to hide it but he found out and asked her what was doing with it. She explained that she got it because he was always travelling and she did not want to cheat so she got it to use anytime she felt the urge.

Of course,my brother in-law got upset and they quarreled about it. And so he came to report her to his brother,which is my husband. That is how.....

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Hmnn, going against ones parent sometimes can be very disastrous. However, this can be resolved by taking it to God. Who know, your love lust & assumption may blindfold you to see what your parents are trying to prevent and it could be the other way round. So pray seriously

Hello ma,

Please advise is needed. I am in my 300 level studying pharmacy in Uniabuja.(Not Real school name). I am someone who has always had a mind of her own. My parents know me for that. My course of study is 5 years. By then, I will be 25 years old. I am just 23 years now.

The thing is,my parents are pastors. They raised me to be very pure and holy. I want to honor them by keeping myself as a virgin too. The only problem is that .....

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Can A Man Truly Forgive A Cheating Woman:Please Advise



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Depending on you and the meaning. If you're okay with the meaning fine. But names have effect on people's life that's why God himself changed peoples name in the bibles

absolutely!

Tajbol4splend:
I can imagine it, nothing more worrisome than a dirty partner who doesn't know she's dirty

sikina!

frozen70g:
If you feel that you have a spiritual husband, go for aggressive deliverance

Dear Lively Stones,

Hmm,where do I start from…let me start sha. I was in a relationship with a guy that I loved so much. I could do anything for him. He too loved me so much. But after a while,we broke up.He accused me of cheating. We both were guilty,he had his own cheating too.

So after like two years,I met someone . As we talked,I found out he was a cousin to my ex. He said that cousin that was my ex was getting married. We dated for for a year,he proposed and.....

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haaaaa

luvlyoracle:
Stop playing with too many guys or stop flirting

hi all,

My wife and I have been married for 5 years but we are having issues. The issues stem from the alot of things which I cannot even begin to describe but let me try.

My wife does not care or know about certain things that make a home or marriage successful. And for me,I don’t want us to have house helps cos my sister and I were abused by different house helps growing up.

My wife cannot maintain a clean environment for a whole day. So,I try to help with the cleaning. Strange for a guy to do right…but so I wont be quarreling,I clean. But she will......


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Congratulation cuttee, may this birthday usher you and your family into another level of joy, peace and prosperity in Jesus name.amen

praizblog:
Popular Nairaland super moderator Lalasticlala shares some cute adorable photos of his daughter, Favour, as she clocks a Year old, Praizenews report.

He wrote:


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Nairalanders let's celebrate this cute daughter of our super mod. Happy birthday to Favour.

Source ; http://www.praizenews.com/nairaland-super-mod-lalasticlala-celebrates-his-daughter-1st-year-birthday/

Managing Director / Chief Executive Officer of Fidelity Bank, Nnamdi Okonkwo recently threw his wife, Uche, a grand party to mark her 50th birthday.

That is not all, he sang a special song with singer Flavour in her honor.

Uche started with her husband from nothing till he got to this position of his life, for them it was friendship based on love, trust, and support .

Want a dose of Love ‘Resurrection” for your relationship? Just enjoy this moment from the MD Fidelity Bank, Nnamdi Okonkwo and his beautiful wife Uche as captured by ace journalist Azuka...

Cc: Lalasticlala


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Made in 1967, Still Thriving in 2019! Couple celebrate 52nd Wedding Anniversary with Super Lovely Photos

To be honest, elderly couples have been able to face all of life’s trials and have managed to deal with whatever challenges that come their way and still thrive. Even if they may not always get along, deep down they do always love each other.

Real love means being by your lover’s side in good and bad times and growing old with them. You must have seen old couples together, you apparently can’t hold back your “awww” due to the cuteness. Elderly couples really have a way of making you smile even if you’ve been through a terrible day.

These photos of Elizabeth and Peter Oderinde , shot by @amessentialphotography, for their 52nd wedding anniversary are so beautiful.

See the photos below

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Cc: Lalasticlala

This is heart breaking especially for the family.
May the Holy Spirit Comfort your entire family

Rest in peace little angel

Hi,

I am a bit reluctant to share my story but I need advise. I want to know what people think on this matter. I am a 36 year old. I live and work in Abuja. I have a good job and good car. I am doing well for myself.

The only strange thing is, I have never had a boyfriend or relationship in my 36 years of being alive. Strange yes?. Well, I do not know why but people say I am beautiful. Many men admire me,compliment me,flirt with me but never ask me to be their girl.

This has really bothered me and my friends and family. They have tried to match make me with some men but it does not get beyond first date. I am even told....

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only God can change him or her

MEGA4BILLION:
A cheat will always be a cheat

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Lets Get Talking because (problem shared they say is half solved)

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Please post this for me. I need advice quickly.

I have been married for 5 years. We are happy with kids. The only problem is that my libido is higher than my husband’s libido. We have talked about this and to be honest,my husband tries to please me by doing other s*xual acts and games.

In terms of s*x,I am actually more experienced. My husband was a virgin before me. I have had several partners before marriage. But since we love each other,we talk about this and I use toys,etc to satisfy myself.

Last month,I traveled to Lagos.....

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Smile, sincerely you want me to tell you the truth?

Firstly, Nairaland is a brand, big and we want people to visit Livelystones blog from posting here ie generate traffic.

Secondly, we trust that when more people visit the blog, they see Jzhane advise and that of others and they are encouraged to share their challenges with contacts from the blog
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Thank you

pharrell8:
Why is it that u don't always complete ur thread always linking ur to anoda site

Hmnñn

Good evening ma,

One guy saw my pictures on her friend’s status and expressed interest in me so we started dating. It was a distance relationship actually .

Fast forward to a week of us talking. He called me one afternoon and I was actually sleeping and couldn’t pick his call because I was sleeping.

He refused talking to me with the claim that I was with a guy and went ahead to tell me we should break up just like that � that......

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Congratssssssss!!!!

zealousayo:
This is Toluwani Deborah, the 2019 Unilorin best graduating student.

She graduated from the department of Mathematics with 4.98 CGPA

MrBrownJay1:
lol...ok... wait for us on the other side of that BS link.

Good evening Ma,

Please I want to drop a story for discussion/advice.Probably you can share it to the blog/Watsapp pages

It belongs to a friend. The person she’s engaged to own a land before they met and now they are on the verge to going to the alter.

This made.......

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Kinson1886:
My dear,if u truely luv him.as u claim,u can wait..,he might come around leta

Hi,

I want some advice kindly.Actually it’s concerning my relationship. I met a man and we started dating on January this year it’s now 10 months,ok .

At first I asked him if he has a girlfriend and he said yes and I was single,then he said he likes me and he want has to date,but I told him you have a girlfriend how will this happen?he told me I should not worry.

Ok we started on and it reached a time I told him I have given you enough time now its high time for u to choose between me and her.He told me to give him sometime of which I did

We dated for 6 months and I asked him are you still with that lady he told me they are not together,but sometimes he keeps on disappearing on and off, sometimes he ignores my calls and text and this made me doubt him more.

It reached a point......


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Yes ma

chinweasaa:
U never ready for us to read and advice

so you are a joke? Now I know, thanks

IceColdVeins:
You dey write letter to yourself....You even put 'hello ma'
And you day wait make i click....................

Hello ma

My name is Roseline (not real name) from Asaba and a member of the telegram group. I really want to talk with you concerning relationship issue.

I am not saying am perfect but to some extent I know I am okay, since my last relationship I have decided to be alone because have not been this Lucky one.

I was in a relationship with a guy abroad he came to Nigeria we saw and liked our selves he traveled back and we kept the relationship going well .After 6 months he asked me to help him get an apartment that he is tired of staying in an hotel anytime he his in the country.

He sent the money for the apartment and properties in the house being that.....


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